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writes:Ive been married almost 8 years and we have a 13 year old son. We have argued a lot the past year and a half and are on our last chance of trying to make the marriage work but i feel like i dont love him anymore. Theres nothing between us it just feels like a habit. He loves me to bits but i feel nothing. I dont want to be with him but i also dont want to be without him and now i cant stop thinking about someone at work she,yes she is the first person on my mind in the morning and the last thing at night.I get tingly and butterflies when we talk. I havn't felt this kind of attraction in years.She is a lesbian and i do get the feeling she likes me too. What should i do? Please any advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm 36.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): I am having trouble giving people advice in a paragraph. lol I am curious if you've dated women b4 or not or if this is not. either way I will say that your right. your marriage prob has became a habit and your prob just scared to be w.o him. Its security. You guys have a kid, prob a home, a routine.. I mean who is stronge enough to just walk away from that?? No1 probably thinks they are. But dont sale yourself short. If there is someone that you feel like you could be happy with and you get all of the things you've been looking for then dont pass it up! I will say though be certain that your marriage doesn't stand a chance anymore!! you dont want to do anything youll later regret. But from what you said its time to move on.. I hope this helps!
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