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Does he just want me for sex, or does he really like me?

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Question - (26 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So, I went out with my friends last Saturday and there was this lad there who said to everyone he liked me! He asked me for my number and I said, "ermm I don't know." The next day he messaged me and asked for it again, so I said okay that's fine, but I have no credit. He knows he's the kind of guy who can get alot of pretty girls because he's good looking.

Anyway, I went for a drink with him and he was really nice and I went back to his house to watch a film. Nothing happened but he texted me when I left saying, "really want to kiss you, im so attracted to you."

I like him, but I'm playing it cool and pretending like im not fussed and that I have a busy schedule because I want him to chase me and not be easy.

He texts me, but not like loads..and with no x's?

I dont know if he's just after sex or if he actually likes me...

Plus, his ex is sooooo much prettier then me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011):

hey, um 1st things, ide say most men wont put X's in there texts, :p so don't worry about it, if some other guy did it to you, then hes a one off.

watch out at how cool your playing, if you take it too far, it could blow him off, just beeee yourself, play it as how you really feel :

and youre not sure if hes after sex or if he really likes you?

im going to say he likes you, AND he wants sex, that msg he sent you saying he really wanted to kiss you, was a sweet touch, bet it put a smile on your face amirite?! :~)

from the info you've given me, its not describing a man who wants to bash and dash, and it's normal for you to be paranoid that his ex was much prettier than you, first of all, if it's his 'EX' she is, for a reason. and boys see different in how pretty a girl is, so you might think shes prettier, because your paranoid or low self-esteemed, but he might not think that, so cancel how pretty she is, out the picture,

goodluck

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