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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We're attracted, she wants a relationship, and I only want sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a chinese girl in my seminar group at university.We are both attracted to each other.The only problem is that I think she wants a serious realtionship whereas I would like sex.I don't see a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship because we differ in religion,way of life and ... (107 words)

He takes me for granted

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I like my boyfriend a lot, it may not be love but I care about him deeply. I feel he takes me for granted and does not listen to me. All he ever talks about is sex and sometimes I feel annoyed by this. He says 'I need sex' or 'its not fair you haven't had sex with me often en... (253 words)

My lies are compounding her trust issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm having problems with my girlfriend and due to these problems I've had to turn to you and no one else. So thank you in advance for offering the service. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and it's kind of serious, but I lie to her a lot :/ sometimes t... (1060 words)

We were tipsy when we met the first time; will the first official date be OK?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a female that's just beginning to explore my bicurious side. I'm very excited about it because I've always loved women! A couple of weeks ago I met a lovely girl at a bar and we ended up making out for the night, I had such a blast. We exchanged numbers and have been ... (202 words)

Dwelling on a tiff with a needy friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I love my friends- they're great and all, but they freak out if I don't respond to their calls or texts right away. My one friend, "Kayla", got upset at me because I was visiting an old flatmate this weekend. Now mind you Kayla has her own friends as well, so I don't know why ... (186 words)

Depressed in my marriage and have fallen for someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i am mother of three and two of them grown up no,i am 44 my youngest one is 12,my husband loved me but he is vary quite and bit of boaring person,i am in love with some one whos in other country and i see him my be once a year but talk every day and chat,i am confused he is a ... (263 words)

I cheated, fell in love, and screwed up my life. Now what to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Almost 2 years ago I cheated on my wife. I meet someone on a chat site and fell in love with her (long story). Less than 2 months into the affair my wife catch me. I broke it off with the other woman eventhough she begged me to ran away with her (she is also married). The ... (331 words)

Shaving questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi im 13 years old and need to know 3 questions 1.) If i should shave my pubic hair? 2.) If i do will my penis feel better when I masterbate? 3.) How long it take for pubic hair to grow back ? Thanks for anwsering my questions i really need to ... (89 words)

I catch my friend in lies and it hurts me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a good male friend who i care for very much and we get on really well. heres the problem-he lies and im hurt at why he does it to me when he says he trusts me and im a good friend to him. for example he said in his previous job he was a senior member of a security team ... (156 words)

Should I give in to him or stay sex free and single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend says he loves me,he's been loving me for three years,his feelings never changed,but he cooled down somewhat because i never used to take him on. Now im madly in love with (just out of an abusive relationship) but i know its not a rebound,because i started thinking ... (152 words)

She's lied and I don't know how to express my hurt properly

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people, I need some advice I recently had a conversation with my girlfriend about this guy she was talking to while we were broken up last april. We have been back together for nearly a year now and this guy is persistent but my girlfriend is doing nothing about it. She... (567 words)

Wondering if I've been played or if it's some sort of love triangle

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this is quite a long story. I'm a 19 year old girl. Basically, last year I had a brief 'fling' with someone that I worked with ['boy 1']. We fell out, but are now really close friends. But through this I got closer to one of our mutual friends [shall we call him 'boy 2'... (608 words)

My parents are urging me to delay the marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay it’s me again I’m getting married in three months and my parents just sat down with me and told me that I should wait because we are not finically stable yet and because we don’t have a professional career. When I first told them about our engagement they were not happy at ... (406 words)

Should I bring new boyfriend (gay) to straight friend's birthday dinner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I've got a group of friends I've been hanging out with for a few years and I like them a lot. It's three couples, and me (a guy). Not only am I the only single one, I'm also the only gay one. We do not talk about my being gay, although I have told some but not all of them. ... (396 words)

Kissed a friend and am a bit freaked out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - today my best friend and i kissed (she is a girl). i dont know what to think of it and i am a little scared about the fact that we both sort of liked it. ive had boyfriends before and am definitely attracted to guys but now this complicates things....am i bisexual? if you are, ... (78 words)

Girlfriend pressuring me for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi kindly help me out one of my girlfriend friend what to have sex with me as fast as possible ,i am a virgin my girlfriend will be mad at me if she enventually find out please help me out now!!!... (41 words)

I'm not sure my husband loves me any more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if my husband is in love with me anymore...We never just have sex when I am in the mood...only when he is, he has been wanting to try a swingers lifestyle and I’m just not sure that is my cup of tea...he has never laid hands on me before in our 10 year ... (347 words)

I cant choose between the picture-perfect Vince and not-so-perfect Caleb who I love, but...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Help me with my decision! I have been with Caleb for a year and a half. We have had some rough patches. I love him an incredible amount but I want him to do more with his life. Sometimes he seems unmotivated to work and find a job.He lost his job two months ago and is looki... (541 words)

He broke up with me because of my behaviour but I want him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey.. So anyway straight to the subject I've been with my boyfriend for two months then i started lying to him and doing things he forbided me from and etc.. and now he found out about everything and he left me..and every time i open the subject about us getting back tog... (116 words)

I definitely think she is "the one"...but I still really want to cheat on her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year now, and we were best friends for almost 3 years. I am madly in love with her and I am pretty sure she is madly in love with me. I definitely think she is "the one"... However, recently, I have been getting these urges to... (164 words)

Why has my emotional reaction changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright this is a very odd question! So, ever since I've been young. When I read a sad book or watched a sad movie. I would bawl like a little baby. Then these past two years I've went through practically hell and I just noticed that with just one mention of that situation or ... (147 words)

"Even though the stars are blind....." or are they???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My Sister swears by horoscope comatibilty and dates only her own matches. I am a sagittarius female,my boyfriend of nearly a year is a leo male. She told me my sex life will be active which is true,she told me to treat him right and he will be your best friend for life which ... (332 words)

His demeanor is flirtatious, I def don't get the friend vibe, but he doesn't seem to be taking me seriously in a dating situation either... Whats the deal??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - So I'm 25 and he's 28, we work in the same office. From the night of the first happy hour he and I have chatted each other up. The next day he started with the daily emails on the company email, which continue to this day. Right away he asked me to lunch, but was weird about ... (631 words)

My ex's words: "it's too much right now, but maybe later in the future". Was it all my fault??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - My ex and I met through a mutual friend and instantly connected. He was talking to someone and so was I, so we were strictly friends, but the more we talked about things the more we realized how much we had in common with what we wanted out of a relationship and in life so when ... (416 words)

I'm not sure if we should make love or wait until we are married, in about 2 years...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my Boyfriend of 4 months have decided we want to spend the rest of our lives together. But we cant get married because of some family issues going on , so we must wait. We both want to make love but i feel pressured. I am a virgin and am scared he may be focusing on ... (100 words)

We have a 6 month old child but I keep looking at other men. Am I a bad girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years, we have a 6 month old son. And recently i've found myself looking at other men and really really wanting them? i've told my boyfriend and he said hes hurt by it but wont talk about it. He works nights and sleeps all day and on his days ... (92 words)

I'm cutting him out of my life because I don't want to be used!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend cheated on me and then I dumped him because he was calling me controlling when It was him who was too possessive over me and then he tells me he still loves me so i took him back and i started fighting with his sister and he didnt believe she would say horrible ... (152 words)

I love my husband, but I have always been in love with my ex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for eight years with a wonderful man sixteen years older than me. Before my husband, I dated one guy who was my first love. I met my current husband when I was with him. Our relationship became quite intense and I felt he was kind of obsessed with me, so I ... (351 words)

I'm concerned for my grandchild!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age - My daughter is 25, has a child 4 years old. She met a new boyfriend 2 month ago. She always lived with us until she met this person, my concern is that it is not stable for her child to live 3 days at our house and the rest of the week at his house, she sleeps in a mattress ... (82 words)

Can somebody tell ... if it's love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been trying to make this lady have a data with me and after 5 months of trying she agrees. I kept calling and texting her but I eventually felt am pushing a door that can't open in December 2010, I called her told her I like her and I started calling her again... January ... (210 words)

Do I trust him? Or be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year and a half has never really gave me a reason to not trust him. i mean we have had arguments about other girls and things. the main thing that is a problem is he is a dj and does lighting for different clubs so there is always other girls around. i go with ... (144 words)

After the baby, our sex life has gone from great and often to infrequent! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - In the past 11 months, my boyfriend and I have only had sex 5 times. I had a baby a couple months ago and we have not had sex since a month before she was born. Before that, it had been almost 3 months. I am ok with the fact that we didn't have it often when I was pregnant ... (430 words)

Suspicious texts, tights in the bed and a drinking problem....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very happy and have a boyfriend who I'm engaged to we are very happy together although lately he has been spending longer and longer at work, he also has sone very suspicious texts on hid phone and flirty messages such as 'I'll splash you' I have thought about leaving him ... (112 words)

Should I feel guilty? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I seem to worry about everything that would make my boyfriend angry, you could say im walking on egg shells. Tonight we finished , i made the decision, im not sure whether it was the right thing but soo after id text my ex just to literally see how he was, then he start saying ... (138 words)

Once we graduate will our relationship survive in the real world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello guys, My brother told me that guys will change once they step into the society to work. Is it really true that there is a high chance that my boyfriend, who is graduating this year together with me. My brother shared with me some stories about his friends who is... (127 words)

What should I wear on this date?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i cant decide between 5 dresses which one i should wear for a date.. please someone give me a clue on what type of dress we have to wear on a date. your answer will be appreciated... (37 words)

How do I get help from my University after the death of my father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - it's been more than a month since my father has passed away and i have find it very difficult to understand that i will not see him again. my father's death is effecting my whole family and i can not concentrate on my studies anymore and it is my last year. i would like to ge... (74 words)

21 year old dating a 16 year old... how do I make people understand we are serious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've recently been seeing this girl who is the sister of a work collegue. We get on like a house on fire, shes sweet, thoughtful and drop dead gorgeous but there is one thing holding me back and that's a gap between our ages, i'm 21 and she's 16. Usually would te... (118 words)

Should I trust what he says?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not exactly sure what to do in this situation. Around this time last year I met this guy and we began a little "thing" and we hung out on a weekly basis. One night we ended up having sex and then the day after he completely ditched me and I was left completely heartbroken. ... (471 words)

I need to know I am doing the right thing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this guy I fell in love with right from the first day I met him. We live in different cities but we talk, even though it's not as often as I want. Nor what am used to. I just take it like that because I think he's the ideal man I want to take home to my dad. The first ... (440 words)

No sex, arguments and I think he is planning to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, this may be long but I'm desperate for help. Me and my husband have been together for nearly five years and have two children together. Ever since I had found out I was pregnant with out now 7 month old son he seemed to change a bit. We went from having sex one to three ... (1666 words)

Dating a month and he doesn't call me every day. Is this going nowhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I have been seeing this guy a little over a month and it is really going nowwhere. He dosent call me everyday and when he does the conversation is short. I tried to break up with him last week but he called and said he wanted to be with me. He also dosent go out of his ... (78 words)

Is oral sex ACTUAL sex? Is it still illegal if you are underage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - is it illegal for an eighteen year old to go down on you when your fifteen because its not really sex its just oral you know or does oral sex count as real sex?... (34 words)

I want to move on, how can I stop being clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i wrote a month ago about my x boyfriend.. now its over.. it all started a month ago when i needed him urgently for a life or death situation and i called him many times.. he finally showed up but then he started distancing himself from me like i wouldnt hear from him as much. ... (573 words)

Torn between my childhood sweetheart and a lovely guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so i have gotten myself into a huge dilema. Seven months ago me and my childhood sweetheart met up and within a few weeks we were an item. I really loved him. He has been in foster care his whole life so i was always weary. Four months into the relationship he ran away ... (228 words)

When do age differences stop being an issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i need something figured out, i know that a age difference isnt the greatest in dating and if theres even a 1 year age difference in your teens everyone goes insane. but if your in your 20's 30's 40's all of a sudden there could be a 20 year difference and no one wound ... (288 words)

School love triangle - what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - what do you do when your best friend likes the same guy that you do and she says that i can go out with him and then goes back on her word but the guy likes me more then he does her? thank you for all your answers in advance.... (50 words)

I can't get him out of my head! I think he is the one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't stop thinking about my ex, and I wonder every day if he's the love of my life. We were together for five years and he's the only real serious relationship I've had. And same with him (I'm 18, he's 19).. We split up about three months ago, because we couldn't keep... (373 words)

Confusion between my heart and my head...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old, and have been dating a 44 y.o man for a year and two months. We have been in a long distance relationship since we met, with a four hour distance between us but we still managed to see each other nearly every week due to our work schedules. He has two ... (662 words)

I'm worried things might go down the Drain

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 7 months now, yes were both teens and of course I expect to get a lot of answers saying I shouldn't worry it will end anyways. I love this girl to death. She all I ever think about and when I'm with her I'm truly ... (493 words)

Emotionally Confused And Sick Of Playing Games!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So usually when I come to agony aunts with a question you all always help me out and I'm looking for that same positive help this time. In November 2009 I met a man online and we talked for 7 months until he came to visit. He said he was in love with me and we would get on ... (577 words)

Boyfriend treated me badly, I cheated, and now he wants to work things out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 27 yr olf female i have living with my boyfriend for 1 yr 1/2 i have a 2 yr old little girl from a previous relationship I was madly in love with my boyfriend and he started treating me really bad he would come home late igore me we stopped having sex he expected me to ... (275 words)

Girlfriend rented a uhaul and is moving out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend just broke up two days ago she was at her cousins house for a week I ckecked he email and seen a uhaul conformation I went home and asked y and she said she was tired of all the fighting so it was best to do it this way she says she needs space and that ... (88 words)

My insecurities have a strangle hold on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am hoping I can get some advice with a very troubling problem. I am in a relationship, I am 33 and boyfriend is 31. We were both late bloomers and I especially had/have problems with self-esteem. We have been together for 1 and a half years and do not live together. As a ... (199 words)

The relationship seems to be deteriorating into hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some good advice. I have been dating a man for about six months now. It was never really traditional, because when he asked me to make it official I declined. I was still a little bit hurt from a relationship in my past, as was he. I was thinking where could this even ... (807 words)

Her attitute toward sex is really frustrating

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm getting discouraged and feeling really scared for our relationship. Ever since we started having sex my girlfriend has resisted me. I can't do anything to her without seemingly forcing her. It annoys me and make me feel like she doesn't want me and I'm annoying her. There's ... (330 words)

Why does my bf text his ex wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my bf and i have been together for 10 months we also live together.he has been divorced for 4yrs. and i for 6yrs. we have only have 2 disagreements we enjoy doing the same things and have lots of fun together. if you knew us you would think we were the perfect couple and i ... (147 words)

Meeting his parents is a big issue for me but he won't allow it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for one year and three months now, i have been asking him to meet his parents since but he wont allow me to; he was married and is older than i am, he says he told them about me, i am not making any excuses for him... i have met his brother ... (179 words)

Uncomfortable with what happened and want to forget about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Several months ago, I got really REALLY drunk at a party, unintentionally. Later, I remember ending up alone with this guy. He seemed ok and nice to talk to. I don't if he was drunk as well but eventually leaned in to kiss me and kept on at it. He also made comments about m... (269 words)

I'm afraid he'll see me differently now that he knows about my past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17, and ive had sex with 6 different people. i recently met a guy who, for the firt time, respects girls who respect thereself / dont throw away their dignity. i do respect myself, and was young when these experiences took place - but i wont get into that. i fear that maybe ... (83 words)

Married Indian in love with an European!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, My case is complicated like everyone elses. I am married to a wonderful women since 3 years now, out of these three years we were living in different countries for about 2 years. We had a long distance relationship in the meantime. Towards the end of my stay in G... (392 words)

Can't choose between these two guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, the guy I've liked for months (Guy A) has become rather distant. Things were going great, I knew he liked me back, and he even asked me out to go see a movie. Well, the date went really well, but afterwards, he started getting distant at school. He stopped texting me ... (539 words)

Is my bf materialistic or I am just not generous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I am feeling guilty right now of what has happened the other day with me and my bf but on the other side, I feel that I have only said what my boyfriend needed to hear. Can you let me know if i have done something wrong. I hope to make it as short as possible. I am m... (503 words)

Ideas on what to engrave on boyfriend's ring?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm getting my boyfriend an engraved ring as a surprise. Do you have any ideas on what to engrave on the ring? I'm thinking of something sweet and personal so it doesn't look like i just bought it off a store. Any ideas anyone? We've been together for 7 months and befor... (81 words)

Why do parents disapprove of their children masturbating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do parents dislike that their kids masturbate ? Is it a bad thing ?... (15 words)

How do I stop him from talking about sex so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend loves me but he want to have sex before marriage but i dont want sex before marriage .i love him too but because of this i am afraid of him .he get excited whenever he talk or see me .he loses his control and has keen desire for sex.tell me how can i improve him i ... (68 words)

If I do all he wants even if I'm not in the mood will this make things any better?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been going through a load of issues and i dont know what to do anymore. im nervous around him as i dont totally feel 100% safe anymore which sounds horrid i know. He wrestled my phone off me, has chucked me and my stuff out of his house and when h... (298 words)

What should I do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - OK so I'm 28 and I've met this guy who I work with, we've been at a few functions and have always kinda flirted see the thing is he's 39 so am not sure if that's too much of an age gap. He's a lovely guy and he told me that he has been thinking about me since the last tim... (197 words)

I only talk to her for friendship, but I cant help but feel this could be something more! Should I tell my girlfriend about her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for two years, and I have always loved her, I have since the day we got together and I do to this day. However, I have recently been talking to another girl, purely for friendship, but I really can't help but feel that this friendship could... (132 words)

In my 20's and new to dating - looking for people who have had similar situations

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so im 21 and new to dating ... im not entirely sure if i want a relationship right now, or whether im just craving meeting new people/ making new friends... basically, my question is for those who have been in my situation, and have started dating late, but who also enjoyed ... (165 words)

I think he is addicted to the woman he is having an emotional affair with, how do I get rid of her?

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17 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - my hubby has a female friend even he does not belieive in friendship with opposite sex...she is his college from 4 years....they are too much emotionally attached...just like an emotional affair...they remain in content everytime...he says he loves her as friend but i feels he ... (116 words)

Are there still people out there today who don't prescribe to whats on the idiot box?

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi im not sure how to say this but im a normal person, i have no trouble making friends it's just i really don't like to have sex and it's not like im gay or anything, i know that im not attracted to men. it's just i can't seem to find girls who are genuine or at least be able ... (110 words)

Everyone is blaming me for her failed relationship, but her boyfriend had a part to play too!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts and uncles! A few months ago I posted a question saying I couldn't bear to leave a guy who was attached. Well, I finally did and I was happy with life until 2 days ago. Now, his girlfriend and her umbrage of popular friends are mad at me because she thinks I'm the ... (179 words)

I don't think this situation with my "friend" is heading anywhere. Should I just call it quits??

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I've got a problem with a 'friend' of mine We met each other at university (we're both studying anglistics) and get along with each other...or at least I think so. To be honest I fancy him pretty much but I suspect that he's just not that into me. We take the same c... (283 words)

His behavior makes no sense to me! I still cant figure out what went wrong!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so i started dating this guy last year in july. he had seen me at a party a few months back and had added me on facebook in may. we used to talk online almost everyday and soon we began telling eachother everything about our day, our secrets. when he asked me out one day i was ... (499 words)

Is anyone curious about asexual people?

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I was wondering if there are any asexual people on this board. I am one myself, but I would be curious to change thoughts with other like minded people or with people who are curious about asexuality. Often I read about some people having problems with dating and relat... (165 words)

I fell for Mr Nice Guy who promised the world and delivered nothing.....

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i am hoping to recieve help. my husband and i have been married only a year. we met on an internet dating site. he was the most romantic caring guy on the planet until we got near our wedding day.weve known each other 3 yrs. i had serious doubts then now i hate waking up nex... (311 words)

I don't want to share my husband anymore!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband has many GF and i know about all and he is not physically involved with any one but unfortunatily i had physically involved with a guy( he know all about me that i am too emotional and take advantage of mine ).once my husband caught us. first i try to hide the things ... (164 words)

Am I an awful person for not wanting him to go on a boys holiday?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf broke my heart a year ago by lying and meeting up with his ex/saving half-naked photos of her on his computer. We made up and he's been good since then.My trust is SLOWLY starting to build up, but by no means is it there yet. He suddenly announced he was going on a boys ... (113 words)

Broken family, broken spirit

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm nearly 16, am British but live in an Arabian country. Looking back, I remember my childhood as happy and stable, but behind the scenes my dad would cheat repeatedly. The final straw came for my mum when he slept with our in-house cleaner who was 25 years younger than him. ... (1001 words)

This whole argument is still spinning around in my head, I feel so lost.........

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Myself and my partner have known each other for nearly 10 years we first got together when i was 15 and he was 20, that relationship lasted just over 2 and a half years. It wasn't a great relationship i was needy and dependant and he was never home and cheated on me more than ... (812 words)

I am getting divorced and want to marry my friend, but so many things are getting in the way! What should I do?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was married for 6 years to a jerk and I am in the process of getting divorced. I was having some sex problems with my husband since we got married. he wanted sex all the time and I can't. he was sexually abusing me. I am indian so I didn't think about getting divorce because ... (1055 words)

Break up or work it out?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy... since i was 5.. we used to go to the same church, but we fought alot. people always said wen we were older, we'd get married. 11 yrs later we got together, an i was really elated.. within those 11 yrs i had been with other guys but i knew i always l... (179 words)

Should I get a clitoral hood piercing?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiancee wants me to get a clitoral hood piercing. I work in OB/GYN, and I fear all the horrible things that could go wrong (infection, ruining my sex life etc..) Any experience from anyone out there? Is it really that big of a turn on or sexual pleasure for me?? ... (52 words)

To do a threesome or not, and how do I handle knowing I'm not satisfying a desire for him if I don't?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiancee, has this fantasy. He had this kind of play with his "x" wife. (Hinze "X") she later had an affair which hurt him emotionally. My reaction to that was "Why, because she didn't involve you??" After 4 years and him knowing my thoughts about it, he still likes to ... (317 words)

What does it mean when a guy mimics you?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - what does it mean when a guy mimics you? When I touch his face, he touches mine. If I rub his hand, he rubs mine back. I kiss his cheek and he kisses mine back. He will often repeat the things I say if he thinks they're funny. Is he doing this on purpose to make me ... (86 words)

Was our friendship really a secret relationship? Was he even gay to begin with?

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello to all, I welcome anyone's advice and just a disclaimer this question is very prolonged because it requires so many details. Well I am gay, and up until recently I haven't always told the people that I am. So when I entered my senior year in high school, I found myself v... (734 words)

I got the "snip" and can't give my girlfriend children

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years. Before I met her I had been in a 10 year relationship, and during that time I had the 'snip' because my then girkfriend already had children and didnt want any more, and I thought we would be together forever! When... (216 words)

Boyfriend's son has no boundaries

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at my wits end, please help! I met my boyfriend last feb. He works away alot and i see him most fri-sun but i dont mind because I love him. I moved in with him last year which was a big commitment for me as I've been divorced for ten years and have no family back up but h... (896 words)

How often do engaged couples fight?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been single for all my life and it's about to change. The dynamics of letting someone else have the reigns or at least to be the "head" of our relationship/marriage is hard for me to bite. I am so used to being independent and not allowing anyone else to help figure out ... (627 words)

Do you think he likes me?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, thanks in advance for taking the time to read this. I'm confused and would appreciate some advice. I'll try to keep it short, too. I've known this boy since third grade. I went to the same high school with him in freshman year. We talked, but not a lot. I ended up moving ... (495 words)

Married ex is still contacting my boyfriend!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Agony aunts please help me. am suffering My boyfriend used to date a girl who was a Hindu while my boyfriend was a Muslim. He used to love her very much. However the parent of the girl did not accept the relation and so that girl broke up with him and got married to anoth... (651 words)

Is it still an orgasm if it doesn't feel like one

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I was masturbating the other day and it was vaginally and I "squirted" (sorry, I don't know the real name for it). I thought it was weird, so I did research and it said that some women do that when they orgasm, but it didn't feel like an orgasm, or at least what I think one ... (144 words)

I didn't know what I had in her till she left

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I used to think Karma was an old wise tale until it made it's way to me. I lost count of how many heart's I broke after over 30. I guess you could say it never bothered me or made me feel remorse or guilt since I hadn't experienced it. I never quite understood all the tears and ... (370 words)

Tired of her lies!

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I currently have a girlfriend but she's been telling me lies for awhile, and to make matters worse my ex comes into the picture and tells me that she still likes me and wants to get back together, so this puts me in a tight spot, I still have feelings for my ex which is ... (115 words)

At times he changes into a completely different person!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - well heres the problem, ive been dating this guy for two months, and everything is great but at times he changes into a complete different person. Like today for example i asked him who some of the girls in his facebook were and he said well most of them are my cousins and ... (289 words)

When is the best time to tell him I'm a virgin?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm 17 and in high school and I've been dating a guy in college for about a 2 months. His school is kind of far away so we aren't exclusive so he's not (officially) my boyfriend, but neither of us are seeing other people. I'm planning on going to school with him in the ... (150 words)

There's no point in us being together, right?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys.so i have been with this guy for 4 months now.like a month ago he went away to his parents.Another town.ever since he went there he hardly texts me, never answers my calls and whenever i ask why dont you answer my calls his usually reply is "im with some mate".He goes ... (97 words)

Hes my 1st in everything but hes cheated on me!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been with my BF for over 17 yrs yes I have and 2 kids later he has ask for an 3 some and we did it then he went on his own with out me 3 yrs later we are still 2 gether should I stay with the guy he is my 1st in everthing... (62 words)

If I stay with him he's going to remind me of this all my life!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months already, our relationship is going OK but he is planning to move to panama in the summer. Before we started to seriously go out i had been with someone else that he actually knew, me and that person never went to third base ... (615 words)

I don't cook and bf said no one will want me even he is verbally abusive to me.

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't cook and my boyfriend hates it. He said he will eventually leave me because I am not good at cooking and housework. He said no one will want me. His ex cooks very well, but then he has issues with her character or looks. I feel so tired and hurt. He is verbally very ... (109 words)

Why was he holding his daughter's hand like he was?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age - Is this weird or not?? Whilst driving my partner of 18 months reached across to the back of the car to hold his 12 year old daughters hand. He held it for 10 minutes. She has not been upset or anything -just sitting there.I felt uncomfortable as I am not use to this open ... (142 words)

Sexual relationship with my 2nd cousin?

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a sexual relationship with my second cousin. Is this wrong? We are in love. Its not something we sought out. It just happened.... (26 words)

I've tried to make my dad proud but he just doesn't care!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I know that this sight is meant for relationships between lovers but I'm having trouble with my dad. We have never gotten along, and tho I try and try to do things to relate to him (even if I hate them ... like sports) we still don't get along. All I've ever wanted was to make ... (151 words)

She doesn't want a relationship right now. What!??

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, So, I need a bit of advice, validation. Hope you've got your reading glasses on as this is too long of a post... I've been dating a girl for the past 2.5 months. We've been getting dinner, getting lunch, going to movies, grabbing coffee, getting drinks, going ou... (585 words)

I proposed to her but she only wants to be friends

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I fall in love to a girl.. She is my first love.. We both read in the same department.. But we do our class in different room.. When i first met to her, it seemed to me that i got my dream girl. She's still my dream girl. I had already proposed her!! I dont know, is it right o ... (104 words)

Two guys, I don't know what to do

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I use to be inlove with this amazing guy. He told me he loved me back but the 2 hours latter he ask out this girl that he has only talked to about 5 times in his life.So my best freind knew i needed to get over him so her boyfriend and her set me up with her boyfriends best ... (107 words)

Online dating and lots of space inbetween communicating

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been online dating this guy for a few years now (we haven't met yet but we plan on it). Anyways i think i'm being insecure (even though i never have been insecure about anything in my life other than my looks). But i have this gut feeling that he is cheating on me. ... (428 words)

I think my husband on facebook will create alot of drama!

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17 January 2011 (F)

- Okay so my husband's family is always bugging him to get on Facebook. I don't much care to be listed there and have been hesitant for him to sign up because I know his ex-girlfriends will cause problems for us. Plus I think he'll contact them (out of curiousity of course). Yes ... (290 words)

Husband says I cheated but I didn't

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry 4 bad grammor and spelling I'm not well educated. Sorry long story. Welli had a fight with hb of 3yr over my boobs he wanted to see them I said no they are to small if he would let me get enlagmet to size d he could see them all the time he said no I wouldn't look right ... (313 words)

How can I stop caring about my ex and his hot female, bikini-clad friends?

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17 January 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Ok, I feel very envious of my ex. He has a lot of friends, female friends that is, who're your typical bubbly, kind of ditzy, but hot friends. Not very deep or anything. They party a lot, and go to the beach. OF course he's not the only guy in the group, but he has these ... (251 words)

I need a good guy to marry. But how can I stop being attracted to loving bad boys?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i hooked up with my friend. I've known him about 8 yrs. I really love him but he can't do anything for me. Love is all he can offer. i'm young, pretty smart and good looking. And i've got a permanent job at a well known organisation. I always seem to pick up guys who... (124 words)

What is important if you are in a relationship? Personality or who the person is?

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I just want to be open about how I feel about this girl, I honestly loved this girl with all my heart and everything. Now its been over a year and a half since we have broken up, she has had a few relationships in this time we have remained friends during this time. Now ... (300 words)

Can I hope for a long term commitment, as no one wants to marry me?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm getting lonely and old. I've never been married and have only one child. I'm not picky on guys, I just don't like creepies and players. I haven't been with a guy since 2007. I was a late bloomer. Didn't grow an interest in guys until I was 20. I was in relationship with one ... (104 words)

How he could beg for me to take him back and yet sleep with four other women meanwhile???

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend were dating for three years we have children. he lost his job and started hanging out with friends all the time and he pushed me away from him. when i finally got tiered of it. i asked him to leave. he begged me to let him stay and i declined. we where split ... (129 words)

After 5 years I felt more pain than happiness

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a 5 year relationship when I ended it a few days ago. I love him a lot. I still do. However, it came to a point when I felt more pain than happiness. He began his overseas studies mid-half of last year, and lets just say he's become a different person. He used to be ... (459 words)

How do you turn a straight boy gay?

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a boy of 19 years and mostly get attracted toward boys.so there is a boy that lives just behind my house i really feel attracted towards him.that boy age is 20 years and i really cant spend even a single second without seeing him and i really wish to talk with him.He ... (125 words)

Should I talk all the time on stay quite during a movie date?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend are going to the movies in a couple of weeks. We have been dating for two months and this is our first actual date. Iv been out to dates at resturaunts and iv met my ex s parents but iv never been to the movies on a date. am i supposed to talk to him the ... (100 words)

Is it bad for me to want to be in a relationship this badly?

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Is it bad for me to want to be in a relationship this bad? I'm a 16 year old gay boy and I really want to find my prince. I want a boyfriend so bad. Some one that understands me, and our personalities mesh. A best friend, a lover that cares about me and will never give up on ... (237 words)

Why does she need this 'space' in our relationship? Is it a test? Or because of the medical news?

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been dating this girl for 8 months now. Before we started dating we were friends for years.We both came from bad ex's both were abusive. also before we got together we both have said to each other, 'we should be with each other.' We both became single around the same ... (212 words)

I'm dating my second cousin and our parents don't know!!!!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and I recently met my second cousin at a family reunion. 5 seconds after I met him, I fell head over hills in love with him. He feels the same way, so we've been dating. But we have so many problems. He lives in Colorado and I live in Texas. He's a freshman and I'm in ... (106 words)

I'm pregnant but my BF of 9 years has left to live with his new GF. I feel so vulnerable. What can I do to protect my babies and me from being homeless?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 5 months pregnant and have two toddler daughters. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years and we just bought a house. This is the first year he has made a lot of money since he opened his own business. He recently left the home stating he is very confused, beca... (198 words)

Should I pick the man that only physically pleases me (my bf) or pick the one that emotionally satisfies me but not physically (my ex)?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my situation is so complicated. Idk what to do. I recently moved in with my bf. Things went really fast. we only knew each other a few months before moving in together. things were great for the first month or so but lately he has been working Alot and im alway alone. I really ... (274 words)

She's the partner of my guy's best friend. How do I deal with this bossy woman? I'm all stressed out about it

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Big dilemma! I have been together with my boyfriend for almost 12 months - during this time we discovered that we were pregnant and have decided to go through with the pregnancy. Because of his income, we both decided it would be better if I moved up to the country where he is ... (543 words)

Despite our Stand-off I love him and want to settle down with him. What should I do?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I thought I had met the love of my life. We both have had issues in the past and were badly wounded from other relationships. It was a whirlwind and we quickly moved in together. The pressure really got to us, and i moved out. We agreed to take things slow but he had lost a lot ... (195 words)

Does he like me? He's the hottest guy on this planet

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been bi for a few years. I've been currently messing around with one of my friends, but he has a girlfriend now and doesn't want to mess around. I told him i completely understand. There's this guy that goes to my school. He is the hottest thing on the planet. Our lockers ... (343 words)

I have a friend with limited benefits

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy have known each other for a LONG time. We had always talked, hung out, etc... One night I slept over at his house and we started to fool around. I just gave him oral and he liked it. The next day he said he really liked it and asked if I would ever try sex. I ... (258 words)

After 1st time sex now I only get one word replies from him

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, here is my predicament. I'm 16 and have finnished school and am in my first year of college, when I went back home to Ireland and went to the annual fancy new years party. As i only go back to Ireland and mix with "the circle" once a year it is always really awkward for ... (201 words)

Nerdish girl wants to get the hot guy!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this boy in my grade... He is the hottest and funnest guy in my grade. Since 6th grade (im in 8th) I been having a crush on him. Only one problem... I'm in the "nerd group" of my grade. All of my friends are nerds but me. They are all of my best friends so I dont ... (274 words)

I just have to be quiet till he wants sex!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am extremely frustrated with my boyfriend. Our sex life is rapidly diminishing. I'm so sad and I came to this site because I have no one to talk with about it. He doesn't want to talk about our sex life because it turns him off. I try to come on to him and get rejected every ... (126 words)

My wife want's a threesome with a younger woman as her birthday present. Seeking pointers to achieve this aim please

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17 January 2011 (M)

age - Hello Dear Cupid, Good afternoon. So glad to have located your website because I need some help/advice from some of your other members. I am writing and submitting this post, mainly on behalf of my wife. I am married to an exceptionally wonderful woman, whom I will call ... (759 words)

He doesn't seem to understand that my life isn't devoted to his penis!!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with a new guy for three months now, and he's absolutely drop dead gorgeous. But there's one problem - he's obsessed with sex. He wants it every day and more than once - the third time we had sex he wanted to do it six times. It's getting stupid - he doesn't seem to ... (159 words)

I'm hurt he didn't reveal he had a girlfriend until later. What do you think of my idea to never contact him again?

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17 January 2011 (F)

I told him I'm in love with him and now he's backing off!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Help!! I told him hypothetically im in love with him,now i think he's backing off,what do i do? He was chasing me,i told him to give it a rest,now i have feelings for him,and its torture,i want to see him evryday...What do i do? he just texts me what's up,its annoying and wen i ... (110 words)

Jealousy is my worst flaw

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Jealousy is my greatest flaw, and I get realy jealous. I don’t even want him having girls as friends, or him talking about his past, and he works a lot, and I can’t find a job, so I get jealous that he works with females, and sometimes he works late, and my gut always ruins ... (253 words)

I know we should break up, but when things are good they are sooo good!

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is she acting crazy, or am I turning into a heartless asshole? Well, here it goes. I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 years all together now. We've been broken up for a couple of times during this period (she dumped me), but ended up back together both times. ... (1086 words)

He read my comment on facebook and totally misunderstood it

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I really dont know what to do about this guy i like. Ive been meeting him for about 3 months now. Everything has been great, we spend alot of time together, like each other and he recently asked me out, this week.. I said i didnt know what i wanted, i like him alot but have ... (366 words)

My boyfriend's friend is nothing but bad news

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my boyfriend and I been going out for a total of five weeks and three days. lol...Before we become gf and bf we been crushing on each other for a year and a half...I think I fell for him and he told me many times that he love me. He said he never felt this way with any ... (451 words)

My ex has reappeared in my life and I love him still but what about my boyfriend?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in such a pickle. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years this Wednesday. I went to a party with an old friend (an old flame, actually), and when he opened the door, my heart started racing, I got butterflies in my stomach, and my face flushed. I immediately ran ... (492 words)

Is it a good idea to friend with your ex husband?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my marriage is over, I love my hb in many ways...he wants to be my friend after divorced, he said we can be good friends after all this sad situation. It's a good idea be friend of your ex hb? We didn't have a bad end, just things doesn't work as we wanted.... (53 words)

Why are women so cruel to other women?

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17 January 2011 (F)

age - What would you do? Stage four cancer, husband becoming more distant each week. Female @ his place of work keeps "needing" him...to help her buy a gun to make her feel safe, to give her a ride home (pretty far away), keeps bringing him his favorite soft drink to work (by the ... (125 words)

I've got this really empty feeling inside

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i have this really horrible feeling where something's missing. i can't explain it. but i've got this really empty feeling and i've no reason for it. no-one's died, my problems with my father still exist, but i haven't spoken to him in best part of 2 years. so thats not ... (240 words)

Is she being spoiled in rejecting the single rose?

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17 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am thinking of a conversation I had with a very pretty female friend. We got into an argument and I was your opinion on it. This guy was interested in her and they sort of began dating. He came to her home with a single rose and a card saying, "A beautiful rose for a beaut... (239 words)

He's oblivious to the fact that I like him!

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17 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, back in November, I asked advice for this guy i like, and use to ride the bus with. Well, I like him wayyyyyyyy more now, and he STILL has no idea! I've tried giving hints, and asking who he likes, but hes still so oblivious to the fact! I really want to tell him i like ... (68 words)