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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I leave this abusive relationship now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I really hope you can help. I am in an abusive relationship. I do love the guy but he seems to be be intent on saying that his physical violence towards me is justified - i.e. apparently I 'press his anger buttons' when I get annoyed with things. I have tried to reason with ... (385 words)

How do I get rid of this nervous feeling for my first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were discussing what would we do, for our first time having sex. We're both virgins so I'm a little nervous... How can I get rid of this nervous feeling?... (33 words)

Should I bring up his strange post?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend hasnt been saying much when we text each other latley and on his website he posted "slowly dieing" but he hasnt told me any thing was wrong and we have been with each other for a year should i be worreid? Should i bring up the post when we talk on the phone or well ... (60 words)

Why won't my boyfriend go out with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why won't my boyfriend go out with me? Everytime I get invited to a party by one of my friends my boyfriend won't go. He never walks me to places or from them! I don't understand all of my friend's boyfriend drop them off and pick them up at places where they go I its so... (121 words)

Should I continue to be his friend and see what happens? Let him be the man and make a first move?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year, I was trained at my job by this really neat kid, and I totally started crushing on him. He's the brother of the owner of the company, so for the extent of the time I worked there, he would come in and do filing and stuff for me. I eagerly anticipated the help!! :) We ... (627 words)

Do you think he is too old for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

- Do you think this man that is 11 years older than me is too old for me. I am 20 years old he is 31 we've been together 8 months and he's just amazing, really knows how to treat a woman. I don't have a problem with the age difference and neither does he but other people seem to ... (111 words)

What advice do you have for a feuding couple?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I fight a lot. We're both stubborn headed which is probably the main reason why we fight. Today I tried to joke with her and she said she felt like I "insulted" her. What advice does anybody have for the feuding couple? I love her to death and I cannot ... (73 words)

I cheated and my boyfriend ended things

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, right now i feel like shit,i have been a bit bad and cheated the odd time. Its lead to break up after break up,he wont let it drop. I have never admitted it as he will end it,i know he wont come back if i do. He turned off his phone last night,so i sent a text as there ... (141 words)

I don't understand why he can't just be friends and not anything more than that.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Well we used to have a casual thing a while ago then that had to stop but a few weeks back we slept together and that's when I told him that I didn't believe he just wanted to be friends after what happened that's when he said "I do want to be friends but I can't say no to you ... (241 words)

This isn't a crush, I want to tell him how I feel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been like best friends for about 4 or 5 years with this lad. But since about end off 2009 i have got strong feelings for this guy, he went aways with the army to basic in september 2010 and when he comes back on leave we have grown even closer, he is due to come back ... (196 words)

Is it normal to have a quick look at other men's junk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm 20 and I'd like to know if it's normal to have a quick at the other dude's penis in the locker room...? I don't feel like I'm gay but I guess I'm just curious about the others size and shape...... (48 words)

Why would she remove our anniversary date from facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend has removed our anniversary date from her facebook. we have been dating for 8 months and we both love eachother. but i was just wondering why she would remove our anniversary date from facebook what does this mean. ... (40 words)

I think he may be flirting by accident!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend doesn't flirt i don't think. he's really faithful and he says he doesn't know what flirting is so Im afraid he may be doin it on accident how do i explain what flirting is to him... (38 words)

Should I see him when he comes to town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so like 3 days ago i said that most guys bore me and that the guys i like are jerks...but there is this guys his 21 and lives in Florida has two kids and is coming to town to see his kids. Now he says he is in love with me but i dont feel the same. I don't even know that ... (90 words)

Why do men in porn films last so long?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - What do the men in sex movies do for them to keep long during sex(about an hour) before they cum? Are they real people like us?... (26 words)

I want to ask about a new facebook friend but I don't want to come across as clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if there is a way to ask my girlfriend about a guy she recently added on facebook without coming across as clingy? I don't normally ask about guys but this one is kind of fishy...is there a way to go about this? I hate coming across as clingy and seem to do ... (89 words)

I believe my boyfriend may suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Is it safe to be with this kind of person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. When we were discussing something, my boyfriend told me he loves to see a women naked i.e. naked with all her feelings and vulnerable. He is very self centered and never much cares about my needs, it's always about him. He abuses me mentally... he knows my weak points a... (105 words)

What drives a man to perform oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When a man performs oral sex on a woman, during intercourse for the first time, how does he feel? What drives him to do it (i.e; to give pleasure, expecting something in return, closeness, or just being horney)? ... (38 words)

6 months later and I thought I was over him, now I don't know what to feel!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly a year about six months ago. There was no apparent reason for me breaking up with him, just that it didn't feel like It used to be. After we broke up, he wanted me back, but I was a complete bitch to him! It has been a long time since we... (184 words)

I'm 22 and have never been asked out on a date? What's wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 22 and have never had a date or even been asked out. I feel like there's something really wrong with me. I am not outgoing like other girls and I am definetly not nearly as pretty. I just feel really down about this. What is wrong with me?... (54 words)

Should I continue waiting for my married lover, or am I being taken for a ride?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Greetings All! I have worked with this person for two years and have always had a mutual great feeling. We began an active relationship last year. I was in process of a divorce, but the feelings for her were very real and true. She put forth the same feelings. She is... (184 words)

If my boyfriend had intentions to cheat with an old hookup, would he tell me whenever she contacted him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just have a quick question. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we love each other very much. Recently, a girl he has hooked up with in the past has been trying to get back with him. He tells her no, but I guess she's just desperate. My question is, if he had any ... (89 words)

Is my husband just not aware of his embarrassing behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age - I'm separated from my 57yr old husband as I found hundreds of porn images hidden on disc and on our computer last year, he'd promised me before that he would stop he always lies about this sort of thing.Although he no longer has access to our computer he still hones in on young ... (116 words)

Is this type of behavior normal for young men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy I have been dating for about 1 year now is extremely defiant, if you say go left, goes right, if you ask him to do something, he won't do it even if it is reasonable request. He is very, very lazy and he often starts task, but never finish them, for example, he may call ... (285 words)

But I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I was dating my boyfriend for 11 months and we got into an argument and he said he needed space, but would date me again in two months. A month has passed and this space has been agonizing me. He said he still loves me and wants to be with me, we constantly text ... (225 words)

What do I buy my boyfriend for valentines day

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - haia guy's! This may not be a serious question but...i've been going out with my bf for about a month know and i have no idea what to get him for valentines day! Please help, any advice would be apriciated! Thankyoou! :D x... (43 words)

If he is the father to another womans baby what should I do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do??? My boyfriend of 3 months (who is 24) and I (I'm 21) met and fell in love very quickly, despite previous heartbreaks in serious relationships for both of us, but due to stress he was going through with his family we "broke up" for about a week or two a little ... (255 words)

Online dating? Experiences and advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I have never tried online dating. I am moving to a new city and am considering it to meet people. Like cellphones and facebook I thought I would defy the trend of online dating for a while before I join the masses... I've never met a person who has had an online date experien... (136 words)

Recently reconnected after 7 years. What is he thinking?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Seven years ago, I had a friend’s with benefits relationship that lasted a year. I moved away because I fell in love with him and did not want him to know. Six months ago, we reconnected and I admitted how I felt and why I had moved. He had no idea I had feelings for him. W... (486 words)

Why do we stay together when there's no big love between us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,please give some advice. regarding my relationship with my bf .I found him via chatting on the net.so lil by lil we made a relaiontnship and now its almst 4yrs and we are planning to marry as well.But i really dont feel love from him and i dont feel much about him.From the ... (177 words)

All my friends are losing their virginity will I be left out

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I'm 16 years old and I'm still a virgin, all of my friends are loosing their virginity and soon I feel like I'm going to be the only one left, I think that I'm ready for sex but I'm scared at the same time and very self conscious about my body. I also want to wait ... (90 words)

Should I stop seeing two brothers

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - im 23y/o female and im having sex with both my bf and his brother..my bf doesnt know but his brother knows and told me not a say anything..im really having fun..should i stop seeing them both or continue having fun..... (40 words)

Will I be unable to satisfy women

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My Business is 6" long exactly and around 5 and a quarter around. I understand that this is safely within the average, but don't know how acceptable this is for women. A cursory Google search of penile size preference revealed a poll, http://w... (347 words)

My boyfriend goes out of his way for a woman he is not even good friends with. Is he interested in her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My boyfriend of 1 year avoids me often, and says he is busy at work. He takes extreme measures to help a girl whom he is not close friends with, but when I asked him for a favour (which will not take more than 15 mins for him to do) he said he is busy and never even ... (107 words)

Baring my soul here after my life changed drastically. How do I salvage my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - I'm very curious to hear people's responses please. My husband and I have been together 14 years (Im now early 30s -he's mid 30's). I realize now that I met him at a very vulnerable time in my life. I needed a lot of attention and I was just coming to terms with an ... (1039 words)

Has his joke gone to far

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have a joke that we are allowed to have sex with one celebrity, mine being Milo Ventimiglia, phwwooar.. haha! Anyway today he said that he decided on who his person was, I asked who and he said 'Wait do they have to be famous?' to which I said 'Yes, why who ... (362 words)

Should I make new friends or stay with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! So my best friend, for 3 years has been "changing" a lot. First off, she's acting like someone who she's not. Whenever the "populars" come around she starts to act like them, but when she's with me, she just acts normal. Also, she has started to ditch me for a differen... (168 words)

I love him, but has his love for me died? What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - He's doing it again! He's saying I've broken his heart more than once... HOW??? I've been faithful throughout this relationship, while he was out doing God know's what from 6pm-1am! I love him dearly but sometimes it does my head in to HAVE TO TRY and make my own boy fall in ... (203 words)

Girlfriend seems disinterested in sex. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am at a loss as of what to do. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for nearly 5 years, and some on and off time 2 years before that. Recently I have been looking at buying an engagement ring and proposing to her, but this process has forced me to reexamine our ... (402 words)

My husband is hot tempered and abusive. Please give me advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me. I got married 5 months ago. My husband is easily angered, abuses me, and sometimes he physically beats me in the process. He can be happy when he is happy, but can be very very angry when he is not. During courtship, I didn't quit the relationship because I ... (253 words)

Jumped from one relationship to another and now I'm having second thoughts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Where to start? Well in April 2010, I got together with this boy (Adam), and everything was going fine, until November of that same year. I fell for a friend (Darrell), and decided to end things with my boyfriend. About 3 weeks later, I started going out with Darrell, which I ... (142 words)

I can't feel him unless he goes fast or I'm on top! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well Me and my boyfriend have been together for sometime and we just started to get sexually active. About a month ago he took my virginity and ever since then we been having sex but when he goes inside me I can't feel him and it's not small. So i dont know why I can only feel ... (81 words)

I moved up in life, and believe this is the cause for issues in my current relationship. Should I try and get back with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have boyfriend who i have been with for two yrs and we have made it threw a lot of hardships our relationship is falling down the tubes, he wrecked my car just the other day we have been arguing non stop even before he had wrecked my car , i honestly feel he liked the fact ... (307 words)

I constantly seek validation from men, and compare myself to other women! It has turned me a bitter woman at age 22, so how do I stop caring about men and relationships?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) age 30-35 - How can I stop caring about relationships and what men think of me? You know, when you have stupid problems and you fight against things you just can't fight against. For instance, I hate society, I hate how society works, and how most people go by with society. I admit... (544 words)

Should I tell my online friend my real name? And was it wrong of me to lie about my name?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I started exchanging messages with someone I 'met' on a internet forum. Completely against my expectations, we still 'talk' about a lot after 3 weeks. The problem is that I didn't tell him my real name and he did give me his. (first names only, though) The reason why is be... (209 words)

Is it normal to get a sore jaw after giving bf oral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - is it normal to very quickly get a sore jaw after giving my bf oral and will it go away in time? its often too painful to continue for any length of time... (33 words)

Any good back exersice to help ease the pain from large breasts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I know I shouldnt be complaining because most girls would love to have this problem im sure, but i have a 25 inch waist and size 32DD breasts on a small day. Normally this is an amazing gift, but my upper back and shoulders are always in really bad pain from the weight being ... (99 words)

My online boyfriend wants to marry me, but my parents do not approve! Should I listen to what my parents tell me to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, I'm feeling like giving up right now, it's too much I could handle. People surround me keep telling me what to do according to the law in my country and stuffs, it seems I have to sacrifice my own feeling. It is about my relationship with a guy. We met online an... (356 words)

Do you think we are meant to be? I never felt this way about a man ever, but I don't know if its the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me just start off that i met this guy in 2009 on youtube and we used to talk all the time about music and politics. It was just 2 people talking about things we loved. He lives in Ireland and I live in Canada. It was obvious we had strong chemistry but knew it couldn't go ... (778 words)

My girlfriend's last sexual encounter before me is making me very uncomfortable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently discovered that my girlfriend had sex with one of her best friends' brother in law a month or so before we met(we've been dating for several months... making the encounter not even a year old). She's an honest sort, so I believe her story: This best buddy's B-I-L wa... (356 words)

Boyfriend keeps saying we'll have alone time and then invites his friends along!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend with all my heart ...but lately we've been fighing so much and its makes me unhappy...he always asks me to go round his to watch a movie and he says its just gonna be me and him.. but then he tells me his mates are coming to and then wonders why i get so ... (265 words)

What do you think, does she like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - well i met this girl and we talked for a bit, then we hung out a couple times, and after the second time we hung out she was txting me and she said "thx for hangin out with me :))" and i was like "thx for being awesome..and cute" and her reply was "=O you like me?" but i just ... (317 words)

Help with gf's violent ex partner

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help, my “GF” has come out of a very violent relationship of 8 years after a particularly bad beating from her ex-partner (the bruises were awful) she decided to leave him me and her have been getting on well for a long time as friends she asked for my help, as she had ... (324 words)

I had sex with my mother's friend. I'm worried she will find out!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So I'm a bit a stuck with a situation and I don't know how to get out! My parents are both in their mid 40s, I'm 18, and I have a 4 week old daughter. I've been through shit (I guess it's relevant to say), and my parents have recently been through alot too. My mum beca... (453 words)

Can someone help me with some ideas for Valentine's Day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure What to get my girlfriend for Valentine's day. I got her a silver necklace for xmas and she's yet to take it off, so I'm hoping to achieve that level of success again. What are some foolproof ideas? ... (41 words)

He's abusive, but I don't know how to live without him. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in 2 relationship for the past 4 years. My boyfriend beats me up. I've lost all my friends for him.now I have no one to tell me what to do. Every1, including his friends have told me to move on and I also tried. I tried getting into another Relationship just to forget about ... (112 words)

Our problems started when she moved in, and now she's with someone else. How can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - i been with my ex for 1year 7 months everything was good, till she moved in . i thought she was trying to get pregnant.. and i just freaked so i just stopped having sex.. i wish i talked to her but diddnt .now she left in september and i kept blowin every chance she gave me to ... (349 words)

How can we stop fighting and get back to how we used to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and i have been together for 2 and half years. things were great at the start but as life gose on a few problems come with it. Laterly all we seem to be doing is fighting. We have spoke many times about whats going on and end the end we dont really no wat to do but ... (118 words)

I was fine with my girlfriend being an escort ...but now her proximity to a certain client is really bothering me...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I came across this blog and read a couple of them.I am a boyfriend of a escort, I have been her boyfriend for 6 years, she has been a escort for almost 3 years. I am fine with it, She did it for the bills of course.Now We just came into a situation and I do not know what to ... (348 words)

I used up all my ideas in my last gift. Now I need new ideas please to fill the Valentine box for my bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have painted and decorated this heart shaped box for valentines day for my bf. I don't know what to put inside though. I got rid of all the special things like cinema tickets, train tickets to see each other etc etc in the last gift I made him so it can't be that. Any ot... (60 words)

How can I be romantic with my on line crush, and show him that I care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! My on line crush says that he likes romance, and to show him that I care about him... My question is how can I be romantic with him? And how can I show him that I care and like him? I already said that to him, but how can I prove it, so he believes me? We haven'... (77 words)

How many girlfriends should I have before I marry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - iam looking for a girl who will be my wife.so before i marry ,how many girlfriends should i have? should i be trusting her? ... (24 words)

I need advice to cope with my sexting obsessed boyfriend. How have others coped with this problem?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. My boyfriend is obsessed with sexting other girls. I have caught him twice doing it with the same girl. He swears that nothing is going on between them, but I find it hard to believe. When I confront him about it he just keeps saying that he thinks he has a prob... (107 words)

Should I forgive my girl friend for being ungrateful?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I want a break from my Girlfriend because she returned a gift I bought for her. I love her and have been with her for 4 years, This is the first terrible thing she ever done to me! Must I forgive her? She returned a cellphone and wanted a blackberry phone. She said I should ... (106 words)

I want to have the 'talk' about getting serious, how do I go about doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been having this fling with this guy for a while now and I'm at the stage where I want to talk about things, so I sent him a message saying that I wanted to talk and he said that we can. We saw eachother not long ago at a get together but it didn't feel appropriate to t... (159 words)

His kids are always sick!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently pregnant and expecting my first child with a man who has 3 children from a previous relationship. His children come over and visit every 2nd weekend. One of his kids is ALWAYS sick though... Ever since I first met her she either has a head cold, runny nose or ... (365 words)

Was it a good idea to let him go as a friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best mate treats me like crap..ive tried so hard for my mate and my boyfriend to be friends so i can have both the people i love around me and i want to spend time with him and my boyfriend at the same time ..but hes just being so stubborn..he didnt even come out for my ... (197 words)

Is it wrong of me to expect that my husband spend time with me on the few Sunday's that I'm free?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im. 25 yrs old and married for 2 yrs and been together for 8 yrs . Im a doctor and have a a very hectic life . My husband has always been the guy who likes his alone time , and " space " . I get about a sunday or two free in a month rest of the days im working . So on th... (248 words)

I'm not sure if I can marry her now I know about her past!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with this woman for 10 months now, i recently even got engaged with this women, at first she did tell me that she was seeing women when her mental health was not fine, recently i proposed marriage to her and moved in with her, since then i have learnt that she has ... (230 words)

Will we be happy in a long distance relationship? Or do we have to break up?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - am 17 and he is 21.. we have been together for the last 2 years and 6 months... but recently he has gone out on career grounds and he will return only in october.. and i am clearing my 12 grade in march so by june even i'll be out of town by june may be for the next 5 years so ... (131 words)

This situation with him is getting old, what should I do?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I‘ve known this guy for about five or six years now, and we belong to the same group of friends. We only ever meet when this group meets, but then its ok, we do talk and everything is pretty normal. If we meet alone (which is almost never) its just awkward but here is the ... (391 words)

My friend doesn't want to know me anymore despite everything I did for him!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my good friend has suddenly decided he doesnt want to know me. i helped him with everything last year with his homelife and work exams. now hes joined a new team hes gone distant and boast how great it is and how much work he gets-a lot different to last year when he was ... (101 words)

Sex has stopped after we got married, is this because I cant give him a baby? Or is he just not into me anymore?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I been having this problem for almost 3 years, its about me and my husband. We used to be sexually active when we were bf and gf but, when we got married we hardly had any sex at all. He tried getting me pregnant but with no luck. So everytime i ask him, he gives me the tired ... (140 words)

One month into this LDR and he wants to move in together, marriage, babies....the lot! Should I run away as fast as I can?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am in a LDR with someone I've only known for a month. Never met and ended up talking over the internet on my web page. I have been trying to avoid relationships at any cost because I was engaged back in October but I broke it off with my ex-fiancee of 5years. There was ... (667 words)

Crush on a very shy girl.......

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27 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have a crush on an EXTERMLY shy female What do I do? When I compiment her she tells me that I'm embrassing her...... (34 words)

How is it possible after so many years to be still in love? Especially when we are both happily married to other people!

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27 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everybody my story follows: Met my first love 18 years ago. We were both teenagers and we had a very intense relationship for 3.5 years. This relationship was the first sex experience for both of us. To make long story short, she left the relationship because bec... (608 words)

I am 18, pregnant, and can't figure out what's going on with my boyfriend...

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 y/o and my boyfriend is 31. I am just now finding out that I am pregnant with an at home test. I am always the type of girl to be happy, outgoing, and talk loud..., and lately, I've been a lil bit cranky. Now, he has decided to seperate himself from talking to me, and ... (125 words)

What does it mean when a guy cries for a girl?

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27 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when a guy cries for a girl? This guy is those kind of people who never give up or fight for whatever he deserve until the last moment. He gives everyone an image that he is willing sacrifice almost anything for things that he wants. But apparently ... (86 words)

Boyfriend of 3 years got a random chick pregnant!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. and In October before halloween we had broke up. For a while he made me believe that he wanted to be single and have fun with his friends, but comes to find out he got someone at his work that he works with pregnant. This person he ... (284 words)

Marriage is falling apart. Should I start seeing someone else?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my husband for 5 years now. We've been living together for 2 years. Daily i cook, clean, take care of our daughter, study, and run a number of mini businesses. I barely have time to myself because i'm so busy with a lot of things. Begining of the year he ... (299 words)

My 19 year old boyfriend wet the bed! Why?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - PLEASE TELL ME WHATS WRONG! Me and my boyfriend are sort of living together for like 2 months. And he has an early shift so he gets up 06:00AM. (we sleep together). He woke me up and told me that he peed the bed! AND HE IS 19! HE seemed really freaked out! I don't know wha... (98 words)

I thought I was independent but I'm so lost without my boyfriend

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Normally, I'm independent. I love going to the mall by myself cause I can do what I want,go into stores that I want to go into, try on as many clothing as I feel like it and have lunch where I want to go to and go home when I feel like it. However, ever since I've gotten a ... (197 words)

What do I do with my blast from the past?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me just start off that i met this guy in 2009 on youtube and we used to talk all the time about music and polotics. It was just 2 people talkign about things we loved. He lives in Ireland and i live in Canada. It was obvious we had strong chemistry but knew it couldnt go ... (604 words)

My husband wants a quick divorce but then why does he call me every day and talk?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband left me almost a month ago said he didnt love me and that he wanted to be friends after the divorce and then maybe more, i dont know about all of that but he acts as if he doesnt know if he is sure of himself or if he isnt,my mom and brother saw him with another girl ... (160 words)

I want to go see my online boyfriend but can't figure out how to do it!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, how is everybody doing? I need some help, it's been about a month now dating my online boyfriend. We really want to see each other in person, but it's very hard to do so, when he lives about 3 hours away. And neither of us has a drivers license. And I'm about to go crazy... (1030 words)

I don't want my boyfriend to see me with all of this acne!

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27 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hi all! Hope y'all are doing good! :) In a way this isn't a relationship type of question. But I really have bad acne, I have tried every thing to get rid of it and I don't know what to do to get rid of it. I have an online boyfriend, we are gonna try to see each other soon,... (171 words)

I'll never be happy with my boyfriend till he lets this go

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend that is very insecure about himself. He was this way before our relationship, but I made it much worse. See, I was not over my first boyfriend when I started dating him. He was my rebound guy. I compared him to my ex and said some extremely hateful things. It ... (230 words)

Husband wants me to get a boyfriend

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27 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - Hi all, I am happily married for over 20 years, with children. My husband is great in bed, he can make me come several times a night and I have no further need for anything else. Problem is, he wants to explore the wilder side of sex, and since I'm not ok with him sleepin... (288 words)

I'm tired of being single and the odd man out!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I want to know why I'm still single, in your opinion. I know there's no real 'right' answer. Okay...here we go! I've been single for about 5 years now. I'm not terribly picky, so I don't really have a 'type' that I go after. I'm a little shy at first, but I'... (339 words)

Married lover wants me back into his life after everything he's put me through!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a married man who never told me that he is a A pastor as well, we were so much in love I got pregnant with his child but then he begged me to Terminate the pregnancy as I was not planning to have a child With him I terminated the pregnancy,after t... (220 words)

Rinky dink relationships but no serious relationships at 23!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 23 years old and I never had a serious relationship before. I've been in rinky dink relationships, but nothing long term. There's not really a reason for it, just bad luck, bad timing and me focusing on other things (Like work and going to college). I've been really ... (406 words)

Twins and affection, advice please

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am an identical twin and sometimes find that it's hard for me to be separate from others. I have cravings to be always close to someone, yet due to society that doesn't happen. Sometimes I feel like I have an high sex drive, but I think really it is just a desire to be close ... (174 words)

Why does she still want to talk when she ended our affair?

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27 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a married woman for about 8 months. I’m single. She decided to stay where she. I do love this gal and have for years before this started. I love talking with her. We have weekend places very close to each other. Before we got done talking she asked if we ... (183 words)

How do I win his trust back?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i have tricky question. i am 23 and my boyfriend is 24. we have been dating for almost 4 months now. we are in a long distance relationship he is in South Africa and i am in London. i really love him so much and he loves and cares about me too. the problem is we made so ... (415 words)

I'm afraid he'll leave me if he sees my stretch marks

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Can guys answer this please espically the younger ones thank you so I'm 17 ,my boyfriend and I have been sexualy active and we have been together for three months about to make four. So we have been doing the same positions for some time now and he wants to do others such a... (131 words)

Erection problems since my injury

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27 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I got shot in a car jacking about 4 months ago and had to have back surgery they put 2 rods in my back to hold my spine together. The dr released me back to work but I've been having major issues getting and keeping an erection. If I do get one it goes away the moment I attemp ... (72 words)

Feeling guilty for cuting off a friend.

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27 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I feel so guilty and awful. Quick story is that my relationship with this girl I know who I have become friends over the past year or so, got to the point where I could not be friends with her anymore. She is a difficult personality. Although physically very attracti... (267 words)

He swore he'd never hurt me but I'm still insecure

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice about my boyfriend? Well, I was pretty much in bad relationships my entire life. When I was 16 until I was 22 I was in a relationshi with a guy who abused me physically and emotionally, he lied and cheated on me, and got me into a financial mess. I did ... (717 words)

Does talking about a relationship a lot help or hurt it?

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27 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi All, This girl I had something of a relationship with and I used to talk about our relationship every so often near the end. Really, she had no interest; it was basically me initiating the conversations. I felt at the time it was helpful to take a step back and talk ab... (187 words)

I need help to stop chasing men!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a problem chasing men. Somehow I find myself being a bit of a doormat, waiting for calls and text messages all day. I have wasted years of my life doing this only to not have been in a real relationship since I was 23. I am 28. The guy I am dating now I pre... (437 words)

I want him back, but don't want to wait around forever

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, my ex broke up with me because he said we had been "arguing too much". Which is kinda true, but when we discussed our relationship the other day, we both agreed that we are both at fault for the arguments, we aren't pinning the blame on one of us. Anyway, I didn't want the ... (538 words)

I want to be sure to please him on our first time

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time very soon, I asked him what is the one thing he wants me to do... He said he doesn't know, but I really want to know so I can please him. Please help (we're both virgins) ... (53 words)

Does attitude really matter?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Does attitude really matter??? Everybody keeps telling me to "be positive". ... (12 words)

Am I ready to get over him, and could he still like me??

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So about 3 weeks ago, I realized that this PAST summer I screwed everything up for me and this guy I like a lot(still). I know its WAY to late to fix anyhing, but ever since I found out I screwed it all up, it seems harder for me to get over him. I think I'm just not quite ... (268 words)

Unfaithfulness on both our parts, Do I stay or go?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been to my husband for 4 1/2 married for 1 1/2 years, we were good friends for four years before we started dating. I have two children from a previous relationship who know him as there father and don't know anything else. During our four years together we have been ... (143 words)

How do I cut ties with my sister?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I will try to keep this brief but it will take a bit of explaining. I am the oldest of five siblings. We are three sisters then the youngest are boy/girl twins, ages up from 23 to 31 (myself) The problem is with myself and the middle sister who is 26. We have had an inten... (989 words)

She's putting my business and size out there!

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27 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - ok well i am a 15 year old boy. i had an ex-girlfriend that i did a lot with. Wasn't much just a hand job a fingering. well she seen my penis. and i am only about 3 inches long. We broke up and now she is putting my business out there. Everyone knows about it and i can't back... (146 words)

Conversation starters and tips?

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27 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, how is everybody doing? I need some help, it's been about a month now dating my online boyfriend. We really want to see each other in person, but it's very hard to do so, when he lives about 3 hours away. And neither of us has a drivers license. And I'm about to go crazy... (174 words)

I hate my boyfriend's friend!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to hate a friend of your boyfriend?? Me and this girl have quarreled 4 years now but she is a friend of my boyfriend and she's telling him bs lies. Am I supposed to be her friend no matter how much i hate her??... (48 words)

Should I give her time or just give up?

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27 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf broke up last night. We r on great terms. No one cheated not a lot of fighting, we just had some differences in our lives and she is confused. She wants me but doesn't know if I'm what she needs anymore because I didn't go to church or support her job or life ... (97 words)

How can I get him to come back to me?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im going to try and tell you our story without making it long. from beginning to end.. in the past six months.. he has left three different girls for me even after i hurt him more than once. he took me back six times after i left him. but the last time he came back, we actually ... (916 words)

He had a girlfriend all along,yet he treated me like I was someone special...

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I met this guy at school about a month ago, December 2010. and he was really nice, he would open the door for me, and offer me a ride back home and he would text me all the time and call me. He was even willing to visit me in Vegas when I went for winter break. The ... (179 words)

A little puzzled regarding an article I read.

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27 January 2011 (F)

age - I'm in a LDR. We talk every week on Skype and get on very well and in September when I was staying close to where he lives (have my mother and other friends there) we went out and about quite a lot during the 6 weeks. I'll be going back in April. We have a lot in common ... (271 words)

I really wanna know where I went wrong so I don't make the same mistakes with others!!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Some background info: I was married now I'm not. I am in my mid 20s. Anyway I went with my girlfriends to Florida and met this great guy. He was genuinely nice (trust me we did analyze him), wanted to know about me as a person and had long conversations etc. On top he was ve... (391 words)

Should I ask him or just wait?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 34. I've been dating him for 5 months. He is the most amazing guy ever. He has 3 children and he loves then he always puts them as he's priority which I like because that's how its supposed to be. last year I was In the hospital and I almost died ... (368 words)

I need to know how I can fix my clinging-on-to-him without ignoring him...

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 11 months now and things were going great until I had Christmas break from college. I stayed with him and his family for a little more then a month. At first it was really fun and it felt like we were adults and we could do anything ... (265 words)

Looking for love, don't know about the rest ...

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27 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all. I have a pressing question but don't know quite how to word it, so I guess I'll just shoot from the hip. I'm still a virgin. I would like to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, but, I don't know about sex. I keep vacillating between wanting it a... (135 words)

Help, I'd like to close this dark chapter in my life!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke off a long term relationship with a man I was seeing for a while (about half a year). He was the first man that helped me bring my guards down and taught me how to love. I invested heavily into this relationship which eventually took a toll into my finances, ... (314 words)

I want to fix our relationship and be a better girlfriend!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok.. I am going to make this short and sweet and I hope there are other people out there that can relate.I am a lesbian and I am completly IN LOVE with my girlfrind. We have been together for going on 2 years now and I cant picture my life w.o her! We have broken up a few ... (405 words)

Wondering is this right where our children are concerned?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently started having really strong feelings about my ex sister in laws ex partner he feels the same way about me.We both have children that are cousins and im wondering is this ok for us to b in a relationship in the future.We are not related of course and wouldn't ... (68 words)

My crush and I had an argument in December, and now he's pulling away!

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid The boy i have the biggest crush on is pushing me away. Cause in december we had an argument. And now in school like eg/ maths we sat next to each other now hes moved to the end of the row, i try to make conversation with him but its really hard cause its all simp... (134 words)

Does my husband have the right to be upset about a one night stand when we were separated?

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27 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused and need some advice. Let me start out by saying I am married, I love my husband and I have no intention on leaving him. Basically my question right now is does my husband have the right to be mad and upset at me for having a one night stand when we were ... (1203 words)