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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm still in high school and she's a mum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old female living in the UK. On New Years Eve I went to a pub with my mates and ended up getting completely and totally hammered. I hooked up with a much older woman, who is 39 years old and has a five year old daughter (she is divorced however.) What's worse is ... (246 words)

He didnt say much after we fooled around, did I do something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I've been dating him for about 7 months. And we've just fooled around. Make-out, cuddle. Little stuff. And I finally got the guts to rub his penis. Over his underwear of course. But he was left breathless, and didn't say much afterwards. Did i make a wrong move? It di... (97 words)

Do I just keep moving forward and hope he will in time trust me with his heart again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a man for a few weeks. He is a great guy and we have been falling for each other. The other night we had sex for the first time. It was amazing and I felt safe and close to him. He had some issues keeping his erection and being able to get off. I chalk it up ... (275 words)

How can I read his moves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me have been dating for about 7 months. And we haven't gone very far. Mostly because i'm scared. And i'm not reading any signals he's sending me. And i'm afraid our relationship is growing weaker. Can you guys help me know the signs, and how to react to them?... (59 words)

Worried about my foreskin......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im not sure what to do and i have been more concerned over time. i am 17 and have noticed that my foreskin is still attached to the end of my penis but only in one little line so it doesn't (move about) like its supposed to. i think is teh best way to say it. im nearing the ... (126 words)

I miss my old life but that had no future either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts and uncles... Where do I begin. Well I'm feeling like I've fucked up my life yet again and I just want to know if I have a future. I'll try keep it short. Left school 15 (family probs) left home 17, dossed around for years, 21 started beauty course was bad at it. ... (533 words)

How long should you wait before sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How long should you wait before you are intimate with someone? I'm 24 and have only slept with one guy in Whig I was in a 6 year relationship with and I am back on the dating scene! I'm wondering how long should you wait I'm not really e permiscious type but it's been a year ... (57 words)

Is make up sex healthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is make up sex healthy? I got into a argument with my girlfriend 2 weeks, ago. Up until earlier on today, she wouldn't speak to me unless I asked her a question like if anyone called or if she needed help with anything. We then made up because I couldn't bare the tension ... (72 words)

I don't like my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend!

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have a problem with my boyfriend ex-girlfriend. we have been together for five years and we are engaged. he has got a child with his ex-girlfriend. i rearly don't like her she has cost so much heart ache, she is useing her daughter to manipulate my boyfriend if he doesn't ... (121 words)

What should I do, move on and forget or keep believing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've had such a difficult life. Ever since my parents got divorced when I was 5, everything has went down hill. My dad cheated on my mom and left her, me and my brother with absolutley nothing. And when I say nothing, I mean... Nothing. He took Everything. My mom had ... (796 words)

Should I stay and live a comfortable life, or move abroad where I might be lonely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I've been having some trouble with my life in the past few months, really big issues, but I just got offered this amazing opportunity which means I don't need to deal with those problems anymore. I've been told I can go to an international school in Hong Kong in Septembe... (190 words)

I feel like our whole relationship is becoming purely physical, should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So my boyfriend and I have been daing for 1 year and a few months now. And i feel like our whole relationship is becoming about being physical! Should i be worried.. or just happy he is into me? he is a sweet guy and i dont want to be mean! ... (51 words)

I fell limp onto the bed and start to gag during anal sex!! Is this normal??!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So last night I was fooling around with a guy and we were doing it doggy style and suddenly (i'm not sure if it was on purpose or an accident) he slipped into my butt. I've never had any sort of anal penetration before, and it surprised me to the point that I fell limp onto the ... (138 words)

Am I to blame for the break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I met this guy last year and instantly we connected. We started off as friends but the more we got to know each other the more our friendship blossomed into a relationship. We wanted the same things out of life, had the same values and morals and seemed to overall be a good ... (252 words)

I think I have fallen for my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It's a familiar teenage girl tale, my best friend and I are incredibly close; we've only known each other a few years but it feels like forever! There's no one else in the world I feel as close to; I can tell her anything and she's the same with me. I've been bi for a while n... (320 words)

Is this cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Is this cheating? I just now found out that while my long time GF and I were going through our turbulent part of our relationship, she was going out partying more and more, we would fight and stop speaking for weeks, and at times for a month or two, we would speak and text each ... (255 words)

I like all 3 guys but I don't know which one I like the most!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, okay so im in the middle of 3 guys. im not promiscuous or anything, ive just been hurt really bad in the past and im trying to figure out who i really like,and i havnt had sex with any of them either. so here are their personalitys 1st guy sweet,funny but very sen... (304 words)

We are expecting twins but still have not moved in together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3yrs now, I sleep at his house everyday but I still have my stuff at my house and pay rent there.He's told me before plenty of times how come I don't move in and I told him he keeps telling me that but yet he doesnt make any room for my ... (308 words)

Should I accept this 'break' and see what happens, or just end it now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm the girl that was writing about the bf's friend sending him a porn link and some cheating related issues. Well finally, I guess it's no surprise to many but my bf has said that he wants a break. It seems as if this is coming out of nowhere because his acti... (264 words)

Will he change if I just give him some time and space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I'm 21 and 16 weeks pregnant, i told the father when we were not together but still sleeping together and still saying i love you. he does won't the baby and as far as i go he says that my two kids don't respect him and that he has never seen me mad. so you got me. well we ... (368 words)

Is this all he can offer or should I push him for more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Sorry if this long or not a specific question but I just need some advice on what to do and how to handle the situation I'm in.... Met a guy 8 mths ago and fell head over heels and it got intense very quickly. He admitted he had commitment issues and was also still trying t... (298 words)

Should I take my ex back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for six years and since we have broken up I have dealt with it and decide to move on. I have seen how some guys can be so nice and I am attracted to it. one problem though my ex keeps texting me saying he wants to keep in touch and ... (152 words)

I'm worried I wont make her happy when we do eventually have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while, and I really love her, and we both want to get married, and her being a virgin is really important to me, she says she's a virgin and a lot of me beleives her because she's the most innocent and sweet person I know, ... (137 words)

Boy problems getting out of hand......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Moved to another country and a close friends best friend said i should contact her boyfriend so he can show me around and also so i wont be lonely as my boyfriend is in another country... my boyfriend recently had sex with another chick and the girl contacted me online and told ... (372 words)

She wont stop being friends with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So theres this guy I was in love with for like 3 years we were never together but now we kind of went our seperate ways and i have a bf now. The problem is is im still not exactly over him and i still thinkg about him a lotttt. well, my best friend is friends with him and he ... (261 words)

Pregnant and on the verge of breaking up with the father

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I have a big problem right now I'm 15 turninq 16 on march my boyfriend is 20 turninq 21 on april... we have a major problem...I got pregnant on the wronq time.. we been on the edge for a moth already... nd we qot to breakinq up... he said he loved me but that not as ... (129 words)

Threesome gone terribly wrong...my husband is in love with her, my life is a mess and I'm pregnant with our 4th child!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like I'm at my wits end. I am so conflicted about what I should do that I am in a constant state of depression where it's almost debilitating. It all started about a year and a half ago. My husband and I have been married for 15 years and we decided that we needed to ... (1655 words)

Tell me about a time you used humour to defuse an embarrassing situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age - I just wonder how many aunts and uncles on Dear Cupid have, at some time or another said something to another person - friend, family member, significant other - that you THOUGHT would please them, BUT went over like a lead balloon?! In other words, the person was offended. ... (290 words)

Am I being a prude by not wanting him to go to this out of town, weekend-long bachelor party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I feel I am in a bit of a pickle lately having to do with both my friends bachelorette party and the potential bachelor party my boyfriend has mentioned. Im 22 and my boyfriend and I have been together over 4 years. We are not the type of people that go out to bars sepa... (529 words)

I am gay and want to kiss my best female friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Greetings, I am a 20 years old virgin guy. All my life I considered myself Gay because I was only attracted to boys and not girls! Recently I find myself in need to kiss my best friend, who is a Woman!!!! I do not know why I want that so badly, I even fantasize our life... (173 words)

Expensive love!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, i would like to ask, is right to spend alot of money in a relationship to impress your girlfriend.... (21 words)

All I want is the help I'm entitled to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Here the deal, My husband and I have been separated for over a year we decided to make things work. So we have talked about moving in together. The point is nothing has change. he promised he has. he has job security issues. He gets really depressed if he is not working or ... (312 words)

Should I make one last attempt to get things right between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Everyone. Sorry this is so long, but if you would take the time to read it and offer me your advice I would greatly appreciate it. I'd like to disclose from using real names so ill just call myself RJ and the love interest will be JF. I suppose I should start from the b... (968 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend 3 times :(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been seeing this boy for about a month and a half and on new years eve he decided to ask me out over the phone because we couldn't be together, I was so happy because I've been messed around so much but he really is the most amazing boy who makes me so happy! I'm 15 and I ... (142 words)

Why do women so often go back to their abusers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Why are some women so stupid? Not trying to be sexist, trust me, this is why I said SOME women. Let me define, specifically women that will remain trapped in an abusive relationship, not only once, but then walk right back into it thinking it's be better this time around... (439 words)

I'm always asking myself what would've been if I'd never left home for him..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I'd love some advice on a problem that's been plagueing me. About 12 years ago I met my husband on a holiday in Italy. We fell in love, married and now have two small children. Although it was a hard decision to make at the time I decided to leave my country, ... (512 words)

She said she was interested, then wanted to be "friends"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I 'met' a girl in my school a few months ago, though she'd always been there, it's only since a few months that i 'noticed' her. When i started hanging around with her, I asked myself 'do i like her as a friend or am i atracted to her?' many times. Turns out that that I really ... (225 words)

Do all guys change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been together with my boyfriend for 1 and 1/2 years. We used to meet almost every day during the first 3 months and the days started to lessen. Until now, we only meet up around once a week if time allows or probably once in 1.5 weeks. He is busy with school and work at ... (272 words)

I have a disfiguring condition. Will he stay with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so confused... Iv been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, and he was my first love, i was his. It feels so right and we both are very much in love. We started dating from when we were at school, i was always quite shy and he was loud..and were known to be the 'hottest ... (690 words)

We've been dating 10 months and she still doesn't know my number by heart?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4+ months and I came to realize that she doesn't know my number by heart. No big deal is what I initially thought but then I found out that she still know's her ex's number by heart (they dated for 2 years but have been broken up ... (89 words)

I'm worried about my ex's partying ways.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - The love of my life (6 years) broke up with me a month ago. Apparently she had been cheating on me with one of her friends, and decided to be with the friend. She had also started ignoring me and cancelling our dates to go to wild parties and bars with her friends. We're ... (558 words)

I ended it with a text message!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, wow this is going to be a long story, today I broke up with my ex, my reasons? well I am a very loving, thoughtful, kind, caring person to be with, my faults? I am clingy and needy, I was with my ex from October 2009 till today, we had a couple of breaks due to my ... (418 words)

I kissed my friend's uncle! Was it the alcohol or a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - It was new years eve and my best friends hot uncle was flirting with me and we exchanged numbers and a kiss. hes 8 years older than me but im not sure if its the drink that made us act the way we do or we do actually like each other, help!... (52 words)

Why is my colleague being so overprotective?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I think a guy where I work likes me but I'm not sure. He treats me differently from everyone else (he's not my boss) in that he seems very protective of me in the workplace and is always stressing that if I have problems with certain people at work to let him know, namely ... (227 words)

I have no idea who he really is!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for almost 2 months. Everything has been great, we hit it off, have fun, laugh and we usually see one another 3-4 times a week and I will sleep over. Well suddenly after xmas he seems different. Telling me he has been busy and he cant see me ... (341 words)

My dreams are taking their toll on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Let me start by giving you a bit of information on my current situation. My ex and i were together (on and off) for 3 and a half years. In June '10 we broke up and a day or 2 after, he got with another girl. Of course i was heartbroken, but after a couple of weeks he was ... (413 words)

She broke up with me to fix herself, however long that may take.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so my story begins when i met my ex gf 2 years ago, i was with her for 2 years in a LDR and few months ago she said that she can't handle a gd relationship for now, and needed us to take a break and pause our relationship untill she fixes her life problems, like an addiction to ... (492 words)

I want to tell his girlfriend he's a cheater!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've known this guy for 2 years. We met through mutual friends. We used to triple date alot, and it was really fun. He and his gf were very cute together. They still are. I forget their history now, but i know they've been together a while. He seems like a really nice guy, ... (156 words)

How do I let her know I still love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I saw myself being together with this girl forever; I even thought about marriage. However, she broke up with me a few days ago... and I still love her and want her more than anything. I think she really is the perfect one for me and I am desperately wishing that she will come ... (120 words)

What has gotten into my wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, Not sure what has gotten into my wife, have had a strange New Year thus far. Anyhow, leading up to the New Year she is making her resolution list and out of the blue comes up with an idea and leaves the room to write her thought down, meanwhile saying "You'll like thi... (422 words)

What else can or should I do to help my sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone Well ive decided to write to you to see if i can get a few answers/pointers on how to be off any help to my little sis. You see she has been diagnosed with cancer six months ago. Shes been trough chemo and radiation and taking pills. She been better fo... (367 words)

How to comfort a friend when you don't have the words?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A good friend of mine is going through a hard time and I want to comfort him and make him feel better, however when ever someone tells me their problem I never know what to say to them. I sort of blank out, and stay silent because I have no idea what to say... Im always afraid ... (85 words)

He's a nice guy, but there's no chemistry. Am I allowed to be picky at my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 50 years old and I met a very nice man online dating. We went on two dates and he's done everything right. He is nice, has a good career and great kids. But there is no spark. It's so frustrating. He's asked me to go on a day trip this weekend but I just can't decide ... (142 words)

Any good ideas on how to keep yourself occupied so you don't think about your ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The person I fell in love with broke up with me a couple days ago and I've never gone thru such pain of missing somebody. I would love to get back with her but I know that it'll cause only more pain and stress... so how do I keep myself occupied and get over this break up a ... (60 words)

Moved in together 6 months ago, now he's distant and neglects me. Red flags?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I moved in together about six months ago. I got accepted to Teacher's College in a different city and asked him if he wanted to come with me. His job in our original city is very flexible and his boos told him he can come back to when everything is done. So ... (337 words)

Should I believe his phone is still broken and he has no other way of contacting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i go on a holiday each year, were each year you see the same people each year and become close for the week there. This year I found myself by the last night getting close to one guy, he spent a lot of time over me and made it very romantic- going down to the beach and looking ... (218 words)

Wondering if I should keep texting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so theirs this guy and i met him at my friend's homecoming at her school and we go to different schools. when i first saw him i told Her"wow isnt he hot". well then he asked me to dance and ect so i got his number. ive hung out with him at the mall a couple times but i dont ... (151 words)

Unrequited love, what am I supposed to do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I 'met' a year in my school a few months ago, though she'd always been there, it's only since a few months that i 'noticed' her. When i started hanging around with her, I asked myself 'do i like her as a friend or am i atracted to her?' many times. Turns out that that I really ... (140 words)

Looking for some relationship help while on a break from my girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She has always told me that she wouldnt cheating and would never leave me it sounds stupid but i after some time i started to believe her. now later down the road she tells me that 6 months ago she cheated on me with some guy she only saw 3 times before it happened she kissed ... (539 words)

Husband expects me to go down at him at all times when he wants it. If I say no he gets agressive. Should a wife treat sexual favours as a part of the job?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been with my husband for almost 7 years, married for about 3 and we have a 3 year old son. Our relationship has never been super wonderful but I’m still here and I am happy some times. My issue right now is sex. As a wife am I supposed to be ready and willing at ... (890 words)

I know he is the one I want, he knows me the best, but while we were together we were horrible towards one another.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im confused about matters of the heart. First, ive been with this guy for what would be 2 yrs on the 14th. We broke up. Its been a long time coming but it still hurts to let go. We've both been horrible to each other within these 2 yrs; evrything from cheating to physical ... (212 words)

My fiancee wont let me leave the home unless I have a baby sitter! ! Should I cancel the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, here's the thing. My fiancee and I have been together on and off for 4 years. we have a 1 year old and I have a 6 year old. My fiancee has a problem with parenting. He wants to be dad when its convenient for him. dont get me wrong, he is a good dad to our daughter. He likes ... (152 words)

He cheated on me, but then tells me he loves me! Is it even possible to move past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice on how to trust my boyfriend again, and how to move on and forgive him. We have been together for a year now, and moved in together six months ago. I've always been insecure for some reason, and am guilty of going through his phone/email behind his back. A ... (680 words)

I love her but don't want to be one of her sex slaves

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, In short I know a girl who I care for and think I love, the problem is she is beautiful and younger and does not want to settle for any one man. She has a string of open relationships where she is sexually intimate with a few people. She would be willing to add m... (173 words)

He wants to keep things casual and now I'm pregnant!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a hormonal emotional wreck. The man I hv been with for many years just informed me he wants to keep things the way they are at the moment. We live in separate homes . The twist in this I am 3 months pregnant . He wants things to remain causal with him coming and going as... (145 words)

Does my FWB want more with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past 4 months I have had this fwb..it was never defined as such. I met him online and we started hanging out and we see each other and have sex and hang out between 1-5 times a month. He texts me everyday lately i don't know if he likes me more than that tho. Signs i ... (263 words)

My husband turned gay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've been in a marriage 25 yrs I found out that for 15 years of the marriage he has been sleeping with men, mainly older men but told me he stopped Doing it 5 years ago but I dont know whether To belive him we are now separated but I'm having Trouble figuring out how he ... (81 words)

What should I think about his many, many pet names for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend rarely calls me by name...he has many, many nicknames for me. One day, he saw me with hair beyond poofy and he grins, and calls me a little llama :p Stuff like that...he only says my real name when in public...still rare. Why? I also have to ask: is he "attached" ... (140 words)

What do you think of this as a Valentine's Day gift idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Valentines Idea Basically I really want to do something special for my crush. I know its elaborate but I wanted to do something different. I wondered what you girls (And guys) thought of it and how it'd make you feel. I was thinking of the usual, roses to the door, few on her... (171 words)

I have fear of dancing in public! Help!

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hm, where to begin? Not quite sure if this falls under relationships, possibly more for dating, and it's not completely a question either, but anyway... The problem I have has been with me since my first days at nursery school (I'm now in my late 20s). I am completely terrified ... (592 words)

How can I trust she is not cheating on me with her soon-to-be-ex-husband?

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3 January 2011 (M) age 36-40 - i'm in a long relation ship with a girl and we fell in love with each other. she is married and has a kid but getting divorced now that we're in love (her marrige was not working and her husband cheated on her many times). knowing that her husband still comes over to see his ... (73 words)

Why am I not comfortable (and I mean AT ALL) with being vulnerable to someone?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I don't think I'm weird for this, but I just wonder why I act in the way where, I shut everybody out? When it comes to friends- I joke with everyone, and I have a lot of them, and I have a few I can even say are my best friends. And I tell them everything that'... (253 words)

We've been talking about moving in together, I'm confused now!

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Im very confused hear and is actually driving me mad (And have read on hear before with some girl having trouble with a guy of of pof) Ive been speaking to this guy on pof for about 4 months now we speak on the phone mainly every day if not speak txt, But one think... (262 words)

I'm married but my 1st love has come back into my life, and I don't know what to do

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3 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - My life has recently been turned upside down and I'm not sure what to do. I made the mistake of sending the love of my life a message on facebook that I thought was completely innocent. His profile said he was in a relationship and I was just curious to find out how he was ... (235 words)

Made a mistake and kissed him. I want to keep him as a friend despite the attraction and complications

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Help. I have a long term boyfriend of seven years who I love dearly. We have plans to marry in the next two years. I have a very close family friend. Someone I grew up with. I have always loved him. We both know that we are attracted to each other at one time we kissed... (326 words)

Is he trying to get laid or does he just need to polish his dating technique?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known this guy for about 3 months, we started dating about 3 weeks ago. We've been on 4 dates, we've gotten together for lunches and chats during the day about 5 times also. He didn't even hug me until the 3rd date, and on the 4th date he kissed me on the cheek. ... (296 words)

Why am I alone?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old i have a 1 year old daughter and have been single for a while ..im pretty but i feel like guys dont want me anymore :( so it makes me think of my ex he was abusive and im not getting back with him bt crosses through my mind is it because i have noone else?? ... (64 words)

The relationship ended 6 months ago and I still cant get closure

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some help. I can get any closure on my relationship that ended over 6 months ago. I feel very angry and frustrated, quite often to the point of tears. I still love my ex and ache for her everyday but her infidelities and avoidance of any attempt to discuss the situ... (118 words)

We are broken up but my ex allows me to sleep with her and hold her

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi... I need some opinions and help. I've broken up wif my gf already. It's something not easy to do. So, I called her up at 3am in the morning after not contacting her for about 3 days. Asked for her to open her door for me. She did, asked me what I was looking for her for, ... (105 words)

Two timing me with my bestfriend and not telling me

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was getting involved with a man, who I had met one night, later down the track we both had feelings for each other and both knew about it. Seeing he had lost his license, I was making the effort in seeing him and making the time to be there when I was busy. When me... (465 words)

I'm feeling like second string, he's engaged but talking to me

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy i love and been with for abt a year, recently got engaged to his far related cousin because of his family. He tells me that thrs nth he can do abt it. When i got to know abt it, we decided to be friends at first(i really got hurt). But then later on, he started to flirt ... (161 words)

Virgin woman married to a man with erectile dysfunction

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 35 year-old virgin. My 40 year-old husband has an erectile dysfunction which is preventing us from consummating our marriage. We've been married since one year, and are together since 4 years. We love each other, and are able to enjoy intimacy in every way but ... (123 words)

Should I stay with my husband and cheat again? or leave him?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 14 years, my husband is a very caring, loving and great bloke - we unfortunately cannot have children but have spoken about this at length and have decided that we can have a fullfilling and wonderful life just the two of us - we both have neices and ... (144 words)

I'm pregnant and boyfriend hit me

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3 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I need some advice badly. So my boyfriend and I got into an argument. It was really bad, we were yelling and stuff, it was bad. Then he hit(punched) me in the face. I slapped his face and then he shoved me into the wall. Then he left and went somewhere. He came back after ... (125 words)

Why does my ex contact me and then ignore me?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age - I was seeing my ex boyfriend for nine months when I ended it - during that time he told me he loved me and wanted us to go on holiday together this year but also twice he stopped speaking to me for an overall period of four weeks and I never knew why. Then we had a perfect few ... (148 words)

I date a guy and then 3-4 years later I don't love them anymore

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm almost 28...divorced...2 baby daddy's...what's my problem? I date a guy and "think" I'm in love...then wake up 3-4 yrs later and don't love them anymore? Why can't I commit? Why can't I love someone for the rest of my life? I've always been like this...even with ... (109 words)

Is dating my non-blood related third cousin okay? And how to handle being nervous around girls?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - recently for new yrs i had a party at a relatives house. i was chilling w/ my friend and i told him to flirt w/ this gorgeous girl i saw. he does. he says its my turn because he was unsuccesfull. i said no cuz shes my 3rd cuz`. later me and her are talking at dinner and i found ... (211 words)

What are the after effects of cheating ?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know what are the after effects of cheating on someone? is it make 'permanent' damages for your current relationships? can people have the same desires for each other again after cheating? or is there any kind of despises,anger or lack of interests you have to fa... (57 words)

It is wrong that it disturbs me that my guy gets massages?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, This might come in as a weird question, but I'd appreciate any advice I can get. I'm 39 and have a wonderful guy I'm going to be married to and well, should I have reason to be wary about my guy going to spas to get a massage from any female masseuse? My mother and a ... (341 words)

Second time sex hurt even worse that first time sex! What will happen on my third try?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i'm 17 and sex for the first time about 2 months ago. kind of towards the end of november beginning of december and it hurt like hell. Tonight i had sex again with the same guy, it was my 2nd time and it hurt WAYYYYYY worse than my first time. Is this normal? and will my ... (66 words)

Husband puts his parents first... please help!

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I really hope somebody can help me. My marriage is in trouble and I have no one to talk to. I have been married for almost four years, but together with my husband for 10 years. We have a six month old daughter. The problem is that I've always felt that he puts his... (1043 words)

Should I be worried about her crush on another girl?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend says she has a crush on another girl is this okay? or should i be worried?... (18 words)

How do I get over her losing her virginity while we were broken up?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've had a relationship with this girl for over a year. We took a break and got back together. I found out when we weren't dating she slept with someone and she was a virgin when we broke up. I'm hurt and it's been months now and I can't get over it still. As of now we are ... (104 words)

Why does he not want kids with me? He has a 5 year old daughter already!

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. He is 24 and i am 19. He has a 5 year old daughter in which i have learned to love. I used to be jealous of their relationship but im learning not to be. His ex girlfriend is not in the picture besides when its about ... (273 words)

Why do guys run when you mention "baby"?

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3 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - i going to be giving birth in the next month and the father who i was dating for, for 6 years did a legger as soon as i told him he has a new gf now anyways i have to do it all on my own to be honest i don't think i'm ready to be a mam or to do it alone so i was considering ... (201 words)

Why is oral sex frowned upon?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi(: Okay this is going to sound really awkward but I just want to know. Why do some people have such a strong opposition towards oral sex? I know this girl who told me (in her exact words by the way) "You're nothing but a slut, you sucked him up and he ate you out, you'r... (162 words)

Help! Anxiety and depression are ruining my life and relationship! What to do?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! Thank you for taking the time to read the following. I know it's long, but I've come across posts by others where they've been asked for more details, so here goes... In the last, I don't know, month or so, I've been feeling like old anxiety and depression issues ha... (1288 words)

Are we moving too quickly?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months now and I know for a fact that we are perfect for each other. We understand eachother because of the tough ish that him and I have gone through before meeting each other. I have never ever felt this way about someone ... (208 words)

What is my mom trying to tell me about lesbianism?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Today my mom and I were driving home from a church activity. There was a girl there who is openly gay. I don't remember the full context of the conversation we were having in the car, but the part I remember is my mom saying something to the effect, "I think all girls have ... (282 words)

Is a girlfriend really worth fighting for?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A question for both girls and guys. Is a girlfriend really worth fighting for? i dont mean like you meet a girl and you try to make yourself better than the other guys shes with, but i mean if both you and the other guy have been with her and you both want her the same and she ... (336 words)

I'm afraid he would force me to do something I don't want to if I go do other things with him.

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - theres this guy who really likes me but he only wants to have sex with me like sometimes i want to then other times i feel kind of dirty talking to him because he will talk about all the stuff he wants to do with me. he is three years older then me and isnt in high school ... (111 words)

Is the porn industry corrupting me?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My new years resolution would be not to masturbate while dating. Though since im not I do everyday after school ( Finished all my homework etc.) will it be hard to stop. the reason(s) are below 2. I heard that an over consumsion of Pornagraphy may lead to Reduced Sexuall ... (126 words)

Things went bad a long time ago, so why do I still keep talking to him?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up about four months ago. We were together two and half years, a good year and a half was spent together while he was incarcerated. I waited for him but, after a year I fell out of love with him and cheated on him. But, I still stayed with him. He came ... (194 words)

Hickey on my boyfriend's hip?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i found a hickey looking mark on my boyfriend's hip. He said he hit it back i just dont know. what do i do?... (26 words)

I’m seeing a married woman should I give her more time or should I leave?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I’m seeing a married woman should I give her more time or should I leave? I have known this gal for about 5-6 years she is married I’m not. I have had feelings for her since then, the past several years I have been in love with her. She is ten years older than me so say 40-5... (451 words)

How do I get the strength to tell my wife that my heart belongs to someone else?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - About a year back I met the person who I really enjoyed spending time with. We started off as friends. We spend more and more time together. My feelings for her went from friends to falling for her completely. I am still married. We tried walking away from each other and stil... (232 words)

Is my boyfriend just being disrespecful and a prick?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, So i have been dating this guy for 4 months. At frist he was really sweet. However, lately he has been very sexual. He always asking me to send him dirty pictures, make a sex video, and do naughty things. Also, for x-mas all he wanted was a lap dance and a stri... (154 words)

I'm so sexually frustrated that its driving me crazy!

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm so sexually frustrated that it's driving me crazy. I'm in my mid 20's, never had a girlfriend, and never really dated anyone for that matter. I'm not waiting for marriage, but I would like to it to be with someone I have feelings for. I just have no luck when it comes to ... (115 words)

I want my ex to realize he needs me back!

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm here to just get advice on how to get my ex back... I think I'm making pretty good moves so far lol but sorry this is so long! We broke up three weeks ago after nine months... he made a lot of excuses on why we broke up like he didn't have 'those' feelings for me ... (531 words)

I want to see what might lie ahead with her but I'm so afraid of losing her if I ask her out!

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I had just gotten out of a strong but unstable relationship a few months before all of this happened. I had gone off to college to (get an education) get away from my parents and hopefully find out something about myself. It was about a year after my ex and I had split when I ... (579 words)

Boyfriend treated me really badly at times but now that we are broken up I feel really sad

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years, im 26 years old, he's 35. We met at the restaurant he worked since he's a chef, and at the time I worked part time there since I was still a law school student. Along the way in our relationship he's shown st... (460 words)

Why does everyone have to say "Keep your legs closed" since I'm a virgin?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so im a virgin. When I first meet people, sadly, that's one of the first things they ask me. I usedto be honest and tell them I was a virgin, but its like once I tell them, their impression of me changes. Either they'll be like, "Your scared?", "Why not?" or, "Good, keep ... (368 words)

Strange sexual experience, is it because of the pill?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. Sexually active for about 4 months. We were both virgins and very inexperienced so were just experimenting. Things have been good so far. Tonight we were rather cosy in bed watching a film, we'd had a take away ... (194 words)

My best friend has no time for me!

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this friend who I thought was my best friend but lately, she has been "busy" ive asked to hang out with her 7 times in the past 4 months. She even promised me we would hang out over vaction and we didnt! She still texts me and stuff but im hurt inside deeply I dont know ... (61 words)

I'm pansexual and want to come out to my Christian boyfriend and best friend..

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - :] I have just recently realized that I am pansexual (gender doesn't matter) and I don't know how to come out to my boyfriend and best friend. My boyfriend is a devout Christian and doesn't tolerate homosexuality what so ever and my best friend is really pure (giggles when peo... (127 words)

How can I find the willpower to fight my addictions?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How can someone find more willpower? I have a couple of addictions that are killing me and I can't stop on my own. Where I live is rural, theres no AA or anything like that and I cant afford going to rehab. The only thing I can think of is getting into bad trouble so I can ... (243 words)

Why does my ex keep me in her life if she doesn't want me back?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I am a lesbian and have not been able to get over my first girlfriend that broke up with me two years ago. After we broke up, she would get girlfriends but she always kept calling me and keeping contact. She even knew how hard the break up was on me but she wanted to be ... (332 words)

I get attached too easily!

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I like someone a lot but I notice that I think about him too much. I notice that when I like someone I get attached easily and it is hard for me to keep my options open. I am young and I want to be able to stay single to stay focused on my career goals but still be able to talk ... (73 words)

Questions on sex and frequency of masturbation

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, i have a few questions and need some general help as i dont really have anyone to ask for help with these questions. When your with your girlfriend and you get aroused and hard...does your hardness stay till you edjaculate or cum? Or does your erection fluctuate? My p... (307 words)

How can I rip him out of my heart and my mind?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with this guy who has showed me he doesn't love me back or at least the same way I do. He is self centered, bad tempered, some what paranoid, liar, drinks and smokes cigars that I don't like. After all this I should say to myself, why the heck I love him, but Is... (130 words)

She called it quits but is stalking n playing mind games on me since.

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Looking for advice about how to work with my exgirl. She called it quits against my wishes but I've survived and am out.but she's been up to no good since we went separate ways. She been playing nonstop mind games and stalking me. She has no idea I know its her. I've been ... (113 words)

Is he only using me for sex?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okk this is kinda a hard topic for me to talk about and iv asked al my friends and they have all said to just leave him.. but i realy like this guy but the problem is, is that im only just turned 17 and hes nearly 20 and asian so his family dont no what he gets up to. but even... (242 words)

If guys don't approach you or notice you, are you unattractive?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21, never dated. But I've been wondering if the reason why guys rarely approach me is because I'm not attractive. Or reject me all the time because I'm not good looking. I've been rejected a total of 23 times. Its gotten to the point I've stopped looking. I've had maybe... (99 words)

If she means nothing to him then why all the secrets?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! Im in a relationship with a man who has been engaged and he has a child. The engagement ended about a year ago (which is a short amount of time to start dating again) but when we met it was perfect.He opened up to me and i've never let him down. I've never met anyone that ... (203 words)

want my girlfriend to care about me more?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I've talked to my friends about my girlfriend and tell them it seems like she doesn't care about me but she still wants to be with me and she tells me she does care about me but I'm just thinking she's saying that.. its been 2 months with her and nothings change more or less, ... (216 words)

Does it matter who texts first?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Who texts who first, the girl to guy or guy to girl? Is it always the guy to text the girl first? What if a girl texts you first? does that mean she thinks about you? and If you text her back first and she takes at least 10-15 minutes and after she replies texts you every ot... (79 words)

I want to spyware on his phone!

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi,ive been having problems with my boyfriend and he wont talk to me and he texts me really late or sometimes dosent call me at all does someone know were i can download free spyware to put on his phone i think hes cheating on me hes been aking really diffrent and dosent treat ... (70 words)

What to say or do to a woman who walked away but now is back?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My friend and the first love of my life walked away three months ago. She said she needed time and space to sort out her life (she's a single mom). I understood that but in my last email, I told her how much she meant to me and hoped she'd still stay in touch (long distance ... (328 words)

Everyone tells me my neighbor is in love with me and I'm the only one not realising it. But I already have a BF

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old female confused because I been recently close with my neighbor who was engaged but broke up with his girlfriend about month ago. I been here for him during this whole break up but everyone tells me that he's in love me and that I am the only one who doesn't ... (231 words)

Why can I help everyone else find love but not for myself?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single parent of two kids and I dont have nobody in my life its just me and the kids. I want to know why I can help everybody else find love but not myself?... (37 words)

Should I risk my chance and tell her how I feel?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, there's a girl I've known for a good few months, nearly a year, I am quite sure I am in love with her, she seems to me like she is the one, I love everything about her. Although I am not with her, she has a boyfriend, complications included, he and I are quite good ... (129 words)

I think a LDR will ruin our relationship but my fiance wants to chase good money in australia.

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dealing with this exhausting situation? My heart is being ripped apart. I've lost my job and my fiancee is trying to push me to go back home to establish a good career 6 months before she emigrates to Australia. I don't want us to be apart. It is so damned difficult. She has ... (573 words)

Is he leading me on? Does he just want a friend with benefits? I'm confused

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I met this guy a couple years ago and we were friends with benefits for a short while. Then in the begining of 09 he moved out of state but we started talking again right before he moved. We really liked each other but lost touch again soon after we started talking. So I ... (309 words)

Should leave? My husband is still not happy, even though I've done all he asked of me

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for 12 years, married for about 2. We met when we were teens, and I admit for the past several several years I have had some intimacy issues...I have had an extremely difficult time opening up sexually and initiating. Though when we met he h... (349 words)

My ex said he doesn't care about me and never will. I'm crying my eyes out

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my ex officially cut me off for the same reason below... what do i do now? he told me he doesn't care about me and he never will... And if i have a miscarriage he really wouldn't care.. i'm crying my eyes out because i didn't believe that this is the boy who i love very much. ... (98 words)

He says our relationship 'isn't worth it' to make the changes I think it needs. What can I do?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been having been together for almost 2 years now, but it looks like our relationship is coming to a close. I feel I definitely have a lot of things to work through that I can't focus on when I'm focusing on the peaks and dips of our relationship and I ... (237 words)

How can you spot a player?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I took things slowly with my ex, went on dates, met his friends and family, didn't sleep with him until at least a couple of months. Yet I still got played. Still got cheated on and dumped by text. So how can you tell?... (44 words)

Is it wrong to feel this way? I'm falling in love with coach

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had the same basketball coach for three years, and I have fallen head over heels for him. He is all that I think about and I dream about him every night. He always talks and jokes with me and brushs up against me. If I walk past him when he wants to talk to me he will ... (240 words)

My older brother said I can, but should I go for it?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 14 year old male and am still a virgin. My older brother is 17 and has been sleeping with a couple girls since he was 13 and said I could sleep with them if I wanted. I have never seen her but I know she's hot. Should I go for it even though she's slept and still sleeps ... (70 words)

He says I'd make a good wife. Does that mean he's thinking of our future?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I been with my boyfriend for 8 mos and with in 8 mos we have been throw alot of bull.. like babyma and babyda and car jackin lost of jobs.. but we still together and happy as ever. I have said something about me getting marriend and kids we don't have none together I got one ... (132 words)

I have a girl friend but I want to kiss my male friend. Am I gay or confused?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I dunno if I'm gay or not, I have had a girlfriend now for two years but have recently started to find guys attractive and I want to kiss my best mate. I'm so confused, help... (37 words)

Can and should a relationship continue once violence has started?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night my boyfriend and I got really drunk at my place to try and re-celebrate our new years. We were both running off 5 hours of sleep that night and I was very moody due to the time of the month. He also has bipolar disorder and has frequent hour long rages. We got in a ... (658 words)

He fell out of love, could he ever just magically love me again?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 24 and married. he is also 24. our relationship for the past 5 yrs has been very rocky. when we first started dating i was very in love first real love, etc etc... he told me beautiful things i thought id never hear, we were close and intimate in ways i never thought ... (1010 words)

I am in love with two guys but don't know how to resolve the situation

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my dilemma is, I think I'm in love with two people. I was going out with a a guy for two years and we were going through a really rough patch, but i was still really in love with him, but he dumped me. I was so hurt I didn't talk to him again, even though I really want... (212 words)

Will any guy find me attractive despite my physical imperfections?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old. I am not pretty, in fact, I think that I am really ugly. I have a lot of insecurities with the way I look. First, I have a lot of blemishes. But the one that really concerns me is this: I have stretch marks on my shoulders. I got them because of fluctuating ... (184 words)

How to react to homophobic friend?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey! I finally admitted to myself I was gay and I've been dating secretly a guy for the past month... Recently, I've heard my best guy friend saying homophobic things! He doesn't know I'm gay but I was so uncomfortable at that time. I don't how to react to this...... (59 words)

Any feedback from users of the implant?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 16 year old girl, who is a virgin and plans to remain so for a while, however I am one of those people who live by the mantra "better safe than sorry" and I am currently debating wheather or not to get the contraceptive implant and would like some feedback: Is any on... (70 words)

Does this make me a terrible girlfriend?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a "musician", or so he tries. I personally can't stand listening to him sing. I just don't have the heart to tell him that. Instead I suffer in silence. We haven't even been dating a year yet, and the noise is beginning to get under my skin. I really can't see ... (118 words)

Am I too sensitive to my mother's needs and too hard on my husband?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 10 years. My 83 year old mom moved in with us about 6 months ago. My husband hates my mom. He only bids her the time of day and doesn't say anything else to her. This is very uncomfortable for me and my mom as it creates a horrible ... (270 words)

Should I tell a similar cousin about my orentation??

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There where times were i was battling about what is my sexual orentation but now i think im bi and im starting to feel good about that because i have a cousin the same way we are both masculine and you cant tell what we like the thing is, is that he is not a cousin i talk to i ... (242 words)

I feel like I'm thick and worthless. Am I normal?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, just wondered if anyone could help me, i dont feel normal. I feel thick. Im 19 at uni, creeping my way through a degree that can get me into a good job, if only i had the confidence. I've always struggled throughout school, college and everything, I've been lu... (977 words)

Not sure if I'm satisfying her?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've only had sex with one girl and that's currently my wife, but she has other partners before me whom she had sexual intercourse with. I'm only curious to know if the whole penis size ordeal actually came from the porn industry or if its really the women preference to like ... (108 words)

What's the longest you've been out of contact with your s/o?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend left the country for a week for school reasons and I will not be able to talk to her at all for until she is back. I didn't think I would miss her this much, she left last night so I miss her like crazy right now. How can I get this week to go faster?!! What's the ... (69 words)

I feel like a horn dog when I think about my boyfriend!

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3 January 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Im 15 and in an LDR, 2 year age difference. We've spoken of sex, of course and if we see each other it certainly wont happen asap. But thats beside the point. To us sex isnt sex we literally think of it as part of Love. And i cant help it but when i think about him and k... (152 words)

The ugly duckling

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - this is kind of stuiped but my bestfriend is ugly and kids call her the ugly duckling but really i think she pretty but other kids dont see it. how do i make her more pretty like i just want them to see what see. And people ask me why is it that im so pretty hanging out with ... (87 words)

My husband makes me feel invisible

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my 2nd husband for 7 years. He is a good guy and loves my daughter (from 1st marriage) as his own child - even calls her his daughter and she calls him Dad. For all of his good qualities (he's faithful, no drinking/drugs, has a job, etc.) the couple ... (390 words)

Struggling with whether or not to leave my wife

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 40 and married to a 53 year old woman. I love her. She has since the beginning of our marriage... roughly seven years ago... never really accepted my love for her...held herself back from me... been distant... and this last year i became involved in an affair with a ... (130 words)

Son's medical condition goes untreated by his father and father's family

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mum no bf with a young son who is ADHD and autistic, and I have full custody and am not involved at all with his dad. My son's dad and his family are really p***ing me off :(. This New Yr I want to change things and think I need to do/say something (when I am ... (923 words)

Is this problem age-related?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age - when haveing sex with wife i cant cum sometime. i am 54 does this happen with age... (18 words)

34 and never had a proper relationship

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Help!! I am 34 years old, black, professional, college educated woman, and I never had a boyfriend! I spent the last 5 years dealing with a man who took me out maybe 3 times, never calls me, barely texts me back, unless we were planning to meet at a hotel, it was just a messed ... (185 words)

Can't get over the past

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a hard time forgetting and getting over the past when my boyfriend and I broke up for a year. We have been together for over 6 years now and this situation happened almost 3 years ago yet I keep thinking about it. My boyfriend and I have only been sexual with each ... (389 words)

My daughter and her step-father hate each other

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3 January 2011 (F)

age - my husband, my daughters stepfather wont give her the time of day..He is not physically abusive but he can be verbally at times to her, but he usually doesn't talk to her at all. She is now 18 and this has been going on for 10 years..They both absolutley hate each other..It has ... (87 words)

How to be more confident in kissing girls?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a 16 YO in my junior year of high school finally getting more social with the opposite sex. I am inexperienced with girls and have only kissed one girl in my life but i was extremely nervous and it was quick and bad. I want to get with more girls but my concern is that ... (121 words)

Is it love? Or am I just afraid of being alone?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - here goes by the way im 19, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now but lately ive found myself being increasingly irritated by him,and felt like i wanted to break up with him.However anytime ive considered actually breaking up with him i get so sad and tearful,Is ... (119 words)

How to convince wife that she is not a sex toy for me

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Well i am having problem with my wife regarding our views toward sex and I need advice. We are from Asia and have been in the States for 10 years. My wife was brought up with the view that sex is a bad thing. She would feel that she is "used" as a sex toy when I want it, and ... (533 words)

Girlfriend talking to my friend late ngt. Wondering was I cheated?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I m in a relationship since last 4 yrs. We surely knew we are in love wit each other before saying it to each other. Tats 4 sure coz even my gf confirmed this. Before we committed, my gf used to talk late night from 12 am to 3.30am with a friend of mine. She never told me this ... (933 words)

Should I tell him about my troubled sexual past?

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3 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - About 6 years ago I was abused sexually by a family friend but never told anyone as he has a wife who is very dependant on him. Then when I was 16 I got in a very involved relationship with a boy who I now know is very depressed, long story short he forced me into sex and was ... (169 words)

One day she's in my lap, the next night shes cold

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3 January 2011 (M)

age - what should i do when i feel my girlfriend pulling away. one day shes in my lap and like over night she seems to pull away. i should probably do the same. ... (32 words)

How do people have one-night stands or loveless sex?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, OK, this is gonna sound naive, but it is sincere. I am a heterosexual male in my late 30s and I do not understand one-night stands, or having sex with a stranger (like a prostitute) or someone you don't love. I mean, I understand the sexual urge, but for me, ... (223 words)

How do I stop acting so needy and believe in myself?

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3 January 2011 (M)

age - im 49 years old and very nice looking. i have aq great body yet im still insecure and i hate it. i get tired of doubting my girlfriends love for me and worrying about her fooling around. i should be the guy that makes other guys insecure yet i still have anxious thoughts about ... (235 words)