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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm out of his league...Should I care what others think?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just need to make sure I'm thinking clearly. I'm engaged to a wonderful man who treats me like a princess. He loves me and I love him. Our sex life is good. He's financially stable, (6 figure job, house in the right neighborhood, car, he has no debt and willing to payoff ... (358 words)

My boyfriend of Three years cheated then left. Why am I being treated like this? It feels punishing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me and then left me for his 1 month affair girl. He was perfect to me and i honestly don't know why he has changed this dramatically. I was never formally introduced but i heard that the mistres is 7 years younger than him, but that she has ... (76 words)

We text, and I've told her I love her. But how do I escalate it to a face to face relationship? What do I say to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have fallen in love with a girl, I'm always sending her text messages telling her that I love her, but I don't have the courage to tell her face to face. how can I tell her and what should I say? ... (42 words)

Situation with texting, FB and the guy I used to sleep with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just looking for a second opinion. A couple of months ago, I slept with this guy a few times. We texted, then i made the tremendous mistake of asking his friend about one of his ex girlfriends. So he stopped texting me. However, each time I bumped into afterwards we would... (179 words)

He started texting me after we broke up. Then just as suddenly he stopped. Why would he do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

HELP ! 13 and think I'm a Lesbian !!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

21 January 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Please can sumone help me imediatley please im really confuzed rite now because im 99 percent sure im lesbian ,and ive told most of my friends ,but 1 of them thinks im going through a phase but I have felt like this for over 2 years and at the moment theres a girl i really ... (269 words)

Health tips for early pregnancy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all! This is actually a question about pregnancy, i was hoping some mums could give me some advice :) I just found out im pregnant, i think between 1-3 weeks.. Last time i feel pregnant i miscarried. My hubby and i got married not too long after said miscarriage (marriage ... (248 words)

Should I stay or move on? I can't seem to convince my gf that we could be good together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - It's been 3 weeks since my girlfriend and I broke up. The reason we broke up was because we fought too much, and our intimacy reduced, but we did have a great friendship (she was my best friend as I was to her). We did have trust and loyalty, before she lied to me about goin... (367 words)

Is it weird that I'm a lesbian but not a huge fan of hanging out with other lesbians?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, lesbians! I am a lesbian and I'm openly gay in the place that I live. :) Okay so, in my area, there are A LOT of lesbians and everyone knows one another. Like, I'm serious, every lesbian just happens to know EVERY OTHER lesbian. Well, every lesbian, except me. Ri... (626 words)

My husband's ex is driving me crazy. Please, any tips on how I can handle this situation better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband's ex in 2006 took their daughter to Indiana, to live closer to her boyfriend (who was in prison for child molesting)... When she came back a year and a half later she sued my husband for child support. DHR agreed with her. She should have gone to jail, but didn't.S... (231 words)

My girl seems to be playing games with me. Why text me when she was with another guy? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I saw my girl with another guy. She saw me and said, ''hi'' to me. I ignored her. After that she sent me a text saying,''You seem cold today. Why are you so down, or is it me?'' What was the purpose of this sms? She knows I saw she was with another guy. ... (58 words)

My ex-wife and fiancee cannot both be at my father's funeral...what do I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a dilemma that I doubt I will get much sympathy from here. I recently divorced after a year long separation following an affair. I live with my mistress and we are in love and planning to get married in a year or so. She has met all of my family and they accept her,... (204 words)

I often get in a panic and gag at the thought of a bj. Why does this happen and how can I address this problem?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this fear of giving a blow job to my boyfriend of 6 years. I don't mind giving oral sex, but as soon as he puts it in my mouth I feel the need to gag. He has a very large penis and if he has just had a shower I don't mind as much. he doesn't have bad hygine, but i'm funn... (131 words)

I want to attract and interest a certain guy, but in a subtle way. Any ideas please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do boys look for in a girl? Please help I need a boyfriend but I want a certain guy, but I don't think that guy likes me! How do I get him to notice me without talking to him, I want him to come to me!... (50 words)

Should I say its my boyfriends baby or tell him I cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having a steady relationship with the same boyfriend for years but he was out of town and a old friend whos a boy came and our old feelings came over us and we had sex! I think I got pregnant too! I don't know what to do , should I say its my boyfriends baby or tell ... (63 words)

I gave him a party for his 50th... he gave me a card for mine and I'm so hurt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age - I gave my husband a party for his 50th birthday, he handed me a card for mine, I am hurt (we can afford a party)and I can't get over it, help? ... (31 words)

Brown discharge between periods... Worried!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, and sexually active. I'm not on any birth control, and my periods are generally regular. It's been 2 weeks since the end of my last period, and my next isn't due for another 2 weeks. I would usually get some White discharge between periods, but today it was brown - this ... (116 words)

How can I make this easier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 18 so please dont say i should have waited. Me and my boyfriend, he is 18 as well, are expecting. well he is now my ex boyfriend. we broke up last night because he had said earlier that he wasn't happy. so i broke up with him. the thing is i really care about him and i do... (149 words)

How to get her back???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I started dating a girl i work with about 4 months ago, over the time of the relationship i got very jealous and paranoid as she is polish and when she spoke to other men or her friends in polish i got worried what she was saying. She always told me after but how was i to know ... (234 words)

Really scared/ worried about friends deployment in September.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I've known he was going to Afghanistan since the middle of last year and when i found out i was devastated. I know people are probably thinking "oh, get over it" and that other people have to deal with it everyday, but i'm so frightened and the closer it's getting the worse i ... (114 words)

Do I come across as a bitch to my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had stopped communicating with my ex some 6 months ago after I had tried to see him and I was already dating another guy. The thing is, I was not able to say no to him and he forced me to have anal sex with him. This I regretted big time for 2 obvious reasons, I cheated on my ... (524 words)

Help these confused feelings...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

21 January 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Heyy im 13 years old and for about 2 years or so ive been havin feeling for girls and no longer boys , ive told most of my friends but 1 or 2 think its just a phase but im 99 percent sure im lesbian , coz theres a girl ive fancied for a really long time and cant get her out of ... (182 words)

What do boys REALLY want in a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so what do boys want in a girl? do they worry more about her being pretty and beutiful so they can show her of to their mates, or do they want her to be funny and have a unique personality? in the real world, they seem to me to think that 'ah man shes fit' not really 'sh... (88 words)

I've never met a more irrational, selfish person... and I stick around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 4 years. 3.5 of the 4 years, I have been unhappy. I want to leave him and have tried so many times, but I always keep coming back. Why do I do that? Hes mad all the time about everything. He really believes that everyone should "get theirs" ... (334 words)

My urge to try a cigarette!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so there is this girl i used to like who smoked and we used to talk about it and one day i just sort of blurted out can i try one and ever since then i have an urge to try a ciggerette and i still have not. The girl moved away ages ago. I really want to try one but just dont ... (79 words)

Am I in love or is it just another crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi theres a girl i really like in my class in college. i see her every day because we only have this class. i have had crushes before and i know what i have felt like during those experiences but i feel totally different about this girl. for example i am losing sleep be... (154 words)

How to start up a conversation with the other students in my class?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi ive been at college since september and i am a year older than most of them but i was very shy but the thing now is that i have grown in confidence and i do speak to some people but not all of the time. i want to know what should i say to the other students in my c... (102 words)

Why does my vagina have a strong, sweet odour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For about a year or so now, my vagina has had a very strong odour. It's sort of sweet-smelling, but not pleasant. It's not fishy or bread-y, so I don't think it's a yeast infection (but I'm not a doctor, so I'm not 100% sure). I haven't gotten it checked out because I though... (138 words)

Is it wrong to have a sex buddy all the time?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody. I have a question; Is it so wrong to have a sex buddie? I mean I'm 19, I'm young I only had sex with 2 guys and the last time I had sex with my last sex buddie was almost 8 months ago. And yes I'm horny I never really like a guy before so why not? My friends ... (207 words)

Married or roommates?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 11 years. The last 3 years have been challenging. Last year we lost the house to foreclosure. I worked part-time and had a small business than I had to close. On the surface and to the outside world we look fine, but look deeper and we are ... (158 words)

Am I right to worry he's not over his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me, somebody! I don't know what to do! I am 21 and have been in a relationship with a lovely guy for nearly 3 months now. The relationship is going really well and he has virtually moved into my flat, and he and I really do get on great. I'm very happy with him, apa... (710 words)

Even though he is my first, should I stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, SO here is the thing. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 5 months. I turned 17 yesterday and have had a very hectic few months... to get you to understand i must tell you the whole background. In November 2010 I lost all my hair due to a medication overd... (721 words)

We only dated for one month... but I fell for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated a girl last November for a month, it was great, i was starting to fall for her. suddenly i find out that she is starting to see the guy she was with before me, he was insisting to see her... when i confronted her, she asked for a break, and in December she was dating ... (270 words)

I want us to have a child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my partner and i have been together for four years . Alot of bad times in past includin him shall we say strongly persuadin me to have a termination sayin it was not the right time. We were both so skint and as i have two kids already and him a five year old i agreed altho ... (172 words)

I don't know how to initiate conversation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl and we recently started talking on the phone and apparently 1 I don’t know how to start a conversation. I’m fine talking it’s just first starting to talk I either know what I’m going to say and I can’t say it or I don't know what to say and I just babble ... (145 words)

My husband told me to go have sex with someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's libido is not as high as mine and we have had many arguments about it. He has told me several times during the arguments to just go have sex with other people and leave him alone. Should I do this? Does the fact that he only says it during an argument mean that he ... (67 words)

Does he have a right to keep this information to himself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a problem with my fiance he has stomach pains so he went to the hospital for treatment, i asked him what the doctor said ! he ingorned my question and kept on saying to me to take care of my health. I dont know really i feel left out. Does he have the rig... (68 words)

Is it wrong to have sex in public places?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 18 month now. Our sex life is extremely good, we definatly know how to pleasure each other. The first year the relationship was going strong and so was the sex. But after that our feelings for each other dimmed and we weren't as good at ... (151 words)

My husband sends 1,000 and up text messages to an old female friend, but says nothing is going on!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age - My spouse texts 1,000+ messages in a month to an old female friend and states nothing going on. NO intimate replationship with spouse for months. Husband opened seperate checking account said tired of not having a say, but texts this person our issues all day and night. He ... (61 words)

Why did he marry me and not give up on his affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) age - the man I fell in love with has been seeing a married woman for 6 years. i have been with him 4.5. we got married l year ago. he keeps calling her and telling her he loves her. he tells me to give him another chance he wont call her any more. but i catch him again and agai... (100 words)

How do you try to get along with someone you hate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I really hate my sisters boyfriend. He's loud, obnoxious, thinks he's hilarious, and is a HUGE suck up to my parents and other sister. Ever since the beginning he has ignored my presence and greeted everyone in the room except me. We spend our summers at the cottage and he ... (323 words)

Thoughts of sex have left my husband's head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) age - My husband lost his sexual desire and developed mayor erectile dysfunction many years ago. It happened suddenly. Once he went soft in the middle of the intercourse, and since then he is unable to maintain an erection with me, and never have desire to have sex. He claims, he ... (155 words)

The longer we've been together the shorter our bedroom life seems to get!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost 2 years. The longer we've been together the shorter our bedroom life seems to get. When we first met we would go at it for 1-2 hours and it was amazing! But as time has gone on I've noticed that it's been getting shorter ... (202 words)

How do I get over her, it just seems so hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I just recently broke up with my fiance in June of 2010 but we kept talking for about 6-7 months. It was me trying to fix things but she did not want to fix anything. She left because earlier in the relationship i talked to a girl online (never met her in person) ... (342 words)

I have a crush on my same sex friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - About 2 and a half years ago when i was 13 (now 15and a half) i was thinking about a boy from school who at the time annoyed me, then i just had a thought of him kissing me and i had a wonderful feeling inside and at first i denied it, however as more time passed i discovered i ... (153 words)

Guys opinions, what is going on in his head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with this guy for almost 5 years now. I am his first serious girlfriend he says. We tried moving in together, but shortly after I moved out because he said it seemed like it was too soon for him. Even though this was not even a year ago, so basically ... (327 words)

Am I being too demanding?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for past 3 years and im very serious about him... he's got new'ly appointed 4 job and is quite busy these days and hardly has time 4 me.... and when i call up he doesnt have much to say to me. I think he is taking me for granted.... he acts as if ... (101 words)

How do guys know if a girl is good at oral sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so to my thoughts i really think i dont know how to give a bj. But every time i give it to a guy they say " Oh ur amazing" or you're a pro". I mean, I really think i suck.. sometimes I think they lie. Last night I was with a guy and he asked me to do it, I told him... (162 words)

He's calling me too much! How do I get him to stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - So I met this guy through a friend and He showed some interest in me. Truthfully he's not my type of a person AT ALL. but I, for the heck of it, just casually flirted with him. I don't know, but I think he took it as a signal enough to hit on me. He's studying in another ... (254 words)

I feel like I am just a spare lover!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am dating my bf for 2 1/2 years. I have issue with my bf keep close contact with his ex. Him and his ex has been together for 20 years (divorced 8 years) but still keep close contact with each other almost everyday which he claimed is because of their son (early teen). His ... (395 words)

My girlfriend continues to talk to her ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend continues to talk to her ex. They haven't seen each other for over a year and she says he was verbally abusive to her. She and I have been dating for 8 months now and are very happy and in love. Yet....she still talks to her ex. As far as I know it is only ... (261 words)

I do not wish to attend my mother in law's funeral if husband's "Friend" will be there

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age - Very long and involved post so thank you very much in advance for reading. I have been married for a year but for various reasons my husband and I do not live together. This is mainly because I have a house from my previous marriage that my ex husband pays for and my new h... (411 words)

I don't feel his erection through his pants, does this mean he is really small?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently met this guy online whom I like quite a lot. I wouldn't say I am in love with him since we have only been on four dates but we have reasonable chemistry and get along otherwise. We have made out twice already, pants on but I don't feel an erection through his ... (151 words)

It seems like she wants me to chase her, even though we are official!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been talking for a year and some change now, and just in September we made it official. But its like she wants me to chase her, its like she doesn't like to call or respond to my texts unless I contact her. If i don't contact her or chase her down, she ... (100 words)

I said sorry for everything that happened in the past but she is still acting different with me.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was in relationship with a girl since 4 years. I was kinda careless about the relationship and about her. But i loved her. So after 4 years our relationship came to an end and we broke up ! .. but after 3-4 months i started missing her and realized how she was so caring and i ... (209 words)

We have broken up so many times because of his cheating, I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone! I am young and just want some advice from someone who won't think I'm crazy lol, I started liking this boy last year and we starting going out in March, we have been breaking up on and off becausee he cheats! ( I have the password to his facebook) Last y... (191 words)

Stuck in the middle of a love triangle: Who do I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to date Mr. S. We dated because we fell hard in love. Half way through the relationship he started to feel trapped and distanced himself from me. I went insane over time and couldn't handle it. I tried to talk to him about it two days before Christmas but he broke up ... (655 words)

Should I tell my teacher how I feel about him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically I'm in love with my teacher, yeah you've heard it all before I understand, this is just typical, he pays me special attention, touches my body like waist and arms. He makes jokes that can be taken in different ways and says things I could take as a joke or seriously. ... (222 words)

How do I bring this idea of separation to my husband when we don't even talk anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in serious need of help. I have been married for 13 years. We have two kids-12 and 5 years. I am emtionally drained in this marriage. It has come to a point whereby I have long and seriously thought about leaving just to clear my head and think straight. I have not ... (303 words)

I'm confused and don't know where we stand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all..I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for about ten months now. About a month ago, he decided he wanted us to take a step back and go with the flow, but not break-up. As a result, I heard from him a lot less, and whenever we did talk, it was ... (784 words)

I've not heard from him in 2 weeks, what happened?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Meet a deployed soldier online at the end of Nov and have been chatting away for the last 5 or 6 weeks, seemed to be going ok. We chatted and flirted lightly and expressed an interest in meeting up when he got home. He is stationed local to where I am. He even gave me an ad... (143 words)

Is marriage really the next step in a relationship or is it just a childhood dream all women have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - You know i've never asked much questions in life until i became a lot older and then the questions i seemed to ask were; why on earth am i not in a stable relationship or why won't my boyfriend commit? well guess what i asked these question to the person i was with he came out ... (403 words)

Does he really need time to himself, or does he want to break up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 21 years old, and my boyfriend is 22. I have been in a relationship with him for a year now, and everything seemed perfect until two weeks ago. He has always treated me good, always told me he loved me and has never shown me otherwise. He's a sweet guy, shy and qui... (848 words)

Was I insensitive towards my friend? Or did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend is going through a hard break up and was really sad in front of me. They started to cry and started to talk about there relationship. At first I told them "its okay you can cry" and they felt bad for crying in front of me. So I told them, "hey look we are going out ... (152 words)

This girl flirts with me but says we are just friends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl who i like. She's stunning beyond words, even a blind man would agree. She flirts with me all time and is more than comfortable with me touching her anywhere. I seriously thought that she liked me and I told her i liked her and she said that we're just friends ... (310 words)

My friends crush likes me instead, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend liked this boy for months, until she found out he doesn't like her, so she went for another boy. Then this other boy, didn't like her either, so she went back to her old crush. He still doesn't like her. He likes me. And I've really liked him for months, too,... (209 words)

Is this love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a best friend,we enjoyed each other's company a lot..but then he proposed and i said "no" as i never had that feeling and he left me forever and i missed him a lot for few months and then lost hope he would ever talk to me but still he is special for me.now a new friend ... (79 words)

Do I consider a threesome because I love him? Or just say no?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, i need someone's help to make me understand my boyfriend's mind a tad bit better.. He wants to try a 3sum, however.. i want MY boyfriend to Myself! I'm not into girls, sure they're gorgeous but not sexually. I thought we had great sex, but i feel like im getting ... (95 words)

She chose her husband over me, but still wants to talk! Why is this and how do I deal with it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1752 days ago

21 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a married woman for about 8 months. I’m a single male. She decided to stay with her hubby. I do love this gal and have for years before this started. I love talking with her. We have weekend places very close to each other. This is the only place I would ever ... (266 words)

Am I bisexual because I want to kiss a female?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately i have been having this thought about wanting to kiss a female for the very first time, i am sure this is normal but i guess i never have because i think females dont like me, is it because i dont have the lesbian look or is i have to come out and say i am Bisexual?? but ... (82 words)

Teen mom?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a 2 years relationship and we r great with my boyfriend...im graduating this year and we r planning to try for a baby:) whats the difficulitties of being ateen mom?... (32 words)

This guy runs a mile everytime I see him, what have I done?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone who takes the time to read this. Im sorry it will probably be long and maybe confuss you but Ill try to keep it short and simple. Ok i go to University and I share a Maisonette with 12 people (including me) we are seperated by 2 flats nthe same house. ok there ... (428 words)

Is it a phase or is it for real?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be a bit long, so I'm sorry in advance for that. Lately I can't seem to be able stop thinking about a certain girl at school. I barely know her, and she's older than me, but every time I look at her i feel so gay it's unbeleivable. just for the record, i've onl... (394 words)

Am I too big to go on top?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I think i am to big to get on top of him, but i have heard people say that its not your weight that your puting on top of him and i just dont get it, i am sure my fiance would be open to try it but it would be like having to practice and that is definitly embarrassing if i ... (112 words)

I can't seem to get over my first love

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't seem to get over my first love. We've known each other since high school, we never were a couple. I was in love with him when he was not in love with me, then the tables turned several times during the course of what is now a 20-year relationship. I spent years pining ... (349 words)

I have a boyfriend, but do I like this other man?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Asked this the other day but could do with more responses :) Things with my bf are a bit up and down at moment and I have met a guy at work who is genuinely interested in me. He asked me out on a date and I obviously rejected due to my bf. But now I can't stop thinking about hi... (87 words)

She turned me down because of the colour of my skin, even though she is darker than me! Who is the crazy one here?

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Aunty's I can't beleieve what just happened. My cousin hooked me up with a chic I'll say is "X". Okay so we kicked it on the phone for 9 months until last Saturday. She liked me and I liked her. She calls me tonight and said we should be friends cause I don't believe in having ... (119 words)

Will I be a big disappointment to him when I show my true colours?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey y'all, My boyfriend is completely infatuated with me; he thinks I am the greatest girl. Recently, he told me what set me apart from his exes is that I'm not possessive. It really bothered me after hearing that. The truth is, I am quite possessive. I get this gut wrenchi... (112 words)

How do I tell this girl that I am not interested without coming out of the closet? And what should I do about my crush?

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a gay guy and my problem is that theres this really beautiful girl who goes to high school with me has been crushing on me like a real major crush. im closeted and i wish to remain closeted so she doesnt know that im gay.Well this girl is like the hottest babe in school ... (224 words)

Should I ask him out again?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Um, I use to be in this young relationship and I am parable way younger than you. But I need help, I went out with this guy, he was really nice, caring and protective about me. But he was getting bulled by other boy's in our year and I felt like he was pushing away fro... (509 words)

I'm lying to both men in my life, they have no idea about each other!

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - PLease no one judge me, I know what I'm about to reveal is horrible. I know it and I hate myself. That being said, I couldn't help falling in love with the man I'm seeing on the side. I am married and have a child. The ONLY reason I haven't gotten a divorce is for my child. ... (282 words)

Relationship limbo: what do you think is happening, and where should I go from here?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a tricky spot at the moment. My boyfriend of almost 4 years broke up with me just before Christmas. He hadn't been himself for awhile. He told me he needed this so that he could "find himself" and that he needs to be alone to sort out his life. He said it was a "break... (360 words)

I pushed my fiancee into having a boob job and now I regret it

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll probably get criticised for this............... I always had a thing about boob jobs on women n although my fiancee had nice size breasts and a fantastic figure i constantly went on to her about wanting her to have one. Stupid i know. She was against the idea but i... (179 words)

How to get along with your boyfriend!

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been with my boyfriend for just over a year on christmas day! i love him more than anything but we always always argue. We argue over silly things but lately its been because his social life is taking over his life..i feel like iv been pushed aside. last year was a hard year ... (454 words)

Does being really good in bed make you a hoe?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The man that I am seeing has constantly accused me of cheating when my loyalty towards him has only been solid and faithful. I believe it is his own insecurities that make him act the way he does at times. Whenever he goes out drinking he tells me that I am some hoe/slut... (188 words)

She helped me get a job before we broke up, and now I feel guilty for leaving!

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and this girl dated for just over a month(but felt like a year). She was extremely verablly and emotionally abusive, and i still dont understand why she insulted me, belittled me and harassed me so much because i treated like a queen, gave her the best of me. So i ended up ... (141 words)

Is this relationship illegal?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 16 and i have feeling for my 1st cousin who is 18 and has feelings for me. Is it illegal in the UK to start a relationship with him or should i just ignore my feeling ? I am worried what will happen and what otheres will think but also what our family will think.... (58 words)

Help needed to get over an obsession with an online webcam model......

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - well hello i found this site while in desperate need of some advice to help me with a trying situation that has literally drained me. i joined this adult website one of those solo girl websites at first it was just for entertainment then i started to notice that i was starting ... (212 words)

Does he see me as more than a friend?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really liked a friend of mine for a while, almost three years, and I would like to see what other people think of my situation, and if I should finally make a move. He's a shy guy, and we accidentally met at our school's orientation. The first semester at school, we would ... (351 words)

What are the boundaries between a friendship and an emotional affair?

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21 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - most people do their jobs with male or female..definatly they became friends..what are the boundries? why most people have emotional affair with co.workers...although they say they are just friends but they have love feelings for each other....although they doesnot want? how ... (141 words)

What should I do about the guy I like?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm eighteen years old, and have never had a boyfriend. I've never been the type to go in search of one, and I use to be very shy. There is this guy I've had my eye on for sometime now, we use to text a lot, and when we did it was for hours. I lost the numbers in my phone over ... (131 words)

Should I talk to him over the summer about us? Or is this a disaster I should just run away from?

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21 January 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Alright, so - this guy and I hooked up the day before I left going back to college. I was completely surprised when this happened because Ive known him for a while; we went to high school together, but he was two years older than me. He's in a band and I suppose that makes ... (414 words)

Problems with my current girlfriend and her ex

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my girlfriend for a pretty good amount of time. I am a hundred percent in love with her and I think she is perfect for me, except, she still talks to her ex, who she has dated much longer than I have. In the beginning of our relationship she promised that she ... (336 words)

I cant move on even though it has been a year and a half since my ex moved in with his mistress!

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Its been a year and a half since my ex moved in with his mistress. He didn't tell me about it, I found out about it. He knew I was pregnant when he left. He said he wanted to still have a relationship with me, I asked him flat out do you want to date me or her? He said he ... (229 words)

I was supposed to be visiting him for the first time, but he doesn't seem to want to include me in his birthday celebrations!

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been talking to a guy online for the last 18 months on a regular basis. I haven't met him as yet but was going to visit him in March this year on his birthday which I mentioned to him about a month ago. Yesterday he said I could stay with him for the first 3 nights but ... (247 words)

Is he playing games or does he want me?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey people, well me and my "ex boyfriend"...i say it like that because i don't i know if were together still. We've been friends for months already and when we were friends we kissed two times on different occasions. A little after he asked me out.. I was very attracted to him ... (634 words)

Is the man I am dating gay?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy and i don't know if he is gay can you help me please. he is 43yrs old, He works as a dj, house improvement. he is very masculine body. a cop once said to me why are you with him it was kind of weird to me. he won't spend any money on me, everything is free free to ... (190 words)

How long can a FWB situation last?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a fwb situation for more than two years on and off. i was wondering how long can this situation last? ... (25 words)

Does any of this mean she is interested in me?

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Dear Cupid, I am looking for some opinions here... I have strong feelings for my coworker. Does she feel the same way? I don't know, it's fairly complicated. Between the 2 of us I believe she had interest first, but again nothing is certain. Anyways I was wondering a... (206 words)

My husband hates me

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for less then a year. I love my husband very much, but lately I feel as tho he hates me. It hurts so bad the way he treats me. He calls me names, threatens divorce all the time and tells me he doesn't care about us anymore. I dont know what to ... (115 words)

Is it a bad idea to bring a baby into the world based on the current state of our relationship?

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in a four year + relationship and up until 2 years ago our relationship has been real rocky and we would both drink a lot. one night of intoxication has ruined me. i cheated and it haunts me even now that its out in the open. i love her so much and i want to make everything ... (479 words)

Why do I feel the need to talk about myself so much?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been a single child and all my family surrounded me with love. But for about a year now, I have self-esteem issues, I'm insecure and I feel unworthy of their love. Believe me, I'd love to know why, but I simply can't find its roots. I don't know if it lies in my childhood, ... (272 words)

He could not trust me so I have changed and tried my best to show him this, but now I am the one struggling to trust him!

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, First off many thanks to all of you that take the time and offer me your advice, I cannot thank you enough. I am having a lot of problems with my 9 mo. boyfriend, there are a lot of issues involved but I have never been more confused in my life and at the same time the... (1343 words)

Young couple wants to spice up sex life, after we had our baby

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife, and I had a baby recently, and the baby is finally old enough to stay with the grandparents overnight. We have always had really good sex, but we want to get a little more adventurous. Anybody have any ideas for a crazy night of sex? Cool locations, in Los Ang... (86 words)

I think I screwed everything up for me and him.....

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I've been thinking A LOT about this lately. I like this guy a lot, but I think I screwed everything up for us. This past summer, one night we were texting, playing 21 questions, and he asked me if I had ever liked him. Well, I freaked and told him I used to but not ... (72 words)

My parents disagree with our relationship because of his skin colour, how can I get them to accept this?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 going on 20, Im a white female dating a black guy and my mom and stepdad dont agree with this. I started dating this guy throughout high school and now we are getting serious and talking about our future together. My mom and stepdad say they will disown me if i keep ... (184 words)

I really like two different guys, and don't know who to choose! Help!

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me!!! I really like two different guys. the first one is my boyfriend of four months and the second one is becoming a closer and closer friend. I like them both so much, and they both have good qualities. My Boyfriend has taken the time to get really close to me and ... (272 words)

I want to look like a boy, but not be a boy, why?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I want to look like a boy, but I don't want to be a boy. Why is that? Ever since second grade I've been in love with short hair, I look on youtube and theres a transgender boy and I get so jealous about how he dresses. His hair, everything. I can't even get a tomboy haircut, ... (317 words)

She wants to take a break because her dad does not like me, will she ever come back?

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - well heres the details of what my problem is, i was with this girl whom i am fucking crazy about. she says she realy likes me, we was together for about 6 to 8 months but her dad hates me we had always had to sneak around to be together. finaly we got caught and she got in a ... (168 words)

The date was good, but his f/b profile says I'm not a fit

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I went on a date with this guy .. It was a set up from one of my clients . We all went out to dinner he was cute and very nice after dinner we stayed and had a drink and just talked . It was fun . He texted me we talked for a few days then we hung out again just me and him ... (217 words)

25, virgin, and don't want to scare guys away

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am going to be 25 and I am a virgin. It's by choice for the most part .. The problem is I'm very self conscious about myself .. I want to be with someone but because I'm not experienced it makes me even more self conscious ! I'm to afraid to hangout with a guy and not ... (116 words)

Is he trying to control me?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Anytime I do anything besides working on homework, my boyfriend expects me to tell him exactly where I'm going and what I'm doing so that he can go too. He even questioned something simple such as why I changed my facebook picture to a picture of myself instead of the old one ... (72 words)

Torn Between Two Great Guys!!!

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So let's call the first guy #2, and the second one #1. I'm in middle school. I recently met #1 but he flirts a lot and not in a player way. He's really sweet. He's also funny and texts me all the time asking to hang out and stuff. But #2, he went out with my best friend about ... (123 words)

Social disorders prevented me from dating

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a very abnormal situation and I would appreiciate Your advice. I am a 22 year old man with social disorders and it wasn't until four or five years ago that I was just able to approache someone and talk to them comfortably without being spoken to first. As you can ... (219 words)

Is Love Enough?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - If you Love someone, is that enough to sustain a lifetime relationship...til death do us part? After being with someone for over 20 years with so many bumps along the way. Hurt feelings, mis-trust, doubt, anger, bitterness. How do you ignore those feelings because you know ... (115 words)

How can she survive on such little emotional sustenance?

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Sometimes, at night, when things are calm, I think about this girl who I spent the better part of last year thinking about, spending money on, and being emotionally tortured by. I distanced myself from her starting in October and now only communicate with her sporadically... (310 words)

He doesn't seem to want to take things further?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, I am 18 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Our relationship has been great and I know he loves me and I really love him but the only problem is that he doesn't seem to want to have sex with me. We cuddle and makeout but he never wants ... (122 words)

Blood after sex the second time?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boy friend had sex today it is my second time having sex, the last time i had sex was almost two years ago. We has sex in the morning and the i went with my day the rest of the day. I went to the bathroom later in the day and i had a little blood on my underwear it ... (97 words)

How can I stop feeling insecure about my body?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I stop feeling insecure about my body? Even now that I'm single I feel constantly insecure, 'cause I'm just average, not stunning or very pretty, nothing. Even when I was in a loving relationship I felt insecure, because I knew he looked at other women, he even thought ... (484 words)

Confronting my girlfriends lying has brought our relationship to an end.

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21 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a longterm relationship with a girl from another country. We were casual for around 6 months, and connected immediately. Being able to be very open with each other on everything including past relationships, sex etc. We got together last January and things... (236 words)

Does he like me or am I just a second option?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Around March I received a friend request on facebook from this boy that was going to a college I had applied too. I didn't add him, just left it there and around july i finally added him because I was sure i was going to that college and I was bored lol. So I asked him how th... (727 words)

How can your life get so out of control?

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21 January 2011 (F) age 51-59 - I don't understand my own life. I have so much tragedy in my life, when I tell people what happens to me, they probably think, I m. lying. I have all the possible problems ,you can have in this life. including -death of a child -mental health issues -financial crises -relat... (120 words)

Should I go for a sugar daddy?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone Ok i meet a guy online,the site was for ''sugar dadies and sugar babies'' lol so he contacted me and we had a coffee he is wonderful,rich,smart and very nice to be around with,he is 47,i am 19 yeah he can be my dad.lol he is willing to help me out and be my fr... (99 words)

I can't eat! Is it because I'm in love?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, so just recently I told the guy I fancied that I liked him and we agreed to try going out and would move slowly, which is good enough for me. I have known him for three years, and we have been together only 5 days since I told him on Sunday that I liked him very much. W... (288 words)

I loaned a friend $1,000.00 and she still hasn't returned it

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a money/friend problem. Come this February it will have been a year that I lent a friend almost $1000. She was really stuck, she was in another country and had to get out before the visa she was on expired. She had overstayed a visa before and was banned for 3 yea... (241 words)

My boyfriend cheated, wants to be with me, but still seems conflicted

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for the last 5 years, in the last year we took a break because he was struggling with depression and confusion about who he is etc.... I was supportive of him taking time and felt our relationship was strong enough to handle it. I was ... (433 words)

Conflicted about asking a friend

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I really like one of my guys friends. I am not on the very slim side ,I hate that I am this way ,but I am. I not too fat though. Well I want to ask him out but I am worried that he will say no and then our friendship will be ruined. Also I dont want him to say yes ,and if we ... (76 words)

LDR-how can we work things out when he doesn't want to communicate?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very confused and Idk what to do! My long distance bf and I have been dating for about eight months now and we plan on meeting this summer. He lives in Denmark and I live in Canada. Anyways when we first met everything was great, sparks were flying, he would make me feel ... (248 words)

I told my Boyfriend the truth about me being abused as a child,,,, and now things arent the same,,,,

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im in a serious relationship with a wonderful partner who is very understanding and I love him very much. Recently though it seems our relationship was shaken and I am finding it very hard to deal with it. I was abused by my father as a child and I hate the memories ... (221 words)

I don't want to make all the 1st moves!

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is in 9th grade and im in 11th. i have kissed many guys and have a good amount of experience. He is very shy and we have only been going out for a week and he wont even hold my hand. I care a lot about him and want to hold his hand and hug and kiss him but i ... (106 words)

Come On, and Let Me Know...Should I Stay or Should I Go?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - You know what they say: problems come in bunches. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost four months. we're really clase and have a strong relationship, but lately we've been having problems with miscommunication, not seeing each other, and little spats. Enter ... (153 words)

Should I End It?

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Our relationship started out so wonderfully. We started out as friends getting to know each other in our favorite class. Then, we started to fall for each other. We talk, we snuggle, he is my best friend and my boyfriend all in one, and has been for months. We fight and ... (232 words)

He lies about all the girls on myspace

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well heres the problemm..ive been withh my boyfriendd for two months now, and well its not so great but we tend to fix the problems...he knows im a jealous girlfriend but ge doesnt really care..he lies to me about the girls on his myspace and facebook and he says they are ... (143 words)

My family hates me and calls me a daughter of the devil

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21 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My family hates me and i don't know what to do. My mother has ever said anything nice about me and that sounds like a lie but she said to my face that i am selfish lazy and wicked and that there was nothing good about me. My siblings don't like me ( i have five by the way) and ... (263 words)