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writes:I'm almost 7months pregnant me n my bf hav been togethEr for 4yrs I love him but he has been wrkin out of twn n only comes over the weekends we only have sex once a week we used to have sex about 4 times a week I'm really confused I don't no if its because I've gained weight n he aint attracted to me or bcuz of his job ? Reply to this Question
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reader, JaZminny +, writes (26 January 2011):
JaZminny is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for all your answers they are Comforting to see things in a different way and that maybe this will change after I give birth to our baby girl thank u :)
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reader, leylaness  +, writes (26 January 2011):
 When relationship has got a strain things like sex do change. And there’s no bigger stress then pregnancy. He’s probably really worried about the birth (people often forget about the guys) so is working more then he needs to. He might also be worried about hurting the child. Once the baby has arrived and you have given time for everything to settle down you can see it as a fresh start and try to get things back to how they was. However its hard work with a child so don’t worry if you don’t get back to 4 times a week, but I’m sure you will be fine as you’ll be focused on having a different relationship with your partner, you will official be a family =D
Good luck xxx
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reader, mscard +, writes (26 January 2011):
Yeah I'd say primarily because it's physically impossible to have sex when the two of you aren't in the same town... Also probably because pregnant women tend not to look as sexy as not pregnant ones, but that's an issue that will go away in about 2 months.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (26 January 2011):
 I'd venture it's because you can only see each other on weekends. Have you told him you miss how much you used to have sex?
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