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I don't want to keep it a secret that I'm bi, but will men be ok with me if they know?

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24 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I am 18 years old and bisexual, even if not completely 50 / 50. A few people know, and the truth is bound to have spread a little. I don't want to be attention seeking and make a big deal of it, but then again, hate hiding it. Will male friends and acquaintances find it weird ... (62 words

I wrote to him, telling him how much he hurt me. Now he wants to talk to me about my letter

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - A multifaceted dilemma: I am a very liberal, environmentalist, highly educated middle aged woman in an area where none of these things are valued. I will not be able to leave this area for nine more years when I will retire. Due to our location in the mountains, driving ... (340 words

I love her, she went back to her ex, now she wants to try again. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - So I'll try and make this as short as possible. After a 19 year relationship, my wife and I split up last year. I was't looking for anyone after this happened. A friend oif mine wanted me to meet this girl. I was hesitant at first and finally decided to meet her. The first ... (287 words

I had a great one stand and I want it again. How do I ask him?

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hi, should I contact this guy or not? We hooked up a few weeks ago(a one-night, no-strings-attached thing), and it was the best sexual experience of my life, and I dont want it to be the only time it happens, but how do i go about suggesting we do it again without sounding ... (65 words

I told my cousin I am attracted to her. She doesn't feel the same way

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24 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - Ok to start I have this problem I think I'm in love with my cousin or maybe it's just a lust. Im 28 and she's 22 I always been close with her since she was a teenager but this attraction didn't start until late last year. I don't know why it started but it just did I think ... (109 words

Should I stop seeing him? Found escort agency on his computer

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24 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - I came accross an escort agency on my new boyfriends computer history, one year later its there again, he has had txt messages advertisine 'indays' from women and the occassional sexy picture on his mobile. His excuse is that it was his son using the computer but finally he ... (187 words

Has he stopped liking me coz I lied that I talk to other guys?

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24 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - What should I do about this guy? does he even like me? I've been speaking to this guy that I really like. He gives me signs he like me too. He rang me from aboard when he went on holiday. He tells me how nice of a person I am and he thinks am really pretty. Last ... (188 words

Relationship going nowhere, he doesn't open up to me

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24 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for several several months now and it's going nowhere. Normally I would have left by now, but i have nothing else going on so i'm trying to see where this can go...if anywhere. The problem is that he doesn't open up to me. He doesn't talk to ... (311 words

How much information could he have gotten about me?

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hey, sorry this question is'nt really a relotionship question but i'm really worrying. i added this random guy on msn and we were talking for a while. Then all of a sudden when i was trying to help him out with his computer he said he was getting ... (235 words

Was what I said really that bad?

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Ok so over the summer I switched into public school from a private one. There was this one girl who is known for being really rude and catty. I had one class with her but really didn't know her that well. Anyway, in gym we had to do the dance unit. The girls grouped up on there ... (327 words

I really want to ask my co-worker out - before somebody else does!

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24 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I am the same guy with the following post. Please read through it cause I want guidence really bad. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-find-out-if-this-beautiful.html After that I have moved quite further. I talk to her almost on every shift. Today ... (563 words

Roleplaying..my boyfriend wants me to be a hooker and I'm totally stumped on what to do!

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24 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - hey guys, just need some help and suggestions. my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 years and are very compatible sexually. recently, we've just started dabbling in a little roleplay and it is amazing. i usually pick up roles well, but this time my boyfriend... (141 words

I'm in love with my cousin and I'm scared to tell her

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24 August 2011 (M age 22-25 - hey im 15 years old and im in love with my first cousin shes 13. me and her get along really good and she does not know that i love her and its hard i want to tell her but cant. i'm worred cause she might not talk to me or she might tell my mom or her mom. help please.... (61 words

I watch porn and masturbate most days. Should I reduce this?

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24 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - i am 19 and am watching porn nearly every day. I really enjoy watching it but feel as if i couldnt go a day without watching some. i do not neglect friends or anything for it but do normally watch it every night before bed. this also leads to masturbation nearly every night. is ... (65 words

Did he just want oral sex?

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24 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - hello. was wondering if anyone could help me? i went to a houseparty saturday just gone and there was a boy there who i normaly come across when i go down that area of the town, hes a year younger than me 18 and we used to go to comp together, the one whos party it was is ... (435 words

Boyfriend puts no effort at all into our relationship

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24 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Okay well i've been dating this guy for about 3 months and about a week ago we finally made it official. Lately though things he's been doing have been bothering me such as if I were to tell him about how my boss at work was stressing me out he would reply with "welcome to the ... (320 words

I don't know whether to move away to attend my dream school or stay here to be near my boyfriend and so mom won't need to pay for an apartment for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question per se, but I am at a crossroad in my life, and would greatly appreciate any advice. I'm 22 years old, going to college full-time. I'm pursuing a career in medicine, and hope to attend medical school to become a psychiatrist. In... (180 words

My boyfriend's relationship with a LD female friend concerns me

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - I have a wonderful boyfriend who makes me incredibly happy, however, during the summer, a female friend of his came over from another country to stay with him and his family. He shares his bedroom with his brother, and during her stay, his brother was moved into another room ... (315 words

Is this love or is he just playing me?

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - is this loving me or playing?well here we go my boyfriend tells me he loves me and then he says "i like you and love you alot he want to have babies with me already he wants me to move in with him to another state but I dont want to because I dont have family in that state that ... (238 words

I experimented with my best friend and now things are awkward between us!

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Recently I stayed over my best friend's house. I'm openly bi and she was bi curious. We were talking about sex and sexuality and she randomly asked me if we could experiment. I think she's gorgeous but I've never fancied her because we're so close. I agreed to experiment... (223 words

Dating and sleeping around

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24 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - I need some advice just like everyone else does. My girlfriend and I started as a one night stand and quickly progresses into a relationship. We met on a Sunday and went out for drinks that Wednesday and then to the movies that Friday. Each time sleeping together. Then o... (319 words

I lied about my age to this guy by a mistake help..

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - I got this messager, and you know how they ask you to set your age? Well I didn't set my birthday or anything I just pressed NEXT. So, I made the account and became friends with this guy who's 19 but, he thinks I'm 18! But I'm really 17. I told him I was in high school and ... (144 words

I'm not physically attracted to her but I love her personality

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

24 August 2011 (M - Hi. I've known a girl for about a year. She has made it very clear to me that she really likes me and wants to form a relationship with me. I really like her too. She had a great personality and she is someone I would normally go for. The only problem for me is her looks... (124 words

I want my boyfriend to stop drinking

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - I really need help ,my boyfriend loves drinking and I want him to stop because I care for him I tell him"please stop drinking for your own good or im going to break up with you!" He doesn't listen please help if he still keeps drinking he's going to come to my grandpas house ... (106 words

I don't want anyone to know about us but I don't want to lose him

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24 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm in love with a guy so much but I don't anyone to know about us and how I feel. I tell everyone that we are just friends but on the other hand he wants us to be more than that and I keep putting him down because I don't want people to know but I want to be with him and every ... (103 words

I have a boyfriend but am slightly attracted to women

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Okay. I have a serious problem. I'm 16 and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I seriously love him but lately, I'm becoming slightly attracted to women. It's weird. When I'm with my boyfriend, I have no problems connecting with him. We are both virgins and I'd decided ... (290 words

Every time we disagree b/f makes me look like a problem child

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I luv ma boyfriend so much and i feel he loves me too but sometimes i wonder if he loves me as much. we hardly ever agree on phone but when we are together we don't quarrel. Each time i try to tell him something he misunderstands me and makes me look like a problem child. i ... (88 words

I don't understand why the law dictates the age you can have sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Why does the law dictate when people can have sex? It doesn't make sense. If two people are both underage and have sex, are they seriously going to go to jail? Who would call the police? Why is it so bad that they needed to make a law about it? And if an underage girl got ... (82 words

Is it possible to have a lasting marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I read so many questions here about married people who have fallen out of love, married people who cheat, married people who are tempted to cheat, etc. etc. Does marriage even mean anything these days, other than being tied together by law? Is it even possible to have... (114 words

I ask him why he doesn't want to have sex and he says "I don't know"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - My fiance (26) and I (21) have been together for about two years now. We got pregnant quite early in the relationship (unexpected) but our son is the best thing that has ever happened to us and he will be one in September. Any ways! The reason why I am writing this is because ... (324 words

I masturbated on shemale porn. What does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - I have been watching straight porn quite lot for the last 2 years or so but of late gay thoughts striking my mind but when I looked at gay porn , it didn't turn me on but Shemale porn did and I masturbated like three times on watching Shemale porn. I am struggling to figure ... (134 words

Is it true that most people never confess to cheating and don't get found out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi my question is pretty brief and it goes like this... Do most people that cheat end up telling their partners or keep quiet? I have been trying to research this on the internet and have so far come up with that most keep quiet. What do y'all think? Apparently a high perc... (62 words

Am I being unreasonable for asking my wife to limit what photo's she puts on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - My wife is into facebook and constantly takes pictures of us and our son (5 years old) and puts them up on her facebook page. She has something like 200-300 facebook "friends" (I'm not sure how many because her friends list is blocked and I don't have access to her FB accoun... (508 words

Married man wants to keep me as his side dish. How do I walk away?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 2835 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi Cupids. This is my first time here. I could really use your advice. You can be honest and harsh, whatever you feel is necessary. I know what I have done is not right. I am a married mom and I have been having an emotional affair (no physical boundaries have ev... (886 words

Please help me to accept her past

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I’m in my first relationship and have been rocked by a revelation from my girlfriend. I’ve been trying to deal with it myself – for reasons that will become clear I can’t discuss it with friends – but it is driving my insane. I really need some help to try and understand, to ... (605 words

How can I make sex less painful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - Ok ..so..my new gf and I have had sex several times..she has a very small vagina..I'm an average size fellow..6 to 7 inches somewhere in there..it hurts her a lot..not the girth but the length..is there anything I do ...I would like to not have to be so careful..any ideas... (50 words

Am I being unreasonable at being annoyed that he doesn't seem to acknowledge the fact that we've shared a bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have hooked up with one of my closest male friends 3 times. Last time we hooked up was June. Neither of us talks about what happened and we continue our friendship as always, except for the occasional heated look he gives me and warmer hugs. After not seeing each other fo... (188 words

Why won't my fiance kiss me hardly anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - For the past few months, my fiance has stopped being affectionate towards me and I really don't know why. The main thing is the kissing. He refuses to kiss me every time I lean in to give him one. He tells me I need to wait. I've asked him several times why he doesn't kiss me ... (483 words

My boyfriend is too busy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boy friend is a final year medical student and i've been with this guy for over 3 years and we are getting married very soon. i know he loves me a lot. But he doesn't show his care in the way i want. He doesn't create romance between us often and that makes me so angry an... (266 words

I feel trapped. What should I do? I've had a threesome and my husband does not know.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi i'm 32 year old wife and a mom with a kid of 3 years old . I'm feeling confused and trapped with a dilemma all because of my mistakes. Almost 3 months before I met a nice and good looking girls who's 23 years at the gym. We had the same gym instructor. Anyways we started t... (486 words

Why can't he stop seeing this woman? He still lives with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - my husband told me he is having an affair and that he had to tell me. we are still living in the same house we are still making love from time to he says he dont want to have to choose he tell me thing that hurt me so much he say i can stay here long as i want i cry my self to ... (227 words

I've always had a crush on her. Why will she not consider me instead of her B/f?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 22-25 - i love a girl very much but she doesnt love me she loves her boyfriend...i always had a crush on her...it all started a year ago...she used to tell me that she loves me but it was just to make me happy...she told that she will never love me...but i cant live without her...i ... (108 words

I cheated with a married man now I am scared he will tell his wife, is this likely?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2844 days ago

24 August 2011 (? age 41-50 - Hello. My predicament is a little sensitive so please be gentle on me. Me and my bf were going through a lot and I had a one night stand, with a married man. To be fair we did not have intercourse but I accept that I was unfaithful. I have spoken to the guy since and we both ... (361 words

Why did my boss do that? Is it a sign of love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi,im an accountant in a private company.my boss was four grades senior than me and he looked very appealing and warm all the time...its been 6 months I got my job there. yesterday my boss sent me a message asking me to come to his cabin..it was around 6 p.m and only me and ... (332 words

I feel like I have a grudge against my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2848 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Ok so I will try and make this as short and simple as possible. Me and my boyfriend went out for 5 months, after that somthing came up that made him really upset( it did involve me being a bitch and a half towards him ) . So we broke up. BUT after 2 weeks or so, I talked to ... (443 words

Why is he giving his ex the time of day?

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24 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need a second opinion preferably from a guys point of view because i personally don't know how to react to this. So here goes my boyfriend and i are very much in love we have just got our own place and ready to move in and start our life together.Let me point out that i... (230 words

How do I stop waking up with this feeling of fear in my chest?

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24 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - Dearest aunts and uncles... well where do I begin... let me let it all out and hopefully I can get some advice on how to deal with my mess of a life and stop me feeling so down. I am waking up everyday 3am-5am with a fear feeling in my chest and I hate it! I am 34 and first ... (653 words

Sex with an older woman, is it better than with my gf who is the same age as me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I would like your advice on my situation. I am 19 and in a relationship that is working really well.The problem is that there is a woman much older than me she is probably in her 30s and married.She finds me attractive and is ready to cheat on her husband with me.I don't ... (193 words

15 & preqnant how do I tell my parents

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - hi umm well im 15 and pregnant and i am so terrified!:( my friends are happy for me my boyfriend is supportive so is his family! but i am so afraid of my dad not really my mom :( im ashamed to have disappointed them but how do i tell them? please help !... (59 words

I've falled for a streetwalker and she's moved in with me but I don't know what to do now!

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24 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - I'm single and for over a decade involuntary celibate. I've thought many times to pay for some companionship but I always backed out due to moral inhibitions. However, two months ago I had a one time encounter with a streetwalker. We both seemed to like each other and she asked ... (398 words

The more I fall for him the harder it is to cope with his exs

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2852 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been with a lovely, kind, caring and gorgeous man for 18 mths now. I have children from a previous relationship who live with me, he has a daughter who does not live with him. Our relationship has deepened gradually and he tells me he loves me and wants to be with me. ... (148 words

I only see this girl on facebook and I can't get her to reply

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24 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - so theres this girl...and i really like her...i havent seen her all summer...last time i saw her was when i graduated...really sucks how i havent seen her n i barely talk to her...im always trying to talk to her through faacebook or text but she hardly ever replies...i sent her ... (147 words

Dont want to chase after him but should i?

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - i went to a party over a week ago and met a boy there. we kissed that night and when i got home, he messaged me saying how he really enjoyed it and wanted to see me again but i went on holiday for a week after that. We spoke but it was really hard as we were both busy. Then a ... (201 words

Is it TOO big?

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24 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - hi all, im new to this whole thing but am hoping someone can help me find some answers. I am 19 and have a 9 and a half inch penis.i feel it is too large as many girls are unable to have sex with me or tell me it hurts. Am i really too big and is there anything i can do to fi... (69 words

My best friend likes the guy that I've secretly been dating

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24 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm in a big problem! My best friend likes the guy I've been secretly dating for a few weeks. Tonight we decided we can't hide it from her anymore but we have no idea how to break it to her. She is going to be so heart broken. I feel like she's gone through a lot of friends... (190 words

Should I date her? She says she is about to break up with her boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - ok so this is how the story goes,,ok so i went to jail like a month ago for no licence, and so my mom went to get me out asap..so she went to the jail and asked how much money did she have to pay in order for me to get out, my mom don't really speak english so there was this ... (386 words

I can't seem to get over my old flame even after a year of no contact!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - 2 years ago i started talking to a guy on msn, and we had such a great connection that we arranged to meet up. I had such an amazing time and we ended up kissing and it gave me butterflys even talking to him. We continued to meet up every weekend after this and it was great, we ... (638 words

I'm 23, and have much difficulty figuring out women!

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24 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - Okay so I'm an adult Autisic male who has never done anything noteworthy with the opposite sex to speak of and to add insult to injury everyone around me thinks that I am gay because of it and I myself am wondering of I am at least bi. I have felt like I have been trapped ... (388 words

What is the purpose of a prince albert piercing?

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - What does a prince albert piercing feel like for women? What is it's purpose?... (14 words

I'd like to have a peaceful relationship with my dad but don't know how to accomplish it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2852 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - I got a problem with my father. I am 26 years old and he is 55 years old. When we do things together, we always end up getting on each other nerves and getting into arguments (only useing words, not phyical fights). I think one of the main reasons is that I am not th... (326 words

How do you know if you will want to have children or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2836 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Question for you since no one has a real good answer for me. My fiancee and I had a discussion the other day about having children. Up to this point in my life I have gone back and forth a lot. Sometimes I want a child, sometimes I absolutely do not. I really can't stand ... (703 words

Where do you get self-esteem from?

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24 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I've found my low self-esteem to be a very undesirable problem in my life and I'm getting pretty sick of it since I can't talk to anyone without worrying that they're looking at my hearing aids (for example). I know myself how stupid it sounds and how it shouldn't even be an ... (141 words

This woman seems interested in my husband, but I'm not sure if anything is really going on!

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24 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - my husband got attracted to his brothers wife...she is tryin to trap him she fell for her..till now they dont have any sexual contact... but he is trying to shift his job 7 hrs near to their city...still nearer is not possible for his job..so tat he can met her monthly once lik... (165 words

Nothing happened but my g/f doesn't trust me!

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24 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I was single 6 months before going to college and decided I wasn't going to date anyone because it would be a waste of my time and I wasn't interested in anyone...then I met this girl who said she was probably going to the same college I was (the only girl I know of that ... (844 words

Wife doesn't want to leave me, but isn't 'in love' anymore. She's happier with her FWB.

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 2848 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - I'm a married man, and my wife has just said that she still loves me but is not in love with me. She says I'm a great father and husband and she doesn't want to hurt me. Then, she explained, she has a friend which has gotten into the "with benefits" stage. I've known for a... (352 words

Can masturbating too often be harmful?

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24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - I do masturbate 4 times daily - is it harmful?... (10 words

How do I curb my wish to check on him? I want to quit doing this

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24 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - How do i change myself to where i don't check up on him so much? I didn't mean to make him think that I distrust him or that i am "checking up" on him. I just tend to get worried about him and want to make sure he is ok. I trust him completely just not the women around him. ... (191 words

Older guy and I seemed to have this great relationship...and then he disappeared! What is going on??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

24 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I know that this is a long story but please read it and give me good answers. I'm so sad. I met this guy on craigslist weeks ago. ( I'm a guy by the way so yeah I'm gay.) He came over my house and we talked and got to know each other. He was very nice and we hugged and kissed. ... (414 words

How can I get him back? Or...should I even want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Okay, So I'm in a sort of love triangle, at the age of 16. Let's start at well... the start: So there's my friends let's call him Max and a girl let's call her Trudy, and then there's me. Me and Max became good friends and really flirted to the extent of Max having is h... (644 words

Did I insult him by asking if he's gay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

24 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - If you think a guy might possibly be gay and after you decide to ask him about it and he blows up at you and doesn't want to speak to you anymore. Is that an admission or did I insult him?... (41 words

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