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I've fallen for a friend who has a rotten boyfriend

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17 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I have this friend who's in a relationship with a guy. And the guy she's with ignores her and blames all of the problems on her. I'm trying to tell her it's not her fault. She also tells me she likes me (as more then just a friend) to because I always listen to her and make her ... (63 words

I love the sister of my ex girlfriend but she won't date me because of her sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - This is a bit of a messy situation i'm in and it's going to take a bit to explain so do bear with me. It starts with this girl i met a few years ago, and when we first met she was interested in me, but only to get back at my mate who dumped her. At the time i kissed her a cou... (763 words

Really uncomfortable being away from home -- and university is coming up!

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17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm an 18 year old girl, and I really hate leaving home. I just don't feel secure anywhere else. Let me explain, from when I was a very young child, I would never be able to go on sleepovers, I could stay at a friends house all night and all evening, but the thought of sleeping ... (362 words

I lied to the guy online and don't know what to do

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17 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - This is not a real dating issue, it's more like an issue that I have with myself, but I'd really appreciate it if you could take some time and help me out with this. I met a great guy online, some 5 months ago. We didn't meet on a dating website or anything like that, we me... (234 words

Difficult marriage and now in-law problems on top of it!

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17 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for last 14 years and have two kids. My marriage is just like a catastrophe. I have been a victim of abusive relationship throughout my married life. We have been arguing every other day for last 5 years at least. We are so fed up but are just together as ... (1387 words

Is it verbal abuse or is it actually my fault?

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17 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - I need some help dealing with my husband. I suspect that he is being verbally / emotionally abusive but I honestly don't know anymore. Maybe it really is my fault. We've been married for 9 years, have no kids and we both work all the time at fairly high powered, high st... (359 words

Pregnant but struggling with my boyfriend....help!

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17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - This is a rather difficult situation but I shall try my best to explain and sorry if it turns into a rant. I have a lot of pent up AHHH to get out. My boyfriend and I have been going out since the end of January. We started talking about having a baby and he was over the moo... (456 words

How could a friend reject me for this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - I have been friends with this guy for about 7 years. We met through work and became very good long distance friends. We have only been together in person about 10 times in those 7 years. We do however talk a lot on the phone or via email. I made a terrible mistake and ... (87 words

He only kisses me when he's drunk

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17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - what does it mean when boyfriend only kisses me when he's drunk?... (12 words

Should I try to work things out with husband or call it quits?

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17 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Where do I draw the line? My husband and I have been married for three years and together for almost six. About a month ago, I found out that he had a conversation with our best friends (a married couple) about swinging. The conversation was held in secret without my knowl... (496 words

Crossed the limit with female work colleague

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17 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - I had friendly relationship with a female work colleague. I was used to flirt her a little bit which was in a acceptable manner. Recently she shifted near my area and she invited me to her house to show it. I crossed the limit a bit and touched her too much. I am not a player ... (244 words

I always feel like an outsider!

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17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I don't know if I'm thinking to deep or if other people feel this way to, but some times i feel a little bit like an outside, like a soul level like i don't fit in. I can get on pretty well with people and i don't do a'lot to offend anyone, but I've always felt like a bit ... (99 words

I'm scared I've closed down sexually because of past experiences

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have just come out of a 6 year incredibly traumatic relationship. the only thing that was fantastic was the sex and our beautiful boy . I have since started seeing a guy and got very close very quickly on all levels . he is incredibly tactile in and out of bed and complements ... (102 words

Tips on meeting women who share my interests?

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17 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - I wrote this question originally: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/whats-the-best-way-for-me-to-meet.html Thank you for your advice. I won't trust online dating due to scams, so where else could I meet women with the same interests? I may try dating older women. Despite ... (342 words

Why has my boyfriend not kissed me yet? How do I get him to kiss me?

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17 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for a week now. He is 18 and I am 17. We have held hands in the movies and hugged several times. He just hadnt kissed me yet! This would be my first kiss and I don't know if it would be his first kiss though. Is it too early for us to ... (125 words

What are signs that he likes you?

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17 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - How do you know he likes you? What are some things to look out for to know if a guy likes you?... (22 words

Get him back or get back at him, this time on my terms.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - So there is this guy i met 1 1/2 yr ago. He was a coworker and we slept together. I thought he really liked me. It turned out to be a one night stand and he left me hanging agonizing over him. I spent a yr wishing he would contact me. He got transferred to a differnt location ... (312 words

Why has my boyfriend's behavior suddenly changed?

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17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. For the first 2 months we only saw each other 2/3 times a week due to work and just getting to know each other. We got extremely close though. Due to our work schedules though we only actually spent maybe 1 wh... (312 words

New boyfriend uses pornography and I'm afraid its going to cause problems like with my last boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello. Well I apologise if this turns out to be a longwinded question. But I’m really struggling to come to terms with my boyfriends use of porn. I’ve been with him nearly a year and he has always been honest about the fact he watches it. He tells me he doesn’t watch a lot and ... (186 words

Break through bleeding using birth control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2791 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hello, i was prescribed microgynon 30 for excessively heavy periods and my doctor recommended I Take this medication without breaks for three months. Since I began my third strip I have experienced brown discharge with mild cramping. My doctor told me about breakthrough ... (93 words

How long should I wait for the right person before I just accept there's no such thing as a perfect first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - im 17, i'll be 18 in march and ive just come out of a relationship of 3 months. im also a virgin. i thought my last boyfriend was the right person to lose it to and i told him i was a virgin and that i wanted to lose it to him. he was fine with it ad said he'd make it special ... (206 words

What should I do to satisfy my sexual desires, please help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - I can't stand with my sexual desires any more. I am 28 years old but I haven't experienced woman body...I always do masturbating but it doesn't give me anymore the kind of pleasure that I look for you. Since I am not stable financially, so there is no chance of me getting ... (181 words

Is it an insult to be called "posh"?

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17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Would you consider it an insult to be called " posh " ?. I am well mannered, intelligent, kind and caring, and i usually dress smartly. So, i think that's why this person called me " posh " once. I also don't usually swear , unless i'm really angry, dont smoke, and rarely ... (199 words

Is this an emotional affair?

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17 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - How can i know if i'm in a emotionnal affair with my male bff (i've known him for one year)? I adore my boyfriend but i like the attention i get from my bff he listens to me and notices me more than my bf it seems. I'm addicted to it I think like a drug. I don't want to have a ... (362 words

Why do people think its okay to berate women who sleep with married men?

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm so fed up reading people taking the moral high ground on every topic, especially that of married cheats and 'home wreckers' There is so much contraversy surrounding cheating at the moment on this site and I would like to express my views as everybody else has! How and w... (264 words

Should I remain single and party or settle down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm almost 20 and I've never been in a relationship mainly because I'm attracted to much older men (teachers, etc.) But I've recently fallen for someone my age and he's really mature and I think he's the one (he's my close friend and doesn't know anything about it yet). I wanna ... (127 words

I want to get married and have kids so badly, how do I get rid of this feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I swear to the powers that be, about 90% of the people I graduated with (class of '08) or graduated a year below me have kids, are engaged, married or all of the above. Here's some annoying facts: Both of my best friends (who graduated with me) are married. One of them has ... (356 words

Boyfriend is talking to another girl online but not cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have boyfriend that have been with for 6 years got a 5 year old child with and is engaged. He gets on a site called craiglist and talk to girl behind my back I have asked him why he does this he says I don't know. now he is doing again right after my bday and our date that we ... (322 words

She never calls, what do I make of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi Guys. I met this girl like 3 weeks back, I was somewhere new and asked her for directions. She had the most charming of smiles and we soon got talking (even after she pointed me to the right way) We since exchanged numbers and have been really close since. The thing is me ... (438 words

I am not sure about making the first move.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi Cupids. I am having trouble with the concept of a woman asking a man out. I was raised in a very traditional home and it was drilled into my head from early on that if a man is REALLY interested in a woman, he will ask her out, period, end of story. It is the woman's ... (540 words

Is he seriously unhappy or just depressed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (? age 26-29 - dear cupid, in my opinion, there's not really a whole lot that makes sense right now. buuut i'll try to make sure that this question isn't one of those things. i really hope that someone on here can help me out; this is absolutely tearing me apart, and i want nothing more tha... (491 words

She has a new boyfriend but I still have feelings for her, do I still have a chance or is she gone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Alright this is kind of long question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year and for most of the school year she had a boyfriend ... (278 words

Should I be angry at a drunken kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys, basically I have been seeing my now ex boyfriend for 8 months, he is the most caring loving honest person ever. I have trust issues due to my past and I accused my boyfriend almost everyday of cheating on me, fancying my friends and even his cousin, he never gave me ... (245 words

Married bi woman seeking advice on how to keep the trust in her marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey ladies have a problem about my sexuality. You see im bisexual and never came out to 'ANYONE' in my whole life (there was no point as my family and friends are all old school as well as very homaphobic so i wouldnt have done myself any good.) I spent my teenage years w... (346 words

I am virgin, but do not fit the description of most virgins.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 18 years old, male, and still a virgin. With my ex-gf of 2.5 years, all we did was have oral sex countless times, almost every time we hung out. We never had sex because she didn't want too for some reason. But this isn't the problem. The annoying problem is that a lot ... (153 words

He spent more money on his ex than he does with me, did he love her more?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - did my partner spend more money on his ex because he loved her more? He was with her for a short time but furnished her house and paid her rent, got her a car and paid for her boob job. With me, he is not like that. ... (54 words

What do girls think of guys who offer to buy them drinks?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Ok this isnt really a relationship question but it is related to boy-girl stuff. A friend of mine told me the other night that he has never bought a girl a drink--he says that its basically like prostitution, paying a girl to like you. This struck me as a pretty bizarre theory ... (89 words

My BF seemed to forget my hospital appointment. Am I being over sensitive, or does he not really care?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - Dear all, Please can you tell me if I am over analyzing or reading into this. I have been with my BF for around coming up to six months now. I told him over the weekend, I have an important hospital appointment on tuesday. I saw him on the sunday evening before - we had ... (189 words

Texting a guy who already has a girlfriend.....is this wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I know this may seem obvious and I'm sure most of you will right away say it is wrong and I shouldnt be texting him, but let me give you the full story and please reserve your judgement until then! I met a guy on Saturday night whilst out with a group of friends, he is a... (405 words

Am I too controlling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend says im controlling. We both have very different views on the world and the way to act in a relationship. He told me he cheated on me in the first year and i said id forgive him because i knew he was in a bad place and had just broken up with someone before we met. ... (201 words

Does physical appearance matter much to girls?

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17 August 2011 (M age 22-25 - Hey guys, this is mainly for teenagers but I would like to hear what others have to say about it too. Does physical appearance matter much to girls, by appearance I mean like muscle or height. Also ive talked with tons of girls that say penis size is a big deciding factor if a ... (80 words

How should I act on the next date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Need some quick advice here. I was talking with one of my best friends and i told him i havent had a relationship in about a year and i told him i miss having someone i can be intimate with (not necessarily physically). Anyways, he suggested i meet his cusin who was single and ... (343 words

Heartbroken father of three loves his wife with all his heart, but.....

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - My wife sent extremely sexually suggestive photos of herself to a guy that she had a sexual relationship with just before we started dating. We had been together for nine years when she did this. It was a part of some extremely sexually suggestive conversation including plans ... (272 words

I'm struggling to give this new girl a chance because of an ex-FWB....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Well I'm gonna cut a long story short...I kinda fell for a girl I was FWB with (I've posted questions about her before). We've since pretty much stopped speaking, I've tried to remain friends but she doesn't seem interested, so I took the hint and left it. There's now a ... (279 words

Fed up of being treated like an idiot.....

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17 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - I wake up in the morning angry and upset. Not so long ago I had 3 jobs, on top of the 3 jobs I would also do literally everything in the house, including cooking, cleaning, washing, tidying up etc on behalf of my partner. Once he gets back from work he does literally nothing, ... (427 words

How do I cope and how can I support my partner?

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17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - hi guys my boyfriend who has been a weed addict has quit since sunday (which is the last time i saw him) i texted him today which is usually when we see each other and asked if he wanted to hang out. he didnt reply for a while then just called me saying he wouldnt be able ... (190 words

I cant get over the fact I'm not going to be her first kiss!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I've never been kissed. My girlfriend has. We met in person, now long distance, it has been almost a year. She was kissed years ago, and it still makes her feel used to me. It hurts so bad, and I am so depressed. I've waited my whole life for her, and she gave hers away s... (164 words

My Fiancé still in love with a dead woman...Do I, or don't I, leave him?

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17 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - My Fiancé is a generally wonderful guy; intelligent, sweet, loving and kind. He's a doctor and very passionate about his work. While he does lab research now, he did do many years with Doctors Without Borders (D.W.B.) and I know he saw some really horrible things. Those things ... (531 words

How can we make sure our relationship stays strong whilst juggling jobs and a newborn?

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17 August 2011 (? age 30-35 - Im pregnant and am engaged to a rugby player who is away training and playing etc for about half the year. Our relationship is great and we cope with not being able to see each other every second of the day but as i am a newly qualified teacher and about to start teaching my ... (123 words

How do I approach my supervisor and let him know I am interested whilst keeping everything private?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - He everyone I could really use some sound, constructive and useful advice, I would be much obliged. I work with this guy who is one of my supervisors, I like him a lot and he befriended me on FB. Anyway my question is I need to approach this situation delicately, so how exactly ... (133 words

Guys: Are you more or less attracted to a girl when you've seen her without makeup?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - guys, are you more attracted to a girl after seeing her without makeup? perhaps less? I'm just curious to know what guys think on this topic. ... (26 words

I love my boyfriend but cant help my feelings for his friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2802 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I have a boyfriend who I've been dating for about a year and a half, and I lost my virginity to him, and I love him. I truly do. But he has a friend... and I find myself really excited to see him, and I'm really friendly towards him, and I always feel happy around h... (671 words

His ex won't leave us alone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I know this is long, but it covers the "high points" Please read... I am 23yrs old. I have been dating a man who is 39yrs old. We practically live together with his 2 sisters and his 2 kids. I gave this man everything I could, I sacrficed so much of my youth for him, drove ... (877 words

Has seeing me with this other guy triggered his feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2801 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - so there's this guy that i liked about a year ago, he sorta of seemed interested (we flirted and stuff) but i couldn't tell. after a verbal denial he gave someone else, i stopped trying; i don't get emotionally attached that easy, so it wasn't really a big deal. since i've ... (362 words

My wife thinks she's a failure and "broken" and "invalid" because she can't have children

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2797 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - My wife and I have been together since we were 20, married since we were 23 and trying for a baby since we were 24. We're now 29 and recently (two months ago) found out that she is infertile. When we got the news, we were both devastated but my wife fell into a deep depression ... (218 words

Completely infatuated by an older married man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I met Craig* almost 6 months ago. He's in his mid 40's and as the title states, he's married. He also has children who're close to my age (I'm 21). We're in a band together and meet once a week for band practice so, I see him fairly often. I was only slightly attract... (802 words

Her mom found me hiding in her closet and now the family doesn't like me! Help me make it right!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 22-25 - my girlfriends parents, i WAS on good terms with her but with the past events with my gf, i think she really dislikes me. the reason: i went to my girlfriends house without her parents knowing,and i swear all we did was kiss on the lips and talk and watched tv, i ate subway... (250 words

Am I over-analyzing/ over-stressing about my situation? Or is my restlessness justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I met in college where we were first friends and now have been dating for 4 years. I would love for him to propose to me sometime soon. However,I do not have a job and without the financial stability of two incomes (his and mine), not only would we be unable to ... (298 words

How do I ask a girl out if I'm shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - ok so I have never asked a girl out before and I have dated around 10 girls since i was in middle school and until now that i recently graduated high school.. some relationships were not serious and we were just fooling around i have not dated a girl since i got out of high ... (161 words

How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I spend 15 months with him. he was my world he was my first for so manything.. and he broke up with me. that ways a year ago.. i tried to forget i tried to move on ive dated other guys. but he has my heart i cant forget him the way he hugged me kissed me. the way he pick me up ... (144 words

Is it bad that my boyfriend holds the back of my head during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Is it bad that my bf holds the back of my head during sex ?.he does it gently,and usually does that when i'm on top of him.sometimes he has held my head when i have given him oral too.he also holds my hand during sex sometimes too.... (47 words

Not even been for our first date yet and he texts saying 'Love ya'. What does this mean?

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17 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - I'm going on a first date and the man I've been talking to and texting he texts me and out of the blue says love ya what does that mean ?... (31 words

How to handle crossing the line?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - I've been seeing a girl for several months now who I absolutely love and even live together with. She has many guy friends and has always been very open about things with them and has never hidden that some of them have romantic interests with her. Naturally it makes me feel... (358 words

He doesn't seem to be happy with my contribution to the household

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2805 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi. My live-in boyfriend thinks i do not do as much housework as him when i do. He also thinks that whilst he does it to make me be happier in a clean home that i only do it if i occasionally feel like it. He doesnt seem to care what my opinion of him is but i really care that ... (261 words

I'm confused. She gave me her number and now won't answer?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - So, a couple days ago at work this group comes in. I'm behind the desk so I help everyone. Consequently I sing really well so from time to time i sing to customers and at some point during the night, must have sung to this girl because she came up to me and started a ... (201 words

Close friend got drunk and we made out and now she's cool to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have a really close friend who I have known for a really long time. Last night she got quite drunk and we ended up kissing and pleasuring each other to orgasm. It is common knowledge that I am bisexual however she thought she was straight. We have gone from talking every ... (146 words

Could I have been writing my future on the wall?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Well the thing is I have been obsesed with writing the letter D on walls with my finger for like a year when im nervous r anxious then it makes me feel relieved but last week i met this boy whos names tarts with 'D' and we clicked righ away , he lives in different counry but ... (120 words

I can't have her it would destroy too many people but I love my girlfriend's best friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

17 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - Hello, I have been with my girlfriend for 10 years, we have two kids and a whole life together. She loves me with all her heart. Over the past year though I have started to have feelings for someone else. The problem is the girl is my girlfriend's best friend. I have known ... (320 words

Can someone explain French kissing to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2805 days ago

17 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - So french kissing is new to me and today, my bf and i were making out and he slipped the tongue for the first time but i didn't know what to do with it! i found myself wrapping my lip on it and I'm about 100% sure that's not what you're supposed to do. Everything else feels ... (88 words

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