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I'm scared this girl is too perfect!

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7 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I’m seeing this girl who is the most incredible person I’ve ever met!! But I think she is too perfect and too good to be true that i'm skeptical whether to carry on seeing her. Guys what do you think… She is so beautiful, knock out figure, great humour, intelligent, suc... (270 words

I wanted to cheat with him knowing he has a girlfriend!

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey I'm T and I am 18. I have this friend that's recently appeared back into my life after we ran into each other... he is a gorgeous guy and we can talk for hours. He's with this really crazy girl and he hates it - he doesn't want to be with her anymore, she physically abuses ... (317 words

Is this guy not into me because I'm pregnant?

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - ok theres this guy i grew up with, small town, itll be 3 yrs ago in jan that we had really hung out, he had been in Iraq n lived in Arizona at the time, but was back to visit family. well we had be talking back and forth for a couple weeks so i invited him over one night, he ... (789 words

Should I start talking to my ex again? Just as friends.

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - So, I'm really crossed between these 2 decisions. I stopped talking to my ex 4 months ago because my friends said that I should... I don't really know why I listened, I can't even remember if that was the reason. I think because our long-distance relationship didn't work at ... (142 words

How do I overcome my shyness and worrying?

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7 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - ill get straight to the point; how do i overcome my shyness? im a big worrier i worry about everything, i get anxious easly and have no confidence in my self, i have had counselling befo when i was 16 im now 18, im always finding parts of my body im not comfrotable with... (104 words

He never texted me back! Give up?

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Went on a date wedensday night with a guy I really liked and its now sunday night and he never texted back should I give up on him?... (28 words

Why doesn't my older boyfriend help with the bills?

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7 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am 26, and am/was dating a 43 year old. I normally tend to date guys younger than me or my same age, but figured I'd try something different this time. Anyways, he has basically been living with me the past 2 months and has never offered anything for any of my bills. Now, i'm ... (320 words

He wouldn't give me his phone number when I asked for it. Is he not interested in me?

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - so I've been going to this bar for 2 months now and I've made really good friends with pretty much every single guy that works there. the bartender might have a small crush on me but I'm interested in one of the security guards. we joke around a lot and recently started playing ... (768 words

I don't want to get back together with my wife but I'm gutted that she's seeing someone!

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7 August 2011 (M age 51-59 - I have recently separated from my partner of 20 years as we have drifted apart - I caused the split as I have been very unhappy for the past year or so. Since we separated I have been living on my own and enjoying being free again. I have had a couple of one night stands b... (166 words

Sexy stud, or sex dud

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7 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - Good day... I never went public about this before, but this site seems really good for people to express their relationships. Someone help me out here... I think I'm strugglin' with e.d. . MY OWN methods have not worked for me thus far. I can get rock hard when I'm al... (272 words

Want to have sex with my cousin, need advice??

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7 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - hi my age is 18. I am male. I want to have sex with my cousin, she is also 18. Just 1 month elder than me. Plz tell me how to seduce her.... (33 words

Found out he's looking at porn, feeling very insecure. what to do??

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7 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - I found out my boyfriend looked at younger women in porn and now I'm embarrassed to be naked in front of him. This is the first relationship I've been in where I actually felt GREAT about sex. I was excited by the sight of him and initiated regularly. We were having a gre... (206 words

Should older women stop taking birth control pills??

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7 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - I think I want to start having kids by beginning of next year. Me and my boyfriend have talked about it. I am currently on birth control and I am 30yrs old. Had a convo with girlfriends who told me I have to stop taking such pills at this age. This means that I will have to ... (113 words

Should I just get over him, and how do I do that??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

7 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - So....my problem is men related! Nothing new there then! Haha! I'll keep it (try to) as brief as possible. But basically I think I'm being blown out and lost guy I think was right for me. I met him 4 months ago, he told me from first date didn't do relationships not looking for ... (397 words

Am I asking for too much or what??

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7 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - We turned a year last sunday and I only received one phone call and he was too tires to talk anyways... Here is the story: We met through a mutual friend a year ago. Although it was long distance, he seemed like a good guy so I gave it a chance. Few months in, I noticed he ... (446 words

Ladies, I am attracted to her, think she is to me, what do I do now, we work together??

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7 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I'm after some female advice. I really like a girl who works on same floor but in different department. I've told her that I liked her. I kind of decided last year not to pursue anything as I thought it would interfere with work. Not sure at the time if I could have... (350 words

He wants to be tied up, I need a confidence booster, help me please??

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7 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hi. Me and my boyfriend are 17, we have been together 6 months now and recently we’ve been getting a lot more intimate. We havnt had sex, Im not quite ready yet so he has promised we’ll wait until I am but he does finger me and I give him handjobs (we havnt got to oral yet). We ... (249 words

We broke up, I'm miserable, want him back, any suggestions??

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Me and my bf of 6 months broke up 2months ago and im still madly inlove with him i cant get him out my head im absolutely crazy about him He wont talk to me at all im running after him like a puppy dog text after text etc i know i shouldnt but i cant help myself :'( I did bre... (205 words

Long distance bf, hooked-up, nothing since, what to do??

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7 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi Me and my bf of 2 years were in LDR for the past 1 year. Recently i came back to my place and we hooked up yesterday. We did have sex for the first time in 1 year and it was great. He said a lot of romantic things like he never met a girl like me before and loves me so ... (147 words

Fell in love, not returned, any suggestions??

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7 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - i m 28 year i m fall in love with my cousin sister but she never love me iwant to sex her she is very sexy she is 20 how can i attract for sex in the past when she was 15 whenever i tried to tuch her boaby she irretate ... (51 words

Had unprotected sex, have an issue now, please help??

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey everyone Ok i had unprotected sex 2nights ago and since yesterday morning iv had a little bit of thrush :-/ I obviously did wash well after intercorse etc as you do but im a little bit worried not about sti's coz thats not an issue but can anyone help me on this??? Than... (58 words

Information on speed dating appreciated, good or bad??

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7 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - just wondering if speed dating is any good? seems like fun. anyone done it?... (14 words

Ex bf still in picture, what can one do??

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7 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend who I have a kid with and we've been together for 3.5 yrs. Our daughters 2.5 yrs old. Coming into the relationship she had kids with a prior bf and a relationship lasting 13 yrs. She swears up and down shes over him and has no feelings. Yet she has a ... (199 words

I get extremely excited when boyfriend kisses me or holds my hand

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Ok this is gonna sound strange but I need to know is this normal. Every time I hold hand or just kiss my boyfriend I cum. I don't know what it is but it just happens like if being honest he hasn't been in my trousers yet but he just so romantic and even when we kiss It just ... (68 words

How do I communicate with my family who doesn't listen to me?

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - This kinda harps on but I want you to know the entire story The main question is How to I communicate with my family that doesn't want to listen to me. I,m sick of being treated like crap in my own house. I have 3 older sisters 28, 25 and 21 and i,m 19. All my sisters li... (426 words

She blows me off and tells me we were never even dating, just friends!

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7 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Let's go straight to the topic... I've been seeing this girl for a few months and still have a serious crush on her. I tried to go for a kiss twice, but I'm rather shy and I couldn't get more that an awkward hug. We texted each other every day, and before her 5-day trip to an... (274 words

What do I do about this gorgeous girl who is chasing me and I feel nothing for?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

7 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - There's this girl in my neigbourhood; pretty, intelligent and gorgeous. She's been like making passes at me (which i intentionally ignors). Of late, she's bin texting me love messages and even told me that i'm the guy she dreams of, she loves and needs me ...... and all that... (229 words

What's the best way to go about dating?

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7 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi, i was looking for some advice on dating, i was wondering how other people started off, id prefer to be friends first with the guy but how about meeting and dating strangers on a night out. whats best way to go about dating? ... (52 words

We've been trying for 2 years and she can't get pregnant!

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7 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - my and my partner have been trying for a baby for 2 years now and nothing has happened is it me i have never got a girl pregnant as i didnt have sex until i was 18 i met her when i was 20 we used a condom for the 1st year and for the past 2 we havent used anything but nothing ... (111 words

I'm very apprehensive about a job I applied for!

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7 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice...I'm so confused re the job offer. I am absolutely broke and I have been looking for a job for 3 months now and I've been offered a manager role at a company. Ok salary, enough to pay bills and although company isn't dream place or job it's a job ... (313 words

Should I send this actor a message on facebook before I send a friend request

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7 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Should i send this actor a message on facebook before i send a friend request ?. He isn't a very well known actor. We used to email each other a lot, from our email addresses, not on facebook, as his email is on his website. I also added his sister on facebook once, and we ... (662 words

How do I deal with insecurities stemming from past relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

7 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - Please can someone tell me how to deal with bad insecurities with my current partner which I think stems from my previous two relationships? Thanks... (25 words

Should I make out with my first cousin once removed?

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7 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - hi me and my first cousin once removed (girl) get a long great but she has never made out before. she has been asking me about the topic. should I make out with her and show her how... (38 words

How could my ex have changed so much in just a few days?

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7 August 2011 (M age 22-25 - me and my gf were together for two years and seven months. at first everything was perfect we were good friends for a little over a year and decided to date. we shared so much history together we were in love but in the last few months we've been having arguments about dumb ... (305 words

Ex and I thrown together because of friends but he won't even speak to me!

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7 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - We dated for two years and then I broke up with him because I was in college and it wasn't working with us. Kind of hit him out of the blue because he had no clue anything was wrong. He logged on my fb and read a convo between me and this guy that I was interested in and went ... (429 words

Words or action, which speaks the truth about this man?

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7 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - They say action speak louder than words, but I'd like to hear it one more time from you aunts please. My boyfriend says one thing, but his body language and actions make me wonder if his word alone is good enough. He tells me he loves me, yet keeps forgetting to respond to te... (402 words

Husband wants a divorce, saying he's not sure if he ever loved me!

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7 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - Married 23yrs and have 2 children 20,21 husband got in shape and gain self confidence he looks real hot, now came to me on Monday and said he wants a divorce.I had said i wanted a divorce last yr to him because I wanted him to wake up, on our 22 anniversary he went and ... (484 words

I feel as if my boyfriend is still playing childish games with me, while I want a grown-up relationship! I'm sick and tired of this nonsense

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2878 days ago

7 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - After expressing my needs wants and desires to my boyfriend he said he wanted the same things and we made a plan to move forward...Its been over 6 moths and still no forward movement in our relationship. We made a timeline and told him that if those things did not happen by... (931 words

Why does my ex keep hurting me?

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - What does he keep hurting me like this? what is wrong with me:(? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, I thought we had a relationship, I thought I was special to him the way he was special to me. But he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. We've broken up... (277 words

I still love him. He's ignoring me. He's going in 2 days. what Can I do?

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7 August 2011 (F - I feel im going mad with my ex. We split a few months back because he joined the army and is about to be posted abroad for 8 months. But we still keep in touch, text, chat and flirt because I still love him and he says he still has feelings for me. But about 4 weeks ago he went ... (307 words

Am I being overly concerned that my current relationship will be adversely affected by a past crush of mine?

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7 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm 22 years old i am in a loving relationship with my partner who i've been with for over a year 15 months today actually. But before i found my partner now i did like a friend whom i thought felt possibly the same towards me as things happened between us, not such as kiss... (339 words

Is he still loyal to me? Or is he besotted with this girl at his work who looks like a porn star?

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - i am distrustful of my boyfriend so logged into his computer without him knowing. i searched through his internet history and found that he had found porn star images that look exactly like a girl who he works. And I know that girl at his work likes him. i'm sure he likes her. ... (152 words

I'm not having any pregnancy pains now. Is something wrong?

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7 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Im around 5 weeks pregnent with my first child and was always getting period like cramps every now and then in my lower belly. But now since friday morning ive not been getting pains in my belly at all. Im only going by what docs say that im 5 weeks but know im really worried ... (87 words

How to go from pecking to more?

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7 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Simple enough question. Ive got a new bf love him to pieces. we have only pecked so far. how do i like go from peckng to getting off with him as ive never done it before and dont know how to take it from there is it natural or what? x ... (55 words

If your partner wants a threesome does this mean that they do not love you?

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7 August 2011 (? age 41-50 - Question - if you partner wants to have a threesome/experiment with others in your sex life, does it really mean that they do not love you? ... (33 words

Older husband has ED, do I cheat?

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7 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - need help.my husband is older by 12 yrs..he has ED.i am only 33 even though we r married..do i stop hhaving sex cause he cant..i like having sex..our sex life has never been great anyway..so do i find me someone on the side just for sex or just stop all together cause he cant... (54 words

What to do when having an affair and you are both married?

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7 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - if your are married and your significant other is married and you both love each other then what do u do.just keep it on the down low..or stop messing around,,neither of u r divorcing but u love each other to stop being intimate... (44 words

When is the right age to have sex?

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7 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - dear readers.. this is a sex question. everyone has different opinions on the right age to have sex right? it all depends on your values as a person, ie religion, gender, family, friends, boyfriend, etc.. just what ever makes you, you. so i thought i would run a little... (172 words

Considering our misunderstandings do I have a chance still?

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7 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - well, i met a very sweet girl n she was so friendly that i couldn't even imagine at all. after 3 times meeting accidentally, we got share of our cell nos n we became very good friends. after we got to meet many times, i got fallen in love with her. but what could i do as she h... (186 words

I sent him off to have sex with transgenders, now I feel sick!

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7 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been with a guy for 4 years, stable relationship and couple of years ago he told me he likes transgender girls. I'm a very open minded person, and accepted he's sexuality and told him that I would support him if he needed to explore he's sexuality. For me, I wouldn't w... (154 words

Any positive stories on successful threesomes?

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7 August 2011 (? age 41-50 - Hi. My bf has made it clear that he wants to experiment sexually, with either another man or a woman. we want to settle down togther but he is someone who gets bored easily and he would like to experiment sexually. We are both quite kinky and have experimented with S and M. I ... (157 words

How do I get my virgin boyfriend to consider going down on me and talking dirty to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - My 21 year old boyfriend, who I love dearly, is not exactly incredibly sexually suave, lol. Now, he is a virgin. So, I am being really understanding and not being forceful. I'm trying to go slow. Before me, he had done absolutely nothing with a girl. Conversely, I have been in ... (937 words

Planning a wedding and don't have a clue. Can anyone give simple wedding ideas?

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7 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my fiance are starting to plan our wedding. I've never been to one and despite a lot of trawling the net, I still have no clue what's involved! Do you have any stories or simple wedding ideas from your own wedding or one you've been to? Anything and everything would help ... (461 words

Am I reading too much into the actions of my ex?

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7 August 2011 (F age - I'm not sure where I'm going with this question but, I feel I need some insight into a matter which I have allowed myself to be bothered about. This has to do with my ex whom I have been apart from for shortly over a yr. now after 8 yrs. together. I also, apologize before hand ... (550 words

My girlfriend has taken me back with strange condition , please help me

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7 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - 25 days back, my ex-girlfriend took me back after 15 months break up with her. We were together for 2 years before I dumping her in first week of January 2010 . I left her telling her to try new options in my option ... I mean dating new girls. She was not happy with tha... (334 words

How can I show this guy that I am interested in more than just friends?

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7 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have now met an older guy .we have been out three times and get on have lots in common. He has told me by text he likes me a lot and I feel that there is chemistry there. He hasn't made any romantic move on me though and I feel confused and don't know what to do .I am shy ... (102 words

Am I too clingy or do we not see each other enough? Is he a mama's boy?

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Am I too clingy or do we not see each other enough? I am my boyfriend's first legitimate and serious girlfriend. I, on the other hand, have experienced a serious relationship before. I am the type of person that really loves to devote myself to my partner. I feel that my ... (1162 words

Why does he act so destructive after we get close?

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7 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - Dear all. Please help. I.m so hurt and confused. I,ve been seeing my bf for around 5 months. Over the last month,we have got closer,and i feel i.ve started to fall in love with him. It appears that he has too. The emotions are running very high,and get more intense with each ... (160 words

Guy breaks up with me then asks me out?

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7 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been talking to him for a few months. We've slept together but he still doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. I've told him I'm not doing it with him anymore. He told me over a month ago that it was over and that he wasn't looking for what I was right now. Then the ... (242 words

Do you think our relationship is going to last?

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Ok We met my senior prom night we both were single he was going with his best friend from my school. The whole summer we continued to see each other pretty much everday doing very fun things. Partying, seeing movies, typical summer fun. Going into the relationship we both ... (136 words

Is my best friend trying to ruin our friendship?

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Having an issue with my best friend. So, my best friend is gay, and, honestly, I thought that was the best kind of friend. A guy who could give me advice in fashion, be blunt about how I look, y'know. But recently he's been skinning me off... Like, he told me that he's been ... (171 words

Creepy guy won't leave me alone.

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - So, I have a problem. Well, it started that there was this guy I had a crush on, he was really cool. He was a year older, (I love older guys, even by a year) he had 3 tattoos, and just had a really cool background. To a 19 year old, that's perfect, right? So, he and I hung out ... (233 words

I'm conflicted... I want a girly girl, but the girls I'm attracted to complain about stupid BS on facebook.

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7 August 2011 (M age 22-25 - I am so tired of being picky but I can't help it. So here is the situation. I have like three or four, maybe five girls who I could date right now and they are all very nice but Im not physically attracted to two of them. and the others complain about there lives and how ... (455 words

We separated and I slept with another woman. I am still in love my ex. If I reunite with my ex, should I tell her I've been sleeping with another lady, or should I keep mucking around with this other woman?

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7 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - So - the love of my life and I are on a three month break to allow both of us the time and space to get things right in our heads and to understand if we should continue seeing each other. Its been almost two months, and I've unfortunately had sex twice with two other differ... (261 words

Why did he send me home when we were supposed to spend the whole weekend together?

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7 August 2011 (? age 26-29 - dear cupid, soo, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two months now. it would have been almost four, but there was some drama caused by circumstances that were beyond our control, soo, we had to break up for, like, a month. the first time we were together, e... (290 words

We're each other's first significant other, but he doesn't behave the way I'd like him to.

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7 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hi!! I've been dating this guy for almost 6 months, and he never invites me anywhere, we see each other almost every day in college, but when we have free time (like vacations, weekends or anything) he never asks if we could meet or something, he just waits util we start cl... (183 words

I broke of up with my boyfriend of 4 years, but I have trouble warming to other men.

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - i broke up with my first bf a couple months ago. we were together for about four years, and it wasn't working anymore... i still love him, but we were fighting a lot for no reason, i was constantly crying and it was taking it's toll on me. at first, i thought it would be good... (207 words

I'm gay, but no one knows...how do I deal with this?

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7 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I have a big problem about fitting in but not the type Im weird fitting in. The problem is that I'm gay but know one knows about me except for a few friends at school. I feel that no one should know about me unless you ask or figure it out yourself. See I have no one to talk to ... (221 words

I am considering asking this guy out, but not sure if I should.

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7 August 2011 (? age 36-40 - I am considering asking a guy out on a date. He works in a building I'm doing work on (construction renovations). I run into him often with my coworkers and boss. I see him often because of work. We look at each other a lot. We are friendly. He usually seems happy to see m... (240 words

Could I be gay? Watching girl porn excites my husband AND me

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7 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - I got married last dec. and my husband and i started watching porn just a few months ago for ideas. we have been watching a lot of girl on girl action and it has turned me on to the point that we have thought about asking another woman to join us. am i turning gay? i love my ... (69 words

What does an itchy red irritated belly button mean is wrong?

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7 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - My belly button has been itchy the past couples days. Today I noticed the inside of my belly button is red and irritated. Should I be worried?... (27 words

What do high self esteem women care about V low self esteem women?

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7 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - Is it generally true that low self esteem women care more about the status/popularity/what everyone else thinks of the men they choose to be with, i.e. the more popular the better, and that high self esteem women don't particularly care about status as long as her man is a ... (54 words

Is a Divorce the only way to fix this?

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7 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - I cant help but feel that a divorce is the only way to fix our relationship. My wife and i have been married for almost 4 years now and things are starting to get all messed up. we have always had little fights that seemed big but we always worked through them. when we were ... (424 words

Is it possible to have a relationship with a passive-aggressive person who can't communicate?

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7 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Is it wrong to leave someone who is so passive aggressive that no matter what you do they will not communicate at an adult level? Is there any real help for people like this? Is it possible for them to become emotionality mature and have loving and meaningful relationsh... (64 words

Why don't women with low self-esteem stay loyal to emotionally strong men?

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7 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - Why don't low self esteem women choose to be loyal to emotionally strong, masculine men, who are good to them? (a generalization)... (22 words

Caught in a love square and don't know how to get out of it!!

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7 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've never been in a love square before but I have def entered one. I liked a guy Kelen (names are all changed :] ) and Kelen and I were slowly liking each other. Then, a lady friend of his, Kelsey, randomly began hanging out with me. I found it odd that she became so close ... (206 words

Am afraid of telling the elderly people I work with that I am leaving my job...how do I handle this?

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7 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi just a quick question. Hope you can help. This is not relationship question. It is regarding my work. I work in the community, have done so for 6 years and over the years, i have built up some good friendships. But due to the attitudes of the managers and other people... (252 words

He didn't reply to my text after I said I would come round to see him. Did I hurt him or is he angry at me??

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7 August 2011 (? age 30-35 - Me and a guy friend were supposed to meet up today but the weather is crap so it doesn't look like it's happening. It was his idea to meet up but today it decided to rain (typical). I text him and it went like this: Me: Enjoying the weather? ;) Him: Rain :( Me: Yeah. Typic... (362 words

How do I stop my passionate crush on my teacher, who is 20 years older than me and married??

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7 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Ok, well I think I'm in love with my teacher. He's about 20 years older, married, and his wife's pregnant. I always seem to think of him all the time, no matter what I'm doing. I also lust after him, and most recently I've been having fantasies of him and me. I know it's wrong, ... (189 words

Is it ok to have sex with my first cousin once removed?

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7 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I have been thinking of having sex with my first cousin once removed is this wrong? and should I do it? thanks... (23 words

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