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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is high status a turn on for women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - For those women who care what others think of their BFs, is high status itself (not his confidence) a sexual turn on like boobs are for men? Eg. a TV presenter, CEO, famous musician, etc.... (35 words)

I feel like I've messed up my chances with her... how long do I wait until she can like me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, this story/question is long and convoluted... Here goes. I have two friends, one is my best friend ever, she is the most amazing person I know. The other is a friend who lives a while away from me, and we get on really well. Now the part where I look bad, I really liked ... (395 words)

What signals is this girl sending me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am now seperated from my wife of 15 years and trying to learn how to date and read the signals again. I am in my mid forties. There is a girl i know at the gym (mid thirties) who I get on very well with. We have had kisses and cuddles in the past during nights out - whe... (281 words)

How can I fit in ? will things be different this time ? Am I going to be able to catch up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. Well basically I'll try and keep this short, after the summer holidays it has been decided that i am now going to go to a new high school. I've missed about 6 months of my education and am extremely behind and I've been being home tutored now for about 2 months. i have to ... (500 words)

I want my ex back but don't know how to go about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My exboyfriend and I been together for almost four years. We were having arguments now and then and he decided to end the relationship and i decided to agree with it because i didn't had any choice. After our breakup i tried to talk to him but he said he didn't want to talk to ... (375 words)

How could I find out if my best friend is bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18, bisexual, and... meh... I kind of half-fancy my best friend. He is tall, blonde, has a gorgeous smile and has a soft, cuddly build. He has had a girlfriend but I always wonder if he could be bi. How on earth would I bring it up or find out? Should I tell him I'm bi?... (58 words)

How would a guy act if he wanted more than a FWB relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi how would i be able to tell if my fwb (a man) wanted more im not sure because i like him but keep on getting mixed signals off him so im very confused and not sure what to do i can.t ask him cos i don,t want to make a fool of myself if he doesnt feel the same in what ways ... (74 words)

I keep dreaming about having sex with him!!! How can I stop these dreams and get him out of my head???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

- what the heck is wrong with me?? I cant get this guy outta my head. We were together but hes in the military so we called it a day as he was always going abroad. But we stay in touch. All I do is fantasise about sleeping with him. I think about it from the moment I get up to ... (178 words)

Help!!! Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my best friend likes my guy... you see me and my guy only started seeing each other about a month ago (not really official we're going out, just that we meet each other etc.) and she is constantly asking about him and saying she wants a guy like him. Now she went out on ... (173 words)

He's left me after 3 years... to go back with the ex!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The love of my life has left me after 3 years and gone back to his ex and I'm completely devastated. He says its for the kids sakes and he's broken his own heart by leaving me, that I was also the love of his life, his soulmate and that he will never stop loving me. I'm just ... (205 words)

Open eyed when kissing???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a silly question but I keep opening my eyes when i start to kiss fellas is this right/normal or what?... (22 words)

Why do some men prefer porn over true love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I guess I am just an old fashioned girl. I have been married twice/divorced twice and am in a relationship with a wonderful man right now. We are both in our mid forties. To me, "sex" is about intimacy and love. It is about sharing the most personal part of yourself w... (328 words)

My girlfriend is forced to go with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have my girlfriend that is in crazy love with me, she just adores me so much and i love her as well, I'm 18 and she's 17. I know it seems that we're just two kids that are in just a phase of life then it'll go away but it's not, it has been 2 years we're both together and ... (550 words)

Is it possible that we can remain as friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there such a thing as being friends with your ex? I just broke up with this guy, i love him in fact I'm in love with him but i've had enough of the relationship. he says he still loves me but i think like me he's also had enough. i do want to let go but i'm finding it hard ... (95 words)

How can I un-do how fake I've been and not lose her? I've been presenting myself as a fake and that's not me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in relationship with an American girl who happens to be 5 years younger than me. It's been one since we got off to a start and we both seem to be clicking well. However, I am faking too much in front her. The way I talk , the way I walk , the way I stand and my e... (225 words)

Is there a time limit for how long I can keep a sugar Daddy interested?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I turned 29 a fortnight ago. I will be 30 next year at this time. Throughout my 20s I have had several sugar daddies, older men who supported me financially whilst I was pursuing my musical aspirations. They've been good chaps over all, tho of course in exchange for their trea... (153 words)

He's a single male teacher. But he lied and told me he was married. Why would he do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this guy who is in his late 30s and who is a teacher - the problem I have is that he has been lying about having a wife and daughter when he doesn't. He claims that this is because he wants to protect himself from typical issues that could affect a single male teac... (80 words)

Should I just keep talking to my ex to help her? Or cut her off completely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago (we're not getting back together, don't suggest us to) but she's been really depressed and miserable without me. She's always been depressed, but she's even worse off without me. I'm very worried about her, and I offered to talk... (198 words)

I sometimes fantasize about kissing girls. Does this mean I am gay or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've only had two boyfriends and one of them I was sexually attracted to. We had oral sex a couple of times and never went any further than that. But we broke up because I was still in love with my best guy friend, Alex. Alex has had a girlfriend since I've known him so I never ... (445 words)

Wife says the root of our arguing is that she does not trust me--even tho I have never lied or cheated!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all. I recently asked for advice about how to renew the spark in a very argumentative marriage. I recently found out some news that explains a lot about the arguing. My wife told me last night that she doesn't trust me. She said she just expects me to leave her at ... (356 words)

My bf wants to do oral on me, but I am afraid it will be too salty for him down there. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i explain this. my boyfriend wants to do oral on me soon, but i have only recently found out that the juices my vagina makes are salty (i had to taste it). im scared and i know it will put him off! i only got a matter of a couple of days (because that's when we meet; its ... (116 words)

I'm finally meeting in person a girl I met online. She seems nervous and shy. How do I make it easier for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I met this girl online on a non-dating site. We've been sending each other PM's for a while, I found out that we were from the same city and share a lot of interests. We decided to meet each other on August 18 and here's the thing: she seems to be very shy and I don't ... (147 words)

We have a great relationship all around--so why does he need to watch porn??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am trying to understand why my bf watches porn and would like your insights. We've been together 1 yr, and everything is great:) We have told each other we love each other. I love spending time hanging out with him, we share interests, make each other laugh, are there to ... (530 words)

Guy I like asked me to stop texting him and that he would hang out when is life is more together. What does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi ive been talking to a guy. We lost contact from high school,but started talking again when we found each other on facebook. we have even hung out a few times. although a few times we did plan but never happened because he was working late. anyways what i wanted to ask was i ... (163 words)

Should I study film in college, which is my passion, or get another degree as a fallback?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is relationships but i really could use some third party advice! I'm going to university and want to know whether i should study the what i hope to pursue a career in, or whether i should study something else?? Basically, i want to write, edit and produce films. I... (260 words)

Why is my ex chatting with my cousin over Facebook? To make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I are still in touch. We always have playful conversations and love pulling each other's legs. Lately he has been talking to my cousin's sister via Facebook. He finds her as an interesting person. During one of our recent chats, he started talking about her ... (134 words)

How can I deal with this online guy who seems to want nothing but sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I met this guy online through a dating site, he seemed nice but never really spoke about himself much, which always bothered me, then we chatted online with web cam but he wouldn't let me hear his voice at first, later he told me he doesn't like his voice, i suggested ... (227 words)

I really don't want to be with somebody who treats me like this but am shocked and numb!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 2 years and I are 35. When we dont agree on things I prefer to agree to differ but he gets verbally abusive and swears and calls me a f*ing idiot. I find that so offensive. None of his family swear. He gets angry when he drives and says I am a cr*p driv... (283 words)

Is this how the average relationship works or am I just not ready to be committed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been "with" my boyfriend for a little over four months now. I say "with" because a little over a month ago we had broken up but we are still actively talking/dating, it almost feels like we are still together. (Complicated, I know.) Anyway, the reason we are in this ... (371 words)

I believed him when he said they were just friends...but now I don't know what to think!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Rite so my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, he has an iphone 4 and I was just having a nosey through it because he doesn't care if I look at it or not. However the past while, he has changed his password and hasn't told me it, but I seen him one day typing it in ... (183 words)

Will I ALWAYS be single?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 and I only had sex with one man (we had a short relationship when I was 23 - he was 50). He broke my heart very bad. I haven't been able to be in a relationship ever since, just online flirting which turned out it lead to nothing serious. What is wrong with me? I don't ... (76 words)

I hear my parents arguing about sex and it's grossing me out!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. This is not really a question regarding myself beyond the fact beyond that the situation is seriously traumatizing me and really, starting to piss me off. My mom went through menopause 5 years ago and apparently, no longer possesses much of a libido. My f... (373 words)

Why am I falling out of love with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be so in love even obsessed with her. We have been together for 6 or 7 years ever since high school. We don't kiss or touch as much anymore and hardly ever have sex anymore, romance is fleeting I really love her but don't know what to do. We don't even sleep in the ... (80 words)

Sex feels a bit 'blah'....any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm twenty years old and lost my virginity at 17, I've had 3 sexual partners but have probably only had sex around 40 times in total over 3 years. It's not that I ~dislike sex it's just a bit... I don't know, I don't see what all the fuss is about? Is it just because I'm young ... (100 words)

She didn't keep in contact to arrange our date. What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, So I met a girl a few weeks ago at Comic Con. We met there in the morning, had lunch together, hung out throughout the day, and even ended up having dinner together with a few of her friends as well. I contacted her a few days later and after a great 20 minut... (322 words)

My head is spinning...why does he want us to be friends if he has been ignoring me all this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have no idea what's going on in my life anymore. I'm so confused by everything and everyone. OK, I'll tell you guys the entire story. It's a little bit long, but I hope you guys will stick with me. It was October 2010. I was hanging out with my cousin at a high school f... (1222 words)

Should I forgive him after I wrote him this?......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - "Its Saturday, Again you ignore my calls. Its the same thing you do every Saturday. Last time it was because you forgot your phone, the other two saturdays was because of family problems. Every Saturday theres a new excuse, every saturday night when i hear from you, you tell me ... (942 words)

My boyfriend has erectile dysfunction

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age - I've been dating a guy now for almost two years who is 10 yrs. my senior. I will be 50 next month, and he will be 60 in October. I was separated from my ex-husband for almost 7 yrs. before I divorced him. I had been celibate during the whole time we were separated,so, when ... (182 words)

Why does he want a trial marriage if we have already been G/f and B/f for two years already?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was out to dinner with my boyfriend tonight and I asked him what his reservations are about getting married. He told me that he wanted to live together first because he wanted a trial run to see if we were compatible. I feel after two years he should know if we are comp... (204 words)

He seemed too good to be true and I don't want to lose him. But he hasn't contacted me since. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I was standing outside of the bar and a very attractive guy approached my (guy) friend and me looking for a lighter. We both pulled out a lighter but I told him that he should take mine because it was lucky- and he did. After talking to him for a while I found out ... (505 words)

I found out my boyfriend has watched porn and now I don't trust him around other girls

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. I'm his first girlfriend and he's my second boyfriend. We're absolutely sure we're in love. We even have plans of moving in together soon. My problem is my self esteem. The past few months we have been getting ... (273 words)

I really want him to go down on me, but how soon after my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Oral after period? I finished yesterday, and when I was masturbating a bit came out, not loads barely enough to complain about. When I am aroused and wet, nothing comes out. My date with my boyfriend is Monday night, I don't see him that often and we want to be more physical... (296 words)

I broke up with him, but does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there... so... i broke up with my bf almost 3 months ago. He was pretty hurt, and so was i, cause we really loved each other. we were together for 3 and a half year. he was pretty imature (still is), and we argued a lot...i felt i was missing on the chance of meeting a nic... (260 words)

How can I deal with my boyfriend who wants me to cut off or sideline my gay male friends?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf is extremely jealous of my gay friends. I am a female, who has always been around gay male friends. All of my best friends had always been gay. My high school friends is gay, my college friend is gay, and now my work buddy is gay. I have always been surrounded by gay ... (367 words)

It doesn't seem like we're making love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I'm not sure whether this is my problem or my bf's problem, but basically, when we have sex, it always feels like f***ing/sh*gging, not making love. In previous relationships, I've felt a difference between the two, and have felt like ex bfs and I made love at times. B... (260 words)

Should I confront her about this scenario or try to work it through as my trust issue? We are together. He is the ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some help. I have a issue that I need to get off my chest before lose it, but my emotions are getting in the way of me figuring out a way to confront her effectively. Ok, this past Friday night My girlfriend of over a year, her Gay best friend and myself had plan... (742 words)

Is this business like? Or are these guys worried about me? or interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently received the same messages from two different guys, respectively...Both are my business contacts. One used "hope all is well" as email subject, then nothing in email body. Another used "hi' as email subject, and "hope all is well" in email body, then nothing else. ... (62 words)

Are people who look at porn more likely to cheat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm interested to know-do you think people who look at porn are more likely to actually cheat on their partner? I'm asking because I know my bf of 1 yr watches porn videos online every 3-4 days. It used to get me down, but so many people have told me all men do it, so you ... (142 words)

Dear guys: how do you see a married man solicting cybersex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear guys: how low on your scale of values is a married man who never says he wants to leave his wife but complains about lack of sex and after a few weeks/months of flirting online, asks for explicit pictures, cybersex over skype phone and video? Thanks for taking the time to ... (54 words)

Tragic troubled past. Will falling in love with this Police Officer make it worse? How do I get through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - text This is Your Average "Im In Love W. My Teacher Story". Minus The Average Part and There's Alittle More Excitment Then That.. This Is Your "In Love with a Cop Story" My Life. This Great Untold Story That Everyone Has Started Eighteen Years Ago. My Parents, The Lovely, ... (767 words)

I don't mind him ejaculating on me, but I'd rather not be peed on

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boy friend like to do alternative things in the bedroom. We act out some porn scenes that seem interesting. The one that he wants to try, I'm not into much. He wants to ejaculate on my face, then urinate on me. I can handle him cumming on me but the other is not for ... (63 words)

I do all the housework and I'm not happy about it. How can I broach this conversation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there everyone ive got a question that i can't really answer myself. My girlfriend and i have been together for a few years now and we now share a house together, but it seems like im the one doing everything around the house all the time. She dose have a medical conditio... (174 words)

He only had one large testicle. Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

14 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello my lovely agony aunts and uncles.. So I recently visited an old friend and we hooked up, the strange thing was that he only had one testicle (and it was very large). Before visiting him I had not seen him for over a year, and before this time we hooked up frequently- h... (133 words)

My girlfriend is so tight I have trouble getting in and staying in.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

14 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help!!!!! Me and my girlfriend are have become recently sexual, now i'm a good lover, don't get me wrong, but past foreplay i find it pretty hard to get "inside" of her. She tends to get really tight and then i cant get in, now i don't have the largest member, mines ... (125 words)