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writes:I would like your advice on my situation.I am 19 and in a relationship that is working really well.The problem is that there is a woman much older than me she is probably in her 30s and married.She finds me attractive and is ready to cheat on her husband with me.I don't want to cheat on my girlfriend.But am just curious and temptedby the idea of having sex with a much older woman(which I have never done). Ladies(aged 30 and above) on this site please tell me if you have ever had sex with a guy btn(19-21yrs)did you find it better than with your partner who you are in the same age group.Guys aged(19-21) I would appreciate you advice too.If you have ever had sex with a woman older than you probably in her 30s,did you find the sex great/better than what u have with your gf who is the same as u???I really don't want to get into this affair but I feel like am losing control.Please Help.All your views and opinion are welcome everyone.Thank you in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am grateful for your advice I am really sure I would like to stick with my gf and I would be mad of the idea of her sleeping with an older man at least you have enlightened me that sex is sex it all depends on ones experience and not age thanks a lot the second answer is really good I have now lost appetite for boring housewifes cheating on their hbs.I will work on my R/ship and make my gf happy just as before.Thanks so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2011): yes, for you it will most likely be a very good experience. She will be very experienced and will let go with you. She, won't get the same from you (experience) but it depends on you if she'll get a lot out of it or not. I've had sex with two men in their early 20s (I was late 30s) and neither was much good, but one did just enough that I might have seen him again.
Of course, you shouldn't be doing this at all if you're in a relationship though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): if your relationship is working so well why are you even considering it? Maybe you need to sit back and figure out whether you want to actually be in the relationship or not... because if you sleep with her, chances are you won't have your GF any longer
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): No, older women are not necessarily better in bed than younger women. It depends on the person's experience, her personality and the emotional connection you share.
You could have a woman who had 50+ sex partners in her life but who still sucks in bed, because she was either unwilling to learn anything or it just didn't click between you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): I am going to stick to the question you have asked rather than get in to a moral dilemna with you, you will get a backlash off answers questioning your moral obligation to your gf anyway. Yes, sex with women in their 30s is very good, we are very experienced and often dirty as hell, and as men are often very shallow, and you fall into that cateorgory, yes, you will enjoy it. I have had sex with a few younger extremely attractive men and have been disappointed every time as they are not experienced enough and often quite selfish in bed. I on the other hand am awesome in the sack.You will probably feel bad towward your gf afterwards. Dont do it. Why not watch some porn involving women in their 30s instead/bored housewives cheating on their husbands? That might curb your appetite. Failing that, dump your gf and be single and sleep with lots of older women? There will be plenty that are up to it. I dont blame you for being tempted, sex with women in their 30s/40s is a very common fantasy and rightly so!
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (24 August 2011):
 You are not losing control. You are perfectly capable of not cheating on your girlfriend. It seems you are just using that as an excuse to cheat. It's not acceptable and at least if you do plan on having sex with this older women then break up with your girlfriend first. How would you feel if your girlfriend had sex with an older man? It's disrespectful and if your girlfriend ever found out she would be heartbroken.
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