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26-29,
*arhan the lonely guy
writes:i love a girl very much but she doesnt love me she loves her boyfriend...i always had a crush on her...it all started a year ago...she used to tell me that she loves me but it was just to make me happy...she told that she will never love me...but i cant live without her...i love her very much and i still do...she made me cry...she thinks that her boyfriend will keep her happy..but she doesnt realize what i can do for her...i want her to be in my life but i cant even talk to her because she blocked me on fb and other accounts...what can i do??
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reader, Farhan the lonely guy +, writes (25 August 2011):
Farhan the lonely guy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx guys fr ur advice!! but i just cant frget her nd im her type she wants a guy huz religious nd studious....nd to make maters worse im leavin the country soon nd ill stay in US...ill miss her alot...we usd to go on the same bus i knew her since we were kids...nyways i just cant frget her dats wat im tryin to say...nd evn aftr all this i still love her alottt!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): your still very young. its all part of growing up. you wont understand completely what 'love' is until your actaully 'in love'. you may have a biggish crush on this girl but she clearly doesnt have pone on you, she hasa boy. i can remember going through things like this as a young teen as well and i wont lie to you, it hurts but its how we learn,its how our hearts learn to deal with things. move on is the best advice i can give you,let the pain go and most of all let her go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): I hate to be blunt, but she isn't interested. And you do not know if she will be happy with you. She made her choice and now you need to find someone else.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 August 2011):
 Sorry Dude, but you are just a kid, try to relax and see how you feel when you aren't wet behind those ears.
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reader, Farhan the lonely guy +, writes (24 August 2011):
Farhan the lonely guy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i know that she will be happy with me...i cant leave her..im madly in love with her
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reader, Blod  +, writes (24 August 2011):
 Leave her be. She's made her decision and you need to respect that. If her boyfriend makes her happy, then so be it. You can't force someone to love you or go out with you. She has a right to make her own choices in life. I think if she's blocked you then it's a pretty sure sign that she feels you're hassling her. Let her get on with her own life, and find someone better who actually loves you! There's no point chasing after someone that doesn't want you. Sorry to be blunt.
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reader, skibri +, writes (24 August 2011):
 It sounds like you came on a bit too strong. why don't you ask a friend to talk to her saying you got off on the wrong foot and would you like to start again. If she agrees meet her for a coffee and just chat about normal stuff and see where it goes from there.
Do NOT talk about her boyfriend and stick to being friends for now. if it goes somewhere then great, if not don't worry- hey theres other fish in the sea
Hope this helps you
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