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Is this love or is he just playing me?

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Question - (24 August 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *uli writes:

is this loving me or playing?well here we go my boyfriend tells me he loves me and then he says "i like you and love you alot he want to have babies with me already he wants me to move in with him to another state but I dont want to because I dont have family in that state that he wants us to go he doesnt want me to have guy friends he dont even let me to go out clubbing with my friends he wants to get me fat so no other guy would check up on me he never wants to leave me alone and now he knows where I live he maintains me with money more than my dad for now but he dont have a car,a home of his own ,hes 22,he lives with his sister,he does have a job so he can pay our phone bills he tells me he wants to propose to me but he said he doesnt have money he does take me out which we have fun but were always arguing cause he always gets me mad!he nevered hit me or cussed at me im the on whos always doing that my mom hates him cause hes always drinking he doesnt wana stop also my brother hates him omg what is this?what does he feel for me ?is it love or play,or something else?please help thank you :).

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A female reader, yuli United States +, writes (25 August 2011):

yuli is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank u very much you are very helpful to me

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (25 August 2011):

chigirl agony auntYou tell him you don't want to be his girlfriend any more. And make sure you do not have sex with him. He might try to trick you into having sex with him and impregnate you against your will.

Or you could ask your mother, if you do not know how to tell him it is over.

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A female reader, yuli United States +, writes (25 August 2011):

yuli is verified as being by the original poster of the question

How do I leave him???please help

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A female reader, Miss Karma Louise United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2011):

this realtionship isnt good honey. i hate to judge but as soon as i read this i knew i needed to be cruel to be kind. finish it!

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (24 August 2011):

chigirl agony auntIf he wants to have babies with you when you are a teenager then no, he doesn't love you. Someone who loves you want what is best for you, wants you to be all that you can be, they wouldn't want you to destroy your future by having a baby at 16. Chances are high he'll dump you once he's gotten what he wanted.

Always look to a mans actions, not words, for the truth of his feelings for you. Don't believe things he says just because you want them to be true. He drinks and is controlling... him wanting a baby with you is most likely his way of locking you up with him for good. You'll get fat and be forced to be at home with the baby, while he gets to continue his drinking.

If your family hates the boy you date then you should take it as a warning that the boy you date isn't any good.

I think you should get away from this man, he'll only make you miserable and screw up your young life.

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