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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He told me at the beginning that this was just a game

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18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been 8 1/2 months and I've been messing around with this guy. He is the kind of person that likes to experiment with other girls so of course I'm not the only one he messes with. I'm a virgin so we're not having intercourse. We normally make out and do other things, but no ... (241 words)

Should I worry that its easier for me to get turned on by girls than guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a girl, and I can get extremely turned on by other girls, but not so much with boys. I enjoy their bodies and find them attractive or not, but it is more complicated for guys to get me turned on than girls. I can only get really turned on by guys who I am in love with. I ... (95 words)

I'm concerned about my son's relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i have a son. hes only gone eighteen. he has a girlfriend. she has an apartment and a child who lives with her aunty. she has limited time with her four year old. shes six years older than my son. he stays over without telling me and turned off his phone . just to avoid a... (99 words)

I dreamed a dream... or 2! Help me interpret them if you can.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, do any of you know how to interpret dreams? Are they really relevant to waking life, and how? I have had a series of very disturbing dreams lately, some of which are spooky, some of which are just plain weird. Two REALLY disturb me. here is the first (... (501 words)

Has my friend made him change his mind about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy over this past summer. He is different then anyone I have ever known. We have so much in common. And we have this deep deep connection that I've never had with anyther person. We started talking in july and ended up going out. We became good friends with my ... (386 words)

Help!!! How can I control my jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi peeps, I have a huge problem with jealously. My ex gf broke up with me cos I was jealous all the time of her spending anytime near a guy or even looking at me and now I'm starting to like someone again I don't want the same thing to happen. I have to admit I did get a surge ... (132 words)

Support groups for infertile couples???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all, i have been with my husband for a good couple of years now and we have been trying for a baby for the last 3. We have been told we are 'not' infertile, as i am ovulating normally and he is more then fertile, we are what the doctors are caling 'unknown infertility'... (296 words)

What do women actually find attractive in a man???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - What do women actually find attractive in a man? i would love to know if i fall into a catagorie :) hehehe thanks... (27 words)

How can I convince my husband that having our child's toe removed is a good thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We have agreed to wait 2 and a half more years or until we have reached our personal goals and can afford a child. It was only brought up because I had my mother look at our fiances and she told us we should be able to reach them much sooner if we cut back spending and double ... (487 words)

How to get my boyfriend to kiss me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for a week now. He is 18 and I am 17. We have held hands in the movies and hugged several times. He just hadnt kissed me yet! This would be my first kiss and I don't know if it would be his first kiss though. Is it too early for us to ... (128 words)

Is he just trying to make me feel bad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago. For the first seven months, he tried to get me back but it just wasn't working. We hung out but it wasn't the same. So after we stopped talking, he hooked up with this so called friend of mine that sleeps with everyone. After that, ... (298 words)

What would be the best way to ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i am in love with this girl. i am 38 years old and she is 24 years old. she does not know how i really feel about her. we have a few things in common. how would be the best way for me to ask her out? ... (51 words)

Could he be my soul mate???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just met a new guy and from our first meeting we had an amazing closeness and chemistry. I slept with him on our second date and it was very intense and wonderful. we have loads in common and seem to be on the same wave length in and out of bed. he wants to see me again ... (92 words)

How can I tell if the girl I like is gay like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm interested in a girl I'm not sure whether or not she's gay? She's tomboyish - not in looks but her personality reminds me a lot of me and I'm gay! She slouches when she walks, she walks with her hands in her pockets, she wears no make up, always has her hair tied back in a ... (87 words)

Where do I go through from here? It wasn't another woman, it was his cocaine that came between us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago, and it did not end well. He had been lying to me about using cocaine and it spiraled downhill very quick. We dated for a year, and I fell harder than I ever have in my life. I can't stop thinking about when he got down on his knee and ... (648 words)

I want a baby but my dad would be really angry with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. Im an 18 year old women and although i know its still quite young me and my boyfriend of 14 months are so desperate for a family. I would love to have a baby i know how difficult it would be but im sure we would cope. He has a 2 year old daughter already ... (182 words)

Is this classed as 'fantasising about someone else'? I didn't mean to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, so long story short two important girls in my life my gf and my best friend..so me and my gf were having sex the other day and im just keeping it cool trying to last longer for my girl.. and its working im doing good..the sex prolongs for about 20 mins later for some ... (124 words)

I've found old messages my BFs ex had sent to him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I found some old messages from my bfs ex to him (from before him and I even went out), and they were from my bf saying things like "you look so good naked", "can you wear that tiny thong again" and "i love waking up to you naked". I know it's in the past and it was before I ... (106 words)

I've just caught my boyfriend using cybersex chat rooms

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years, the relationship has never lacked anything. We love each other, we don't fight, and we have fun together where ever we are. Here's the problem, during the first year i caught him for sleeping with two girls, tim... (190 words)

Trouble with my in-laws!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age - i met my husband 11 years ago after we both had very bad marriages,we first became best friends and soul mates,we still are.i had 3 children i brought to the picture and he has been a wonderful father to them ,the youngest one ,now in the army feels he's best friend.since the ... (448 words)

We got together AFTER their marriage ended up but her ex tells their kids that I broke them up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age - I have been in a relationship with a friends ex wife for 5 years. I did not pursue her but things just happened and we fell in love and truly felt this was the one,I never broke up the marriage at all. we now live together for the past 2.5 years the ex husband tells their kids ... (118 words)

I'm gay and I have a crush on my female trainer. I think she might feel the same

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - eed some advice! I've just recently been employed, and currently in training. My trainer is really really good looking, and I took a fancy to her straight away. But I am 21 and she is 35 and has a daughter and a partner. And I have a gf at the moment. Things between me and m... (430 words)

Could the age difference get in the way of this being a successful relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Just a quick question about age differences. I'm 19 (lesbian, if that changes stuff) and I've just met someone who is 28. I've never had to think about this before and was just wondering what people's perspectives are on the situation? All my close friends ar... (91 words)

How can I let him down nicely but make it clear we are over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend is behaving differently to the usual, even being irritating with me and I think it's because he wants to get back together. We were kind of in an open relationship for about 1.5yrs and then we dated for about 4 months before I ended things with him because... (247 words)

I'm having an affair, the sex is non-stop. Will this guy fall for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i and my husband both had engaged in an affair. him 2 months and he ended it. i cannot end mine. we're trying to patch things for our child yet its not working. i had a one night stand with my senior and after that a 2nd one followed. in between also he was asking me out. he is ... (95 words)

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is becoming very distant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 37 weeks pregnant with a baby boy. the father is my boyfriend, we've been dating a year and 2 months now and we are still together. we only live together for almost 3 weeks now, but he is becoming very distant. he doesn't talk to me like he used to, he just comes home and ... (124 words)

The man I love doesn't seem to even want to be friends any more. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - the matter is... i am in love with a guy who was in my school.. now we are in different college.. year back i approached him then we became friends and later on i proposed him. he said no but rather he preferred to be good friends. but that friendship last only for 2 months ... (197 words)

How can I tell my parents I have had enough of them not even listening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I'm feeling very stressed up over my studies. I'll be taking my national exams thus year and this is going to determine which university I can get into. I'm not aiming for any prestigious school, just a local university. But the competition is tough as well. ... (161 words)

How do we fight more nicely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need helpful advice on how to fight fair/nice. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and he's a great guy except when we fight (like all couples do) we don't fight nicely. We both have shorter tempers which results in us talking/yelling over each other to get ... (223 words)

Am I looking too deep into this or is my friend totally uninterested in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I made really good friends with a women last year frew facebook. We went to school together but were not close friends or anything. We met up in town and hit it off straight away and became the best of friends in no time. Anyway, last year I was going frew a rough patch and ... (448 words)

If suspicion does come from guilt....does that mean shes up to something behind my back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of 10 months is quite a strange character, in a good way mainly as I like individuality, but some things do bother me... She won't meet me near her work in case a colleague sees us as she says she doesn't want everyone knowing her business. She says that the pe... (222 words)

His ex is always begging him to come home....what can we do without being cruel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age - Ok-I was married-had an affair with my friend-also married. We fell in love. Decided that remaining married and carrying on with each other was wrong-so we confessed. I seperated from my husband and am now divorced. She begged, pleaded, guilted him into staying yet he cannot ... (268 words)

Do women really like the direct approach my friend says he takes?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently discovered a very secret side to a good colleague and friend of mine. He’s a few years older than me at 35, not particularly good looking I would think, not really rich either. Just a regular guy (like me!). I knew for quite some time that he had a very active ... (479 words)

Should I read into his answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf asked me the oh so popular question "Who would you save in a burning fire?" He told me to choose one of my three siblings. I had a very hard time and kept telling him I'd either save them all or die togpther with them because I wouldn't be able to live knowing I saved one ... (129 words)

Do you think this discharge is normal or is it a bacterial infection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Its been about a week since i noticed something odd with my penis. I am uncircumcised and regularly wash myself well. I noticed something like sperm deposits on its tip. It is definitely sperm as it is white and silky and not yellow. It has no smell and isn't irritating but i ... (106 words)

How do I fix this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriends family dont have that much money (well they didnt before but do now) and my family have been always been comfortable lets say. I am use to giving and receiving big gifts at birthdays. My boyfriend has a very good job and big savings so i thought it was ok to give ... (188 words)

Our friendship is heating-up but can we ride this tiger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (?) age - A couple of years ago, I met this lovely woman from another country at a conference for a shared interest (in yet another country). We got on really well, and afterwards be-friended one another on Facebook, and stayed in touch irregularly, but with quite long letters ... (308 words)

I want a relationship with this guy and I want my mother to accept it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 21 years old guy, just came out yesterday to my mother that I am bisexual and she didn`t over reacted but the thing is, she did not convinced that I am actually capable to love also guys and enjoy sexual intercourse. She thinks that this is a phase that will pass soo... (218 words)

Is our relationship wrong because he used to be my teacher years ago?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need your advice... I am a 23 year old newly qualified teacher who is about to start her first year teaching full time. My classroom is next to a teacher who is 36 and divorced and last year during my induction we shared a passionate kiss and during the past few weeks have ... (283 words)

What are the chances of this working out even if we both try our best? Should I even try?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was living with my boyfriend for 18 months. We had a good, loving relationship and enjoyed each other’s company. He left because his child from previous marriage changed schools and the ex who had remarried and was pregnant again told him the child was not seeing enough of ... (361 words)

She wants me for sex because her husband cant give her a child! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi,guys help im a bit confused. im male aged 24 hear me out, when i was 17 years old i was dating a girl who was 16 at that time. she pregnant for me and later both parents discovered that she's pregnant. her parents me for damage my parent paid and later with 7 month pregnant ... (191 words)

What is going on with her? I need to understand her actions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl a month ago. We had sex on the first meeting. She told me afterwards that she just came out of a one year relationship that tore her up emotionally. The following two days we led a warm, caring relationship, she always stood by my side during that time. She made ... (354 words)

Before love comes into the picture, is dating basically just a way of women getting men to pay for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to get to the bottom of something... If there is no love involved (or before love comes into the picture), just sexual attraction, and the man pays for dinners or whatever, he is, underneath it all, paying for sex. Love is an additional reality on top of this. Some me... (161 words)

What is your take on this situation? My girlfriend is mad at me and I want to know what I can do better....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is mad about me for two reasons. 1. I was making a right turn into a an alley. I had a passenger in my car with me. My gf's sister was walking along the side making it difficult to make the turn. After about 10sec of waiting, I inexplicably said "Dam it. Get out... (515 words)

I love my step-sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - About 3 years ago, my Dad met someone online and started to date her. He took me to meet her family, and she had a daughter. Over the last year and a half, I've gotten really close to the daughter, and I think I'm in love with her. I really can't describe how great I feel ... (172 words)

Why don't I feel anything during oral? And how can I tell my girlfriend without hurting her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hay people, I need some help. Me and my girlfriend are great but there is something that bothers me. Its nothing bad but I would like to correct it. We have great sex and I love giving her oral and she loves giving it to me but I can never feel any sensation when she does... (149 words)

We've got so much work to do to get our marriage back on track but he is still talking to the girl he was seeing whilst we were separated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been separated for the last 6 months, during which time we both started seeing other people. In the last few weeks though, we have decided that we still love each other and want to try again. The circumstances of our separation were complicated and left ... (412 words)

I am stupidly nervous around boys I find attractive, how do I get a better handle of this side of myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A little background on me- I'm 23 years old, never have been in a proper relationship. I go to college where it's filled with 90% girls and my part time job is visited by old ladies or just women in general. There are no clubs in my school as they want us to concentrate solely ... (506 words)

How do I deal with being ugly? I want to be able to accept it and not care anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

18 August 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I'm a young woman, 22, and like the title says, I'm usually the ugliest woman around... at college, at work, at a pub/club... I'm the ugliest one out of my group of friends, to begin with. I KNOW I am ugly, and I usually try not to let it get to me and people seem to like me ... (481 words)

I'm worrying too much over this drunken situation, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We had just come back from a bar. Quite drunk. Before we got to the bar, we saw these boys. And they were just looking at us. Walking back home, we saw them again. Walked through the alley way and saw them again. Got talking. Told them fake names. Ended up going back down the... (396 words)

His girlfriend called me all sorts of names and accused us of sleeping together even though we are just friends! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been spending time with a friend were both in relationships. Were purely friends. Last night we redboxed a movie and as we were leaving we ran,into his girlfriend she was very unhappy. I was then informed by james that his gf wasnt aware we were spending time together. My ... (229 words)

How much does warm and cuddly mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here's my issue: I started having feelings for this guy who I had been friends with for a really long time. Then one day he called me up and told me he was having feelings for me. We fell really fast for one another and this is the first guy I've dated in years and yea... (347 words)

I tried all possible chances to be happy in life but I failed again and again. Will I ever be genuinely happy ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Another painful day. Really. You have to know my history 1st. A family friend girl dumped me when we were 16 cause I was ugly and unattractive. Then after 3 years I joined uni. Fell in love again. Relationship remained for 4 years. She dumped me 6 months ago for someon... (846 words)

I've started seeing someone new and all of a sudden my old crush seems interested, what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so there's this guy that i liked about a year ago, he sort of seemed interested (we flirted and stuff) but i couldn't tell. after a verbal denial he gave someone else, i stopped trying; i don't get emotionally attached that easy, so it wasn't really a big deal. since i've ... (351 words)

Have I messed it up for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I miss my ex so much :( I don't know what to do. I told him I didn't want anything to do with him anymore after a slight argument about where the relationship was going, it's now been over a month and I miss him so much I just don't know what to do :(. Last time I saw him, I a... (176 words)

Gay guy attracted to a straight lodger -- what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

18 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 26 year old gay male and and have had a straight male lodger for the past 2 months. I have developed feelings for him and told him this recently when i was drunk. He told me he was straight but flattered but has stayed here not so often now. When he does stay he is over ... (120 words)

Woman on top - a position that arises many questions for me. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is probably the most embarassing question ever posted here: I am ashamed of using the position woman on top because I have very few experience(only had 1 partner and we only tried several others) and, most importantly because although I have a nice body, my breasts are ... (107 words)

Is he guarding his heart because of this miscommunication about a future with children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just learned my boyfriend thinks I really don't want children. He really does want them (his eyes just light up when he imagines it!). I barely touched on the issue early in the relationship because I didn't want to freak him out about 'the future'. I mentioned I wasn't ... (190 words)

I'm wondering if my husband is telling me the truth about these pictures?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I know if my hb is telling me the truth?? He is overseas due to work. He is by himself. He sent to me some pics..in some pics he is with some people that I know from long time ago. In other pics he is in different city and he appears alone.. I asked him, Where is that ... (206 words)

Should I call him or will I look desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I went for coffee with a guy, I was interested in and I think he was interested in me, because we were flirting a lot on the phone when we talked. Anyway, I had to get home early because my gran fell and so at the end he just gave me a hug. I apoligised for the short co... (114 words)

Too shy to get in a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, ive never been physically close to a guy, kissing, sex, touching etc. lots of reasons but not getting into now thing is, im scared to tell anyone, and im quite shy was hoping this year, i could, but ive always wanted it to be special and with someone special was ... (85 words)

I don't get hit on! Is it because I'm a redhead?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi guy, just a question thats been troubling me for sometime now. I hardly get hit on by the opposite sex. I was wondering if its to do with the fact that im a redhead and have a lot of small freckles on my face and body?. After seeing comments in papers what people say abou... (80 words)

I'm almost 17 and my breasts haven't developed yet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I´m 16 almost 17 and my breasts haven´t developed at all, it makes me so embarrased and i wonder if they´ll ever grow. Has this happened to anyone? I just dont feel comfortable going to the beach or anything. Any advice? ... (43 words)