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Should I sleep with him because he's big?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I met this guy while on holiday, he is so charming and I like being with him. He has fallen in love with me and openly says so, I dont feel like I love him, so I dont lie about it. I gave him a blowjob and played with him, I really liked him, he makes me feel so pretty a... (132 words

What's the best way for me to meet women when I live at home?

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8 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm 25, from the UK, enjoying life, been single for years, never had a girlfriend. I give off all the right signals - friendly, kind, polite, yet can not meet the right girl. I work in I.T. and dating at work is forbidden, so no opportunities there. I don't ... (195 words

A friend stopped talking to me for no reason

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Maybe you've been through a similar problem and can help? So. I've been friends with this girl for about5 years,but in the last 2-3 years it was a real fairytale-like friendship, I felt really happy and I can tell she was as well. We had very close moments (I know that sou... (309 words

Where is my girlfriend? Why can't I find one?

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8 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - Why am I still single?? I haven't had a girlfriend in six months, I'm in a nice guy, I work out, I know how to treat women and yet I haven't had a lick of interest from a woman in some time now. My ex-girlfriend got a new guy within a few weeks after she and I broke up due to ... (115 words

Why does he have to draw attention to women dressed like hookers when we are out?

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8 August 2011 (F age 18-21 - When I first met my boyfriend he used to comment about how attractive a film star was etc in detail and it used to get to get to me as he went on a bit. He wasnt very experienced in relationships and his sister told me to be blunt with him. Things have improved but about once ... (255 words

Boyfriend is jealous of my kids!

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8 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend seems to be jealous of my kids he Is tryin to go ahead and push them grow up I understand my kids are getting older and they need to start planning to move out My question is how would you feelin about his eagerness in getting them out on there when he has 2 mo... (71 words

Should I move on or try to get him back?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I been out with this guy loads of times over the last month and I really like him. But on our last one he seemed a bit off and like he didn't want to be there. We haven't spoken in about a week but I was busy anyway so thought nothing of it. I got a text today off him saying ... (177 words

Tips on how to give him a lap dance?

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8 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently mentioned that he gets really turned on by lap dances. It's his birthday coming up and I wanted to surprise him by giving him one. The only problem is I havent a clue how to and I want it to be especially good for him. I've tried those Internet course ... (72 words

I feel horrible for feeling that his 'size' is an issue!

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8 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - This is rather embarrassing for me to ask, but I really don't know how to handle this. I've been going with my new boyfriend for a few months now and we finally decided to have sex. I feel so very shallow about this, but size is somewhat an issue here. My sex history prior to... (453 words

Why would he prefer for me to hold his arms rather his hand?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - my partner and i of 3 years occasionally hold hands when we are out and about but not for very long periods of time. he will grab my hand when we are crossing the road and will let it go after a while or if hes in the mood he will hold my hand if we're walking down the street. ... (175 words

Since we started getting close physically (no sex!) she seems distant and everything has been off!

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8 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am in dire need of some help! So, a little background on everything: To explain myself, I am an extremely timid and shy guy at first, but once I get to know somebody, I let my true personality and colors shine. I am an only child and I have been extremely used to bein... (1236 words

He won't put pictures of us together on FB but will happily post pictures of a female colleague!

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8 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone. My hubby recently get hook with facebook, with his photos posted alone. when i handed him, some photos were taken together with me.But on facebook screen, he cut it without me inside.He remark he didn't want people to know he's married.I'm so sad and my heart hurt ... (83 words

Would you move in with someone you didn't love?

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8 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - IF you are a man and you didn't love or want to spend the rest of your life with you gf, would you move in with her? ... (31 words

Fell for him at a spiritual retreat, he's married, how can we pursue this?

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8 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, I met this guy last year during a spiritual trip, and I fell for him completly. I thought he was my soulmate but then found out he was married. He seems to be in a loveless relationship. I am so willing to pursue him, and also I think that if we have feelings for ... (203 words

Why do guys get more attractive as they get older?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - How come it seems that guys who didn't used to be so great looking back when they were younger, most the time end up looking really attractive when they get older? Because my brother turned 23 and celebrated with a party and all his friends he hadn't seen in ages. I remember... (193 words

He's more exciting in bed when he's drunk, how can I get him to open up more?

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8 August 2011 (F - hey well me and my bf have been together 4 months. Everything going great apart from ive noticed how different he is when we have sex. I mean when we have sex sober he is really quiet and ejaculates really quickly but when we have sex drunk he is really noisy during sex and ... (183 words

I'm falling in love with my gf's sister and my gf is abroad.

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8 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - hello everyone, thanks for reading my post. here is my story. i have a gf for 3 years and 2 mos and i really love her. then she left abroad to work as a nurse. my gf is pretty while her sister is not so. before she left i'm already having lustful thoughts abt her sis. i am 22, ... (295 words

He lied about having HIV, and I don't know if I can stay with him.

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8 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Okay, so i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 5 months now, and i just don't know what to do anymore. i've been friends with him since we were 11, and i thought we knew so much about eachother, but ever since we've been going out he's just seemed to change. h... (318 words

Not where I want to be in life. Should I wait to date?

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8 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - Hi, There is much wisdom here, so I was wondering if I could get some feedback on my situation. I am not where I want to be in life. I do not make enough money, and am not sure about my career. Because of this situation, for years I have held back from dating. I am now ... (191 words

I miss being friends with my ex.

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I had asked a similar question yesterday and received no answers. I ask again. I have had problems with my ex while we were dating, he was very bipolar, had a lot of anger, but I could always work around that. It was the thought of him cheating and his selfishness that... (102 words

Can I pass on herpes from a cold sore?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I suffer a lot from coldsores, and I've recently learned that coldsores are caused by a strain of the herpes virus. If I have sex, is there any chance of me passing herpes onto my partner? ... (41 words

Do I try meeting someone in person or online?

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8 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi guys n gals, I have been entertaining the thought of internet dating since becomming single...my friend suggests i wait a while and just meet someone naturally, they think internet dating is a bad thing to do, its mistly destined to fail....which i must admit my 5 inter... (206 words

Why is my friend sending me kiss signs?

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8 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hello, I have a guy friend who I have known for nearly 5 years. I am 21 yr gay guy and he is 18. From about three months ago, he has started to text me frequently like 2 times a day. He laughs very loudly at my jokes. One day he gave his computer for repairs but has never asked ... (254 words

The stuff he says when he drinks get to me

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8 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Im 26 and my boyfriend of 3 years is 23. He is a great guys and we get along great. We have a house together and a life. Everything between us is 50/50. I don't really have a lot of time to hang out with friends and to be honest I have lost touch with most of my friends over ... (534 words

Is my new husband of 2 weeks bicurious, bisexual or gay?

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8 August 2011 (F - PLEASE HELP! I am 24 yrs old and recently got married 2 weeks ago to a man I been knowing for about 9 yrs and dated for 7 and I love very dearly and was excited about being with him the rest of my life until yesterday. I was bein a prude when someone txtd him and I asked who ... (194 words

Why does someone cheat when they have what they want at home?

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8 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - Before I continue with my question, I just want to clarify that I do know all about the saying "Wanting your cake and eat it too" BUT for the life of me I can't fully understanad why either a man/woman would decide to live with either their BF/GF and then turn around and have a ... (123 words

Is it too early to consider getting married? And do I pop the question or wait for him to ask?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I am in love with my boyfriend, i want our relationship to move forward but feel like we're stuck moving nowhere. I really don't know what to do at the moment, we both work full time mon-fri, but have completely different hours, basically when i leave at 7.30am i then don't see ... (263 words

How to combat social anxiety?

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8 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I want to make new friends and there's no young people at my work. I wnat to join some meetups, but I feel really anxious. Its easier when you already know someone and have a way in. What can I do?... (41 words

I don't understand his text message

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8 August 2011 (? age 26-29 - I received this text off a guy. But this was part of the text. It said "I feel bad coz I enjoyed the flirting with you and that's why I haven't been talking to you..." What did he mean??... (40 words

I want to bed my boyfriend's friend! What should I do?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - i love my boyfriend soooo much i have been with him for 6yrs. And he is the sweetest guy u will ever meet he does everything for i mean everything. But his friend is sooooo hotttttt i wanna have sex with him. what do i do?... (46 words

I've fallen for my step brother. Might he feel the same?

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8 August 2011 (F age 18-21 - I am 14 and like my stepbrother who is 16. I've known him for a year and has begun to have feelings for him now. I do not live together with him but on holidays I go to my dad and I live in the same apartment as he. I also have a big sister who is 16 and I get jealous of her ... (150 words

Am I going to end up hurt by my older man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

8 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating a 39 year old man (I'm 24) for 2 weeks now and last night we had our first little discussion about 'us'. Nothing too major as its too soon for that, but a few things he said concerned me and now my question is am I going to end up hurt? I asked him how he... (325 words

My boyfriend doesn't want me to have any friends except him

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8 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - My bf and I had been fighting a lot. His main argument is that I have too many gay friends, and yes I do and I always have gay man friends in my life. I only go out occasionally to have drinks and talk, mainly about work since I work with them. Sometimes, I meet them after ... (284 words

I'm 19. Could I still grow taller and get facial hair?

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8 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I'm 19 years old and I have come to believe I'm a late bloomer. Both my brother and my dad were early bloomers. My brother hitting 6'1 by 14 and my dad already having thick arm hair at 12. Me? I just started growing navel hair like last year and my thigh hair is still growing. ... (84 words

We've rushed into engagement - now his friends are telling me he's a player!

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi people. I've got this problem with this guy that I think we rushed too fast and he's that kind of guy who flirts a lot with girls and he's almost got more girl friends than male friends. Basically we're engaged after just three months but he gets those phone calls fr... (246 words

My ex won't respond to my calls or meet up with me. I need to tell him... I'm pregnant

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8 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have a crazy situation. If you read my back questions. I met a guy and we were crazy for each other. Spent all I time together and everything. I am still in love with him. One day he decided he needed some alone time. So he asked me said he wasn't breaking up he was just ... (310 words

My parents would rather listen to other people than believe what I tell them

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8 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Please help me, I'm 16 years old and my parents refuse to listen to me! they would rather listen to people who have no idea what i do, and then they judge me based on what they hear from those people. Like this one time i got home late, because of a prayer thing. I understand ... (145 words

How long should I wait to start dating other guys?

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8 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have recently broken up with my BF of 7 years. We had a split about a year ago that lasted 3 months. We decided to try again and I told him what I needed from him. In the beginning he was great and I was really convinced that he was going to follow up on those needs. He ... (353 words

Dad is being overprotective because of my new boyfriend. Help!

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8 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - As many replies needed! new boyfriend, only pecked, not sure how to get off with him, going to his house soon , never met a bf's parents before really really nervous. and ever since ive got a bf my dads been acting really protective and that and i really dont like it but i ca... (71 words

He was abusive and we broke up, but I can't seem to move on.

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8 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - This will probably be one of the most stupid questions you'll ever get - but here goes. I was in a relationship for two years with a guy, who I basically would have done anything for, I supported him, I gave him all the love he ever could have needed and we were totally ... (280 words

On again off again, now he's seeing someone else.

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - What does he keep hurting me like this? was I wrong for telling him how I feel? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, I thought he loved me too, but he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. We've broken up 4months now. But he always comes back to me. No matt... (218 words

Headaches and mood changes - do I have a reason to worry?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm a 19 years old girl and I feel a bit strange in the last time. The main thing is my head. I have headaches almost every morning after I wake up. My head hurts in different places - sometimes somewhere in forehead, sometimes in one or other side of my head, sometimes in the ... (267 words

After 2 dates he left his dating profile up, how can I tell if he likes me?

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8 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hey there i have been on 2 dates with this guy i met on a online dating site ,they went well ,had a laugh ,got lots in common .But he is still goes on the website ,how can i tell this guy fancies me ,he kissed me on my cheeck ,but he is a shy guy . thanks... (58 words

My boyfriend's ex became an emancipated minor....because of him...so wrong!!!

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8 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have an unhealthy obsession with something that happened in my boyfriend's past 15yrs ago! He was a Professional singer and moved around the country with work when he met his ex. He told me a story that she was 16 and had had an abusive childhood and looked and acted... (615 words

Why would a guy ask if she's a good kisser?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey there. Why would a guy ask a girl if sht thinks she's a good kisser??... (16 words

He's wonderful, except we have no sex life. He resorts to porn. How do we improve things?

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8 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - I know that question of porn was discussed many times, but I would like to get some opinions on my particular situation. I'm in a long-term relationship with a wonderful guy. We have our little ups and downs, like in any other relationship, in general it is fine. And here ... (644 words

Am I making a fool of myself if I respond, if he contacts me again?

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8 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - Well I posted a few weeks ago about a guy I met and got close to and then never heard from. He did send a very ambiguous text, saying we are still the same, and for me not to be confused!!! He took me off his Facebook, because I put a comment about him playing games. I really ... (107 words

Do I tell him it's over now? Or explain it to him in person when he returns?

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8 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - i have 4 kids from the same man. And i fell in love with him fast, we were happy for a long time, but i'm not feeling that same love towards him anymore Sure i love him because he gave me 4 kids but, catch myself talking, looking and wanting to do more then that. Though i n... (117 words

It is a crime to upload sexy picture and could they be found on the internet later?

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8 August 2011 (? age 30-35 - i want to upload some racy pictures on net of my girlfriend..dey arent nude but are sexy showing a little bit of cleavage here and there.. my questions are 1)i am from india and so is it a crime to upload pictures of my gf on net 2)is it safe and can they be misussed 3)if i... (72 words

I've gotten involved with more than one brother! What do I do?

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8 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - we met round 10years ago and there was something there from the start but we never acted on it as for he had a girlfriend, i end up with his older brother who didnt treat me right we was together for 2years and had a little girl together. one night there was a family get ... (1717 words

Are girls jealous that I hook up with guys that they can't get with?

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8 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - im single and when i get drunk i like to have fun every now and then ive hooked up with a few guys that i know and like from school. are these girls jealous of me for hooking up with a few guys from school that they couldnt get with?... (51 words

I'm head over heels in love with my Best Friend's Brother.

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8 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - I've liked my best friend's brother is 3 years older than me and I've been madly in love with him for 4 years. During these 4 years I've been trying to convince myself that I'm too young to be in love, theres no way he'd ever like me, there are other guys out there. But in the ... (240 words

Every time we have sex now it hurts. Why is that?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - So. A few weeks ago me and my bf were havin sex and it hurt. And it has never hurt before it was lower abdominal pain. An almost everytime we have sex it hurts idk what it could be. Any suggestions... (41 words

I want to leave him but so much is at stake!

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8 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone just want some advice. I've been with this guy for 3yrs now. We live together but there is alot of problems. I have notice that he doesn't treat me as nice as he treats others around him. He is always grumpy with me. Never smiles or says anything nice. We never go ... (145 words

I never got the chance to meet him. Should I add him on facebook?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - So theres this guy.I liked him from the moment i saw him.I had asked one of my friends to get his number for me or for her to introduce me to him but she never did. I think she liked him so i never got a chance to meet him.And moved and left for college.But she did give me his ... (70 words

She told me that she doesn't want to hurt me...what does it mean?

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8 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - So me and this girl have huge attractions toward each other and I am thinking more of sex and **** buddy and friends benefits...and whatever happens down the road, ie: a relationship or more I would be open to it. She seems down at first, but then she backed down. I told her ... (81 words

How can I get him alone to talk to him?

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8 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Ok so Im about to be a freshman and Hes gonna be a 8th grader. I used to see him every day in the hallways. Then I moved and he play basketball at the park by my house everyday so i still see him. We havent really talked before and i dont know if he likes me but i like him. And ... (103 words

I got attracted to an online guy too fast and then he deleted me!

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8 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hello dear cupiders have a problem and would really want some advice. Last friday, the curious me got the better of myself so I tried to go to some online gay chat sites. There I met tons of people ranging from oldies to guys who wants to do people. Scary for a first timer. B... (472 words

I didn't cheat, but my g/f insists I did. Did I?

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8 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend since October last year, but I started dating her around May. In june - july last year I went to Europe backpacking. During this trip I met with my ex girlfriend in Vienna for 3 days (she lives in Switzerland). This was a 100% friendly meeting, and ... (179 words

How do I tell my friend of my feelings without letting others get in the way?

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8 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I've been completely in love with a friend of mine for almost a year. When we hang out, it's like magic. I can't see myself with anyone else but her. The problem is, she is best friends with another guy. I am scared that something is happening or will happen between them. It ... (297 words

I miss him. Did I do the right thing by making a stand, after how often he ignored me.?

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8 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - Ex boyfriend of 10 years (on and off again...long distance relationship...i am 31 and he is 35) came to see me for a couple of days... before he came he said i am the only one who he has ever loved and wants to make it work. He came had a wonderful time...he spent a lot of $ on... (427 words

Is there anything that could justify what he did to me? Or should I leave after his Domestic Abuse?

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8 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have a question..my boyfriend and I got in a heated arguement and I threatened to kick him out. He got irate and pulled me out of my chair and threw me on the floor. I have threatened this before and he got upset before but then we made up and all was well. Had anyone felt ... (81 words

Why are guys threaten by gays? Or is it only my bf who is immature?

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8 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - My bf is upset because I have a lot of gay friends. He says he is tired of me hanging out with so many queers. Why are guys threaten by gays? or is it only my bf who is immature. I don't have the courage to leave him. I moved into this City because of him, and now I have ... (136 words

Why wouldn't my ex look me in the eyes when we talked?

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8 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up 4 years ago after an on again, off again relationship that lasted nearly 5 years. Breakup was mutual and amicable. She met someone a few months later and they got married and now has child. I too met someone else shortly after and am in a ... (238 words

Should I come out as Bi in High School? I don't want to be bullied.

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8 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hi people! So basically, I live in a small town where there are only rumors of LGBTQ people. I'm about to start high school and i sort of want to come out about being bi. The high school I'm going to has a GSA (Gay Straight Alliance)and peer counseling that would probably s... (167 words

I've found the truest of true love with him.What can I do to not lose him?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend of 10 months just got back from college orientation, a few weeks ago and he's been texting a girl he met there nonstop. Every day and every night since he's been back. They both have a lot in common, and when I say a lot I mean A LOT in common. Like, everythi... (235 words

I've already given him the usual presents. Can you help with special occasion present ideas?

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8 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - I need gift ideas for my boyfriend for four upcoming events between now and next summer. 1.) Christmas 2.) Valentines Day 3.) His 18th Birthday (valentines day and his birthday are 2 days apart and for his birthday i was thinking of buying him 18 gifts) 4.) His High Sch... (181 words

How can I be the right friend to someone so they want to be the right friend to me?

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8 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - I am looking for a help about how miserable I feel. How do I be a friend to other people so that they want to be my friend? i want to know, what can i do to have the right friend, a friend who I can trust. Hold his hand whenever i ask. Or ask for help when I need help, a fri... (95 words

This bad feeling has come back How can I feel better when I know I'm ugly?

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8 August 2011 (M age 22-25 - I posted questions here before and they made me feel better for a while, by saying that everyone my age thinks they're ugly. But the feeling has come back again. I feel bad again because I realize that I actually am ugly. I have a big head and an ugly face and I'm fat (not too ... (311 words

Its like we never broke up, why is this happening?

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8 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi ok so me and this guy were together for a year he tells me he wants to be friends .... So i agree then he says that he wants to stay in my life we now have been having sex alot like every weekend so its like we never broke up why is this happening.? ... (57 words

We seem so good together, why hasn't he asked me to be his g/f?

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8 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - I've been talking to this guy for a while now. We act like a total couple. We've hugged, kissed, made out, everything except sex. When he's away he tells me how much he misses me and how he wished he was with me instead of away. He calls me his baby or his love all the time. He ... (85 words

What can I use other than sex toys for masturbation?

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