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We broke up, but will there be a second chance??

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12 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend split up after 3 and a half years of being together, with a 4 month break up in between. The first time we broke up, she broke up with me and she contacted me on my birthday telling me how she felt about me, after a month of contemplating the idea I ... (318 words

Help! Is he still into me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi dear friends, i'm new on this site and i need your help. After 6 months of dating my boyfriend and i broke up after a bad fight , i had trust issues following his cold behavior. The day we broke up he swore he wasn't cheating and things but i caught him flirting on messenge... (237 words

My married lover destroyed my life!

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12 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - hi, i am single and had an affair with a married man. I managed to hack his mail ID and found he has chatted and flirted with many young girls. saying 'i love you' and all. he's definitely playing with innocent lives. I know his daughter's mail ID. should i tell her about him. ... (119 words

Is there any way to regain his interest?

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12 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - On my first 2 dates w/ a guy (well, date #2 was just hanging out w/him and his friends at his place), he barely even kissed me. Seriously. Just romantic things like holding my hand. But then date #3 was me getting booty texted from a bar. When I came over, he was slurring, ... (215 words

ARE men really turned off by virgins?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Why are men turned off by virgins? What is it about virgins that scare men?... (15 words

How do I handle this?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - i started dating this guy but he doesn't know i,m a virgin and he doesn't know that i,ve had very little experience with men. I know he's had a few long time girlfriends but i,m embarrassed because we,re starting to get a little heavy when we meet up and i,m not sure what to do ... (90 words

Is this curfew fair???

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - My mum drives me crazy!!!!! I'm 19 years old and the youngest in my house and currently unemployed and i still live with my parents. But i still have a curfew. I've started dating a guy and it's embarrassing that I have to be home before 1AM. Like he understands and I kinda ... (95 words

Sensitive clitorus...

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12 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hello, i was just wondering... Sometimes when my bf is masturbating, rubbing or licking my clit i orgasm then my clit gets really sensitive and he can't touch it anymore... However, if i was willing to be tied up/in handcuffs/ bondage... What Would Happen??? What happens i... (81 words

Safe sex???

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12 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - well my girlfriend and I had sex and we used a condom. we did it again two more times and I used a condom every time. i am not sure if it was safe to use condoms time after time without washing myself first. i'm afraid that might get her pregnant. what are the probabilities ... (60 words

Honeymoon cystitis???

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi, what is 'honeymoon cystitis'? I'm asking because I've been a little sore the last day or two after having a lot of sex with my bf, and my friend said that is what it could be... Thanks :)... (40 words

How do I stop living in fear of my boyfriend emotionally or physically cheating on me?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - How do I stop living in fear of my boyfriend emotionally or physically cheating on me and just be with him happily. He has never done anything to betray my trust, and every time I have had an issue, he explains it. But it's a huge strain and I have to change. I almost lost hi... (184 words

Does my Chiropractor like me???

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I've been going to my chiro for a few years and have always been attracted to him. I don't know if he can tell I like him (I usually flirt) but I'm trying to figure out if what he's doing is flirting back or if he might have a thing for me too. We are both single and he is a ... (228 words

Should I wait till he proposes to move in with him?

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12 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey, I need some advice on whether I should move in and live with my bf before we get engaged. We've been together 1 year and are very happy:) We live apart, but spend 2-3 nights together each week (we both work full time, shift work). He's asked me several times to move in ... (543 words

What body type do ladies find attractive?

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12 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Everyone will have a different answer, I know, but... what type of body do you girls like in an 18 year old lad? As in skinny, slim and toned, bulky or lots of softness? I'm doing a bit of weight training to get biger and just wondered what people find attractive :)... (52 words

I don't want my fiance having strippers at his party!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Tomorrow night will be my bachelorette party and my fiance will be having his bachelor party. We are having two separate parties and I would like him to come home that night. He refuses. Our mutual friend who isn't going to his told me that there are going to be strippers ... (138 words

How do I find out if this beautiful cashier at Target has a boyfriend?

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12 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I posted it yesterday but did not get a single reply. Help me out here please. It is long but it is interesting. Please give me 5 minutes. It is the 6th month in USA. I guess I have done good in the new country. Have a job, doing course work, have one best f... (807 words

How do I keep it strictly friend and not fall for him?

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - since i was 16 (im now 23) i've know this guy from college called simon. we are really good friends, if not best friends. we've managed to stay in touch even though we went to different universities. he's always been there for me and i trust him loads. a few times when we've ... (215 words

How would I get my husband to admit that he is gay?

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12 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - How might a woman know for sure if her husband is gay? And, if so, how does she get him to admit it? Anybody know the "tell-tell" signs? And, I love him, but honestly believe he is gay.. maybe he hasn't come to terms with it himself yet. HELP?... (51 words

In a FWB relationship, fallen in love and I know he doesn't feel the same

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - ive fallen in love with my fwb but i can,t tell him as i know he doesnt feel the same what do i do i can,t stop seeing him it will hurt to much thank you ... (36 words

I'm fed up of being let down all the time...

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - hi, I'm fed up of being let down all the time. me and my ex were together a year but broke up 4 months ago, what happened was that all the time he was with me he was with another girl to. when i found this out it broke my heart. since then i have been on dates again ... (175 words

We started out dating properly now he only wants me for sex

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone i met my fwb we started dating properly for a couple of month at the beginning of the year now he only wants me for sex what made him change his mind do you think thank you... (39 words

Is this an affair waiting to happen?

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12 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone. First time here and I have a big problem I could use your advice on. Here's the story. We're both married and attracted to each other. We have been friends for a year now and over that year our attraction has grown and we have become closer. We both have spou... (263 words

What should I do in order to be more tomboyish???

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12 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Soo...I am a girl(Obviously)but I am interested on boy stuff, u know like shopping from the boys section,listening Linkin Park or any kind of hard rock,watching big dudes like Big show fighting(WWE),watching anime shows like Naruto or Bleach (mostly for boys,shounen) etc.I ... (174 words

Do I tell someone or leave him to his own private life?

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12 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - big problem, i recently started a new job (as in 3 months back) with my uncle, a neighbour and some guy from out of where i live, i'll call my uncle m my neighbour j and the other guy c, m got me the job, hes blood uncle mums bro, long story short I looked up to him, he's 11 ... (220 words

My crush is engaged to a cheater

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12 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I had a crush on a girl in my office but when I wanted to approach her and consider getting into a relation with her, I got to know she had a boyfriend and they were getting engaged soon. So I put myself out and changed my company too. Out of curiosity, I checked for her ... (289 words

How can I trust my bf again after his various lies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Thanks for everyone that has answered here on the past. Me and my bf used to have a strong love connection at first and we are in a LDR, it was until this Feb / March that everything changed, he used to have a crush on this girl before we started dating, but I never cared cu... (707 words

How you ever dumped someone because they weren't popular?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Guys, have you ever dumped a girl for popularity and because she wasn't in the 'in crowd'? If you have, did you regret it? I'm asking because my sister just got dumped by a popular guy and now, a month later, he's trying to contact her and keeps asking how she's doing in ... (60 words

Would you date a girl who had many sugar daddies??

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12 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - So I met this girl. Real pretty. Grew up in Europe (Czech Rep.). Dated a few times. Then she tells me about her sugar daddies. For those who dont know a sugar daddy is an older man who gives money to young women in exchange for sexual favors. She did not have one. Or ... (233 words

Mum, I'm dating a 21 year old

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12 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - i started dating this guy he is 21 and i am 18 my mum has met him but doesnt know that i am dating him. he took me back to his house and we had anal sex on our first date, we kissed and snogged and i given himm a blowjob. i have 2 questions: how to i tell my m... (94 words

It's amazing when I'm with him but I don't want my heart broken

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - About a month ago I was set up with my friends brother. He,s funny, cute and really romantic. we,ve been meeting up every other day and when i,m with him i feel amazing. You see i never had a proper relationship before and even though we,re not exactly boyfriend and girlfriend ... (198 words

Constant arguments are straining our relationship

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12 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - My name is Veronica, ill be 18 next month, i dont know if our younge ages effect our relationship my fiance is 20, yes i am engaged.. im constantly arguing with, i feel like this is just pushing us apart, we have 2 baby girls so that builds more strees in our relation... (74 words

After our split I feel trapped in our home

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - i recently experienced a painful split im now feeling raw, trapped in our home we shared, i just dont want to be in the house at all! im feeling paranoid i try to relax but something or someone reminds me and its back to square one again, i feel let down useless like i was ... (58 words

How do I show my fwb guy that I'm not letting myself go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone my fwb of 6 months says im letting myself go with my looks as i spend to much time concentrating on my son how do i surprise him and show him im not letting myself go thanks ... (39 words

I feel I botched it with a great guy. Now I am lost. Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy and felt something towards him instantly but time was never right. This year we decided to get closer but seems I was insecure about him because of his playful history even though he said he is no more playing. He also complained about me not making any steps with ... (263 words

Should I wait or let b/f know I'm ready for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend have been exploring each others bodies and unrolling condoms.We are now ready to start having full intercourse for the 1st time.I really want to please him so I was wondering if I should go vocal regardless-or wait and see how things go as we get used to ... (55 words

Why isn't he doing the little things like kissing and forgiving me?

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Should I stay or go? I have on and off (more on) with my bf for about 18 mos. now. He s divorced and has full custody of his kids one girl 4 and one boy who is almost 2. He works alot and sometimes it seems that he just don't have the time I need for him to have for me. I want ... (173 words

I miss how we used to be....is there any way to make it good again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Basically i have been with my partner for 11 months and we are only young, but i really do love him. Recently i cant help but feeling that the relationship is dry, and i always think about how we used to be, compared to now, it really gets me down. I miss what we used to be li... (276 words

My gf is really not reassuring me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2841 days ago

12 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend is not reassuring me! She deletes stuff from her phone, deletes messages. When asked why, she tells me because she doesn't want me to know, or she doesn't want me to overreact. But... she does not seem to be doing an effort to reassure me. She even lied to me, ... (260 words

What does it mean when you dream about kissing a certain individual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - What does it mean when you dream about kissing a certain individual? Okay, so the other night I had a random dream where I ended up kissing this girl (in a bakery wtf?). The girl in my dream is a girl who went to my high school, she's two years below me, and I never talked t... (216 words

Is it wierd if I propose to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone ! Please help me...i like a boy who works for the same company as i do, but we work in different state. Im 27 and the boy is 24. Will it be weird if i propose him...coz of age difference ?... (43 words

Can anyone help me to sort out my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex a year and half ago. He didnt take it well and so I gave him another chance and we end up seeing each other again for a short whileafter eight months into being apart. We were just hanging out, not official though. Totally ended it with him when I found ... (353 words

Why can’t I just think YES - for better or worse – if the man I love starts talking about marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is divorced with one child. When I met him I didn’t want to date him (he approached me first) because I prefer men who have not been married before, as I have not been married before. I had never dated a divorced guy before him so the experience was completely ... (438 words

Do guys mean it if they say they love you back?

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12 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - If you tell a guy you love him amd he says back' I love you too' does he mean it? or do some guys just say it for the sake of it? I told my BF this, and he said he loves me to, but I;m not sure how to take it. Do I take it he means it? or else he could have just said ' thanks' ... (70 words

Is it possible to be in a relationship when I know he's having sex with other women as his job?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2830 days ago

12 August 2011 (? age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 1 year and we love each other. i tried to hook up with him then because friends told me he was trying to get into the porn business so i thought he would be big. he is, trust me. he did not get an offer from any porn industries. howeve... (198 words

I broke up with my boyfriend to be with him, but now he doesn't want a relationship!

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12 August 2011 (F age 18-21 - I kind of have feelings for this guy, we have been through a lot together, I broke up with my boyfriend to be with him and now even though he still likes me he doesn't want a relationship as it is 'too much effort' I lost my ex, who I still kind of have feelings for but am t... (123 words

How can I get him to come home earlier and actually notice that I exist?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - My husband works late every night (like 10pm ish-he is supposed to finish at 7pm). We have a 1 year old and I have been on maternity leave then made redundant so I am now a full time mum. My problem is the fact that I get no help from my husband when it comes to the baby or ... (282 words

Am I just thinking too much and putting us both under too much pressure?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2838 days ago

12 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - I haven't posted to this website for some time. But I feel it's time to write back and thank all those who helped me in the past. Your advice allowed me to make the right decisions and see clearly. And to also provide a safe outlet for expressing my concerns without involving ... (1577 words

We cant go anywhere because he used to go to these places with his ex!

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12 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - My bf and I live in a small town, so there is only one cinema, one shopping cnetre etc. Now his ex also lives in the same small town (whereas I am from another city). Because him and his ex used to go to the cinema, shopping centre, coffee shops etc, he wont go with me now. ... (215 words

What going away gift should I get him? Should I tell him how I feel?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - The guy I have been seeing all summer leaves for college in 3 days. He is going to be 3 hours away from me. We have decided to get each other "going away gifts" I have no idea what to get him? I want something that will remind him of me, and I also kinda want to tell him/ give ... (137 words

Feeling lost now I am single.....

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - If anyone has anything that night help me please read :) Im finding it really hard being single/on my own. For the past 7 years I have been in 3 long relationships with only small amounts of time in between. I have just recently broken up with my BF of 1 year and to be hone... (245 words

My inexperienced boyfriend has a small penis. How do I improve our sex life? HELP

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello, aunts and uncles. Any advice or suggestions is well appreciated.  My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months. We have been becoming increasingly more intimate over the past few weeks. He is 21 and was, until tonight, a virgin. I, on the other hand, have had t... (396 words

Should I have kicked out my boyfriend for yelling at my son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Should I have kicked my boyfriend out for shouting at my son? I'm torn by what's recently happened and don't know whether to defend my son and throw my boyfriend out or dissipline my son? He's 6 years old and a bit boystrous at times. Yesterday my boyfriend and I were playi... (226 words

What are the odds he lied about being a virgin?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've been questioning whether or not my lover, whom I lost my virginity to, really told the truth about his virginity. He originally told me he was not a virgin. Later on, he came out to me, apologetic for lying, saying he was in fact a virgin. Said he was so used to lying, b... (487 words

He was coming on really strong sexually, why would he do that? Is he really sorry?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Why would he do that? is he really sorry? should I give him a chance? I really like this guy at my work place. He always stares at me when am not looking and looks away when I catch him staring. Anyways I gave him my number and we were texting and ringing me. He tol... (221 words

I want my wife to get her mojo back

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12 August 2011 (M age 51-59 - I have been married for 21yrs and sex is a touchy subject now. My wife has lost her mojo and I want her to get it back. How can i go about this. I am so depressed and thinking of looking outside the box, but know this will lead to trouble but Im so wound up and look to porn and ... (90 words

Why can't I move on from the ex that took my virginity?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Why can't I move on from my ex that took my virginity and it's sad because it's been months already and I still haven't moved on. But he has and he found a girl that he wants to spend a long time with and it's killing me inside. How long will it take for me to move on ? ... (67 words

I'm attracted to men my own age but older women as well. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2867 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - What is wrong with me? I think I may be a bisexual, but that's not where the problem ends. I am attracted to men my own age which is fine, however I also find myself attracted to females much older than me and I don't understand why. I am not sure what kind of attraction this ... (120 words

Why did he list me as a sibling on facebook? We aren't related

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - If someone adds you as sibling on Facebook (and you are the only person they’ve listed,) what would you read into this? The guy I like just randomly listed me as his "brother" on Facebook today without saying anything to me. We are close friends and yeah I am a "kooky" ... (241 words

My boyfriend had sex with a girl when we broke up for only 2 days!

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I just found out that my boyfriend went and had sex with a girl once when we broke up for only 2 days. Technically he didn't cheat but it feels like it. He never told me, I had to find out from another person months later. He told me he regretted it so much, he didn't think we ... (271 words

First-timer wants to play safe

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12 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - hello i need help im about to have my first anal intercourse with someone who i met online and is 10 years older than me he says hes clean but he told me stories about how he lost his virginity and what he likes to do and by the looks of it he seems like a dirty person. I ... (133 words

I need a time frame. Is he stalling or being honest about marrying me?

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Is he stalling or being honest? He says he wants to marry me sometimes, but he hasn't asked. I'm afraid if I never bring it up he won't know its important to me and will forget about it for a few more years (been together a few already). But I am also afraid if I mention it ... (321 words

I'm hurting. How can I understand why she broke up with me? And how can I get over it?

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12 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - It has been a month since my girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me and i am wondering how long will it take to get over her and not want to always contact her just to see how she is. I know if i contact her and she is extremely happy it will crush me because i am stil... (88 words

Is it a sign of vanity to take the time to look good or is it a good thing to do this?

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - This is not strictly a relationship question, although it has caused countless arguments with my friends and family, and I'm sure other people must have heard this before... but would you consider it a good thing for a person to take care of their appearance and care about thei... (82 words

Am I his second choice? And is he out of line that he can't recall our first meeting?

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - You know love at first sight? Well I just discovered my fiance doesn't even remember our first meeting. Is it out of line that that makes me feel bad? Clearly I can't have made any kind of impression on him! A common friend introduced us once, we talked for about half an hour ... (234 words

Can I please have every suggestion you can think of to keep a LDR interesting, happy and successful?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Im just starting a long distance relationship and i really want it to work. so im just looking for advice on how to keep it going for the long run. when i mean advice i mean how to keep things interesting even when you cant see each other what keeps guys interested when your ... (56 words

I turned down his proposal and now I'm worried about how he's handling it

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - long story short ....my partner of 7 years asked me to marry him..problem is im not ready to get married to anyone and I declind his proposal. I feel really awful about the situation..I didn't say no because I don't love him it's just I'm not ready and don't feel that I want... (264 words

He keeps looking for me when we break up. Why is it so difficult to leave an abusive relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Why is it so difficult to leave an abusive relationship... I wuz married for 10 yrs to my high school sweetheart.. he staret to physically abuse me... when he would get drunk or b high on drugs... I put up with it cuz I thought I could b the one to help him... but b4 our 10th ... (247 words

Facebook Problem: Why is my boyfriend is chatty one day, quiet the next?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend has a weird issue where, when I log onto Facebook, he somehow never notices I'm online. Especially in the evening, I'll say hello to him, and he'll just stay on for a few seconds then log off. It hurts me knowing he's online, we havent talked all day, but he's no... (139 words

If a man wanted to propose to a woman, he would". How true do you think this statement is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid! "Nevermind everything else, if a man wanted to propose to a woman, he would". How true do you think this statement is? My boyfriend/partner and I have lived together for a few years, but have been relatively poor due to loans we took out in college. Sure, he co... (241 words

Do I take a risk and go for the lad I met on holiday? Or find someone closer to home?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I met this lad and totally fell for him. He's exceptionally good looking, makes me laugh and I just loved being with him. We met on holiday and he literally saved my life when I was nearly kidnapped, I know it sounds like some fairytale. He was really brave and i just liked be... (315 words

Is it reasonable to get rid of a friend who you think is taking advantage of you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hello, before I begin I just want to let you who read this, not to blow my own trumpet, know that I am a kind, forgiving, good natured person who would do anything to benefit others. I have told you this so you understand why I've put up with my situation for so long. Here goes ... (552 words

Boyfriend goes with his friends when they try to pull women?!

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12 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello! My boyfriend's friends these days are all singles! His other friends have all gone abroad or etc. This group he now drinks with on weekends are singles who go 'on the prowl' when they are out. I didn't think too much about it, but he told me the other day about how the ... (234 words

I can't ask my Mother. I need to ask my Doctor. How can I get the courage to do this, And also get my Mother to listen to me without judging me?

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12 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Please Help. I dont feel like i can go to my mum with any problems i have, in the past, told her stuff. One time i told her something. i never told anyone, i trusted her not to tell anyone. so I told her. Then i found out she had told her best friend. i was so dissapointed i t... (311 words

Guys, whats the first thing you notice on a girl?

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12 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Just out of interest, i would really like to know.. Guys, what is the first thing you notice on a girl? Eyes, Smile, Boobs, Bum, Hair, Lips, Hands.. What is it? ... (37 words

How else can I live alone on my income if I break up with my unreliable boyfriend? Because I need to end this relationship now

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I fell in love with a drug and alcohol addict. We have been together for the past 5 years. He no longer does drugs nor drinks, to my knowledge (and he's always either at home or at work). However, he just keeps messing up... First, I had kidney stones and he sto... (197 words

How can I gain a great personality?

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12 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hi. Ok, so i recently found out what the guy i like, likes in a girl. He said he likes a girl with a great personality, who can have a bit of banter and who makes an effort. I always make an effort, without a doubt its just the great personality and banter part. I personal... (105 words

Is he just talking to me to pass the time?

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12 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey, i signed up to this dating site and met this boy we did only talk for a day and then swapped numbers, we started texting and decided to met up. We met up and we got on well, and then met up last night to. We both havent long got out of relationships and he does work awa... (163 words

He has someone in his life but he sounds interested in me

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12 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - I dated a guy one week ago through an on-line dating website, he insisted to meet me , we had coffee on Sat and then we met again on Sunday , it was very good chat and i enjoyed him , then we went to his place and i made it out with him ,but after that , i felt that he has ... (248 words

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