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Archived questions from: 22 August, 2011 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do I say in regards to two awkward situations that happened with my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - me and kirsten(my girlfreind)were walking down the street on saturday and she had her period there in the middle of town wearing white shorts and ran home crying and i feel so bad about it what do i do? i have a second thing to say. i was at her house the day after she was cr... (140 words)

How many men at 51 are actually having sex out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How many men at the age of 51 are able(phisically) to have sex? Does erectile disfunction strike at this age too? Masturbating doesn't count as sex. If you, a 51 year old man, could have as much sex as you wanted in a week, how many times would you be able to actually perform?... (55 words)

Co-worker/friend is now backing away from me because we kissed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, could really do with some advise! So me and this guy have worked together for over 3 years and over that time become really good friends. We've always flirted etc but never acted upon anything as he's got a long term gf. Yesterday just like any other weekend he g... (325 words)

My low self esteem makes me crave the attention of guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm worried my low self estime will make me do something I regret. The only way I can feel good about myself is if a guy wants me. I don't think i'm very pretty so whenever guys at parties try and get with me I always just make out with them because im so pleased to be getting ... (121 words)

Taking it slow... from a guys point of view please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in my mid 40s and I met an amazing man of the same age. We actually went to public school together but recently connected through facebook. We've had three fantastic dates over a period of 2 months and are clearly attracted to one another. We've shared a few kisses but no ... (452 words)

I do drugs, smoke and drink to relieve boredom. I want help to stop before I ruin my life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi :) I'm asking this because im starting to get a bit worried. Im generally a sensible person, but I dont (in my view) have a very exciting life and sometimes I feel really trapped and I have to go out and do something that I wouldn't usually do. It used to be stuff like ... (114 words)

My husband is attracted to his brother's wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband is attracted to his brothers wife.he stayed 1 year in their house before our marriage.she is trying to trap him since she has some crush over him.but for sure till now they dont have any sex.but he is making calls to her and she too.when i asked he denied...but when ... (122 words)

I'm very inexperienced at dating and am uncertain of my feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started seeing this guy I know he likes me but I am inexperienced on the relationship front and I dont know how I feel I run very hot and cold over the whole thing. I know if I dont make my mind up I might lose him as possible bf and maybe friend. how can I... (164 words)

3 years down the road we argue every day, what can I do to make things better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok im 19 and ive been with my girlfriend for about 3 years know, i feel like im becoming boring to her because she doesnt pay much attention to me as she use to, we argue everyday and she rubs our past in my face, what should i do to make our relationship better?... (54 words)

He doesn't want sex! Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've been talking to this guy for a while now.. but we knew each other for 3 years. We both admit to each other that we have strong feelings for each other and are going to most likely start dating soon..he's so sweet, genuine, warm hearted, smart etc. However, we ... (116 words)

Still trying to figure out how I can meet women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4627 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - NOTE: This is a continuation of a previous question. Thank you for your help at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/tips-on-meeting-women-who-share-my-interests.html I'm still trying to meet women; I mean, I have friends, but due to their hours, it's hard to see them outside... (182 words)

Will he ever be in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Joseph and I dated a while ago, from January to March. That was his first real relationship and his longest. Since then, we haven't been seeing each other and are still involved on a more than friendly level. The last time I asked him when we were going to go out again, he said ... (264 words)

My boyfriends interfering mum is a nightmare!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I've got a little problem. I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years now and we have a 7 month old son who we just adore. Everything is going fantastic with us, he's my best friend, I know we are going to be together forever. But the one problem we do have is his ... (247 words)

My step-daughter wants me as a mother and I'm petrified!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Im terribly sorry everyone to write such a long post but am very very desperate for as many opinions on this as pos!!!! You see when i met my now husband he had a rocky-relationship with one of his daugthers (from his preveous relationship) and a farly good relationship ... (951 words)

I want my b/f to buy a hamster for me. Is it wrong for me to ask?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm poor. I don't have a cent to my name, and have been trying to get a job to have income for the past three months. I have a boyfriend and he always seems to have plenty of money. I am with him because i love him deeply (not for money... he never buys me anything btw ok so ... (114 words)

He's got me so why does he still have this other chick around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy been messing around for some time and he admitted to me that at the beginning it was only a game but he's grown little feelings for me here and there. He does take the time out to take me out and spends his money on me But I discovered that there's this other ... (288 words)

Severely bullied when I was in 5th and 7th grade. Now I have some issues--are these normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently, I've noticed I have some "issues". Are these normal? (this'll be a long one) Backstory: in 5th grade I was severely bullied by a very mean girl. I went to a private catholic school and that particular year I had one friend that I knew in my class. There was this girl, ... (574 words)

I have to work with my ex and I think he might still like me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4613 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice on how to deal with an ex who I work with at weekends.I thought when he ended things with me that would be the end of us as a couple but he keeps confusing me by his actions while at work. So basically this is bit of history on us. I have to work with my rec... (621 words)

Being harrassed at work, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have a dilemma. So I recently ran into a guy I used to know. My ex boyfriend's sister dated him for years and years. He had made it clear in the past that he was interested in me but I was never really interested because I was usually dating someone. Anyway he work... (325 words)

Is my young boyfriend using me for money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 44 and have been dating a younger guy for 5 months now. He has had some major issues over the past couple of years, alot based around his financial commitments. 3 months into our relationship it transpired that he hadnt had a paypacket in a few months and had been surviving ... (285 words)

He was the one who sweet-talked about marriage, a few years later he says marriage is like cutting his balls off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So what is it about marriage that scares guys? My boyfriend and I have lived together for 4.5 years and been dating nearly 5. We live like we are married as it is. My friends are getting married and his friends are getting married and it makes me wonder about us. When we first ... (370 words)

Why did my wife wait until after we were married to tell me she's got a low sex drive? And how can I get her to think about me and my needs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay i guess to start....my wife and i got married about 6 months ago now. everything was great...but about after 3 months of having amazing sex...it seemed to just stop. when i asked about it...she said she has low sex drive....now why didnt she tell me before? Now im 23 ... (248 words)

How do stop the habit of fancying older men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Due to my sexual past that started with a man who was more than 20 years my senior, I find myself now - 6 years later - still somehow attracted to men that much older. And I want to get rid of this "habit". I have a super good looking nice man my age at work, tall, tanned, ... (210 words)

How can I win a man's heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, what do men like in a women, what does she have to do to earn his heart, whats your favorite things, and ladies what do you do to win your mans heart, i wanna do something crazy for the guy i'm with, but i don't know. i need more ideas....plz sincerly confuse... (66 words)

My antidepressant is affecting my sexual performance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am having difficultIes with maintaing an erection and I can barely ejaculate at all. I have heard that my body will get used to the drug and I will be back to normal again, is this true or will it cause permanent damage?... (46 words)

How do I deep throat without gagging?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I deepthroat without gagging? I used to be able to do it, but not anymore! And...how do I prevent from my teeth escaping my lips when giving a blowjob?... (34 words)

I want to send my ex an e-mail, but would that be sending off the wrong message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (?) age 41-50 - What kind of message would I send if I contacted my ex two months after he broke up with me? We hadn't got back together probably when he called it off two months ago - we were going to meet and discuss things (7 months after our proper split). I was angry and felt annoyed as ... (147 words)

Long distance and age gap relationship forced to end because of pressure from his family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in a relationship with a lebanese guy for over 2 yrs. met on a dating site for age gap relationships (hes 25, im 43). after a few weeks, we were inseparable. hes christian and im from the uk. leb society doesnt accept unusual relationships, hes unconventional and didnt ... (1172 words)

Are there any signs that an ex still has feelings for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i need some help please can you suggest Things to look out for in an ex that they still have feelings for you Why they rush off one minute and find excuses to stay longer next any comments would be appreciated many thanks x... (52 words)

My questions about love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - One is How do you tell someone that you really like that you are falling in love with them ? Number 2 How do you know that you have found the guy that you want to spend your life with? number 3 How do you know that you are happy with the guy that you are with ? number 4 How ... (92 words)

I want my wife to be more adventurous in bed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age - So how do I get my wife of 36 years to lighten up and try some different positions. She just likes lying on her back and doing our thing. Get it over with and go to sleep. She does not like sucking, nor letting me enjoy her other than sticking it in and that is it. Am aloud ... (67 words)

Conversation with my boyfriend is difficult

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend just left me for England last week. Since he got home, we have just talked to each other twice but both of our conversations were very boring! When i talk to my friends on phone or skype, we always have so many things to talk about and that's so interesting. ... (132 words)

Am I gay, bi or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 23 and i'm really confused about my sexuality and have been questioning it for many years now, i used to find women very attractive and i even had a girlfriend once but i ended it because it felt awkward and there was no more feelings after the initial attraction which also ... (171 words)

Why does my boyfriend have to tell me that he finds other women attractive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age - Can anyone explain why my boyfriend has to tell me when he see's an attractive girl? When we are out together he will say things like "She is an attractive girl", or sometimes he just continues to stare at a girl we are passing by. Please can anyone explain why he behaves ... (58 words)

My boyfriend wants to do more, but I am not ready! How do I tell him, and how do I stop hating myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - (Mod note: the question is edited to remove details.) My boyfriend and I made a mistake and went too far (still a virgin, but it went too far). I regret it. I guess I was trying to grow up fast. It was so, so stupid. I'm worried about what other guys will think of me when I... (173 words)

Do only pretty girls get married and live well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think that only the pretty girls can live well? From what I see, in my place, only the pretty girls can live well, marrying off well. The ugly ones, like me, are meant to live in poor? Any opinions?... (41 words)

Should I wait until my boyfriend gets out of prison to tell him I want to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So in a very complicated relationship. I have been with my bf for almost six years. He has been in prison for a year now and will be eligable for house arrest soon to live with me. I love him, always will but think we should have broken up a long time ago. But I Really don't ... (95 words)

My boyfriend jokes when I want to talk about our future

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 9 months and I live together, are serious, want to get married and have kids etc. He's 35 and I'm 28. Lately we've been having some financial difficulties. Lately when I mention our future he makes a joke, I said I didn't like that and he said he would stop and didn't ... (86 words)

I'm 17. My family have banned me from seeing my 29 year old boyfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 17 years old and live in England with my parents, brother and sister. I don't really get on with my family, my parents have said on numerous occasions that i'm a disappointment to them, and they favour the other two children over me. I have a wonderful boyfri... (287 words)

My FWB creeps me out during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Okay, so I've been messing around with my Friends and Benefits for a couple a months now and he does this thing in bed that kind of creeps me out but at the same time romantic. Whenever we are having sex, he constantly stares into my eyes and caresses my hair. What does ... (72 words)

Will a guy still like you even if you don't want to have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I was reading someone's question on here about Teen Sex, my question is, will a guy still like you even if you don't want to have sex? I mean, I would love to find a guy that likes me for me and fall in love, but I don't want him to leave me just because I won't have sex ... (185 words)

Just how crazy would it be to go see her at her next destination?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So, I met this girl a couple of weeks back. She was in my country on vacation and we spent a week together. We connected in a big way and enjoyed each others company a lot. From here she went on to travel the world for a few more months before returning back to her own country. ... (181 words)

I'm single and attracted to him, but I could never marry him for family reasons. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi friends, Few years back i used to work in a company.I had a colleague over there. After leaving that company we have been in contact through phones and mails. Now few days back he proposed me for marriage and told me that he used to like me very much and now he loves me... (146 words)

Does he like me to have gone this far? He lost his virginity to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I have a best friend name Harry we work together at the beginning I use to think he was so weird. I work in the copy center and hes an office supply associate. One day we started talking since that day we became best buds. He would come on his days off to visit ... (319 words)

I want a serious relationship but I think he want to be friends with benefits....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy who likes me and I like him too, but I think he wants something other than what I want, he hasn't had many past relationships, whereas I have and I don't want a little fling this time, I'm mature now and want something more, a long relationship, which even ... (127 words)

How many lies are too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone give me some advice from a non bias view point. I wanted to ask because my partner or ex now tells me im taking things the wrong way and he's so convincing about it i dont know if i am or not. We are long distance at the moment and have a 1 year old little girl.... (678 words)

I think I like this guy but relationships scare me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and never been in a relationship and have never had sex, there is this guy who likes me and has made it obvious and we got quite close intimately one night we did not have sex although nothing has happened since. The whole relationship thing scares me and I ... (105 words)

Is it too late? I went back to my ex but I cant get the other man out of my head....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a mid 20 year old woman and have been a relationship with a man for 12 years. The last eyar was rough as far as he was being verbally abusive, fighting all the time and never around, there was a man who wanted me a mid 30 year old and I fell for him, actually I cheated but ... (248 words)

How could he just up and leave his family? I don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - it has been about 1 1/2 since the father of my 2 kids said he has been cheating and met someone online... this is the worst thing that has ever happened to me he used to be a great father, he would be with his girls everyday help me out with my finances.. his brother died on ... (214 words)

How do I get to know her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i recently saw a girls picture and i dont know what struck me at the first glance. it was love at first sight. i tried almost everything to know her and get closer to her. i recently met her on facebook and few of her friends are also friends to me but moreover strangers. i ... (88 words)

Is she only offering to do this because other partners have asked this of her? Or should I just embrace new sexual experiences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi their im after some views on this please. Me and my new girlfriend has been together for six months and all is wonderfull. She is very sexual and the sex has been great. I have one issue. She was giving me a bj a couple of nights ago and she stopped and said let me no when ... (157 words)

Anyone understand the reasoning behind making high schoolers wake up so early?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This really isn't a good dear cupid question but i have no where else to ask this. Does anyone know why they make high school students wake up so early as opposed to middle schoolers and elementary school students? In my school district, the elementary school starts at ... (195 words)

Am I being used or is there a chance he likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I work in a shop and for the last 5 months a guy (paul)has made a point of coming on my checkout every time I work. he tells me how gorgeous i am and how lucky my boyfriend is. my boyfriend finished with me 2 months ago - I told paul that I'm no longer with him, he said he was ... (234 words)

Has he figured out my surprise? How can I cover it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys i need some help quick..so please any ideas quickly.. my bf is an auditor for a hotel company and goes away to 5* hotels every week. This week i joined him and it was amazinngg... before i left home i had taken loadsa candles, flower petals and a bottle of champa... (177 words)

Still seeing my ex but thinking about seeing other men, how do I go about this without anyone getting hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently decided to take a break from BF we have been living and dating each other for over 6 years. It was a mutual split but we are still seeing each other and still love each other very much. He has a very big problem with jealousy and cant seem to get past it. He is the ... (306 words)

Does it seem as though my ex wants me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I were going out for just over a year about a year ago and we broke up because he didn't know what he wanted. Immediately he started seeing another girl who people seem to describe as a carbon copy of myself. Lately my ex has been trying to contact me online, via text ... (214 words)

Dating a friend's ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is a question for a friend of mine. Basically He likes his friends Ex girlfriend. They met up last week and were snogging and chatting loads. they are secretly texting each other and the ex boyfriend doesn't know anything about it. He still loves the girl and It'd br... (127 words)

Our Libidos never seem in sync. How do we align our needs to occcur at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I (both 21) have been together for 14 months and we've been having sex since the beginning of our relationship. He was a chronic masturbator as a teen whereas I never masturbated. So... I cum super quickly and it takes him forever to "get there" and it's kind ... (208 words)

How can I forget what happened so we can go forward? Is there hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with this guy for 4 months. Im completely crazy for him! But I made this huge mistake! I hung out with this guy for a week straight (another guy) After my boyfriend told me he didn't want me around him, because he knows what he is like. Shortly after he tried to kiss... (273 words)

Dirty text messages - sexy or stupid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys: are dirty text messages sexy and flirty or skanky and stupid? My boyfriend is coming over Tuesday night and we usually only see each other once per week. Thus, that is our night to be intimate. I want to send him a flirty, verging on dirty, message that morning to ... (146 words)

Is my husband obsessed with his colleague? are they more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband is 31 and his female colleague is 24 and they work in the same business-theater. they were good friends before and when they had any interactive sessions they would always sit beside each other. i have seen their pictures, some taken 2-3 years ago well together... (199 words)

Is it wrong to have a relationship with a much older man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - An older man contacted me. He is older by a lot but likes me and wants to have a relationship. I like him but he is old! and i am waaaay younger. He wants me sexually but is it wrong to like someone with a 50 year difference? Is something wrong with me? What do I do? Is it ... (69 words)

Should I pursue this thing? Does it look positive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have had a crush on this girl for about a year, and noticed she was flirting with me. In fact she hired me in to the facility I worked in, she worked In human resources. Anyway I quit the job and kept coming back just to visit and every time I would visit she would stop ... (362 words)

How should I ask him to dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everybody, So here's the deal. I think I've fallen in love with my cousin, and no matter what anyone says I'm not gonna change my mind, because this is love. I can't control my emotions. I met so many guys but I can't get over him, Every time I see him and I get close to h... (364 words)

Why does being a "Nice Guy" get me nowhere?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My virginity doesn't bother me that much, on most days at least, but I do feel a bit sad over the fact that I've never been in a relationship, NEVER. I'm 22 and nothing! I'm starting to feel that if I don't end up in relationship I'll never get laid! People can make you feel so ... (334 words)

Should I go to the in-laws anniversary lunch just to keep the peace? Or should I not go because of the way they treated me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has cheated on me with at least 2 other women during a 5 year period. I found out about his secret double life about 2 years ago. I recently told his parents the details of what he had been doing one day when I got extremely upset and was looking for support. ... (511 words)

I feel so heartbroken he has left me for a stripper, I cant compete with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, my problem relates to a man. What's new hey. I'll keep it really short (try to) I'm 33, his 28 we meet 6 months ago, In a bar one night. His gorgeous and knows it, obsessed with gym and looking good. I'm a good looking women but his better looking then me. Told me ... (317 words)

How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - told a woman whom I have had feelings for over 4 years that I liked her. She told me that she 'didn't want to ruin our friendship'. I accepted that- but inside, I was and am still very upset. She has a much better education and background than my own- and she has dated friends ... (306 words)

How do you deal with the other woman and the child that wil always be a reminder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have 2 kids (4 and 1) with my boyfriend of almost 15 years. I recently found out he is about to be (allegedly) the father of another womans baby. I asked him before if he ever had anything with her and he told me I was over reacting. He only told me about it because I found ... (224 words)

If I keep this up I'm going to get caught! Who do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy I went to high school with. We've been seeing each other for about 8/9 months. We'll call him Derrick. When we first starting talking to each other again I had just got in a new relationship. I didn't tell Derrick about it. I didn't feel the need to ... (424 words)

Struggling to lose my virginity because of the pain. What can I do to be more relaxed?

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22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a very hard time with losing my virginity. I'm 20 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I've tried several times to lose my virginity, but it just never seems to go right. We've tried every position we could think of but the pain is always ... (164 words)

I'm terrified I'm going to see her with someone again and I get this sick feeling in my stomach. How do I deal with all of this?

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22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend of five years and I broke up about two months ago, and until recently ive been okay because it was like we were still together. We live in the same buildings paralle from each other, and friday night I was having a smoke and I saw her with someone else. I ... (351 words)

I think I'm ugly but girls think I'm cute?

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22 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I've had a few girls at my school say that I'm cute and some have crushes on me. I know I'm definitely not hot but I've always comsidered myself an ugly kid. I'm pretty short for my age(16), I'm shy, kinda nerdy and have acne that I always notice but people say that I don't ... (64 words)

Lost my sex drive and I'm only 23!

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22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. Im 23 years old and I have lost my sex drive. I have been with my fiancee for a year and 8 months now. Our sex life was fine, both of us were able to get off and enjoy it. Lately, I'd say the last 1-2 months, I have had no interest whatsoever. We have still ... (384 words)

How should I make my next move on this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

22 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I am the same guy with the post Please read through it cause I want guidence really bad. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-find-out-if-this-beautiful.html Since then I have moved a little further. I talk to her almost on every shift. Today she said '... (539 words)

He flirted with me like crazy but then stopped talking to me! What should I do?

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22 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. So one of my best friends who i have been in love with for at least 2 years.. Well he lives right down the roads from my dads and i snuck out to see him. We were just chilling by a pond on a bench and he kissed me. Then we were making out and other things happened. I ... (138 words)

We constantly fight, are we not meant to be together?

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22 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately, my girlfriend and I have been fighting so much, and I can't stand it anymore. It seems like all that we do is fight, and somehow it's always my fault, and I'm always the one who's getting left bruised by the argument (emotionally, not physically). The smallest, most ... (1406 words)

This girl stopped texting me! Did I make a mistake?

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22 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Yooo everyone... so, I have a small issue. I have been talking to this girl (through a dating website... i know...) and she is gorgeous. like seriously a goddess. I see myself as an attractive guy, but not on her level (if you get what i mean). I know this chick is a legitimate ... (295 words)

Whenever we have sex I cry and want to be alone. What's wrong with me?

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22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I need advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We work together and when we met I had a boyfriend. I was living with my ex and he cheated on me. My boyfriend now was there for me and after a few months we started dating. He is an amazing guy and so thoughtful. ... (128 words)

How do I start a relationship online?

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22 August 2011 (M)

age - I want to have a partner via the internet, but I don't know how. I've seen alot of matches on the internet, but I don't know how to do to contact or make relation with them. I've been interested in some of them, I want to see them at their hometown, but dn't have their phone ... (81 words)

How can I help him be less insecure?

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22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite a long time (2 years) and he says he loves me a lot, but yet he acts as if I could be easily replaced. He is very insecure, and always saying that he does not trust me when he is mad, but then he claims he does when hes uh not mad? ... (106 words)

Should she tell him she relapsed with painkillers or deal with it herself?

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22 August 2011 (?) age 30-35 - First of all, let's say this story is about a friend of mine who I knew in high school. She used to be a drug user, painkillers to be specific. She loved them. She sort of quit---that is, she stopped using them altogether for 2 months to prove to herself she could. During that ... (255 words)

Do normal women find doggy style demeaning?

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22 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - The doggy style position makes me feel like I am losing my feminity and also lack of contact/caressing with my lover during sex. Is it normal for women to feel like this or is it just me?... (37 words)

He's hot! Could he be attracted to me??

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22 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm gonna get to the point straight away.I'm a 19 year old gay guy and I have a crush on this guy in one of my classes.I know he's gay for sure but Could he be attracted to me when he's a whole lot better looking.I'm a latino guy so I have dark skin kinda like light ... (113 words)

I want to try to be a vegetarian. Any advice?

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22 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm considering becoming a vegetarian. There are many reasons behind this, but I need some advice. I'm an animal-lover and a bit of an environmentalist. I don't like our general lifestyle either. I know that people have always relied on meat as a part of their diet but, ... (204 words)