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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My parents are headed for a divorce and I am afraid if we will financially survive. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. This is not exactly a relationship question, more so a divorce question. My parents have been having problems for about 4 years. My dad has changed, doesn't treat her like he loves her, and has been borderline emotionally abusive towards her. Here's some inf... (320 words)

Am I the only woman not threated by porn?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just read an article about porn here on DC so it made me interested to post a question. Am I the only woman who is not threatened by porn? I mean, I read a lot of questions here about it, of ladies breaking up with their boyfriends and wives getting hurt about discoverin... (176 words)

I thought we both understood our arrangement, so why did he act like a jerk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - so i meet this guy on a temp job in my city. knowing full well he works alot, and will eventually leave..we discuss what i'll call "an arrangement". because of his job/life path hes chosen, he has no time for a relationship, sad, really. but we agree the attraction is mutual, ... (577 words)

I want to have a baby with my ex if I don't get married before 35. Is this wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A few years back I was with a guy, great looking who was very attracted to me. I didn't love him so one day I left him saying we should meet when we are both more mature in judgement.(as in HE) Ever since I was in destructive relationships and I ended up heartbroken. Last year... (216 words)

He acts like he's interested in me but he hasn't finished with his girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The other night i went a party and we were ment to be sleeping be there also, I knew people that were going but not that much and as soon as i got there a boy started flirting with me, he's lovely and gorgeous but the only thing is he has a girlfriend but through out the ... (159 words)

I got back with my ex but its not working out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, I'm really desperate for advice. This situation has kept me awake at night and I don't even have the guts to tell friends or family about my predicament. 3 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. We'd been dating for 3 years and were extremely close. ... (427 words)

His best friend came onto me and now I can't get him out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my husband, Ben, for 5 years (married for 1) and i do love him. Hes been havin a tough time lately and is suffering with depression and i seem to spend every minute i have picking him up and looking after him, which i have been happy to do untill recently. A li... (220 words)

Can I date several men at the same time?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - need help from females After several years with the same man it appears the relationship is not going to move forward in any way. Id like to know if its is normal for a woman to date several guys at one time and how do I go about doing this. Also, should I tell my ... (133 words)

Can I believe him even though these sites tell a different story?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Really upset, i thought id found the man of my dreams now ive discovered him on fu##book and various other dating sites which were logged onto 2 weeks ago, the thing is we have been here before and he told me they were old sites which he couldn't log out of due to an old email ... (318 words)

Old flame and I can't keep hands off of each other but he's married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated my first real love in high school for 2 years and we were madly in love. Had names for our future kids and talked to our parents about marriage. We broke up cuz his parents didn't approve of me. He latergot another girl pregnant and married.We lost contact cuz if that. ... (258 words)

How do you meet new guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you meet new guys? Seriously I,m nearly 20 and i,ve NEVER had a Boyfriend. I,m kinda ashamed of it because yeah I,ve snogged some guys but i,ve never gotten any further. I,m often setting up friends with friends and some of them work out others just stay friends. An... (186 words)

How can I make sense of what I am facing following the suicide of my ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupids Once again thank you for taking the time to read this. I do not have any parental support and I live alone with good support. Long story short i am a diagnosed and medicated schizophrenic. And i was in an abusive relationship for around seven years. It started ... (409 words)

I want to love him, but its just not happening

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, i have been seeing this guy Dave for a year now. He is good looking , hard working and really kind to me and my two children from a previous relationship. The problem is no matter how hard i try i just dont get proper feelings for him. I thought i loved him in the beginnin... (131 words)

Can having lots of casual sex affect people psychologically?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I read recently in an article written by a prominent psychologist that lots of casual sex or sex with people you do not love can cause a person to "split off" from him- or herself, losing touch with his or her emotions. The person then becomes confused, unsure of what he ... (121 words)

My ex wants to move near by. Is it to be closer to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice please guys me amd my boyfriend split up 2 wks ago he moved in wth a friend miles away, now today he told me hes moving up the road with a male friend to be closer to work and the kids, im not sure how to take this as we have more of a chance of bumping into ... (141 words)

Do I play it safe or go for the guy where the sparks fly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating ineclusively for quite some time. In the last 6-7 months i've been dating two men. Two really amazing guys! Lately i feel like im ready to take my relationship to the next level and date only one guy exclusively and start a life together. They have both told ... (273 words)

He wants to work over seas...does he not see our relationship as a serious one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so confused at the moment. I have basically been in a relationship with a lovely guy for the past 7 months. He is in the army, so it has been hard going but we have made it work. But now he is talking about being made redundant, which is something he is not too worried ... (164 words)

I want this boy to leave me alone. He makes me uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - He was in school with me he had a crush on me. We both had to sit upfront together I was with Linda (learning support) and he always bragged that I always wanted to sit by him. I told the teacher about this so she had a word with him. I was just friends with him. He sent me ... (325 words)

My boyfriend is annoyed that I won't wear what he is telling me to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 26. For the past week or so he's been asking me to wear a bikini and halfshirt 24-7 and is getting angry that I won't do it. I told him no, it's inappropriate, but he thinks it'll be good for our relationship and it'll make me appreciate him e... (90 words)

Did he enjoy the sex or was I just another score?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I got a friend that I gotten to know through work. We speak everyday and facebook casually. Well, people have been saying he likes me and even his best friend hinted to me. My responses are ''I don't think he does!'' The other day after 14 months of knowing each other, ... (109 words)

My boyfriend complains when I eat his food!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hi. Me and my bf have been togther almost 2 years and we are about to buy a house togther. He is fronting all of the deposit and paying for most of the fees (around £20,000). However, sometimes when I go round to see him and want to eat his food he complains and wants me to ge... (179 words)

Our marriage is dying.. but my husband doesn't realise it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my highschool sweatheart for 8 years now, but we have been together since we were both 15. He's now 30 and I'm 29. We just had a daughter last year. My husband is a wonderful guy, he's courteous, sweet, do it yourself'er will help out anyone in need all ... (421 words)

I slept with his friend before I met him. Do you think he will take me seriously or just as a hook-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've gotten myself into a sticky situaion,and need some help. Long story short,I met a guy about a month ago,and ended up staying the night at his house and we had sex a few times that night. About a week or so later he said him and his ex were getting back together,so we ... (335 words)

Old flame... or new guy???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a very akward situation and I really need help You see up until last week i had been meeting up with an amazing guy. well I thought he was amazing until he stood me up and never got bacl in touch with me. But anyway I was hurting and I still kinda am because i,ve nev... (207 words)

Male, 20 and still a virgin

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Just as the title says. I absolutely hate myself for it too. What a loser i must be. Worse, everyone's always telling me how good looking i am and what a good sense of humour i have. So why the HELL cant i make it work for me?? Im a useless failure. I have considered hiring an ... (221 words)

Is my penis size considered big, small or average?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all, im 19 and im basically a shut in and this is why im asking this because i cant ask no one else. its about my penis size i am not sure if its average or big my penis is 7inches with 6.9 girth.. is this considered big or average? and i am always being told i... (116 words)

Crazy dry and no sex drive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i HAVE A PROBLEM!!! I LIKE MEN BUT LATELY IT BE NO FUN IN THE BEDROOM I've been crazy dry i want be turned on but its not been good, ive even try to play with myself to get turned on but nothing i need help.... (46 words)

My ex kissed another girl. Should I forgive and forget?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, basically I have been seeing my now ex boyfriend for 8 months, he is the most caring loving honest person ever. I have trust issues due to my past and I accused my boyfriend almost everyday of cheating on me, fancying my friends and even his cousin, he never gave me ... (245 words)

How do I get her back forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I'm a 23 year old guy and my girlfriend's also 23.Well,to start off with, I got to say I'm probably going through the toughest phase of my life till now. My two year long relationship is in turmoil and I'm really feeling low and devastated. We had a very stron... (1369 words)

Should my boyfriend use my past against me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now. We met up at a holiday park where I was working and When I went back home which was 4 hours away from where he lived, a guy who I had history with texted me and asked me if I was goin clubbing on the weekend. I then replied ... (547 words)

She is back with her ex boyfriend.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm in my mid 30's and I've been friends with a girl for a couple of years, and in that time she has had a boyfriend for most of that time. They split up about 3 months ago and since then we have grown closer...as friends. Recently our mutual friends have told me that they ... (223 words)

I want him to either realize that he loves me and be committed to me or I want him to leave me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know how to explain my situation. I'm madly in love(for over a year now) with a younger guy. We've been best friends and all and our relationship developed from there. We have sex, we kiss, we talk on the phone endlessly, but he doesn't believe that he's gay (YEAH!) He ... (320 words)

Suffering from ED - at 21?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been experiencing somewhat of a problem for a long time now. Right now, I'm a 21 year old male, in great physical condition. I'm dating a girl from one of my classes. She just flew out to China for study abroad, and will be gone for a whole semester. I'll miss her, o... (521 words)

He said I'm loose down there and now I'm really worried!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey please help me... Ive recently lost my viginity (on holiday with my bf this week) and he is larger than normal. At first he said i was loose however i explained that i have been very experiemental in my past. however after 3 days of sex he told me today that ive become... (125 words)

Her parents are making us break up because they don't trust me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am really struggling with this girl I have been with for almost a year... She is so beautiful, and so amazing. That I think she desserves better then me... I am 16, and she is just a year younger then me. Her parent's is starting to believe that we are going all the ... (331 words)

I can't believe I kissed my best friend like that!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi my name is Holly J.I'm 15 years old.I go to an all girl School.My story happened 1 year ago.I always hang out by myself.it's really hard for me to make friends.I'm a extremely shy person it took me forever just to talk to the person who sit next to me in class.At lunch time ... (966 words)

Crushing on my best friend.....should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am getting these things .. and i am starting to think i am bi sexual .. but i don't wanna tell anyone .. atleast not yet , cause knowing the people i know .. they probably won't believe me for some silly reason . .and i don't know what to do about it .. and i think i am ... (225 words)

Is there a 'woman shortage'? - it seems that way to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age - I have heard time and time again that 'There is a man shortage', yet I've yet to see this myself. Every woman I know at work and socially is either married or in a relationship. To me there it is more like there is a Woman Shortage. Maybe Im just fussy and dont like the ... (87 words)

Tricked by a man - again!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we met twice . He was all over ... (102 words)

Premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and a boring girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have recently been suffering from both PE and ED (the ED is suspected from low testosterone levels - only 20 years old - and the PE from anxiety etc., however, despite being prescribed cialis\viagra my girlfriend of a few months does not seem to help and seems to be ... (295 words)

Long distance relationship problem (USA / UK)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in an LDR with a guy for over a year now. He lives in the UK and it's getting harder and harder to cope with him being so far away. He's come to see me a couple of times, and I was going to go visit him but it was bad timing. He's always been really nice to me, b... (243 words)

I have a speech impediment and find conversation with a guy I like is hard coz my mind goes blank

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23 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 16,and I have a speech impediment....my words are slurred, fast, and mumbled. I try to talk clear and understandable, but it doesnt help. I get really depressed a lot because before this....I was very talkative and loved talking to people...but now im quiet and barely talk ... (174 words)

My dads bought a house in 'the ghetto'. How do I let him know this worries me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This isn't a relationship question per se, but I'd still like some advice. My problem is that my dad, who will turn 68 in October, just bought a house in a bad neighborhood without telling me in advance. Up until now he was living with my godsister. I really appreciate that ... (645 words)

I'm in love with my kid's father's brother but I think the family and my kids will be feel hurt if we get together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have fallen in love with my kids father's brother and we want to be together. We have always been attracted together but we never expressed our mutual attraction for one another til his wife passed away 5 yrs ago and his brother went to prison for 5 years. I had been with my ... (212 words)

Family and a crush on my cousin since I was 13. How do I move on from this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey people, I really appreciate you guys and girls for helping me out and I have a problem. Please don't say ewwwwww, or anything rude because it's my second cousin. Please help me. I remember this was back 3 years ago when I was 13, I saw my second cousin for the second t... (653 words)

I miss him. We just broke up. What do I do to get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I just broke up. It has been three years. I do not know how to cope or deal with this,how is he moving on so fast? He is already talking to other girls,dating them. I know this because of Facebook. I need help,my identity feels stripped away. I want him back... (70 words)

I don't whether to give-up in 'us' or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

23 August 2011 (M) age 30-35 - I dated my ex for a little over 3 and a half years. I broke up with her because things were not going good. I guess i just needed time to figure out what i really wanted. I told her to move on and she kept trying to get back with me. I love her and i didn't want to miss lea... (1124 words)

How do I find girls who have the same interest as I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am an 18 year old single male who just started college (Computer Science major). I really want to meet girls and get into a relationship. I been real lonely throughout the summer, not many people talk to me. I want to have someone to care about and be there ... (533 words)

We broke up a year ago, but I still think about her every single day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I broke up with my ex about a year ago. We lived together for 2 years and were together for about 4. I really miss her and think about her every day. I havent been with anyone since as every time I meet someone I shy away because I still love my ex. Its like shes part of me. ... (154 words)

Boyfriend says I'm not loud enough during sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have really good sex but he still asks me if I'm enjoying it. I know it's good that he wants to make sure I feel good but it's his reasoning that gets me. He says he's not sure because I'm not loud enough. I moan like the whole time and its not quiet in my ... (156 words)

When is there a good time to say you like someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - When's the right time to tell someone you like them? Right now I'm in high school. I'll be starting my senior year in 2 weeks. So of course I'm in my puppy love phase where I get a crush on someone. The only difference is, that this is the first time I have some stuff in common ... (348 words)

Boyfriend wants to do sexual things but I am still very shy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there's this guy that I've been seeing and we've been having sex for about a month. Everthings great but he keeps wanting to go down on me. I know it would feel really good but I'm just really shy and I don't like the idea of someone seeing my whole body. Like if it were up ... (191 words)

My b/f cheated and now I'm torn between him and another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - help! ive been going out with my boyfriend for 13 months, and about 3 month ago he slept with another girl when we were on a break, which i think is just as bad as cheating as we were on the break to make things better, not for him to sleep around. I took him back because ... (257 words)

Should I tell my ex happy birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I was wondering recently my ex's birthday had just passed and I was thinking about sending her a quick happy birthday email. However my birthday happened sooner then hers, it was in January, and I didn't get a happy birthday or anything from her. Should I just ... (131 words)

How can he not cater to me on those special moments in our first year of dating.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

23 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with this guy who for the first time I am in love with. He is going through some financial problems in his business but things are getting better. It has not gone to the point where he couldn't pay his bills so I believe he is still good. We met in Augus... (419 words)

I like this girl, she asked me for advice about another guy and now I can't contact her online

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 August 2011 (M)

age 22-25 - Well basically, I got talking to a girl in my school year online, let's call her jane. I'd seen her around but never spoken to her in real life, I had a huge crush on her, so when we started talking I was thrilled. We talked for ages and she said she really liked me, we flirted ... (302 words)