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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wife says that sex with me grosses her out. Can that change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 38 and my wife is 41. We do not have sex anymore and have not for at least a decade. She says that sex with me grosses her out. She says that the idea of sex itself does not gross her out, and she fantasizes about sex with other men sometimes, but having sex with me ... (1002 words)

Am I just his text buddy who he occasionaly sees when it suits him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone this guy who I very occasionally have sex with ignores my texts and only texts me when he feels like it he says he forgets but I know that's not true anyway I got fed up with it when I found out he had gone on holiday and hadn't even bothered to tell me when I thou... (126 words)

Why do I push guys away? I find one fault and look for more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a real problem staying in a relationship. I'm 31 years old and have had lots of short relationships. I meet a guy who im really crazy about and within a couple of months im bored. The guys i have been with have been totally different from each other. Its not that i am s... (110 words)

He has A Girlfriend. Why doesn't he see what happened was wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I used to be in a sort of "friends with benefits" with a guy i know who lives miles away from me. We knew each other from school and got back in touch over Facebook. It lasted a while then we didn't see each other for a few months and during that time he got back together with ... (332 words)

Alarm bells are ringing. Is he making money or gambling away our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - just wanted to get people's opion on this to see if I am being completely irrational or whether I am right in asking my boyfriend not to gamble anymore... my boyfriend recently started "making money" on gambling websites. he uses free introductory bets and does the opposit... (547 words)

Can she change or has she got used to making fun of me being "middle" class?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - For the last three years , I have been in a relationship with girl who is from extremely rich family whereas I am from middle class family with good educational background but not having decent job matching my qualification . Her parents are down to earth and even her fath... (532 words)

I don't get it! Am I being unreasonable? He excludes me from parts of his life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive just ended my relationship with my boyfriend because we want different things but now im doubting my decision! Weve been together nearly a yr her 30 im 28 I have a daughter and he has a son. The thing is he doesnt want no more children and I do, he doesnt believe in marr... (359 words)

Can 14 negative pregnancy tests be wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Can 14 negative pregnancy urine tests be wrong. I just want to know if it's possible to get 14 consecutive tests wrong and nothing else. I'd appreciate some feedback, thank you.... (31 words)

Should I try for one more date with this guy? even though hé's been ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so A guy who I was texting and meeting up with stopped texting me last week after he stood me up. now last night as I was with a few friends watching a film he texts me... I texted him back immaturey like "well " and " fine " he then texted me that he was sorry for last week ... (131 words)

I'm so insecure, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend incredibly so and we have been dating for 6months, its a long distance relationship and I have became really insecure, I tried to hide it from my boyfriend but I can't anymore. I don't understand why but he told me that this girl at work said to him that she ... (249 words)

Help me convince my parents to let me visit him for the summer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am currently in a long distance relationship with a guy I love with all my heart. I live in Maryland and he is in California, we have been dating for almost a year now and it really bothers me that we are so far away, but since i love him so much im not going to give up. ... (189 words)

He never texts and expects me to chase him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im really getting fed up of this guy i know. he knows i like him but i feel like his nurse maid. if he ever has problems im there. if hes ever financially stuck im there yet hes aware i like him but doesnt treat me in a great way. he goes on all these seedy chat sites and ... (98 words)

What do you think about him? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I go to my music class on every sunday. There is boy ( we'll call him A )who is 2 years older than me (I'm 14) one day I haven't a place to sit in my class.after few minutes the boy who is sitting next to A went home and my teacher told me to sit there. When I was doing ... (228 words)

Why do I no longer care about my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) age 30-35 - why do i seem to not care about the people i went to college with anymore? They're my closest and bestest friends! Yet i have purposely been distancing myself and making all sorts of excuses as to why i can't go out with them. I just feel like i want to get away and move ... (226 words)

I saw my ex girlfriend again after 4 years... and all the old feelings came back to me!

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25 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I saw my ex girlfriend today for the first time in 4 years. The moment i saw her all those feeling came running back to me..we werent together for very long , only round 8 months but we were very close. i cant stop thinking about her!! the big problem is i have a girlfrie... (125 words)

I dreamed of having sex with fat men

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - For two nights I dreamed of having sex with 2 different fat men. They were of average attraction and one a doctor and the other a celebrity. Both were of different race. Can you tell me what this means?... (39 words)

Is she stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is just something that I'm confused about and would like some insight on. A week from today, my girlfriend and I broke up. I first suggested that we take a break to see how we can work together to meet each other's needs. We talked about it and we both agreed that to do ... (430 words)

Does he love me? Need to know. Will he leave his wife?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am sleeping with a married man who I have history with. He has other women in other towns as well. He says his wife doesn't sleep with him and treats him bad. He says he wants to leave her but he says she is crazy and probably would do something that would be no good foe if ... (127 words)

A really nice guy likes me, but I like someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so about a week ago, my roommate and her boyfriend decided to try and set me up with one of his roommates (let's call him John). That part of the plan is going swimmingly. He likes me but he wants to get to know me better before asking me on a date. The problem? His other ... (212 words)

My friend left me on my own during our night out in a town I don't know

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Am i overreacting or taking this too far by telling my best friend i don't want to be friends anymore. Would you still be friends with someone who did this... Before I start, i just want to say unlike the girl. I didn't know the area we were in, the clubs, the streets, any of ... (464 words)

My fiancé and I are distantly related to each other.Sometimes I worry that this is incest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, will try to make this short.. I live in the UK and have all my life. I have some family in Canada, and growing up I saw them maybe once every couple of years. My father's uncle (my great uncle, Rob) lives in Canada with his wife April. April and I are not blood... (269 words)

My boyfriends penis is too big

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having sex with my boyfriend for a while now but its becomming increasingly difficult for me. The problem is honestly that his penis is really big. The most comfortable position for us to have sex is him on top and whilst thats enjoyable afterwards i feel quite so... (223 words)

What's wrong with my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and my boyfriends 16 soon, he wants to have sex but I'm not sure I do, he's not a virgin but I am! He always gets drunk and high, it dosent bother me usually but recently he feels me up and sticks his hands down my pants and top in front of his friends! I'm not sure why ... (119 words)

We only see each other once a week, but she calls me clingy. I buy her everything, but she says I never take care of her. Is she using me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - so me and my girlfriend have been fighting for the past two weeks. She keeps telling me im clingy, and she needs space, and i only see her once a week, so i dont understand how im being clingy. another thing iv noticed is i pay for everything. i pay for her food, her furniture, ... (254 words)

I'm worried my ex's will live a more fulfilled life than my own and it's getting me down. How do I stop feeling this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm worried that I'm not living my life to the fullest and unfortunately the main reason for this is because I tend to compare my life to the lives of my ex girlfriends. Let me explain... I don't know why, but I'm really stuck on the idea that my ex's are going to go on t... (421 words)

Sex has become a chore. I want to have sex but not with him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. To be honest, he never satisfied me 100%, but I enjoyed being with him. For the past two months, sex has been a chore. I want to have sex, but not with him. I literally get a little pissed off inside when he wants to have sex with me. I ... (83 words)

My ex recently broke up with his rebound, yet doesn't seem to want us to be back together again. Do I still stand a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Please jump to the last paragraph if my background story is too wordy :') I am 17-year old and gay. I was best friend with this guy i just met this year, from Feb all the way to beginning of July. We were best friends and would call each other brothers. It was clear that w... (563 words)

He's called me his ex's name twice, is he really over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4618 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I would like it if someone could help me out here. Okay, In 2 weeks, I would have been going out with my bf for a year:) We are both each others 2nd serious relationship. his ex, made him miserable - always cheated on him and broke up with him. I on the other ha... (1451 words)

Childhood sexual mistakes haunting me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - When I was 10 years old, I had sex with my six friends but in different times. And little physical intimacy with my classmate when I was 14. Though the sex was not intensive one and its been 18 since it happened but still feeling the shame for having done this. I am ... (95 words)

My uncle relies on me to go out drinking with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this problem might sound a bit stupid, but i dont like how my uncle relies on me to go out drinking with him. My uncle is unemployed,doesnt have many friends, is single and he's pretty lonely. He's also my godfather. My parents made him my godfather as they felt sorry ... (161 words)

Is he gay from being in prison or just a weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question about what turns men on. I have been sleeping with a guy for way over a year and recently he asked me to do something in bed that made me wonder and got embarrassed for him. He wanted me to play with his anus. I didn't want to at first but when it gave him ... (112 words)

Why is my dad so negative about everything I do? What can I do to change this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

25 August 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I don't know what to do about my family. They constantly compare me to my sister and to other people not even related to us. I'm fine with being compared to people, that really doesn't bother me. However I've noticed my dad seems to like my sister's work more than mine. Now ... (456 words)

Should I just quit my job to move to be with him? Or wait until February?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Had this friend for several years, always liked him, then last June we just hit it off and said we loved each other. We are made for each oter. We have the same interests, the same view on life, we have so much fun together... it's just, you know, the glow of love! It's ... (292 words)

Boyfriend never initiates contact or asks me out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in my late 20s and my boyfriend in his early 30s.. I've been seeing him for 3 months now. He is such an affectionate, loving.. but one problem is, he rarely initiates contact, and NEVER asks me out. I always contact him, and always ask him out. I've mentioned to him a ... (256 words)

He wont say how he feels because he is afraid of me kicking him out! Plus I'm fed up of feeling like his mom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, im having a problem with my boyfriend whom lives with me. we have been together for years and years since and we are our very early twenty's. and this is the first place we have both lived other than home... we live in my moms rental property for half rent which ... (360 words)

My wife has no sex drive and this is ruining things!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has no sex drive. This is ruining everything. We have been together for 12 years and we have 3 children, separation is NO option. I have searched not only this website but the entire net high and low and have found nothing, no real answers to this problem. Plenty of ... (124 words)

What should I say to my sister in law's niece, and what should I do about the party?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. I was supposed to be going to a party this weekend for my sister in law's dad's birthday. My sister in law and my brother didn't invite me. My sister in law's niece did, although, my sister in law sent everyone a message on facebook saying she hoped everyone ... (925 words)

How do I get over it and not keep telling myself how foolish I was?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in the process of ending my 2 year relationship. The main issues were alcohol abuse and money. The soon to be ex boyfriend still owes me money. When he phoned last week he cut short the call because his son (previous marriage) had called him. When he called back again ... (267 words)

We are very close. Yet on FB he claims to love another. Am I just his temp fix?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I find myself in the worse position ever. I've been with one guy since I was 14 we break up but still see eachother regularly, speak everyday and sleep over each others houses every week. Where I've known him since I was so young I feel so connected and a comf... (250 words)

My pregnant Gf no longer wants to see me. How do I get her back? I was texting prostitutes

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My current girlfriend (whom I do want to marry) is 2 months pregnant and she looked through my phone only to discover text messages I had with other girls as well as prostitutes to set up dates. I have never cheated on her or gave her reason to think so, I was just extr... (125 words)

How do you recover when being traded for another person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I have a pretty interesting problem. So my ex left me last year and two weeks later was in a relationship with her new boyfriend. Suffice to say that entire experience stung and hurt me in ways that I could never even imagine. Fast forward to now and the two of them ... (185 words)

Huge jealousy problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i was in a realtionship for so long and we both had trust problems and a lot a lot a lot a lot of jealousy to an extreme point. Thats how i am and thats how she is. I got used to being jealous. Now the realtionship has ended. But everytime i meet a girl and i like her and ... (180 words)

I cant get back with her because I know she will keep lying, so how so I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and 2 months and in the first year and a half it was great then some lying from her part started coming and a lot of lies and big ones. Nothing with her exs just stupid lies and i talked to her about it and she said she ... (280 words)

Could this mean anything other than the fact that my GF and this other guy slept together?? What else could "I got up after you left" mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - A question, tho I think I know the answer. Girl I have been seeing for a few months told me on Monday night she was going to visit an old friend (a guy). I was very suspicious. It was eating at me. We have not been dating so long and I dont know the relationship to this fri... (178 words)

This could be the last chance I have to tell her how I feel. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Although I'm only young, I know I have strong feelings for someone I've become very close to over the past few months. Unfortunately for me, they're a girl and, ignoring the fact I myself haven't 'come out' yet, I'm not sure whether shes bi or gay - she hints at it but has ... (186 words)

Is she interested? Have Amnesia? or just wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Girl is all over me at lounge then forgets me? Ok so I had to go to a few parties amd meet up with friends saturday night. I go to this one lounge and get eye contact from this girl. all the while her friend is whisppering in her ear probably talking about me. I grab her arm... (365 words)

I don't like my daughter calling her dad's girlfriend "mom"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going through a divorce and should be finalize this month. My ex has been living with his girlfriend and her two kids for a year now. We have joint custody of our 7 year old little girl. My question is this. My daughter told me that when she is over at her Dad, they tol... (211 words)

How do I cope with my insecurities and keep him interested in me?

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25 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - After a long break up (1 year) my ex came back to me.He was in another relationship at that time. When that girl ditched him he realised my love and came back to me.I forgave him(but not so easily). And everything was going very smoothlyafter that.But now a days he is so busy ... (272 words)

We love eachother but it's to soon what should I be doing in the mean time ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 15 and have a slight problem, my problem is I have a girl bestfriend, we've been close for a long period of time but now we are unseprable (As my other friends say) recently there's been a lot of confusion with her because everyones telling us to get together because of ... (139 words)

I think he likes me but I think he's wanting a FWB situation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hola. Okay, so I've liked this guy for a while now, and he finally started texting me a few weeks ago. At first his texts were really sweet and funny, and blah blah blah, and after we'd texted for a week or so he said that he would go out with me. He didn't ask, but he said he ... (196 words)

Will women understand my problem? Or will they be put off or disgusted by my penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old, and for various reasons I have not done much dating and not been sexual active. In retrospect, I realize that much of the reason why I have put off sexual activity is because I have phimosis (tight foreskin) and I think deep down I am afraid that a woman may ... (175 words)

How can I find out if my BF really is cheating me with this other girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Not really not sure how to start, I have my boyfriend of 8 months, well, recently I started suspicious that he might be having an online relationship. Hos did this happenn? well, a few months ago, he mentioned in front of everybody that this co-worker, we'll call her grayce, ... (341 words)

How can I tell him the way I really feel, without freaking him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi. im in need of advice on how to get this boy to notice me. ok, so i have been going to this camp for two weeks, and the last is when the guy of my dreams shows up, and within a couple of hours, we are friends. he hangs out with me and some other girls but the prob is me and ... (109 words)

Question for the women: How often do you tell a guy the sex "great" or "amazing" or something similar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Question for the women: How often do you tell a guy the sex "great" or "amazing" or something similar? I realized the other day that my GF almost never says anything like that. But, then again we've been going out for several years so it seems somewhat unrealistic to e... (182 words)

He asked me out but he really wants a FWB relationship. I don't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So the guy i liked, happens to like me back. So after like two weeks of flirting and talking. We kissed. Later on that day i asked him, where we were heading? So he asked me out...and i asked him if thats what he wanted? He didn't really answer me. But he did however ask me How ... (194 words)

I don't know if I'm overreacting, but this lack of commmunication is really getting to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I am in college and my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now and are very happily in love. We've been through quite a lot together that has strengthened our relationship and really given us a good foundation.We have spoken about having a more serious ... (164 words)

How can I be happy for my ex when he's moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4617 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i could go into major details, but we'd be hear forever, so i'll put it simply. I went out with this guy when i was 15 and it was my first proper relationship and lasted 6 months until we broke up. I wasn't sure how i felt so i ended it and typically, but the time i'd ... (435 words)

I don't know if he likes me or not!!

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25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - right ok, so there is the guy who I first met in my university class but iam so shy that i would only talk to him when i was drunk at the student union. An then completely ignored him the next day in front of his friend (i know its terrible and i feel bad but i got so ... (189 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend I want children now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 20 years old and have been with my boyfriend for two years. For awhile now me and him have been talking about getting married and living a happy life, but now I want kids. We have discussed having kids but we never really decided when. Both of us are financia... (87 words)

My breast are too big, and they cause me problems in my daily life..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 yrs. old my height is 174 - that would be about 5'9 - My problem is my big breast on a small frame upper body. About 2 yrs ago they were the perfect size which to me was good because my breast are fully round starting from the armpit and the volume was not heavy..but ... (207 words)