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Why do people take an instant dislike to me ?

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5 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hey, well i was wondering why people seem to take an instant dislike to me, or simpley start on me for no reason what so ever. i currently have one friend, i have tryed to get along with other people but they seem to either take the piss out of me or just sim... (477 words

My instructor commented on my weight and inability to lose weight. Should I have commented back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - right i'll try to be brief, sorry if i'm not.. i've been doing loads of high intensity training over the past year and for the first 6 months i was losing weight but since then i've not lost any weight and i could do with losing some. thats not my own personal vanity talki... (299 words

I'm devastated over the death of my nephew

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5 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Help me grieve this loss. Yesterday I got a terrible news from my home country Pakistan about my eldest nephew's death. He was 16 and perfectly healthy and growing. He hung himself and died. I was called from my home with this news and I drove insanely to home a... (1239 words

Will losing weight make stretch marks go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - I have really ugly horrible stretch marks on my inner thighs, and they make me feel really self-conscious. I've managed to make them fade with the use of sudocrem, but I was wondering if by losing weight I'd be able to get rid of them completely before they scar? If not, is ... (68 words

We broke up agreed to stay friends, should I hang around or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - me and my ex have split about 4 months ago it was a bad break up. but recently i found a lump and get really scared, and as i do still love him and feel i can tell him anything, i phoned him and told him. due to this we are in contact. we both agreed we arent ready for a... (189 words

How can I vent my feelings without involving anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2899 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - hey i have a small problem and i'll try to be quick when telling you about it. i have have alot of suppressed emotions. stuff i refuse to let out because there's never an appropriate time. but i'm getting to the point where these emotions are bubbling away, waiting t... (211 words

Humiliated betrayed and heartbroken by my ex fiance!

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5 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been horrribly humilated, betrayed, and heartbroken by my ex fiance of over 2 years . Every time we had an argument, he would give me the cold shoulder until I would cave in a week later and ask him to discuss the problem. I have been married before so I wanted to try my ... (272 words

I just want them to leave me alone. Suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hey, well basically ill try and keep it short and simple. About 7-8 months ago i left highschool because i had a mental break down and everything just went wrong. I fell out with pretty much all my friends, for different reasons, some of them i fell out with because they werent ... (515 words

New nickname for my bofriend please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - i am 15 and just was want some ideas as like other things to call my boyfriend. i contsantly call him babe and i cant really think of anything different. he calls me alot of different things like babe baby hun sweetheart and cupcake. so i was just wanting something different i ... (55 words

Is it possible to get him back in a long distance relationship?

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5 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago. We were in a long distance relationship for about one month but overall I've been with him for one year and 3 months and have lived with him for 8 months. He told me that he doesn't know what he wants. He wanted me to wait for ... (167 words

I still find the school girl uniform sexy! Am I pervert?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hello guys. I am quite young and I have just left school to go to College. The thing is I still find the whole school girl thing sexy (the uniform, pigtails and so on) I'm worried I might have a problem. I don't want to be a pervert! Am I weird!? Any help would awesome.... (56 words

Am I just naive and blinded by love? How does one know that he/she is the one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Am I just madly in love and perhaps a little blinded by it or is this the real deal? I am a little confused because I feel like my feelings might be moving a little fast. For those who have found their life partners, how did you know that they were the ones for you? Was it just ... (546 words

I'm worried I sent him mixed messages .....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - my first question, my first date i met this guy at a gig and were chatting, swopped numbers and all but we lived really far away from each other. We texted each other found out we had a lot in common, music taste, sense of humour, ambitions I decided to just go for i... (224 words

He says he will be with me in the future, but I am scared he might meet someone else before then!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - I Have This Guy That I Really Like But We Live And Different States We Both Really Love Each other But We Dont Wanna Be In A Long Distance Relationship. Were Both In High School. He wants to see other people instead of trying to make it work but i dont know if i can do that. we ... (81 words

Am I bothering my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend just moved down to Florida three weeks ago for college. I drove down there with him and stayed for a week before flying back up. For the first week I was home, there was minimal communication, then we started skyping every night. It's been another week since that ... (479 words

I'm 18 and my body is changing. Could I still be going through puberty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Lately I've been feeling my hips getting wider and my breasts went up a cup size. I'm not sure if this is because of puberty because I'm almost 19 in a few weeks and I heard you stop "growing" when you're 18. I have been eating a little more than I normally would but there was ... (99 words

My husband left me so I got someone else. Husband wanted me back so I got an abortion for him, now he doesn't want me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Help please.....my life has taken a complete turn. I was with my husband for nine years. Married for six.separated for two years. Well he left me two yrs ago. I died that day. Well I was so hurt and in grief I met someone whom I liked. My husband told me he wasn't coming back ... (457 words

I want to switch colleges but I don't want to feel like I'm following someone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm entering my second year of college and as it approaches, I realize it's not where I want to be. The school I'm at is only useful for one major and I don't think I want to be that major anymore. Now, I am considering a transfer....and for multiple reasons. One ... (233 words

Husband's old female friend is now my FRENEMY

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - Husband's old female friend now my frenemy. How do I distance her without distancing my husband? We are attending a function next week where I will have to be in her presence. I would like to broadcast her misdeeds to everyone, however that can be self destructive. Does ... (101 words

Should I keep my distance from this guy? I don't want to make him a rebound

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - It has been hard for me last few weeks since the break up...But this week I met a guy that I can really get along with and always show signs of interest in me. Being with him for the past few days made me forget about my problems. He told me that he accepts me for who I am and... (177 words

I started my period and gained 5 lbs???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (? age 26-29 - Hello! I started my period a few days ago, and all the sudden I'd gained nearly five pounds! Which has never happened. I'm becoming worried that it won't go away! I feel so self conscious, and it's really noticeable. My jeans don't fit! My stomach is huge and round. I heard w... (173 words

Graphic photographs and the age old 'we were on a break'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - Having read a lot of problems and related advice, I was wondering on what you guys make of this: I met my current bf through a social app on fb. We've been together since Christmas (but chatted for a couple of months before). I have been completely honest and wear my heart on... (518 words

I've discovered my penis is smaller than average and its really messing with my mind!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I've recently done some research and I've found out the WORST possible news. I've discovered that my penis is below average in all aspects. I've been concerned with this for years and it's one of the reasons I've turned down or just didn't attempt to have sex. Now, I may ... (119 words

Gay marrying a woman

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi, i am 29 yr gay, but i look like other normal guys, my family is pressurising me to get married, bt i dont like gls ,i like ther boobs bt nt vagina, i want to kno can i b able to fk my wife nd satisfy her? I am very tense,i have to marry,pls give me some solutions... (59 words

I want a life, what do I have to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I need an advice for my current situation. I am pretty much stuck in it. I want to start a new life but I don't really know how. I have been imagining a picture of me having free-will. I am soon to be 24 years old soon, an only child, i haven't graduated ... (499 words

I don't want to be made a fool of by this man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 41-50 - I started dating a 40 year old man (divorced x 5 years, 1 child) a year ago having been single for seven years, partly through circumstance - work and studying – and also because I had a bad break up and wasn’t interested. I am not really experienced with men and dating ... (426 words

I want a relationship but it just seems like the bad outweighs the good!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 51-59 - I am a single, in my mid forties, and for the most part, enjoy this- not that i take advantage of it necessarily, by playing the field etc, i just enjoy the freedom of not having to answer to anyone and having to deal with all the 'c**p' that sometimes comes with being in a ... (391 words

I don't know if what I want in a man even exists?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - I dont know if what I want in a guy exists? I meet lots of guys, and they are interested, but I always find myself wanting to combine them. Cant seem to get all the qualities in one person. At the moment, I have guy 1 and guy 2, guy 1 is reliable and consistent and ... (292 words

Do men forget that they like to moan and whine too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my partner over 2.5 years. We are planning a future together, and so on. Lately, he's been working in a management position and says frequently that he is stressed by work. I don't know why, but he seems to have less tolerance for my "petty whinging" than u... (308 words

My ex says "when you change we can be friends again"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 22-25 - Hi, i'm gay and has just recently broken up with my bisexual boyfriend. I can tell he's bisexual because he left me for another girl who had been trying to get between us and seduce him while we were together. We've broken up for more than 3 weeks, and my ex would do everyth... (655 words

Did she lose interest in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - I've been dating a girl for about 7 months now. When we first started dating we seemed to get along so well. We always saw each other at least once a week and we text on a regular basis. A few months ago, I don't know why but we seemed to have drifted apart. We don't text or... (372 words

I really want my sex buddy to be my boyfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone i really want my fuck buddy to be my boyfriend we always talk about going out places together but it never happens i really like him but he comes round we have sex and he goes home which leaves me feeling miserable we get on really well both into the same things ... (124 words

My ex believes all love should be unconditional, does this sound ridiculous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - For those of you who haven't read any of my older questions I'll inform all of you by saying that me and my gf were together for 5 years until last may when she had feelings for another guy so she replaced me with him. She had actually been seeing him for 2 months prior and I ... (547 words

I'm broke and my flatmate owes me money but won't pay me back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hello everyone on Dear Cupid I have a dilemma about my friendship with my flatmate. I'll begin at the beginning. When my flatmate (my best friend from university) and I moved into our place a year ago, my mother helped us out with bills and the started costs (the admin cos... (275 words

I don't want to feel anything sexual for my female friends....what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 22-25 - During summers, us friends plan on going to the pool/beach. The thing is, I have several female friends, and I'm quite anxious about it. Not from the creepy way - the opposite actually. I don't have sexual thoughts of them, nor see them that way, and I don't want to. I'm more ... (111 words

Finding that special girl is so hard...how can I meet my dream girl who meets my standards?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Ok, im making this question because whenever i tell someone what i want in a girl, im misundertood and generally dont get empathy with people. What i want i a girl is obviously that i like her, both physically and mentally, that she doesnt do drugs and or smoke/drink, and virg... (706 words

Is he playing the "ill pretend I don't care" game?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - 3 weeks ago I told this guy I was seeing for almost 5 months that I didn't want anything to do with him anymore, after an argument about where the whole thing between us was going. Our relationship had been going round in circles since February (through no fault of mine) and I ... (623 words

Should I end this relationship with the older man? I'm not sure if he's been truthful!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I am 18 and have pretty much fallen in love with a man 31 years older then me. He is all I think of all the time. I really need some help getting him off my mind as due to the fact that my parents (understandably) do not agree with me having casual sex with a man 6 years older ... (678 words

Is it just sex for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi this is my problem me and my sex buddy (a guy) have been having sex for 5 months now i have feelings for him and he knows that he says he likes me to but im not really sure he does he,s been hurt and i also have been before we met the problem is i text him on monday gone and ... (131 words

My wife dresses like a teen and wants me to fantasize about teens!

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5 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - my wife dresses as a teen girl during sex and wants me to fantasize about teen girls is this normal as it doesnt feel right ?? ... (28 words

Girlfriend doesn't know how to relax her muscles to squirt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - so, i need help with getting my girlfriend to orgasm...her vagina gets tight but she wont squirt,she says that she really thinks its pee.. but i told her its not but she says she scared to let it goo! also her body tenses up nd she doesnt know how to relax her pc muscle, how ... (59 words

Does this young woman just like to tease and torment me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 41-50 - Ok, so theres this girl, she 22 and im 41, huge age gap I know, but then again I dont look 41 more like 28 and I kinda act like im 28 to. And now it gets even stranger, her family and mine are very close, 30 years close, I didnt grow up with her but we did start to interact ... (391 words

Why don't guys want to be more than friends with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 18-21 - I'm a freshman in high school and boys have never wanted to be more than friends with me. I'm sometimes girly, sometimes scene (at least that's what people tell me), sometimes a tomboy, sometimes a nerd, and sometimes artsy. Girly-Sometimes I will buy my clothes from places l... (227 words

Why can't I forget about the one who treated me badly?

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5 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - It's 2 in the morning and I'm wide awake thinking about a guy I shouldn't be thinking about. The logical/rational part of me knows this is ridiculous so i can't figure out why I can't stop thinking of him. I met him online almost a year ago. We talked for months everyday ... (306 words

Thoughts only why I'm called a slut and 19 months along enough time to wait to loss virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - okay well i lost my virginity to much boyfriend of 19 months at the time. he was a virgin also. i was just kinda wondering was that a good about of time to wait. i thought so but just wondering. also why do you thik people call me a slut when ive only done anyting sexual with ... (73 words

I am now pregnant but haven't had a chance to grieve for my mother. I don't know how to handle this

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2583 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Although I am very happily married to my husband, We have just found out we are expecting our first baby. The dilemma is because although we are married almost 4 years, and pregnancy is more than acceptable at this stage, I have just been recently ... (146 words

I love my boyfriend but I want these feelings for his friend to go away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I have a boyfriend who I've been dating for about a year and a half, and I lost my virginity to him, and I love him. I truly do. But he has a friend... and I find myself really excited to see him, and I'm really friendly towards him, and I always feel happy arou... (620 words

His daughter is a selfish brat and I'm running out of patience!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi I have been with my partner for over a year.He has a 17 year old daughter who is controlling.About a month ago when they had an argument she told him that she hates where she stays and wants to stay with her Mum who was the bad one in my partner's R/S and that she was only ... (261 words

We broke up because he didn't meet my expectations. Was I settling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, So I met this boy in my freshman year of college... I met him through a Christian group on my campus. We became good friends. What I liked about him was that he shared my faith in the love of God. It definitely showed in his life; he turned out to be a loyal fr... (392 words

I like her but I'm scared if I talk too much she'll think I'm crazy or something!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2902 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - ok so i am 24 male and am going through a very rough path of life since 2 years after my breakup. i am mildly depressed and frustrated because i dont fit into the society and seem to have lost all my social skills. Leave alone women, i really find it difficult to get along with ... (344 words

Thinking sexual thoughts causes me to have a shock in my stomach. What is that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Whenever I'm having sexual thoughts, I feel a shock in my stomach. I kind of twitch and it feels somewhat like an orgasm. I shiver afterwards. But it can't be right? Because I've experienced orgasms before and usually it takes me a while to get to that point. Does anyone know ... (54 words

I'm tired of hearing about my co-worker's relationships problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - This girl that I work with so annoying. She is constantly complaining about her boyfriend, his cheating ways and how he always wants her to pay his cellphone bill for him since he refuses to get a job. I try to be nice and empathetic to her regards to her but seriousl... (130 words

My dad found out I had sex with my boyfriend and now I"m grounded forever!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - Okay well theres this guys ive been dating since eight grade and im now goinginto tenth grade. my dad hates him and ive always hide this relationship from him. weve never gone on a date through the summer we never see each other but yet we are still together. we both love each ... (179 words

He's been hurt in the past. Can we make it as a couple, despite his hurt from the past?

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5 August 2011 (F age 22-25 - I like this guy and I was pretty sure he liked me back, until he made out with this girl we know at a party. I was obviously quite hurt and walked home, and when he realised I'd left, he ran after me. We had a fight, and I ended up pushing him and running for it. The nex... (338 words

I think this girl might be the missing piece in my life but she doesn't feel the same

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi I am a single man, but having problems finding out what's makes me happy lately. I have started to get feelings for one of the only people I can trust, but she doesn't like me the way I like her. She is amazing, everything a guy would want. But lately, I can't stop think... (152 words

Trust issue & lying about the past

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 30-35 - HI, I've been in a long distance relationship with this girl for about 5 months now and I really like and care for this girl. Right from the start of the relationship I mentioned to her that I have trust issues and cant stand being lied to and she should know about it.. O... (330 words

Did I do the right thing breaking up with my b/f who I think has retroactive jealousy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 36-40 - I need to know if I did the right thing in breakn it off with my bf of 2 yrs... I believe he has retroactive jealousy.. I've been reading about it and it clrealy sound he has that... my past is a real big issue to him... he constanlty puts me down calls me a cheater a whore and ... (220 words

We aren't even married yet and I feel like we're already past the honeymoon stage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years now. We moved in together a year ago, and I absolutely feel married! Sex drive is gone, brushing my teeth at 6am before he wakes up, terrfied to let him see me without make up..etc all of that gone!! We are completely comforta... (178 words

I need anniversary ideas for my guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2900 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - My fiance and I have been together for 4 years (in a week). Last year on our anniversary we didn't do anything because money was tight and we were moving in together (we said that is our present to eachother), well...a year has passed, and now we are moving into a home ... (141 words

He denied and lied and lied but finally admitted that he cheated on me while we were broken up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2902 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone, sorry this is so long. I have been dating a guy for almost a year and he seemed like the sweetest, most genuine and trust worthy guy. It was such a relief to have him after my ex boyfriend who was such a flirt and cheater. We were really happy and crazy in... (582 words

Any suggestions for sensual music?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I was just wondering if anyone new some sensual music to listen to with your boyfriend. An example of this would be like No Ordinary Love by Sade, but thats not his favorite. Does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks!... (53 words

Made out with this girl last night, wondering if she's even interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Her friend was trying to hook me up with her and I'm pretty sure she thought I was attractive. She doesn't drink a lot and is usually shy. But we were both drinking and flirting a lot and we made out for a little. I think she was kind of embarrassed because she said "I don't ... (258 words

Did I try to do too much? I love her but maybe I need to move on? She wants to break up

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - I greatly appreciate any advice. A little background info first: We've been in a long-distance relationship for 15 months (I had to move after our one month anniversary). Also, we haven’t talked properly since February. My girlfriend lives in an emotionally abusive ... (450 words

My guy will not talk to me. I'm devastated. Am I making mountains out of molehills?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - I feel like i'm losing everything in the last 24 hours it feels like i've lost everything. The guy i liked won't talk to me. My friends don't act like friends around me anymore and it makes me feel like crap. Like for the fella I think i may have scared him off as I've alw... (122 words

I want to feel loved. How to tell him? I am very happy with him but the lack of affection is bothering me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ive been with a wonderful man for the past 6 months now. We are both mature and are generally happy. He gives me the respect I deserve and I dont have much to complain except, he lacks affection (he isnt a selfish man if you see where I'm coming from), Ive spoken to him... (229 words

How? He blows me off. I just need help in getting over him and moving on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2902 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - For all of my teenage years and right up to now this guy and I have been doing this thing where we see each other for a while, then he just blows me off. we will have set plans and i will not hear from him for a couple months, then he will start talking to me again. i know that... (135 words

How can I now stop sabotaging my relationships? I don't know why I do this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2902 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I’m 25 years old and currently in the early(ish) stages of a relationship. What’s my problem? It makes me feel nervous, uneasy… I wouldn’t say unhappy, but I certainly am not all up in the clouds. Having said that, I strongly think I need to share a bit of my relationship ... (636 words

My boyfriend is accusing me of cheating when I have nothing to hide!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend of 2 years is accusing me of going out on a date with an old crush. This guy i used to see before me and my bf started dating told his mom, who happens to be my boyfriend's BOSS, that me and him went out on a date 10 months ago. It never happened. I have trie... (198 words

I can't connect with people. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

5 August 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hey, im 19 and have very few friends. everyone i meet likes me and are nice to me but dont really talk to me. they say hi but nobody likes having a conversation with me. it is making me feel lonely and depressed because i cant connect with people. not only is it affecting ... (82 words

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