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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do you keep a relationship alive when you can't see each other for a long time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is leaving for the air force in November and we have every intention of staying together, but I know it will be hard. We're already doing a long distance relationship and it's going very, very well, but that's about five hours apart versus the sixteen we will soon. ... (174 words)

Should I just take a chance and hope he doesn't cheat on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I recently began a relationship with someone. My last relationship involved a lot of deceit on his part, and from that I find trusting people difficult. I recently discovered my boyfriend cheated on his last girlfriend. Is that something I should worry abo... (131 words)

B/f cheated, broke up with me and I feel so empty inside now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel so empty? what is wrong with me? My ex boyfriend cheated on me with 2 girls and dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship. I loved him so much. I never lied to him. I exercise stay in shape. I was there for him. I tried to be the best girlfriend ... (173 words)

Is my inexperience going to put guys off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've never really had a proper relationship and am really inexperienced with guys I haven't even had my first kiss. I've been on quite a few dates with different guys but it's never gone further. The worrying thing is they have all said they weren't after anything serious and ... (116 words)

My boyfriend's widowed mother depends on us for entertainment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my boyfriend have been 2gether for 3 yrs and his mom is widowed i know she is lonely but she relies on us for entertainment. she lives about an hr away so when she does come over and go out and do different things she ends up staying the night. she doesnt really have ... (126 words)

He hasn't texted me back yet. Am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

13 August 2011 (?) age 30-35 - A week ago I met a guy when i went to the pub with my mate. Since I met him we have practically spent every night together (watching films in bed, not like that) and I really really like him, he is such a sweet guy from what I know. Anyways, last night we went out and he ... (223 words)

Do you think my Mom doesn't like my friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Do you think my mom doesn't like my friends? I just get this feelin that she doesn't like them. She'll say something out of nowhere about them, for example: Me and my friends were trying to make plans and i asked my mom if she could drive. She said "are they pushy? Because they ... (193 words)

Does my teacher like me in a friendly way, or is it something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I've been having weird feelings about my English teacher for about two years. We're great friends and also a friend of my father. He's a very sweet person and very humorous. Basically, everyone adores him. He's a favorite of practically every other student in my sc... (550 words)

Ex b/f is upset because I broke up with him after finding out he was cheating

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I was with my bf for a year and a half he betrayed my trust decieved me emotionally abusive when he got injured I moved in with him and found reciepts he was at the motel repeatly with some woman he told me his cousin was livin with him come to find out his s0 called cousin is ... (146 words)

How do I talk to my girlfriend in regards to her behavior after an accident?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My apologizes for the long story. I am 26. My gf is 25. We are both Asian. My gf’s younger sister and brother were also there and a friend of her. We sat together at a table. The tables were arranged in rows with chairs facing back-to-back with less than 2 feet in separati... (1023 words)

Kicked BF out of my apartment for online cheating - did I over-react?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I kicked my boyfriend of 9 months out of my apartment after I found evidence he had been flirting with a girl online and even gone as far as to give her his phone number. He also invited her to come visit our town and he'd be a "tour guide". When SHE asked about his GF - he ... (246 words)

I sent her apology sms, but no reply from her. what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know what happened, but I know she's angry of what I did to her. I met this girl. The first day we discussed. I asked her many questions and she respond well. She wanted me to tell her my feelings towards her by asking me some questions like. Who is my girl friend?, ... (356 words)

I'm gay and I'm really afraid of the treatment I'll receive and my family's disapproval

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, Please Don't Judge me for the following question(s): I am 16 years old, and I am gay. (A lot of people may argue with the fact I am certain of my sexuality because I'm at such a confusing age, but I know, I have always known.) For the past few years growing up throu... (1009 words)

Engaged but still thinking of my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex 4 years ago. I loved him very much but he broke my heart. 5 months after our break up i met a guy that loved me so much. We'r engaged now but i can't stop thinking about my ex. I think i still love my ex and i feel lyk i'm cheating on my fiance. How long ... (92 words)

My girlfriend argues about my gay past and it's not stopping.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months, we broke up before but we got back together again 3 years later. When we got back together she already had 1 daughter with her ex-boyfriend but I'm okay with the fact that she has a kid. The first couple months was great but ... (194 words)

How do people get their boyfriend or girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, this is not my first time posting in here. I am quite lost at the moment because I am not sure about relationships between women and men. In the past two years, I have been seeking for a suitable partner or a girlfriend for myself because somehow I started to hav... (196 words)

Has a crush ever worked out for you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - This is not my problem, more of a survey if anything. In my past, whenever I liked someone and flirted, made other advances, asked them out on dates, and basically been upfront about my being attracted to them, it has a chance of me becoming romantically involved. I say... (243 words)

Should I break up with him?? Please help me, please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I need some serious advice, I'm in such a tight tight corner I don't know what to do. First of all, I'm 18 years old, and heading to college in 10 days. I have been with my boyfriend for a little bit over a year. He is a year older than me. We went to the same high ... (598 words)

Do guys really like girls dying their hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so do guys really like it when girls dye their hair? I am 19 and have never dyed my hair. I have a natural dark brown shade really dark and sometimes I wonder what it would be like to dye my hair a different colour or even a little lighter. I've thought about going blac... (106 words)

Iv been cheated on repeatedly and now I don't know how to get over all this and move on...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I had a child last October, we were soon engaged after that. However, a few months ago we broke up for I was very surprised to find out he was cheating on me and once it was confronted he left me for this woman he was cheating with me on at work. He also kicked my son ... (227 words)

We already know my brother has been fired. Why is he keeping it a secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi,Pls HELP.Any advises are greatly appreciated. My brother who's married,was fired frm work. He never tell anyone. but his wife secretly tell me but not to break news as she afraid in trouble later. Reality is he hide the truth and lied whenever ask how his job is doing,he... (119 words)

Joking or serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (?) age 30-35 - What does it mean when a guy says this to a girl "I get worried when we both start flirting coz I don't know if were both still joking or being serious?" Any ideas?? Please help!! Thanks.... (43 words)

Does he like me or is he a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age - Confusing situation. I have been living in a rural rental property for acouple of years. At the beginning I developed a bit of a crush on my landlord. He said he was single but I think as soon as he started to see that I liked him he mentioned this long distance girlfriend but ... (203 words)

I missed a payment, I'm in tears I'm so worried.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im very worried as im in an iva which ive been paying 3 years and in july missed a payment because my sisters had extreme cancer and her work stopped her pay so i helped her out. i didnt know what else to do but now the iva place has emailed me asking for a reason for the ... (96 words)

My boyfriend wants to go down on me but my period's not quite finished. Pls Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend wants to go down on me but I have my period it's nearly finished? What shall I do!!! we don't get much time together so when he is here, I want it to be special, but I have had my period for about 4 days or so now and; their light now, and I've got tonight, Sun... (151 words)

It started well. All of a sudden he just wanted sex and nothing more. How do I get him more interested in me as his Gf?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi people what is going on here im so confused and i really need your help i met a man at the beginning of the year called Z we dated for 9 weeks when we met then all of a sudden he just wanted sex and nothing more. he was with someone for years and she cheated on him so i unde... (224 words)

My Teen brother is sad his Gf has moved. What should I tell him? How should I start a conversation with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a younger teenage brother. His gf moved away to college yesterday. He is rightfully very sad. As his older brother, I feel responsible and obligated to at least comfort him and try to make him feel better; I want him to know that I care about him. However, I ... (104 words)

For a year and a half he told me he loved me and begged me to move in. Now's he's dumped me. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get over someone you love? It just seems so impossible at this point. I've been in a long distance relationship on and off for about a year and a half! I've never met him in person.(And were only 5 hours away from each other. I know that's crazy) In the beginning I ... (944 words)

I like wearing makeup but he dislikes it. How do I negotiate some sort of compromise or a truce?

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13 August 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My problem is that I love to wear make-up but my boyfriend hates it. I've been wearing makeup for years now and I always feel more comfortable wearing it. The issue is that my boyfriend recently told me that he thinks I wear too much makeup. This hurt my feeling because ... (250 words)

How do I ensure that I can become more than just his true friend? I'd like more to develop between us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy 4 years ago..we had some mutual friends and we joined same tuitions so we became friends. I started loving him. he is very understanding. We used to not talk a lot. After 2 yrs i came to another city and joined a new school, even he came to this city and is in same... (244 words)

I love older women .i want to have sex with one but HOW do I interest one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm attracted to older women.. ok so i'm 19 yrs old and i love older women..like i think they are so hot..my friends make fun of me but i tell them the truth ..i just love them like i want to have sex with one..but I don't know how to get one intersted. Like how do i know if th... (117 words)

What can I do? Sometimes I think he likes me, sometimes I think he doesnt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all, I have this crush on a guy and starting from last year, we started being in the same class. We dont talk a lot, but sometimes he would initiate a convo with me on msn, sometimes about school work and other stuffs. I am really shy and i dont really talk to him much, so... (241 words)

I'm concerned about my boyfriend's feelings for his female friend and her constant presence in his life..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8mo now and I'm having some worries about his life-long female friend. At first I didn't worry about her so much, but I have been picking up some signals that he may have some lingering feelings for her (he asked her out in high ... (113 words)

He wanted to spend so much time with his friends. We were missing out on more intimate moments. Was I out of line in this ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Ok so my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me suddenly on Wednesday night over the phone and I have not heard from him since. The situation is as follows: Things were always really good when we spent time alone, although we also spent a lot of time with his fri... (370 words)

Is there any chance she still likes me? I really really like her, I just don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short - a girl I've been seeing for around 5 months (we'll call her X) told me she didn't want anything to do with me anymore about a month ago. I have confidence issues after my ex girlfriend (of nearly 4 years) hurt me pretty badly, but I just can't bring myself to ... (611 words)

don't want to waste my time with a 'Go Nowhere" relationship. But am I wasting my time giving him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have been friends for 3 years and dated for 1.5 years. While we were friends we liked each other but he never did anything about it, when I tried to get him to date me. So eventually I said forget it and I started talking to someone else (nothing serious, just fun)... (414 words)

What's up with him? he'll compliment me then insult me three times over and will not 'hang out with me"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4638 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I met online through a mutual friend. He gave me his number first and I gave him mine and for the past month we text and talk on the phone non stop. We have so much in common and I get the feeling he likes talking to me but whenever I bring up "hanging out in p... (258 words)

I tried being less available hoping he'd propose ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, seen a few similar posts, so thought I'd ask for help too! I have been trying this new 'technique' where I've stopped being so readily available and have started taking a renewed interest in my own life - work, hobbies, friends and the rest, in the hope that it ... (290 words)

I'd really like him to try oral

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know if I am wrong to ask this but I am dieing to have my boyfriend eat me out but he is not to sure about doing it but I really want him to try it. I want him to be comfortable and just try a new thing with me how can I help ease him into it? He seems to be comfortable ... (256 words)

I really like this girl and I thought the feeling was mutual...but she's cold and distant now

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I've posted about this before, and it's been a long and really confusing past few months. There's this girl, who I met at a party, then we ended up becoming friends. She's kind of different to other girls, and she's kind of unpredictable. We became real... (276 words)

Does a woman's breath smell different when she's "in the mood"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Does a woman's breath smell different when she's "in the mood"? Maybe it's just my imagination, but I could swear my gf's breath smells ever so slightly different when she's horny. I've been going out with her for several years. For a long time I thought it was just a coinc... (225 words)

Was I wrong to tell him the baby isn't his?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. I have no idea what to do. im five months pregnant, and need wise advice. Please do not judge... My babys father is an emotional wreck most of the time, he yells at me when we argue like a 2 year old having a tantrum, and he is on disability. He is a convicted ... (145 words)

Does it mean that she doesn't care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi,i am an average young guy who always wanted a girl i could spend my entire life with but i'm the shy type.i met this girl about 5months ago in class and we have been friends since then,i we do call/text each other,then i started having feelings for her,i guessed she noticed ... (169 words)

Broken hearted after break up with married ex boyfriend..

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a wonderful man online and we became friends on an online game. I know some people are going to judge and thats ok. We all make mistakes, I never in my life had any interest in a married man and he never cheated on his wife until he met me and I know this is the truth ... (1069 words)

She's surrounded by men in the workplace -- might she feel some attraction?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

13 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My question is this. I've wondered about someone I work with and since I cant read minds dont really know what she thinks. If you are an attractive married woman, working in large open plan office, with many people working, and your job requires you to talk to various men a... (351 words)

I don't know if hes playing me, should I be cautious or just relax?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone =] Ok i know this question may be to hard to answer but ive been trying to analyse this guy for a while, and my brain is just hurting! so my queston is should I be cautious of this guy or should i stop being so, and just relax and give him a chance. quick bac... (903 words)

Does this girl like me romantically or just being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is does this girl like me in a slightly romantic way? BACKGROUND: So I work for a library, and this lady who frequents the library is always looking at me smiling and finding something to chit chat about. I'm oblivious to flirtation so I'm not sure her motive. She's ... (227 words)

Why do people cheat? why be unfaithful? what's the payoff to be the "other woman"?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a question for all the unfaithful and the homewreckers. Why did you cheat!?!? Or help someone cheat!?!? I see so many questions about cheating..and they're the cheaters!! Doesn't anyone know cheating is wrong? And the only acceptable time to be the other woman or man i... (178 words)

What's this fleshy thing on my vagina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not REALLY a sex question but I guess it's a sexual health question... and I really wanted to see if anyone has the same problem as me... I am a 21 year old female who's been sexually active since I was 17. I have no significant medical history and I haven't seen a g... (210 words)

Am I wrong to be so mad about the problems my guy has with his manipulative argumentative ex?

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13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me im going insane!!! my boyfriend has a really disagreeable ex babymama and she is so rude. She doesn't want my boyfriend to be w/ me or else he can't see his son, so sometimes he need to say to her so she let him see his son that im not around. i hate her to bits... (404 words)

He's dumped me again, this time by text, and I feel unwanted. How do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex dumped me 3 days ago... And i can not stop thinking about it. I didnt think there was anything wrong this time. He has dumped me three times previously... Each time he distances his self from me. Deletes me from facebook. Stops texting me. Then comes back when he can n... (248 words)

Hes dumped me 3 times, how do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4638 days ago

13 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex dumped me 3 days ago... And i can not stop thinking about it. I didnt think there was anything wrong this time. He has dumped me 3 times... Each times he distances his self from me. Deletes me from facebook. Stops texting me. Then comes back when he can not find anyone ... (226 words)