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Should I date her? She says she is about to break up with her boyfriend

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Question - (24 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *EAL GUY writes:

ok so this is how the story goes,,ok so i went to jail like a month ago for no licence, and so my mom went to get me out asap..so she went to the jail and asked how much money did she have to pay in order for me to get out, my mom don't really speak english so there was this lady and her daughter there also because they were trying to get someone out too..so the lady's daughter is bilingual and she helped my mom out,,so after that my mom was very happy that i was going to be out and she thanked the lady and her daughter for helping her out, they got to know each other very well and they believed in the same religion like us so the lady gave my mom our # so we can meet again,,so my mm called her the next day when I was out already and said thanks for their help n stuff,, 2 days passed n me n my mom went to visit them,,when we got there the daughter was there with her bf n her baby,,she was leaving to college when i got there she just said hi to me,,n i went inside n she told my mom that i was very cute n that how old i was,,then the daughter told her mom that i was cute and that she was going to leave her bf for me,,she is hispanic n her bf is white,,her mom told my mom that that they fight all the time and that she is just using him for college and that she was going to leave him when she graduates college,,the daughter is really nice n her bf has been in jail b4 for domestic violence n me and my family are going to their house next week for a cook out n i know she's going to talk to me.. and i do like her she is a nice girl but idk if i should go with her ,,,i mean she's still with her bf n she has a kid with him,,but she dont likes him anymore..she was arguing with him when i got there n her mom told us that they always argue..i just don't know what to do..any advice pleaseee

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011):

Are you ready to take on a ready-made family? Okay so things might not be good in her relationship so why doesn't she just end it with her boyfriend now? Why does she have to wait until she meets another possible boyfriend before she breaks up with him? I'd be wary of getting involved with this girl anytime soon.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011):

I'm sorry, bro. She is definitely not nice. She's using her bf while she goes to college and then plans to dump him when she graduates? That's not even close to nice. You also have to think about this - if she's willing to dump her bf just to get with you, what will make you believe she won't dump you for some other guy later on. She sounds like a woman who is constantly looking to upgrade.

I won't even tackle the issue of her child. You've very young, are you ready to take on the responsibilities that come with dating a mother?

She may be really attractive, but I personally wouldn't get with her. It sounds like way too much drama.

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