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I experimented with my best friend and now things are awkward between us!

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Question - (24 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Recently I stayed over my best friend's house.

I'm openly bi and she was bi curious. We were talking about sex and sexuality and she randomly asked me if we could experiment. I think she's gorgeous but I've never fancied her because we're so close.

I agreed to experiment with her and we kissed. Things got heated and to cut a long story short I ended up going down on her. Almost straight afterwards I regretted and felt really awkward around her. I went to the bathroom to sort myself out because I felt like I wanted to cry and I was shaking and when I returned she told me I was great but she's not into girls. I jokingly said that she wasn't my type anyways and we went to sleep.

The next morning things weren't as awkward but they weren't great and we haven't spoken since. This was a week ago. I feel really bad and I regret experimenting with her and I think things are gonna be awkward between us for a while.

We are going on holiday together in October (just the two of us) so I really want to fix this before then.

What do I do?

Thanks in advance.

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A female reader, Confused_123 United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2011):

I agree with bunnyblueeyes. You should tell her you feel awkward, but don't want to ruin your friendship, but also remember this kind of awkwardness won't dissapear over night. It could take a while. Talk to her and try to act as normally as possible around her and things should get better way before your holiday. Good luck!

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A female reader, bunnyblueeyes United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2011):

bunnyblueeyes agony auntThe best thing you can do is talk it through with her. Tell her that you felt a little awkward because you are such good friends with her.

Once you've cleared the air and both now how the other feels I'm sure your relationship will be stronger.

Good luck

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