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Archived questions from: 16 August, 2011 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wife is having an emotional affair and I can't stop her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I am hoping somebody can help me. I am at the end of my rope. My wife has been having an emotional affair with a married man whose children go to the same school as ours. It has been going on for a year and she is very deeply involved. It has come to the point ... (504 words)

How can I tell if this girl is gay or bi and if she could be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok girls and boys gay and straight, I need your help!!!! Can you give me 10 tell tale signs this girl is interested in me?! I must say she does wear a ring on her engagement ring finger and as far as I know she is with somebody - I'm not going to lie.....but she could be ... (82 words)

She asked me out for coffee, but is she wanting sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Can everyone tell me why a MARRIED woman has just asked me out for coffee??? I am married, too. Is she looking to start an affair with me or could she just like me as a friend only? Is there something wrong with two married people going out for coffee together?... (51 words)

Why is my friend never happy for me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend is kinda annoying me......she's straight with a bf but did have a fling with a girl once but she's straight! I'm gay and she's known for years that I am. my first girlfriend she told her I was gay before we got together thinking it would put her off as we got on so ... (205 words)

I'm dieting but have started to get spots

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm having some health issues - I'm in the process of losing weight and I've noticed I have started to develop spots, more white head zit type things on my body. Is this in any relation to the weight loss? It started I had one on my chest near my right boob, then I got one ... (101 words)

Should I date my male best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known my male best friends for 4 years. In the beginning we had more of a brother/sister type of relationship but I always knew he has some type of feelings for me. He is the only guys that I can be my complete self around and talk to about just anything. We both have ... (275 words)

I've spotted a cute new guy. Will he think I'm a stalker if I add him on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So theres this guy, who was friends with 1 of my exes who had came up to me(usually does talk to me if im near) and said hey and asked me for a hug....which he had never asked before. He even was walking all the way to my class with me. (If it wasnt for my bf to pop up) I had ... (175 words)

I don't love him. Should I leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - You shouldn't leave the one you love for the one you like. but what if i don't LOVE him? Overtime my feelings towards my boyfriend of 5 months have changed. I never really found him physically attractive, and now since we are back at school, i don't even want to be seen with ... (155 words)

I love my girlfriend but she makes no effort with sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been in a long distance relationship for about 2,5 years now (we are both in our early 20s). We see each other about 2-3 times a month. Everything is great (aside from the long distance part and the fact that this won't be changing anytime soon), except for anything... (487 words)

Anyone have experience with anorgasmia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm a twenty five year old male with a bit of a sexual problem. I am experiencing extreme problem with anorgasmia any time I am actually lucky enough to get with a girl. I have no problem getting erect and having penetrative sex but then after a while I just lose feeling and ... (145 words)

I love her but she's with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I need a bit of help. I have recently split up with someone. One of the main reasons was because i like someone else. All i do is think about her, every single minute of the day. The thing is she is with someone and has a child with him, she is 19. I know that she ... (157 words)

Is it ok to masturbate during pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My question's very short. I'm 8 weeks pregnant and live miles away from my fiance (who's the father of my babe). I miss sex so much and always find myself masturbating. Is masturbating harmful to me and or my unborn baby?... (47 words)

They have children, I'm still at College. Are my friends jealous of me or are we growing apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my best friends since high school and we have always been there for each other, through thick and thin. Even in high school my friends would act funny towards me, sometimes. I am the skinnest out of my friends and unlike them, I have always had both of my pare... (286 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me and won't give me the chance to change

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend just broke up with me over a question that happened a while ago. i posted a question a few months ago and didnt take the peoples advice and now she broke up. i could not trust her so she broke up. She said she still loves me and had to cause neither of us were ... (186 words)

Does this woman only want me as a FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is incredibly selfless,kind and would do anything she could do for someone. We have had this friends with benefits type of relationship. She has a family ( Dad,sister,brother) and keeps that part of her life separate from me and pretty much doesn't want anything ... (329 words)

He is a great boyfriend, but he's into sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So,I have been in relation with this guy since when i was in 9th grade and now I am in 11th.We were together for a year and went very well.Now I am in USA,he loves me alot and we trust each other.He does not flirt with other girls and never hurts my feeling but is into sex?We ... (149 words)

She dumped me, I am still jealous and obsessed with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Right, well I'm not really sure what category to place this in because there are three portions to my problem; self-esteem, grief and romantic. And I'm not sure there is an answer. But some independent advice on any of the aspects may help. So basically I've been suffering ... (594 words)

Ex acting so hot and cold. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - whats going on? my and my bf split over a week ago we havent spoke sice sat when he had children, aint heard off him all weekend, then today saw his car ignored him although he stopped smiled and waved, he then rang me asking if it was still ok to have kids i said yes of ... (73 words)

How can I squirt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I love sex and I love having sex with the love of my life. We have perfect sex, but there is one problem (with me, I think)....I really wanna squirt and I think it will turn me on even more. He turns on already before sex, during sex, after sex...ALL THE TIME and I love it. ... (98 words)

I am helping to support and care for my family but I feel like none of them care about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys forgive me for the long question but that's just how far the problems stretch. I have a family relationship problem going on. I am 31 yr old female and a first born in a family of 2 girls and 2 boys. My mother has raised us as single parent since I was 8yrs old with ... (542 words)

Why do some women choose to start relationships with married men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - There seems to be a disturbing amount of single and married women going after married men on this site. I am just wondering, what makes a married man so irresistible? Does anyone think it's sexy that he's living and having sex with another woman ? Is anyone getting turned on by ... (90 words)

We're having an affair. I know we should end it but its so hard!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid...I am a married woman who is having an affair with a married man for nearly 10 months now. I tried repeatedly to break off my relationships and so has he but we both keep getting back together. We are very much expressed love for each other which we both know is not ... (91 words)

I dumped my boyfriend but he took me back. Is our relationship damaged?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age - I finally left my husband after 26 years of marriage. I have been separated now for eight months and I began dating recently and met a man I get along with very well. However I think that the intimacy we shared has uprooted feelings about my husband and now I feel unsettled ... (126 words)

Do I tell my family that I suspect my uncle is an alcoholic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - is my uncle a alcohloic? he drinks at work 4 tinnys i dunno how often he does this i have just started the job he got me it, we work in a glazier company, i noticed it today he goes to the shop down the road buys a 4 pack hides it in his work clothing goes to the toilet and ... (135 words)

How can I avoid being put in the friend zone with her and do I still have a chance or is she gone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright this is kind of a 2 part question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year and for most of the school year she had a ... (272 words)

My feelings have changed and sometimes I don't even want to be around him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So...this is a tough one. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We have a great relationship, minus a few ups and downs that everyone is sure to go through. Recently my feelings towards him have changed. At times things are completely normal and we get on fine,... (143 words)

How do you get over someone you truly loved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend are on and of we love each other, weve been dating for six months but hes said that hes going through alot and we need a break, well anyways im in eighth grade going to ninth im really hurt and my family and friends keep telling to get over him but that only ... (87 words)

Why are my friends being so rude and reading my messages to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles, I recently got an iPhone and my friends have been playing with the games I downloaded. I have no qualms about lending my phone for my friends to play but 2 of them have conveniently went to my Whatsapp to read messages between my bf and I. Althou... (215 words)

Why does my husband flirt with everybody but me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does my husband flirt with everyone but me? He seems happy when he's with me. We laugh and cut up and have so much fun together. But the other girls get the "sweetie" and and the touches and stuff. Is he just a really flirty guy? I am a few days shy of 40 weeks pregnant so ... (94 words)

Does he want to come back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (?) age - My husband cheated ...I forgave him not completely..I think he never forgave himself....but went back online and started a relationship on facebook with another woman...now he slowly trying to get back into my life...everyone hates what he did to me ..he went with this woman on ... (192 words)

Pregnant and not sure how to tell my fiance.....we decided we didnt want kids yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I found out I was pregnant this morning and havent told anyone. My fiance and I decided we didnt want kids yet as we are way too busy with our jobs (hes a rugby player and i am a busy primary school teacher). Neither of us believe in abortion and i think we would make great ... (186 words)

I'm prepared to face the consequences of dating a married man, so how do I approach him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - It’s been two years now that I feel attracted to a man at my workplace. The problem is that he’s married. Yeah, I already know what you’ll tell me: Stay away from him. I’ve done so for the past two years but I still feel the same attraction. I know very well what it is to date ... (145 words)

Should I keep on with this relationship or should I quietly back down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been with this guy for almost a year. problem is that he has been in jail for the past 5 months. i truly miss him and with every phone call, letter, card, and email i get from him, its like i fall more in love with him! in every thing i get from him, its like he ... (160 words)

Should I trust my instincts? If so, how do I tell him I like him as more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a short one. I have fallen head over heels for a good (male) friend... and I am not sure if he feels the same. I am not going to painstakingly discuss situations we have been in as dissecting our interactions drives me nuts and never helps! My gut instinct is that he ... (181 words)

Is it a good idea to text my ex? What sort of card should I send her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have an ex-girlfriend, we haven't spoken for 2-3 months, she decided to ignore me for some reason. Anyways, she said her other exes never helped her when her Dad died, and in just a friendly capacity, I'd like to send her a card or something. There is a quote I saw, "... (221 words)

I finally worked up the courage to tell him I loved him, but he didnt say it back. Is this something that will come in time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have started seein this guy for the past five months, before he has told me he loved me when there has been drink involved, although I had never said it back. When I finally plucked up the courage to tell him, he didn say it back. He told me he was 98% sure that he did but ... (201 words)

We never discussed being FWB, I wanted to be his girlfriend! And now to make things worse he isnt even replying to my texts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone this is my problem so i met ths man at the beginning of the year we seemed to be together as a proper couple then it just turned into sex every 3 or 4 weeks we hadnt discussed being fwb as i actually wanted to be with him as his girlfriend. i havent heard from him ... (242 words)

Does he want to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im really unsure over this guy. We;ve been friends for years, had our ups and downs but everything pretty good now. I'm really confused though as i think he may want more than friends but doesnt seem to be doing much about it. It started off when we went out one time, I ... (757 words)

I hurt her, I cheated, I was embarrassed, but I want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - II ended it with my girlfriend and now she won't take me back. We have been going out for 2 years and she has been the best girlfriend anyone could wish for. I on the other hand have been a terrible girlfriend, i've cheated twice, ended it with her on numerous occasion... (582 words)

Life without sex is destroying me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi their. Can i have some views on sexless relationships. I have a high sex drive. And my future wife has none. So i masturbate quite a bit. I think my partners low sex drive is mainly due to her body image. She feels she is fat and unattractive. Always looking back to when we ... (98 words)

Is it ever ok for the woman to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - When I went on vacation in July, a guy I never seen before approached me on the airport and asked me if I could deliver a paper to his brother who would be expecting me upon arrival. He gave me both his number and his brother´s and I gave him the number of my parents who were ... (262 words)

Friends or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i've recently started hanging out with a guy and we have been out on a few dates. the thing is, he's never tried to make a move on me and we've been out a handful of times, so now i'm starting to wonder if he's just interested in me as a friend or as something more. i don't ... (95 words)

I get turned on by female porn am I gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a man that satifies me in everyway an I've been straight from long as I no I never done sexual activities with a female or even thought about it bt I mastabate to gay porn an wen I see a girls porn picture Its the only way I can come if I put a manas picture up I don't ... (71 words)

His partner died 9 years ago, is it still healthy that he's grieving over him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am in a relationship with a guy for the last two years and we live together for the last 6 months, my partner had a partner who died 9 years ago and they were together for 18 years and were very happy My partner is very close with his partner's family and he considers the... (229 words)

Advice to be less controlling with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all! I have a problem, I am quite needy and I find that this affects my relationships as I can become quite controlling. Let me explain…I have just spent a chunk of time with my partner. he wants some space now to spend time with his friends. I hate this about myself but ... (286 words)

My brother walked in on us having sex. Now its awkward. What should I do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (?) age 36-40 - This is quite a long story but please stick with it. A few days ago, my boyfriend was away doing preseason training with his and my brothers team. They are both professional rugby players so are away a lot training and playing etc. Anyway, i hadnt seen my bf (lets call him W... (239 words)

Filled with regret for the way things ended with BF.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am filled with dread and regret after breaking up with my boyfriend of 9 months. I don't want it to end but it couldn't stay as it was. He was being cold, not returning my phone calls for days and then I found evidence that he was flirting with a girl online and gave ... (226 words)

I don't want him but I don't want anyone else to have him either! Why am I feeling like this?

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16 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I don't really know how to explain this, so I'll do my best, please bare with me. I'm 15, and I have an ex-bf, who I'm not into anymore. But not to long ago I found out he still really likes me a lot, and now I've been feeling confused. I can't explain this very wel... (277 words)

I don't know what I want to do with my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been always trying to avoid to answer when someone asks me about my dream and what I wanna be because I've never been able to tell. I don't know what I want and what I wanna be. I'm 21 now with no goals. I'm not sure of my life. I'm studying international relations what ... (71 words)

The little things are starting to get to me.....any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

- My wife and I have been married a little over a year and we have been together for 5 years. I love my wife but i'm forseeing problems that I don't know we can help. Everyone has their hangups. Not flushing the toilet sometimes, being a little messy, a little too picky, you know ... (283 words)

Is love really worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is love really worth it? I always see people that are in relationships struggling and it got me thinking there are far more negatives than positives when it comes to the subject. I see in life and on here that people are always cheating or hurting one another with awful ... (156 words)

How do I save my relationship with my mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm writing because I want to save my relationship with my mom. I am 22 years old and our relationship has been steadily deteriorating for years. I know that it has a lot to do with the fact that I don't necessarily respect her, and that's because I don't respe... (830 words)

I feel so ugly and gross! My only boyfriend just broke up with me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I feel so ugly and gross... I recently broke up with my only boyfriend. Granted, I'm only 22 and I met him when I was 17. It was a long, serious and intense relationship. We had a lot of issues but we always thought love could help us make it. Anyway. The thing is now I feel ... (613 words)

He had been drinking a lot but said he wants to marry me one day.....did he mean it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The other night my boyfriend was drinking a lot and we started a very in depth conversation about what is in store for our live and what we wanted out of it.... long story short he told me that he was going to marry me. That he wanted to marry me so my question is this... When ... (84 words)

How can I get him to make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How can i get him to make a move? I'm a 15 year old girl.I know this guy (he's 16) who my friends introduced me to and they think we're perfect for eachother, he's told his friends he likes me and he wants to ask me to his prom. Ive hung out with him a few times just recently... (117 words)

My ex is pregnant by another man! How should I feel?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I barely every get on these forums, and I dont think I ever posted a question, but I have one now. I'm a 21 year old male, and I go to college in Philadelphia. My ex-girlfriend and I dated for 4.5 years until she broke up with me at the end of March. So yesterday (Augus... (263 words)

How do I let her know how much she hurts my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl about 4 months ago and we have been friends since then.we told each other about ourselves,and stuff,she seemed friendly.suddenly i started noticing some kind of behaviour from her.anytime we met,she gives me a quick wave and looks away,she's always in a hurry to ... (148 words)

She cant look at me because of my interest in S&M and older women, but I would happily give that up if she stayed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for over a year and a half. We have a 6 month old boy who is the world to the both of us. This is going to be a long post if you can bear it out. It started a while back ago, from my youth I have always loved porn and masterbation, when I got ... (1004 words)

She ended it saying she wasn't ready; should I wait or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey :) I'm in a bit of a pickle here and not reaching any decent conclusion on the matter, wondered if you had any advice. The story is this: I'm almost 18 and have been semi-courting a girl called (for the sake of using a name) Daisy for 5 months. Because we're both young and ... (456 words)

What's your experience with the birth control patch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all well the other day i heard my aunt taking about birth control patch can anyone tells me about it? did you try it yourself? ... (29 words)

She said she wants to "sleep with all the black guys at school", and now she's befriended my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf (let's call him Mike) and I started dating 9 months ago. We met in college (freshmen year) and he "chased me for almost two months until i decided to finally go out with him. He's the star basketball player at our school and is black and because of that A LOT of girls are ... (270 words)

My depressed bf told me today he doesn't know how to love anymore...and I'm 15-weeks pregnant with his baby!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend told me today he doesn't know how to love anymore, he's so depressed ..which is very scary because I'm 15 weeks preg. But idk what to do...we both still live with our parents but he doesn't work cuz he has back problems on account of a motorcycle accident 4 ... (78 words)

Would you pursue a forbidden relationship just because he is your astrological match?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you believe that there are people who astrologically are meant to meet each other? (not necessarily stick together forever) You might find astrology silly, but it shows that there are people who will eventually find each other, no matter the obstacles. Now the big question... (229 words)

What kind of immature cop-out is the "the chase"?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why can't guys have honest, loving relationships? Are they not man enough to have them? If I care for a guy, why do I have to play coy and hard to get for his attention? Mind-games are disrespectful and hurtful. If he doesn't want the comfort, loyalty and devotion I ... (69 words)

I never want to date a guy but the thought of oral turns me on. What does that make me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I find myself always very flirty with women and always easily turned on by them, however i've noticed that i always find the thought of naked men arousing as well, and also gay porn turns me on, but also lesbian porn turns me on, i'm confused, does this make me bi? i'd never ... (80 words)

Virgin wants to have an affair with a married man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay. This is really crazy but I want to have an affair with a married man. He wants me, too. BUT, I am a virgin!!!! He has no idea. I have been putting it off because I am a virgin but it has come to the point where we can't hold off sex any longer. What will he do when he ... (99 words)

My lover thinks I am out with someone else if I do not answer his call! Should his lack of trust bother me as much as it does??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age - HI Help please am i over reacting here? I have been in a relationship for many years and i have always been faithful. What is bothering me is my lovers remarks,i feel they are a showing a lack of belief in me and i feel like he is thinking i'm a woman who lacks integrity.... (176 words)

My gf has only had black friends, wants to adopt black kids, and generally loves black people...and I am feeling insecure because I am white.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

16 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a month. We are both 22 years old and have already talked about what we want out of a relationship. She has made it clear she has a passion for black people. She wants to have a black baby either by herself or adoption. While ... (691 words)

Questions after my first make-out session: should my lip be swollen? Was it ok to use my tongue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had my first make out session today. Which was awesome. Anyway, my lip is super swollen now. What should I do? Also, is it normal for the first kiss to have a little tongue action? Because we did and ....I def didn't mind it. ;)... (49 words)

What do guys feel during sex? Is it more emotional or more physical or both...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

16 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been asking my boyfriend what sex feels like for him and he can't even put it into words because he said it feels so good. I get more of an emotional feeling from it than physical. For the guys , could you tell me what he's feeling? I'm just really interested. Than... (64 words)