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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend has turned mean but I gave up my friends so he is all I've got

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my boyfriend of a year and a half is just really mean lately, but here's the story. Everything was so good the first year we started seeing each other, He's the only person I've trusted 100%, and now I'm just hearing that he supposedly cheated on me, by texting ... (183 words)

Despite his toxic actions? Why does he hate me after I ended our friendship ? Or does he want to be friends? Despite his toxic actions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I could use some advice please. About 7 months ago i fell out with all my friends (except one) one boy in particular I'll call him X. Out of all my friends X was the hardest to drop because he did have a really good sense of humour. he was very influneced by the people around ... (515 words)

My Fiance has had many sex partenrs before me, how do I deal with it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I am a 21 year old girl and I am currently in love with a wonderful guy who even asked me for my hand in marriage. He is 23 years old sweet, kind and always make me smile when I am around him. But the thing is... One day he asked me how many sex partners I... (177 words)

My boyfriend is becomming selfish in bed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I always used to have great sex. Lately though, he has been pretty selfish. He used to hold back, so we could finish together but now he finishes really quickly and then uses his hands for me. Sex has become really boring for me now, I get almost nothing... (153 words)

He won't marry me. Should I issue an ultimatum?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I made a mistake by moving in with my boyfriend, but the damage is done and if anyone can help me, I would appreciate it. Basically, I want to get married and he does not. I have been with him for four years, and have lived with him for three. Last year, he moved w... (510 words)

I am falling in love with my FWB. How can I encourage this relationship to be more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everybody me and this man my fwb met 5 months ago. we get on really well. The problem is i am falling in love with him. i have tried not to but i can't help it. this is the situation. he was with someone for a few year. she cheated on him. i was with someone who got my ex be... (150 words)

My boyfriend dumped me but still wants to be friends. I can't because I'm still in love with him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why wont my ex boyfriend let us part ways? he wont let me go:(? My ex bf dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship. He broke my heart. I loved him so much. Is been 4months now and he won't leave me alone. No matter how long we go without talking we always end up... (152 words)

What can I do about dealing with my trust issues? He has hurt me so badly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age - My b/f and I broke up over trust issues... he had a std and had not told me, I found out 6 mnths ago but continued the relationship as I loved him, found he was emailing ex's as friends he said .. now I have trust issues as the truth about the std did not come out till 2 years ... (81 words)

My boyfriend has lots of female friends and I feel jealous

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and I guess I'm in teenage love. When we're together it's perfect- I feel like he really does like...love me. He says and does everything right...but.he also has a lot of friends. Thats great- but most of them are girls. And this ... (147 words)

I don't enjoy my boyfriend's company, but he seems to really like me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating this guy for a few weeks now, he's really sweet and lovely and really likes me but I'm just not happy with him. I just find him incredibly boring, I don't like being alone with him, whenever I am I'm desperately texting my friends to come out and join so I have ... (256 words)

One sided sex life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay last time i think i was alittle unclear so lets see if i can clear up some of the confusion. Me and my girl started have sex about a week ago. Now we are both virgins so we have to take it slow when it comes to actually having sex because i end up hurting her, which i ... (202 words)

Dating 2 weeks and already there are problems

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I just started dating this girl 2 weeks ago and already there are problems. We met a year and 7 months ago when she was dating another guy named Hunter, and even though I reaaly liked her, I wasn't going to try and break them up. So they dated for a year and 8 months and ... (208 words)

Husband has been impotent for 5 years with no reason!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F) age - Would you believe in your husband if he would say, he does not know, why he has no sexual desire, and why he can't get up for 5 years? We have been married for 25 years, and had great sex. But sex suddenly stopped 5 years ago. He is impotent, but does not know why. The ... (117 words)

How can my g/f have feelings for a guy she seen 3 days and hasn't seen in a year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, my girlfriend and i are 18 years old and we have been together for over a year. We're going through a problem which pretty much originated a year ago. During the first few months we started dating, she went on a three day trip to visit friends in another state. While on ... (444 words)

5 years of dating we break up over silly argument and now I'm all mixed up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im literally torn been with my ex boyfriend for 5 years got 2 beautiful kids together, we do have our ups and downs but on the weekend we just had a silly argument which resulted in him not coming back all night! i texted him the next day asking for a reason he said he was ... (167 words)

How can I know if this online guy is for real? Or married?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i am new here, I am at my middle age, I want to share my recent experiences meeting a guy in online dating site, and i need some advice, thank you for taking your time to read my message. I opened an account in an online dating March this year, i am looking for a marriage... (502 words)

I can't stand with my girlfriend's anger, should I leave her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - After spending 8 years with my girlfriend, last night, I decided leaving her but she was refusing to accept my decision …so it’s kind a pending thing. She is caring, most gorgeous girl in our surroundings but her anger is something I can’t stand with anymore. She was... (590 words)

I want a relationship with my FWB

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi people, I have a problem getting rid of the feelings I developed for my FWB. When she met me, she came out of a 1-year relationship with someone who had her emotionally wrecked, as she says. The breakup was only a month prior. We had sex on the first date for the whole ni... (157 words)

Trouble reaching orgasm.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am an otherwise healthy male who has no trouble getting or maintaining erections. However, my problem is that it takes me a long time to orgasm and when I finally do it doesn't feel quite as great as it used to and the quantity of semen produced is much lower than it used ... (182 words)

How far should someone hang their feelings out there before enough is enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - How far should someone hang their feelings out there before enough is enough.. Sadly i know the answer to my main question, but im asking for help anyway. Iet someone out of my life last year that i shouldnt have. She has a bf now, and we talk almost every day.. Ive seen her a ... (195 words)

Does he deserve my love? Is he just playing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 August 2011 (F) age 30-35 - hi everybody im 21 years old. first my story started since 8 months ago, i knew him from chattin website im and he is not from my country, we start chattin for minutes then he added me in him messenger account. he saw my pictures then direcly he ask me to give him my phone ... (276 words)

Is it okay for me to let my boyfriend touch my boobs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - 16 yrs of age. My bf and I are dating for almost 2 yrs. We are in a long distance relationship. We opened a topic via texting about anything no malice no green mindedness,we talked about our pleasures. We're both virgins, and he ended up with a favor, He wants to touch my ... (136 words)

Mama's boy won't commit. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I started off casual 3 1/2 years ago. 6 months after he dropped a bomb and told me he had a gf overseas in his home country. Initially I was shocked but we continued to see one another. Another 6 months went by we were both hooked, but he couldn't bring ... (1503 words)

I haven't the guts to leave my partner but I'm interested in another guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm with my partner 8 years,its been very rocky at times,he's cheated and lied over the years and its been very volatile,I love him and care for him,but I'm nor in love with or really have sex anymore,over the past 7 weeks I've been chatting to an old work mate and met up ... (132 words)

Should I dump him and see if he tries to make up again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i'm with this guy for 2 months, and there already started to be problems.First , he isn't showing me that much affection, which disturbs me and he is not that serious in the relationship.It takes him 3 hours to reply to my texts and then cames up with lame excuses, ... (129 words)

How do you spice up giving a hand job or a blow job?

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9 August 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, what are some ways that i can kind of spice up giving a blow job or hand job??? my boyfriend never has any complaints about my efforts to please him, buuut here lately, i've been thinking that it might be kind of funn to try out some new stuff. soo, i was wonde... (111 words)

He is not the right man bt I love him, please help.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help......... I cnt end my affair with my man coz I love him so much despite the fact that I know she slept with a another woman!!! Also after reading his inbox... ooh God!! the messanges I saw, made me realise he is a player and a very bad one bt he claims that he ... (96 words)

Sexual joke gone wrong. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - ok. i have a strange dilemma with a girl i work with. I have known this girl for about 2 years, and she knows I like her. She knows I like her for her, so it isn't based on a lust. She does have a boyfriend that she has complained that he "doesn't call her pretty or ... (351 words)

Worries about test results.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day i took a chlamydia test and i have had a boyfriend for 6 months, i took another one just after i had sex with him the first few times and i was clear, but now i'm panicking i haven't passed this one, even though there is no way to fail it, me and him are always ... (141 words)

How can I feel homesick about my parents home when everyone there treated me badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my late twenties and I was well overdue to leave home. I lived in the top half of my parents place. I paid my rent, cooked my food, did most of the household chores for everyone. I was living at home till my partner and I felt ready to take the next step and move in ... (535 words)

I can't end my affair........

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My story is a long one. I have been having an affair with a man for almost two years. Its the usual story. When the affair began,I was married. I left my husband, which was difficult, but I left not for the other man because the marriage was failing. The man I've been having... (659 words)

I like him but I'm not physically attracted to him, should I meet him anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi again aunts and uncles. I gave online dating a try and so far its going quite well. Ive been talking to this guy who just seems so sweet and kind and he seems to really like me but the problem is i'm not attracted to him in the slightest but he just has this great ... (106 words)

How can I find out what is wrong without making her mad or falsely accusing her of something?

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9 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My same- sex partner is really really angry at me lately. Like blind rage angry. from zero to enraged in less than 10 secs.I have tried to ask what is wrong but that makes no difference. It doesnt seem to have a pattern apart from her wanting time alone (all of the time)She ... (249 words)

If she has all these secret accounts, why does she keep running after me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been having an emotional affair with woman for the past three years and each time we decide to break up we find our selves coming back together again recently i found the she has weired hidden accounts in Facebook (arround 6 accounts or more)and she even more than 12 ... (117 words)

I thought that I wanted my lover and it was right to leave my husband but now the reality is setting I am not so sure.....

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok this is very difficult and I please ask you not to judge me, as I have seen many people in my situation torn to peices over subjects such as this. I know this is wrong, a mistake, and I am a bad person everything like that. I dont like myself for being in this position but I ... (891 words)

Why is it easier for some people to find partners than it is for others?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is it easier for some people to find partners than it is for others? After my most recent relationship broke down back in February, my ex girlfriend had herself a new partner within weeks of the split (they are still together to this day). I on the other hand haven't had... (239 words)

Shouldnt I be over her by now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm still in love with the same person ive always been in love with, (we were 14 when we got together and i'm 18 now) we've been over for about 5 months, as well as being split up before hand, i inbox her sometimes, she doesnt block me, just ignores me. i dont know whats wr... (90 words)

How do I put this situation out of my mind? I'm still not quite over him....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I haven't written on this site for many many months now. I'm not sure if any of you recall, but back in January-February, my boyfriend and I were having major problems, many involving jealousy and other things. Anyway, unfortunately we broke up in early March. I... (258 words)

Too scared to kiss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I am dating this guy that I have been like in love with since the 7th grade, and he are going in 10th now, we started dateing on nine 11 of last year and then in april of this year we broke up cause I was having personal issues, but in june he started dating again. N... (357 words)

I feel like I'm a shell that no one wants to be around

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I find myself in the weirdest and saddest situation. I'm a guy in my late 20s who is a virgin and never been on a date before. I've asked girls out but always been rejected. Its not that I'm an ugly guy. Quite the opposite actually. I'm approached often. My problem is that I ... (192 words)

How do you put someone out of your mind when you work with and see them constantly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I have a question that follows the line of a few others Ive seen lately. Its a problem that I'm having at my workplace, and involves being 'infatuated with', 'in love with', 'fixated on', 'obsessed with', 'having a crush on' and probably many other terms, a beautiful ... (441 words)

Boyfriend of 6 years has lost total interest in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice I have a boyfriend whom I been with for over 6 years, and he has lost total interest in me from kissing me in the morning when he leaves to work to having sex with me, sometimes when I try having sex with him and he pushes me away (literally) I just go in the ... (113 words)

Could my boyfriend be cheating or did the virus just happen between the two of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. Have a question here... I got std called herpes II and the only person im sleeping with is my boyfriend... Could my b/f be cheatin or the virus jst develop between the 2 of us.. Any advice pls.. And by the way havent told my b/f that i got the infectiion yet.. Than... (59 words)

I was drunk, we had sex and now he just wants to be friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've created kind of a mess for myself. There is a guy I have known for around 4 years. We've expressed intrest in each other before,and things never really happened. I got with someone,and he then told me how he felt. I told him I was glad to know now,and that I would keep him ... (752 words)

So many questions about this guy....anyone care to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4643 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so I need some help I guess... story goes I met this guy at a Christian retreat. he was the sweetest thin in the world. everything I want and nothing I don't. a Christian, which I just love his dedication to his faith. I'm extremely physically attracted to him, on top of ... (673 words)

Seducing my ex-girlfriend's younger sister will be ethical ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend dumped me 10 months back, Now I feel like seducing her 18 years old sister who happens to be 10 years younger than me. Will it be ethical to go for relationship with her? Can you people help me how to approach her? She is damn hotter than her older sister. Thank ... (58 words)

What is the benefit of being married for a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

- My boyfriend has been through a divorce and so has many of his friends. He knows I like the idea of us getting married, but he wants a logical reason why a man should get married. For a woman, we will get financial security, we get a dream wedding to brag to friends about. But ... (146 words)

Do guys get nervous when having sex ? ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4643 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a girl ... and i always hear all these guys talking about sex, and asking girls all these sexual questions .. and always watching porn and fantasizing about it, and then girls are always really nervous to have it and ask questions ( Not all girls of course, but the ... (70 words)

In a relationship with my total opposite, can this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - You know how they say opposites attract? Well I found my complete opposite. I'm having doubts if a relationship with him is possible. First I'm 25 so I feel like I have no time to waste on finding a guy Since I'm not getting any younger. I don't feel like I have any chemist... (213 words)

I haven't met a guy who makes my heart flutter

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So....I'm a 28 yr old female, and I've never had an official boyfriend! I've dated a lot, I get asked out frequently, I like to think I'm pretty and funny and interesting and all that jazz, but never have I had the pleasure of having a real, deep relationship with a man. 2 ... (294 words)

I love him but I'm getting tired of him freaking out about us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. My problem is a bit of a long one. I'm an 18 year old guy and I'm gay. I've recently started talking to an old friend of mine from middle school and he confided in me that he is gay and that he has been interested in me since we were kids. At first I thought this was great ... (644 words)

I don't want to be alone, I want a guy in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 16 year old gay guy and I'm so desperate to fall in love. I'm so tired of being alone and depressed it's so much harder for us to find good, genuine, lasting relationships. I just want to find a boy that makes me happy and that I'm able to make him happy as well. I ... (233 words)

Should I just let it go or give him a hint?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! So, I’ve been interested in this guy for a couple of months now pretty much since we’ve been working together and we became pretty good friends. I got a new job about a month ago, and as soon as I ended my first job he asked me out. A few days later I went over to his ... (150 words)

My boyfriend's friend likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi ya! My boyfriend, S, introduced me to some friends of his and one of his guy friends likes me. Not as a friend but as a "I want to date her or something like that." Can anyone help me to what I can do?... (48 words)

Do I just not have guy material to attract women to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I always see my friends that have girls who are attracted to them. All the time female friends that tell me how they like one of my other friends and I feel bad. Ive never had women throw themselves at me like they do to them and its got me down. Ive never had 3 girls figh... (100 words)

Did I destroy my friendship with a guy because of my curiosity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had this guy friend for a couple of years. I thought there could have been something there feelings-wise, but I never pursued it because I had a boyfriend. We were very financially reliant on one another, we went in on a kiddie pool endeavor, he gave me a birthday present ... (547 words)

How do I spit out cum without it being awkward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so... My boyfriend is always asking me to give him a blow job, and i love doing it for him... one problem, i tasted cum once and hated it... he says he doesnt mind, that i can start with a blow job and that he will tell me when hes close to done so i can finish with my ... (101 words)

Should I keep my eyes on my boyfriend's ex? I trust him, but not her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this might get a little long but bare with me please its important... So I have been in this great relationship with this great guy for 14months now. He is a 25 years old college graduate and I am a 20 years old Senior in college. We fell in love which each other early... (976 words)

I took time off to celebrate his birthday, but he won't do the same for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this wonderful man for almost a year now. For the first time, he has somewhat hurt my feelings, and as a stupid girl, I played the "it's no biggie" card. We are in a long distance relationship. We are able to see each other a couple times a month for the ... (438 words)

Do I need prior experience to get and maintain a romantic relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't have prior experience in a romantic relationship. A friend of mine advice me to go on some "practice" dating, to get to know the field so to speak, before reaching for a the real thing. So when the right lady comes along I'll have the know-how, and can win her heart. ... (78 words)

Very much in Love but cannot leave the family

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age - Hi I am married with an 8 years old. I ma very much in love with another woman, she is my sweetheart from 25 years ago. She lives in ITaly and has a doughter of 8 years old. We met again and fell in love again... I left 25 years ago to come to England and she did not want... (273 words)

Should I tell my friend I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

9 August 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a crush on one of my guy friends, but i've known him since we were kids and i don't want to ruin my friendship, should i tell him that i like him?... (34 words)

Is it legal for a 24 year old to date a 17 year old?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

9 August 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi to all I've just found out that a friend of mine (24 years old male) is dating a (17 year old female) and just would like know is this legal or illegal and is this right or wrong as i really dont know myself what to say to them both.... (54 words)