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writes:I've dated a girl for 3 years, we recently broke up in January of 09, we haven't talked for 4 months, and I messaged on her on myspace, because I really saw that she was down, with no intentions of getting back with her, as we talked we got a little serious and started to see each other. We then decided to take it slow and see how this progressed. 2 months went by of this progressing. Everything was great, she acted like my GF, showed emotion, and affection gave attention it was good, and then I ask her how she feels about me, she says I don't know, or I'm not sure what I want. She then decided to take vacation and visit family, she wanted that time to think about everything and she said she would return with an answer, while she was gone she showed the most affection I have seen thus far through texts and emails. When she returned, I waited a couple weeks and still now answer, I've treated her like my GF basically, and she still says I don't know how I feel. What does this mean? Is she content with what we are now, or is she afraid to tell me how she really feels. Is she afraid of commitment again? It was a very bad break up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): yeah i think shes afraid of committing.im in the same situation! because it was a bad break up i think she is content on how you both are now but still doesnt want to do anything no matter how she feels as she needs TIME to heal.give her time and im sure she`ll eventually give you an answer.wait at least a month or two and then after that have a serious talk with her to ask if she sees this going anywhere and how she feels.it will be either a yes or no.no harm in asking.
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