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writes:ok well i am 14 and i want to ask my gf for a bj (blow job) idk i have give her some hints about it and stuff but idk i mean i love her and all i just kinda feel we can move on into more stuff then just kissing and hugging...idk am i rushing into stuff? i mean i dont want her too feel pushed or rushed and i dont think i am ready to lose my v-card just yet...
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reader, SUICIDEVICTIM +, writes (13 July 2009):
 Whats a V-card any way just ask her ether she will or she wont she may need to be convinced is ok to push her but not to mutch make sure its her decison in the end or you will feel bad yourself shell probably do it just play it smooth dont ask her for a blow job ask her what she thinks about it then tell her u need one even if she says she doens like bj.
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reader, turtle86  +, writes (5 July 2009):
 Hey man... Girls are more sensative and stuff. I wouldn't rush anything just incase. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 7 months and we have only madeout and I've felt her up. She might be scared and might think that all you want to date her is for sex and for you to feel good. Girls are either ready for it/ or not. I would say if you haven't been going out for atleast half a year I wouldn't try. Especially at our age girls really don't feel like giving a guy a blowjob. If you really want one than get her in the "mood" for it. Do some thing really romantic as for girls sex isn't just physical but also emotional. So if you really want to do something special for her when you are alone. Not saying a special "move" but a special thing. Dinner? Or whatever you might plan. [: Hope this helped. [: And don't rush your relationship or it might or will be over sooner than you think. [:
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reader, Deathly-Afraid +, writes (4 July 2009):
 Well, ask her and if she dosn't feel comfortable with it, comfort her tell her that if she dosn't want to she dosn't have to. Trust me, the last thing a girl wants is to be forced into somthing sexual. Because i've been there.
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