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writes:I was divorced 4 years ago. I dated a guy afterwards for almost 3 years. Now, I have been alone for over a year. A man at work has been really nice to me and he is very attractive, but I think I might have given him the idea that I am only interested in younger guys. He is about 5 years older than I am. One day when he was talking to me, I mentioned how it is unfair that men usually like women who are a lot younger than they are and that there are not any younger men interested in me. He said, "Well, I can't help you out with that one." I didn't think until later how he might have taken it. What I meant was that all the men who are my age seem to be interested in women who are 10 or 15 years younger than I am. I wasn't thinking at the time, and now I think it is too late to bring it up again and try to explain, but my question is this: If he is interested in me, would that put him off if he thought that I was only interested in someone younger? Or do you think he will still be interested, if he is attracted to me?
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (4 July 2009):
 no i dont think a comment like that would put him off you, if u made it clear to him after what u exactly meant. if u havent made it clear to him maybe u shud bring up the conversation again and say exactly what u meant so he doesnt get the wrong idea.good luck!
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