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*ollins27023
writes:ok i recently broke up with this girl for reasons than were explained in my previous question and i have now a new girl friendthis is not a bad thing but what is bad is that my current girlfriend and my ex have now become very very close friendsnow when ever i get the chance to try to organise a day out this my new girlfriend shes already made plans with my ex. and also my ex is telling my current girlfriend things about me that i told my ex. things i don't want my current girlfriend to know.to make things worse they even talk to each other about me when i am there but they use "codewords" so i have no idea what they are on about. and when i am on a date with her sometimes my current girlfriend invites my ex to come along. and they tell each other every possible detail about what we do/ what we've done/ what we plan to do its a disaster.i need help what do you think i should do in this situation??
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reader, collins27023 +, writes (28 December 2009):
collins27023 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks i have talked to both of them and thing are turning out great as now they are seeing less of each other and my gf can now concentrate on me
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (25 December 2009):
 Im sure ur ex isnt out to get u, cause thats just sick to involve ur current girlfriends, girls tell their close friends everything, tbh, i say its something u will have to get used to. As all girls do it, its like looking out for each other. Just what teen girls do.
Hope i helped.
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reader, HelloItsRobert +, writes (25 December 2009):
 Ok, here's the plan of action on this one, one step at a time.
1) Display your distaste for this to your current girlfriend, ask her exactly what your ex has been saying, and if she refuses to tell you, then you have a reason not to trust her.
2) Bring up the issue of your ex being there all the time when you plan things. Tell her that you want some time for you guys to just be together, alone, as a couple. This will bring out a bit of romantic flare to the argument, and your current girlfriend will realise how much you care.
3) Ask your current girlfriend if it would be ok to tell your ex to lay off a bit, I know that they seem like very close friends, but if you explain to her that you think she's amazing, and you want to spend alone time with her, without your ex being there, you should win her over.
Then if step 3 manages to be pulled off.
4) Tell your ex to back off, tell her how little you care about what she thinks of you, and what she tells your current girlfriend.
By the sounds of it, your ex is just trying to ruin your relationship out of jealousy, and nothing more. She's probably just doing the "if I can't have him, then nobody can have him" thing that a lot of people nowadays seem to want to do. Just display your affection for your current girlfriend, your distaste for your ex, and everything should turn out fine =D
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