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I love my dad and my boyfriend. Why is he making me choose?

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Question - (24 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been dating my current boyfriend for 5 months. He works for my dad and my father hates him (and that's an understatement).

My father forbade all contact with him even when we weren't dating. We were just sitting on the hood of his car at a party when my dad drove up (he was picking me up) and saw us talking. While he was driving me home he told me I wasn't allowed to see him or even talk to him. So we've been sneaking around for the past 5 months up until today. This is going to be a great Christmas! *Sarcasm*

My boyfriend is 26, but he acts incredibly immature (partially because he is spoiled). But he can also be incredibly sweet too.

When my dad found out, he told me I had to choose between having a home or dating my boyfriend. I love my dad and my boyfriend. Why is he making me choose? I'm a penniless college student and my boyfriend is fixing to be booted out of his house too.

Why is it so hard for my father to accept this?

[Moderator's note: Please provide more details. In what ways is your boyfriend immature and why exactly is he disliked by your father?]

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A male reader, Davethegamer United States +, writes (25 December 2009):

well me having a 6 month old daughter and not looking foward to her puberty... id be mad at the slight age difference, and want to make sure the relationship was actually love and not a guy trying to get some fresh meat. just in a guy/dads eyes

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009):

Q-Asker:

Spoiled:

He still lives at home and depends on his parents for everything. Pretty much gets whatever he wants.

Why my father dislikes him:

Apparently my boyfriend is too much of a daredevil, spoiled brat, and he's "not good enough for me."

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