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I have no money, a son I cannot leave, and a marriage I am dying to get out of... should I pursue my affair?

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Question - (24 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have been married for over 20 years - he very much in love and me only staying in the relationship for my teenaged son. Thru facebook I met an old schoolmate that I didn't really know in school and we proceeded to have some fun banter back and forth. From the very minute we began writing we felt "the connection"! My husband become enraged that I was speaking with a "guy" on facebook and so I set up an e-mail account that he does not know about and the schoolmate and I continue to talk deeply. The schoolmate and I have made an incredible connection and he wants me to come be with him in another state - to see if what we are feeling is real. I have no money, a son I cannot leave, and a marriage that I am dieing to get out of... Where do I go from here???

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009):

if you are truly unhappy then my suggestion is either resolve to fix the marriage or get out of it. your own happiness depends on it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009):

So you're willing to ruin your childs & husbands life for your selfish pleasure.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009):

Do whatever u want, but the consequences affect more than just yourself. I guess it depends on who and what you love more. Life is a tragedy sometimes. Oh well, Merry Christmas.

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