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writes: My husband had an emotional affair with his personal trainer. He claims they were just good friends but she had a key to his apt., and there were many texts and calls over a period of several months. Should I attempt to save the marriage or get out now?
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 Hang on .... BIG ALARM BELLS ARE RINGING!!!!. If your husband has given the keys to his flat, this seems more than an "EMOTIONAL AFFAIR" to me. How come you guys don't live together if you are married? He is seriously pulling the wool over your eyes.
My advice is, tell him to finish with this woman or this marriage is over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): You should always try to save the marriage. I would admire you for it although I know he doesn't deserve it and it might hurt. I believe you should try at least. Try as hard as you can tolerate. You'll learn things about yourself in the meantime. Don't be hipocrit to yourself, if you feel you cannot trust him anymore and you feel you are miserable with him and you will be depressed spending the rest of your life with him let him go. Turn your eyes to God (not to people) and church for comfort and support in this difficult time.
Blessings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): How much do you want him? Do you still really love him? Can you live the rest of your life without him? I'm your age and have been on my own 10 years now. I'm in a singles social organisation, 2000 members, age group mostly 45 upwards and very few people re-marry or even live together. We've all got baggage at our age and are set in our ways. Think carefully. When you're a woman on your own all your married friends drop you - seriously, you wouldn't beleive it.If there's enough love between you both then hang on in there. If love died and you'll be unhappy with him then maybe move on. Talk it over. This woman may have been a 'one off' and maybe he regrets it. If so,give him one chance. If he does it again, then think about leaving.
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