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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Why love is so complicated?why guys act like women?Why they don't make the big step?What they are afraid?I'm in love with a man that God he is so smart,so charmy..and so mature!He started first flirting with me...he always looks at me secretly..he smiles to me..he shows his intrest..you know stuff that men do when they like-want a girl..But only that..nothing elce..how much they like games before the serious relationship?And they make us wonder if he want us or he just spend his time flirting.How i will make him show me his feelings..I think he is shy..but so women are..I know that he wants me i can feel it...PLEASE!Give me some tips..to make him come and tell me that he want me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers..
The real thing is that we are in an enviroment that me or he..can't show our deep feelings..it is impossible in front of other people!Well, i'm flirtinig him in a limit..i laugh too..sometimes i speak first..when he only smiles to me..but sometimes i don't look at him at all(yes i know i'm stupid when i react like that..but i'm just afraid to show more..i react like he react..nothing more)
But as i told before he start flirting me and he laugh with me..i always feel that he waching at me..and when i catch him he change his look..f.e
someone else talk and he looks at me..when i saw him he change immediately his look..and then for 3 seconds he see me again(in my world i think he is intrested on me).
The other thing is that he is older than me for 9 years..and that shows that he must do something more..And is a MAN too..
My problem is if i feel that he want me..why he don't try to show me his real feelings about me..??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): From a female point of view - (sorry im the only boy in a family of five girls).....
I dont know it seems women tend to go with option A.. that he's really not into her as much....
I think sometimes us guys need to come out more and stop playing games!!!! Ive actually learnt that our game playing pushes women away a bit more than we realise.
On the other hand, I do agree... maybe you need to show him you're interested and see if he responds.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 If you give us more information, we might help you in a better way.
That said, sometimes we men don't take the initiative because:
a) we don't like you that much, or
b) we don't think you would welcome our advances.
Have you tried to let him see that you are into him?
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