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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. Lately theres been a few things that have really gotten me upset. 1. This morning (I stayed over at his the night before) we both woke up to his phone ringing, it was his friend. When he hung up, he jumped up got dressed and was like ok i have to leave in 5 mins. I was just lying there half naked and had only just woke up and he was pretty much kicking me out so he could hang out with his friend!!! i had no way of getting home (i dont drive - he does, but he 'didnt have enough time to drop me home') so i had to walk half an hour to the bus station to get a bus home unshowered, with no breakfast, etc.then only 3 hours later he sends me a text saying 'did u get home ok?'then theres just other little things like, my grandpa died last week and he never called during the day to see how i was going, let alone come visit me... he keeps a spare mattress handy whenever i stay the night at his just incase he cant get to sleep when im sharing his bed.just things like that make me feel so insignificant!!!!what should i do?
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reader, confusedheart  +, writes (22 May 2008):
for two years you have put up with this ...this guy had it made..hr thinks anyway .....why don't you prove him wrong....good luck xoxox
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 Lets see, he didn't even have time to drop you of at the bus station?
He expects you to sleep on the floor, oh sorry he keeps an old matras around, after you have sex with him because he might not be able to fall asleep with you in his bed?
When you are suffering a major loss he doesn't even spend anytime?
The sex better be bloody amazing or he is richer then Bill Gates for you to put up with this.
I don't agree with "I don't lie" this ain't even ready to have a pet!
He is using you for sex and nothing more. As far as he is concerned things are perfect, free sex no hassle. Your only choice is wether you are willing to accept this or kick him out of your life.
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (26 April 2008):
 He's obviously not ready to have a girlfriend. What he needs is a no strings attached kinda relationship. You dont deserve to be treated that way, no one is.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (26 April 2008):
 Get rid of him !!!!
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