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I am so tense and jumpy in intimacy, how can I become more relaxed??

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Question - (26 April 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

How can I relax enough to be intimate with my boyfriend? I want to do things with him and when I do, it feels wonderful, but I am so tense and jumpy. I freak out when we try something new and I just cant relax beacause I am so scared. When something feels so good, I push it away instead of wanting more- its like it is too good to handle. We have been dating a long time and he is always easy and gentle, so what can I do about this?

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A female reader, mandabaaby Canada +, writes (26 April 2008):

mandabaaby agony auntJust let yourself go girl. There will be nothing you can do unless you totally trust him, if your scared just let yourself go... Maybe get drunk and see what happens... Letting yourself go will make him want you even more. Just say " baby do what you want to me"

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