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writes:Im 24, my bf 28, we are together for 4 years. now we have a lot of problems, we wait to be with each other, but on the other hand, I complain that he doesnt care about me, and he complains that im not kind with him, and i exagerate every little thing, he is not punctual,and this drives me crazy. he says he will come in an hour,he is late for 2 hours, and doesnt call me to say that he wont be there. and things like this. what we should do? who is guilty? i think he doesnt love me, but he says he does Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 If he is not punctual , you do need to make some adjustments.
Love is about compromise.
You cannot force him to be punctual when he is not the punctual type.
It is either you accept the way he is or he needs to change and adapt to your ways.
Which is easier?
Perhaps you need to turn the tables back on him to let him feel what it is like to wait for another.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 Sit down with your boyfriend and have an adult discussion without any mud slinging about your relationship. Before you do both of you write down your good points and your bad points and work on things that need improving in your relationship.
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