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*oftballplaya
writes:okay i have been on this site with lots of questions and i have recieved alot of help that i am grateful for. I have a new problem tho, my life seems to be full of them lol MY boyfriend and me split up like 2 weeks ago, he is moving on and its killing me on the inside, yes we are 14 and I shouldn care this much but sadly I do. I just cant handle break-ups. I feel like once a relationship ends that we will never get a second chance...=[ I want to be able to move on as well. At achool I act as if nothing bothers me but on the inside I want to cry because I see him and its not the same and I know that its not me that he used to care so much about, yes we are remaining friends which is good I think but I dont know how to move on or get him back, please I need help. I want to be happy again, please dont lecture me due to my age and my feelings. I cannot help them=[
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reader, DearSteve  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 Why can’t you get out of it? I’m sure that if you look at this objectively, you’ll realise that things aren’t half as bad as you think they are. You’re just raw at the moment, but that will pass. This new girlfriend is not important in your ability to heal yourself, so don’t focus on her – focus on you!
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (27 April 2008):
softballplaya is verified as being by the original poster of the question did i mention that he has a new interest now...hes moving on but im stuck in this rut that i cant get out of.=[
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reader, DearSteve +, writes (27 April 2008):
The important thing to remember is that you’re young and getting over him, whilst seemingly difficult right now, will come a lot quicker than you realise. The question is, do you suck it up and ride it out, or relent to your feelings and be distracted by him at school? If you want him back, you have to tell him. I know that might sound difficult, but finding the words will come easily once you get over your nerves. Just make sure you’re ready for another emotional blow if things don’t quite go according to plan. Good luck!!
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