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My wife does not get pleasure with lovemaking. Any tips or advice?

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Question - (26 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2008)
A male India age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I got married 1.5 yr back.My height is 5.8 Ft and my wife is 5.5 Ft and having a 5.5month old baby.My penis size is 5 inches and slightly bent towards left.I experienced that my wife didnot get pleasure at the time of lovemaking.

Only she get litle pleasure on puting my penis tip on her clit which i cannot able to continue since I feel pain due to presence of hair which act like blade.

When I try to touch her clit she regist saying that she feel pain.I tried to find her G-spot by inserting my finger upto 2inches but not getting any respnse.I normaly do Foreplay and Doggy style.Any suggestion Pl advice!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008):

As i women i say ignor the advise of all men who care to answere this problem. How can a strange man truely know how to please your wife of a couple of years. You said you have a small child. In my experience kids/babies suck the life out of a womens sex drive. BBBBBBIIIIIGGGGGG TIME! I think the only person you can show you the right technique is your wife. However, if she is unable to relax, feel sexy, desired, hot, then it is not going to happen. This is like if you take her for granted, she has spent the entire day looking after the kids, cleaning the house and picking up after her husband. Women want to feel adventurous and sexy not slummy mummy. Problems in the bedroom are often nothing to do with sex. Any women can teach her man the things which excite her, but not if she is too tried. An trust me the size and shape of your cock doesn't come into it. Most women can only achieve the big O throught foreplay anyway!!!! If hair is a problem as you mentioned, just sugguest a shaven look

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (26 April 2008):

Sandman agony auntUncle Phil is on the right track I think...

Have her to tell you - or better yet guide you to what feels good to her during sex. Switch positions often to find the best one that is comfortable and provides pleasure for both of you.

Hope this helps.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008):

Ask her to show you what you have to do to get her excited. 2 inches up is perhaps a little too far, 1 inch is more like it.

Try your tongue on her clit. Most women like that. Ask her to get on top, she can then position herself so that she gets maximum stimulation.

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