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What compliments do women like to hear?

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Question - (26 April 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello Everyone

Thanks for taking the time for reading this question.

I'd like to know, what do women like to hear when you are trying to compliment them (in letter or in person), e.g your beautiful, sexy, your my best friend, I love being in your company........etc

Ladies what makes you go 'oh! thats nice'

Thank you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you all for your comments, some very useful ones!

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (27 April 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntI loved your comment about "I love being in your company" - so you should trust your own judgement and go for it!

Here's a few that I've loved - I'd rather spend time with you doing absolutely nothing than anything else I could think of. You never cease to amaze me (avoid sarcastic tone here). Your enthusiasm is infectious! I love that you give me a fresh perspective on things. I love your sense of humor. You look best freshly tossed, just out of bed and make-up free! I can't stand a woman who has nothing to hold on to, please don't starve yourself!

But I have to say, being taken off guard and having it delivered when you LEAST expect it, like when you are up to your ears in garden soil, "You're so beautiful" works every single time for me!

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony aunt1; of course i love you

2; no you don't look fat in that dress

3: i promise not to *** in your mouth.

actually those are lies men tell to women.

Actually. i stand by my first statement.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008):

Tell whatever that woman make you feel..They are not spesific things..Your emotions will help you!Every woman is unique!

So if your feelings are clear about her believe me if you will say you look like a rose..don't have a real difference with: you look like a pink table..ahhaha

I just want make you realise that you need the right moment only that!and your love about her!

No a man!and take strength you must look her face is more lovely this way!

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A female reader, Love_is_all_youu_need United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2008):

Love_is_all_youu_need agony auntSay things like; 'Your eyes are the colour of mud' or 'your lips are like tiny sausages'!

Okay... i'm pulling your leg lol!

Kk, erm how about; 'every moment I spend with you is so precious to me because you are the highlight of my life' or 'If I was offered the opportunity to get hooked up with the hottest woman on the planet; I'd turn it down because you're the only woman I can see spending the rest of my life with'.


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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008):

Just say whatever things you think of her in your head - not bad things mind! Telling her she's beautiful is always a start. Like 'BigSis' says, telling her she looks nice or lovely when she isn't all done up is a massive compliment for a woman. Often, men only comment on looks when a woman is all done up. But when she just looks like she normally might look, tell her she 'looks extra nice today'. Also, you don't just have to focus on looks. Maybe mention how it's great how she is always there for you. Thank her for something nice she has done/does for you.

The smallest of compliments are often the ones that make your day :]

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntI was paid a lovely compliment only half an hour ago, from a guy who i've known for a good few years, we're just friends, we'd both like to take our friendship further, but due to circumstances, we can't.

He turned up unexpected, I was slightly embarrassed because I had no make-up on, my hair was all over the place, got a blinding headache {eyes like a panda} and wearing jeans and a little top, and he tells me I look lovely, and convinced me he was serious when I asked him if he was taking the piss.

So, my answer to your question?....Being sincerely told that I look lovely in my natural state. Also being told ~ i'm all woman, and that makes me feel great.

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A male reader, salvation United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2008):

just be honest and tell the girl what you like about her there are no set compliments the girl i fell in love with she had beautifull deep blue eyes a cute nose and a smile that could light up the darkest room and a personality to match. Be sincere

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