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writes:Hello, I met this girl back during football season in like september she was a trainer and we became friends and I kinda liked her but let it go till recently i saw her and got her number.. later that day we went to the mall with two friends and the friends went wherever making fools of themselves while me and her walked around and watched the movie. I didn't really do anything because i thought we were just hanging out so i didnt pull anything i also made a bad move with my friends but i won't get into details with it but she let it go and we continued the great time. We took her home and she enjoyed it then I went to the friends house and I texted her and she had an idea that i liked her so i admitted it, told her how long, and i didnt say anything because she was shy and then i asked if she felt the same way.. she replied saying she liked me but kinda thought of me more as a brother or best friend and she still wants to hang out with me but as friends. do i still have a chance with her or maybe shes probably playing with me to see if i really like her or something? We're in highschool btw..
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answer, well I don't think anything will happen now. She asks for my friends number, lies to me and makes out with him and stuff..
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): Speaking from experience, you either need to make it perfectly clear that you'd really like a relationship with her, or resign to just being friends, giving her time to hopefully change her mind on her own, in my experience, did nothing but make the friendship closer, which granted is a good thing, but not necessarily the thing I wanted. From what I've heard if you really do want a shot at this girl and she's not going to go along with it now, you need to spend a bit of time apart, then essentially try again, and this time show her how great it is to be around you and how much she had missed it.
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