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While seeing each other or talking on the PC we run out of things to talk about...

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 6 months. While seeing each other or talking on the PC we run out of things to talk about, he then often plays on his guitar and ignores me or goes in a mood and it upsets me. What do I do?... (55 words

She thinks she's fat (well, chubby) and ugly (she's not)... how can I help her feel better about herself?

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6 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi all. You may remember a few weeks ago I posted up about being fed up of being single. Well now I'm not - I'm in a long distance relationship with someone who is *Exactly* (Apart from the obvious) the same as me - same interests, same music taste etc. We seem to connect with ... (169 words

I met a boy on the internet that I like but I'm currently in a relationship

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6 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi im very confused i'm in a relationship, i love the person im with but i don't in some ways. the only trouble is i have children involved but i have had alot of hurt throughout all the relationships i have been in i have always been physically hurt. there is this boy i met o... (105 words

I kissed a colleague and we both have partners!

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6 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi recently at a party i kissed one of my mates (a girl) however we both work together and we both have partners and we promised we wouldnt get weird with each other but i dnt think i can speak to her without making things weird! i reli want to tell her how i feel about her... (77 words

My 13 year old cousin's mum's boyfriend is constantly giving him grief and I'm unsure what to do!

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6 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My 13 year old cousin His mums bf is constantly shouting and confiscating his mobile, games and tv etc. He has a stutter which i think is caused by the way they treat him. I put some money on his phone - not realising he had it taken off him and now its all kicked o... (134 words

I just can't make her orgasm from penetrative sex... tell me how I can through oral?

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6 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - I'm in a very loving relationship with this girl, and have to ask for 2 pieces of advice here. 1. She does not orgasm during intercourse. She says she has never been able to. Being a man, I look at this as a challenge, and am continually dissapointed when she doesnt. She does... (172 words

I'm 12 and a 20 year old man wants to date me; I love him but my parent's don't know him, should I go out with him?

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6 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hey im 12 and i live where there is alot of mexicans. But i dated a 15 year old that lives by me. But i broke up with him so there is this boy hes 20 and he gave me a letter and he wants to go out with me should i say yes and i known him 4 a 1 year now and i love him so much ... (80 words

My fiancee: cheated with a prostitute, can't get hard except through oral, has a short temper and leaves for days on end after an argument!

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6 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I love him but am i being controlled. my fiancee and I have been together for over 2 years. he cheated on me with a prostitute after 8 months, a month before we were to be married. we went to counselling, but he could not tell me why he did it. He also has ED through ... (149 words

I'm 18, she's 23 and I'm scared to tell her how I feel

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6 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hello iam an 18 year and iam in love with my 23year old bestfirend but iam to scard to tell here and lose our freind ship what should i do... (31 words

Feeling like I don't love my girlfriend anymore!

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6 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - i've been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half now and she's my first serious relationship ever and i've been feeling like i dont love her anymore, but i dont know if i'm just having doubts or if this is really the end for me. i've been pushed over the edge by this ... (113 words

But... do you think I should move on and forget about him? I dunno if he has a crush on me but I kinda get a vibe when I talk to him.

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I need some advice! I kinda like this boy, I haven't seen him in a few weeks and we don't really talk. But he is really gorgeous and I am sorta over him, but every time I see him I get a crush on him all over again. Do you think it's just lust? But when we do talk it's like ... (137 words

My kids don't like my ex who I've started seeing again but he wants us to move in with him

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have a problem. I'm a single mom with 2 boys ages 12 and six, and just got back with my ex who they know but it seems that they don't like going to his house for some reason. My ex wants me to move back with him, do you think it's fair for me to drag my kids along eventhough, ... (67 words

I'm back with the man who's heart I broke; is he out for revenge or could he really still love me?

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I was in a relationship with a guy 15 yrs ago and just recently reunited with him. He acts like i did no wrong, when actually i broke his heart. could he be trying to set me up for heartache or could he really still have feelings for me after all these yrs? Right after i broke ... (71 words

We agreed to remain friends but others guys I date, don't compare! What can I do?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend, we were together for just over a year. Its only been a couple of weeks ago since we split up. And its my first proper break up. I still love him but not nearly as much as i did, he broke my heart, and i just cant think of him in the same ... (187 words

I am not in love with her! How do I make her understand that she has to move on?

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6 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - im 17 and my gf loves me. ive been seeing her for a year and a half and i dont love her any more. ive dumped her alotta times and made her cry lots im a fuckin evil person and i cant take it anymore please how can i make her understand? i need 2 get her 2 move on please help ... (143 words

I want to be a great girlfriend to him but I dont want to love him more then he loves me!

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6 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am so attached to him. Its been 10 months that we have been together. How do I stop being so clingy? I want to be a great girlfriend to him but I dont want to love him more then he loves me, which I think is starting to happen. I kinda feel that I cant live with out him ... (109 words

Am i curvy or fat?

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6 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - I am a 12 year old girl and i am unsure about my weight . i am 7stone and 8 pounds and i am 4 feet 11 inches. i know i am healthy but i not sure if i look good. Am i just curvy or am i almost fat? Also i know that when u you lose weight ur breasts shrink but i like my breasts ... (70 words

He wants to get back together for love.

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6 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 1/2 years. In 2006 we broke up for 6 months and in that time I drank a little to much and slept with his brother. About 4 months after that we got back together and I told him what happened. We worked it out where we could pick ... (251 words

My best friend is ignoring me! What should I do?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey this is kinda urgent cuz it is driving me insane! OK, so my best friend has always wanted to hang out with me and go to the movies... But now this summer we've only hung out twice... I mean, whenever I call her she doesnt answer, whenever I message her on myspace s... (251 words

Being freinds with her is too hard as I'm still in love with her! Any advice?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok so im 16 ive been with my girlfriend for 2 years and on saturday she broke up with me sayin she !didnt feel the same" since then all ive done is cry and beg for her back but shes just been like "I don't know, I dont know what to do" I'm going crazy. Shes sayin she wants to... (102 words

We have sex 3 times a week... how many times is it therefore normal for him to please himself?

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6 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Can someone please tell me what would be "reasonable" and "normal" number, for a guy in a relationship (have sex about 3 times weekly or even more when schedules are not so busy) to mastrubate? Lets say we have great sex three times a week. What would be normal number for him ... (64 words

Tell me how to orgasm please.

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Can some please tell me how to have an orgasm. I masturbate, but that doesn't work. It seems to work when I'm penetrated.... (23 words

He stares at my chest.

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6 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - My mom's freind has a son. He's 3 years older then me. Whenever I see him, he makes me feel uncomfortable. He always stares at my chest. One time I asked him if he could please keep his stares to himself. He said sure, but he still does it. What should I do?... (53 words

Can i get him to like me?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - how can i get him to like me he is 19 and he works at my work when iam around him he makes me smile and i think he know it, how do i know if he likes me... (40 words

My ex got in contact out of the blue, was all flirty and has now told me his girlfriend is pregnant.

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I went out with a guy a year and a bit ago,and was completly in love...i lost my virginity to him, anyway a week after he dumped me and went back to his ex girlfriend..i never spoke or saw him again so was have never really got over him. About 2 weeks ago now, i got an email fr... (240 words

Does he want more?

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6 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - It’s been a month or so since I got back together with this guy. The first night I spent with him he told me he didn’t want a relationship after his last girlfriend. That was fine with me and I still have no problem with it. Sometimes I think that he has stronger feelings than ... (299 words

I have not heard from him, what should i do?

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6 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - We always had a good relationship with each other. we have never been officially a couple you could say we are more like friends but where we care a lot about each other. we met a year ago at work and got on straight away. i left as this was only 2 week contract and we ... (841 words

I think he wants to break up with me.

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6 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend and since our three months vacation he called me just 3 times, he claims he is going through some family problems, but i think he wants to break up with me but doesnt know how to go about it,less he hurts me. am i assuming? what do u think i should do... (56 words

I'm bi and in love with my friend, but she is with someone.

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi i am bisexual and i am in love with my friend, the thing is she is with someone of three months, so why the hell would she cheat on her girlfriend with me? she has known i have liked her for 2 months, and a close friend of ours found out becuase she told her and she also... (198 words

Not a relationship problem, but... my dog has chewed up my home!

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6 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi Not a relationship problem but an animal problem! Had a cross breed dog for 4 months since she was 9 weeks, she has destroyed my home and garden. Shoes, cushions inards ripped out, you name it, its been eaten. The last straw came yesterday morning when i got up, m... (183 words

I done loads of sit ups and now i hurt.

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i did 100 situps all in 1 go 2 days ago id never done sit ups before but i want to loose weight so i started the sit ups and did 100 in about 25 mins and now my abdomen is killing me it hurts so much! what have i done??... (52 words

She loves me still but has met another guy! What can I do?

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6 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi, Me and my girlfriend have just split up after nearly 2 years, i love her 2 bits and would never hurt her. She still loves me and im crazy about her. We used to argue about lots of silly things like her seeing friends instead of me, i pushed her away and she ended it. I ... (167 words

I really want to go but i dont know what to do!

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi im 16. I have a FWB who's 18. Well...i guess he's my friend with benefits. Anyhow, he invited me to a drinking party, ive never drank before so i want to go and try some. The thing is is that we would have to sleep over because its kinda far away..we would share a bed. I ... (134 words

raped pregnant and scared. Help!

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - im 14 8 months pregnant and i was raped yesterday someone came into my home and hit me and raped me while my family wasnt home could it have harmed my baby?? im afraid to be left alone now.. could it have been planned? does this man know me? he knew i was on my own could he b... (102 words

He loves to eye other women be it any public gathering.

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for the last 5 years and I share a very good relationship with my husband but there is one thing we always disagree on. He loves to eye other women be it any public gathering. I have confronted him a lot of times and I am very distressed coz of this but ... (191 words

my boyfriend of 18 years doesn't kiss or cuddle me. what should i do?

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6 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 18 years doesnt kiss or cuddle me and never has any foreplay. He has developed a fetish for me dressing up in various poses, then takes photos and has sex. I havent got a problem with dressing up really if we were passionate with each other, but I feel used, ... (139 words

I'm having a difficult time getting past the visual of her being kissed by another man. Please help!

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6 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - My fiance' and I had not been really getting along and pretty much things were going down the toilet for the past month. She left for a week to spend time with one of her girlfriends that she hasn't seen in a while. While on the trip they all go out have drinks, comes back to ... (199 words

Is it worth giving our relationship another chance?

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6 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi Is it worth giving our relationship another chance? My partner and I split up last November but then got back together in the New Year. However, we split again mid-February which was my decision. He has kept texting me and desperately wants to give it another go but I... (236 words

I can't deal with this anymore. I've had enough. Friends keep letting me down!

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I can't deal with this anymore. I've had enough. Friends keep letting me down, bitching about eachother, saying they will be there for me ending up not, boasting about guys when they know how i feel. We try to meet up and they just can't do it. Telling me an hour before. ... (115 words

He has changed, now school is about to start again.

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok... welll... me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 6 months now and idk he's been seeming different since he know's school's about to start up again... and everyone knows jocks change when they're around their friends, and of corse it doesnt help that i'm the ... (66 words

girlfriend wanted to end things but we are still kissing and cuddling. is this right?

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6 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I would really appreciate advice on this matter as I have no idea where to turn. I'm in my early twenties and my girlfriend a few years older. We've been together for two years and living together for one. As far as I'm concerned, our relationship is great and she ... (194 words

Chances of pregnancy.

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My periods suppose to start within the next few days. If i had sex just before it started what are the chances of me getting pregnant? ... (26 words

when a couple make rules in their relationship, does that mean they are very controlling of one another or is it a good thing to do?

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6 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just celebrated our 10 month anniversary yesterday. Lately we have been arguing a lot about stupid little things. We get to the point where neither one of us want to deal with eachother anymore and we pretty much break up but then start to talk and work ... (308 words

should i start getting in touch or should i give her time and see if she gets back to me?

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6 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - am boy aged 25. i disaggreed with my girlfriend over chat, i stopped chatting with her, i even stopped emailing her hoping she beg. but since she has pulled off too. she doensnt text,nothing, i love her n i want, should i start getting in touch or should i ... (81 words

It hurts when he puts my legs on his shoulders.

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have tryed different positions now but when he goes to put my legs on his shoulders and his penis goes in it realy hurts is this ment to happen as i have been told its ment to be really good... (44 words

His mum put me on the pill.

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have sex quite alot now so his mum put me on the pill but i dont think my mum would like it how could i tell her if i need to tell her ??... (38 words

My wife caught me talking to other women on dating sites.

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6 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - ok well here goes. i used to be on all these dating sites. then i got married. but i continued to go on them well. the other day my wife caught me, and seen that i had been talking to these women. so she then accused me of lieing, cheating, and meet women on the side. but i ... (182 words

Does anyone know how I could track down a person who I met in a local supermarket?

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Does anyone know how I could track down a person who I met in a local supermarket? I didnt take their phone number and im now really gutted? Any ideas would be great!... (33 words

I made a mistake and snooped on him.

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6 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I was supsecting my boyfriend was somewhere else...i snooped on him and found evidence that sugessted he wasn't telling the truth. I then asked a male friend to call his ex and ask for him - he wasn't there and the evidence i had was wrong. it was obvious i was behind the c... (149 words

what am I doing that is so wrong?

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6 August 2007 (F - Hi Would appreciate anyone's opinion on this! I have been single for about a year and eight months now. Although I have had some interest from guys during that time, I haven't been interested in THEM. Whilst talking to someone in the last few days, I was told tha... (253 words

Do I start again with my ex-girlfriend?

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6 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Do I start again with my ex-girlfriend? Ok, here we go - I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years about 9 months ago. I broke up with her because we fought alot about everything, but mainly because I was interested and curious about this other girl that I had met - althou... (414 words

mother of my child slept with another man. Help!

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6 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - I found out that the mother of my child, that i am paying her fees, buying clother, food, everything slept with another man? She was working at a resturent, she was poor, a made her somebody, and am just a nobody to her today. Well, i don't know what to do i hate her, but ... (130 words

Std info needed.

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i was just wondering, can u get any STDs from snogging?... (12 words

I want to have sex with my mum.

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6 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am now sixteen, nearly seventeen, my mum is fourty nearly fourty one. About seven years ago, i was in the need of a drink and so walked into the kitchen where my mum was reaching for something on the top of the cupboard, i reached up only to get a glimpse up her dress and she ... (286 words

told people i'm a virgin but now want to have sex with my boyfriend. should i tell him?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - im nearly 15 and havnt had sex yet. all my mates have and ive told them that i have to. a few guys have wanted to have sex with me but i have always backed down. im goin out with this dude. i love him and rather loose my virginity to him but he thinks im not a virgin. hes ... (93 words

should i listen to everyone else or do what i want to do?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i like his lad but i was seeing his mate about 2 months ago and he was seeing mine. i went out with him and he was nice but everyone thinks he is a player. should i listen to everyone else or do what i want to do? i just dont know who to believe. he asked me out and i said no.... (118 words

Do you think he is interested?

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I used to live near a guy until last year but he moved away. We would see each other quite often and things were flirty but no more than that. I saw him yesterday and he apologised for not saying goodbye before he left and how he had meant to call in for a coffee. I told... (107 words

I would like to try something different for a change.

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend loves hiking and camping, we go for weekends together but he likes to go on these week long walking holidays with his friends. When I suggest going on holiday abroad or trying anything new he doesn't seem interested. Where am I going wrong?... (47 words

SITE NEWS: We had over quarter of a million people visit the site over the past month!

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6 August 2007 (M - Just checking the site stats. We had another milestone... for the first time, in the past 30 days, we had over quarter of a million people visit the site... not 250,000 "hits" or "visits" but actual unique visitors! As counted by Google Analytics, we had 253,152 visito... (135 words

I need some space, how do i tell him this?

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - How do I let my boyfriend know that I need some breathing space without hurting his feelings. We have been dating for 3 weeks and he visits EVERY evening?... (30 words

Advisory: Getting suspicious messages in my dearcupid mailbox!

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6 August 2007 (M - Hi all, I just lately i have been retrieving some messages in my mail box which have been quite lenthy to say the least. In a nut shell the person is talking about vast sums of money being transfered to different accounts, and having to part with cash yourself at the ... (112 words

I can't get it right on top.

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ive been seeing my boyfriend for about two months now.. however when it comes to sex, he seems to be doing all the work. For some strange reason i just cant do it right on top. how and what do i do? I want him to enjoy it, he says he does but he doesnt make any noise or ... (71 words

Did we break up because, there is another girl or Is it because of another girl or he just felt it was time to move on?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my bf broke up a week ago, we were together for a year, we loved each other alot, i loved him more than he loved me, and we were two very different people, but we worked very well for a long time. Our relationship ended well, and he wanted us to still remain close by ... (256 words

How many days does it take to start my period after I've stopped taking the pill for this week?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've only just started taking the pill and have stopped to bring on my period for a week for the first time and was wondering how many days it takes to start my period after i'd stopped taking the pill for this week? i'm so worried that i havent started yet after 4 days of not ... (58 words

We get along great except, when we are out with friends! He ignores me...what can I do?

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi just wanted some advice from an outsider. I have been dating my boyfriend now for over 2 years. He is the best thing that has happened to me and we get on so well. We have great sex, a great laugh and can tell each other anything. The problem is whenever there is anyone else ... (162 words

My bf found out, I thought he was cheating with his exgf! Now he wants to talk..is this relationship salvageable?

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6 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I was convinced that my boyfrind had gone away for a few days with his ex. I snooped on him and all the evidence led me to same conclusion. He has made me feel very insecure about his long term ex eg. she doesn't know about me, he avoids places she frequents, he still has ... (234 words

Am I paying too much for these hair extensions?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey this might seem like a really weird question to ask on here, but im getting hair extensions soon for around 200, 250 pound. Im just wondering if any1 else has had hair extensions for a cheaper price and how good are they? Any help would be aprechiated. thnks xxxxxxxxxxx... (53 words

After 4 great weeks, he said he needed space, that we were moving too fast! Should I still contact him?

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6 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My 'boyfriend' and i were together for 4 amazing months, we got on so well and even though it all happened so fast he's works away so we only saw each other on weekends, but at the start he was more in to me than i was in to him, but 2 weeks ago he wrote me an email saying he ... (224 words

How do I break up with her, without hurting her?

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6 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have been with my gf for about 6 months and I want to break up with her for no reason but i dont want to hurt her feelings. How do I break up with her without hurting her feelings, so much?... (43 words

I'm 32 and in a dead end relationship. Should I go and and be with this 20 year old guy, who likes me?

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6 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - im 32 and have been in a relationship for 5 years. we have no children but have just bought a house 2gether. Our relationship has not been good for a long time but I've just carried on. Recently ive met a lad though a friend of mine hes only 20 but my feeling for him are so s... (139 words

Should I be settle for being his 'friend with benefits' or wait until he's ready to have a real relationship?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've met a guy through a friend of mine an known each other for quite a while now, i had friends over an he was one of them an i got quite drunk an told him a few times i like him....now the other day he told me a few things, one thing i didnt get but took it as he likes me, ... (222 words

In love with my Romanian online gf..how are we to ever going to get together?

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6 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Im an egyption guy single and looking for love. I had a chat with a romanian girl she is really a great girl after 2 days, i found my self in love with her but there is some things makes me cant go to romania and she do the same i dont know what can i do she is great and i ... (129 words

How do I tell my mum I'm not a virgin anymore?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - how do i tell my mum im not a virgen anymore? she thinks i am. and keep going on about how bad it is. but i want to tell her. i tel her everything. and i dont want her hating my bf. i want her to trust me still even though i did something i promissed i never would. thx ... (61 words

How can I make my boyfriend feel like I trust him?

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I just got done with my first year of college, and have been dating a really great guy for over 2 years. i truly believe i am supposed to be with him for the rest of my life. But before we started dating i had this other guy off and on in a casual or "talking" relationship he ... (208 words

I turned him down, now he's with someone else.

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6 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i really like this boy he is so nice and cute he liked me but i turned him down and i no he still likes me but i think he has a girl now and i am afraid of what my friends might say what sould i do????!!!!!!!... (48 words

I don't know how I would be able to deal without my boyfriend!

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6 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am 22, and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. During these 5 years, he has always lied to be about his “addiction” to weed and chewing tobacco. Before we started dating, he knew that i would not date someone who smoked etc…Everytime i would catch a tin, or a joint, we ... (465 words

We've traded our lovey-dovey affection for sex!

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6 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - here it is Ive been seeing this man for two months. The first month we had no sex, and I was trying to wait longer than that. I sort of tooted my horn so to speak about my values and how I really enjoyed the "getting to know you" stage. So anyway, this guy was constantly into ... (226 words

He can't shoot his load after he's gotten loaded at bars!

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Every time my boyfriend and I go out to a bar and he drinks a lot when we get home and are having sex he doesn't ejaculate. He stays hard and sometimes we have sex for hours but he never "cums." I always thought it was the opposite. Is it me? ... (51 words

Is this strange behavior, considering what she did while on vacation?

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6 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am 16 and my girlfriend (16) of 9 months now recently went on a a weeks trip with two of her friends. I trusted her fully with her friends as she was staying with her grandparents. All was well, when she got back I asked her how it went. I found out her two mates (who a... (409 words

He can't cum, even after an hour.

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What are the best styles to go for?

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Slept with the ex and all the old feelings have come flooding back!!!

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I think I love him but everyone says he is bad news! What would YOU do?

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6 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - Theres this boy i met a week ago but i already think i am in love. PLease help. I know he is bad news everyones warned me about him, even his cousin! But that if that isn't bad enough he is 15 an i am 11. I really like him, he is so funny, buff and nice an my hearts and mind is ... (76 words

Married for a year, no longer in love with my life. In love with someone else!

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I'm missing a person to love! When will I stop worrying?

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6 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and have a steady job in the military, I am attractive and down to earth! I do amazing things in life and love everyone....but for some reason i am missing something! A person to love!!! Why is it so important to find that? When will i stop worrying about ... (65 words

I've been dating him a year but where's all his respect gone?

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for the last past year and at first it was going well until he started treating me like his ex was treating him which was very disreapectful he stopped spending time with me and started being very judgemental, so now he has no respect for me and i ... (75 words

The love of my life broke up with me and wants to be friends!

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6 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend broke up with me after neary 2 years and he wants to be friends but im really in love with him and dont think i can stay sane and be friends with him, am i being immature? he is the love of my life and i havent even begun to cope with the break-up and unfortun... (209 words

My wife slept with my roomate 6 years ago!! How can I get her to tell me about it?

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6 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - I just found out that My wife slept with my roomate while we were just dating. It happened 2X after I graduated and they were still at school. It is 6 years later and she doesnt know that I know. How can I get her to tell me about it without asking? OR should I just be ... (71 words

I'm seperated from my wife - should I stop the porn and masturbating?

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