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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I just got done with my first year of college, and have been dating a really great guy for over 2 years. i truly believe i am supposed to be with him for the rest of my life. But before we started dating i had this other guy off and on in a casual or "talking" relationship he was a few years older than me but he lied non stop over everything even stupid stuff. ever since me and this guy broke it off i have been having trust issues with my new romeo. not to a point where i spy on him every where he goes, but where i ask alot of questions because i feel like i have to know everything. i am a very nosy person, and have been ever since i was very young. what can i do in order to make the love of my like feel like he is being trusted? because we have talked about it before over and over and we both say we will try harder. But i still believe that he thinks i still dont trust him. Also what can help me to not ask so many questions, so he wont feel like im keeping "tabs" on him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emmii  +, writes (8 August 2007):
I Know what you mean .... Your prob lies witht e trust , no relationship can be stable without any trust!
TYou have just gota explain to him that you do trust him , but bassed upon past experiences u find it hard to trust people , from past events etc , and sometimes it makes you think , well if hes like that why wont any other guy treat me in the same way ? Even though its a hard thing not to do you shudnt apply past experiences to the future ....
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