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How do I tell my mum I'm not a virgin anymore?

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Question - (6 August 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2007)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

how do i tell my mum im not a virgen anymore? she thinks i am. and keep going on about how bad it is. but i want to tell her. i tel her everything. and i dont want her hating my bf. i want her to trust me still even though i did something i promissed i never would. thx everyone.

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A female reader, puzzled Ireland +, writes (10 August 2007):

puzzled agony auntyour mam only doing this b/c she cares about u. if you want talk to your mam and tell her sit her down tell her how much you love your bf and that you have made the right disision, after all its your virginity no one elses to break, your mam will always love u no matter wat so remember that! hope i help

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (7 August 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntThen I would tell her that you've become sexually active and need her help and advice about birth control. She may be upset with your decision but at least she will know you are being responsible about it. She shouldn't get mad at your boyfriend since it takes two to tango. Unless he's a lot older than you, that might be a problem in her eyes, is he?

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A female reader, bovvalicious United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2007):

bovvalicious agony aunti think you should discuss with you mum losing your virginity and then say to her that you have that way you not really lieing and shes still trust you. but make sure she knows that it was a joint descision so she cant hate you bf.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007):

i want to tell my mum. i forgot to say that. i want her to help me to not get pregnant.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (6 August 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntYour virginity belonged to you, not your mom. You do not have to tell her unless you want to, it's your business. As long as you behave yourself and act responsibly she will still trust you. That promise was going to be broken sooner or later anyway.

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