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I want to kiss my best friend. Does this make me gay and how do I get her to kiss me?

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey! recently i have started to want to kiss my best friend but i dont know how to tell her and we both have boyfriends. I dont fancy her or have any feelings towards her i just want to kiss her and i dont know why. does this make me gay and how do i get her to kiss me? please ... (62 words

He asked me to do some work for him, but I forgot, and now he is so angry. I think this is unfair!

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20 August 2007 (F - Did I do something wrong? Last night my fiance and I talked on the phone and he wanted me to go in to his work for about two hours the next day to help out with some cleaning (he's owns his own business and was out of town). He only asked because he knew I wasn't working the ... (346 words

I slept with my ex (who has a girlfriend and a baby)... now I've found out I have genital warts - how can I tell him??

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i recently slept with my ex who has a girlfriend and a baby and i just found out i have genital warts. how can i tell him without people gettin hurt... (31 words

He wont introduce me to his family!

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20 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear All, Ihave been with my current boyfriend for almost 2yrs. I am 21 and he is almost 25. I have recently got back from a year abroad during which he waited for me. My problem is his family and how during this 2yr period I have never met them. His mum has a 10year alco... (253 words

He wants to stop the sex, why?

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20 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have a very good male friend who is going through a divorce. We talk on the phone all the time, and one evening he asked me over to his "new place". I went and we wound up having sex. A couple nights later we had sex again. It was fantastic!! He has made it clear to me that ... (214 words

My boyfriend is now friends with my ex f*** buddy!

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20 August 2007 (F - hmm sticky situation. My boyfriend has started talking to my ex fuk buddy and there getting along quite well. the thing is they both know stuff aobut me that if the other found out i could end up in a bit of a mess :/ i dont know what to do, help please? xx... (59 words

I have confidence issues.

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I Would Really Appreciate it if someone could pass over some advice ! I'm struggling greatly with my confidence and self esteem, i was bullied at school and struggle to find myself attractive or nice to be with, i have to be honest i do have a lot of friends but i still ... (251 words

I love this girl more than anything but feel my love is wasted...

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20 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hello, Anyone out there who can help? Recently my ex broke up with me, we had been together for 2.5 years had a great relationship. At the start she was absolutely besotted with me, and I took my time, let the relationship develop and fell in love. Now towards the end of the ... (514 words

Recently the boy I fancy accidently saw my pubes. He described them as being ''bristly''...

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I know this is really stupid but it is really getting to me. I am 15. Recently the boy I fancy accidently saw my pubes. He described them as being ''bristly'' and said that was ''not a good look for a girl''. I got really embarrassed as I did not understand what he meant by... (132 words

What do I do to make my husband pursue me more?

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20 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Well... my husband and I have been together for 5 years and we have been married for 1 year. We just recently had a baby boy (May 22, 2007). OK now for the question.... it seems as though I am ALWAYS the one that wants to be intimate. I am ALWAYS making the effort to let him ... (96 words

Do I have sex with him and take things slow or put it off until my past has faded?

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm almost 15 and my boyfriend is 16 next month. I have been in a loving relationship with him for 15 months now. I love and trust him with every fibre of my being! We have had a 'sexual' relationship for about 10 months - by 'sexual' I mean foreplay. We have mutually ... (357 words

Should I tell my boyfriend when a guy asks me for my phone number?

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and I wanna be faithful to him. I tell him when boys ask for my number. Yesterday, he acted weird, I didn't know why, until he told me that 'a boyfriend doesn't wanna know if his girlfriend's are getting numbers' well.. I just wanted him to know so he won't ... (74 words

What men find so interesting about spending hour after hour, night after night, at the pub?

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi. This is one for the men really. My female friend asked me what men find so interesting about spending hour after hour, night after night, at the pub? Are they looking for opportunities to be unfaithful? Perhaps some guys could answer this for me. My friend is really ... (354 words

Is the old saying true??? "Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?"

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?!? Help! My boyfriend and I recently got back together after being broke up for several months! I have a really difficult situation... I was best friends with his sister for 2 years of highschool! She would always tell me that he was a pla... (427 words

He says I make him much happier than his ex but why would he want to meet her??

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I've been with my boyfriend about 4 months now, his ex of 2 years broke up with him 11 months ago, and broke his heart and he has always said that he hated her, however, he recently told me that a couple of weeks back when I was on holiday, she text him saying do you want ... (137 words

He keeps pressuring me to give him a blowjob and I don't want to!

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is two years older than me and has had a lot of sexual experience, whereas I have had none. He keeps pressuring me into giving him a blowjob but I don't want to. I don't know how to tell him to stop pressuring me and will he think less of me for saying so?... (56 words

Him and I get on great as friends but SHE keeps getting in the way!

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and he is lovley. However, before me, he had a crush on his 'best girl mate'. However his friend ended up getting together with her, so obviously it was forgotten. They are still 'best friends'. When me and him are together all ... (149 words

How do I get over it and better handle the time apart?

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20 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost three years. We both went to college, and are now 4 hours apart. We will get to see each other just about every two weeks. Since we split for college (4 days ago) I have been going crazy, I just can't stand the time apart, I ... (129 words

I have not told her how I feel because I'm too frightened of losing her.

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20 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I know this girl who I am in love with but I have not told her how I feel because she already has a guy who she is moving in with but he is married. I have not told her how I feel because I'm too frightened of losing her. please respond soon thanks ... (57 words

Will I gain his trust, what should I do, I love my husband and want things to work?

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20 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My husband has been using sex lines, we haven't even been married a year! but have been together 9 years. I feel so betrayed. I'm not unadventurous and we have always had a good sex life. Like I said I just feel so hurt, Not by the act itself but all the lies. He ran up a £300+ ... (140 words

Why does she not want sex so much? Do I just don't do it for her any more?

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20 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Ok, I'll get right to the point. I've been with my girlfriend over 8 months now, and in the beginning we had sex almost every night. Sometimes I'd initiate it, sometimes she would. Sometimes she'd want it so bad she'd stop me from falling asleep. She'd even whisper that she ... (184 words

Feels like my mum hates me.

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm only 14. my mum and i had recently had an argument (we'd always have these things) about who's doing the washing and sweeping, unfortunately i was told to do the washing but my washing skills aren't that real good so i said i wanted to do sweeping instead. my mum shouted at ... (382 words

There is a serious lack of communication.

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20 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey.. The way my boyfriend has been behaving lately makes me feel very very insecure, but he still tries to give the picture of normality all the time. basically, we communicate less now than we used to before, but its been decreasing gradually, not suddenly, and whe... (402 words

I think they are having text sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

20 August 2007 (F age - Hi I've been with my partner for 3 years ( started living together early this year)He's been married before ( she left him) and lived with another girl for 2 years . We have so much in common in every aspect of our lives. We are planning to buy a house together early n... (336 words

We argue all the time but i love him.

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20 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok, iv been with my boyfriend for nearly four years, he is a few years older than me, im 20 and he is 24. the first 2 years we were together were brillant, we had such a good time and had a healthy sex life. We decided to move in togeher, which was really good for the first few ... (229 words

Are we using each other?

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Please a man's point of view I have a situation that is forever nagging at me. The man i love is married. We were friends and dated before he got married. It did not work out because we were neither emotionally ready for a relationship. When he found out that i was pregnant h... (253 words

I want to go on the pill to help with me periods but i'm only 12.

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20 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi ya how do you ask your mum to go on the pill as im only 12 i have no intencion in having sex its just when im on im on heavy plz halp... (34 words

I'm a girl of 18 and the boy i like is 14.

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old girl who likes a 14 year old boy. Is that allright and what should I do? I really like him....... (26 words

Do dildo's hurt?

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hiya I really need your help I get orgasmic when i rub my pussy but i am too scared to use a dildo up me does it hurt and and how can i masterbate so i can orgasm good Thanks Lou... (52 words

Who do I choose, the current boyfriend or the ex?

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I started seeing my current boyfriend right after my last relationship ended (within a few weeks). The prior BF and I had been together for 5 years. Our relationship ended due to distance. However, I now live and completely have a life with my new BF. But recently I came ... (138 words

He thinks we will not get the money back.

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My uncle is really ill in america, and so my mom asked to borrow money from me and my boyfriend so she could go over and help, but my boyfriend is really annoyed and says we needed the money more i dont know how to console him because he thinks we are not going to get the money ... (64 words

His mates are horrible to me when they come round.

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriends friends come round our house every sunday, but when they do they are really horrible to me and make fun of me, my boyfriend just says there joking and not to worry, but it really upsets me, i was so upset last sunday that i made my self sick, and cried alone in ... (68 words

He says he loves both of us, i'm not sure whether to continue.

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am in love with a guy who loves me too but the problem is that he has a girlfriend who is in university at the moment and she has been gone for 3 years. He says he loves both of us and we spend a lot of time togther. Am so confused i don't know whether i should go on with ... (66 words

Why is he getting in a strop when i suggest earning more money?

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend live together, but not in our own place, when i suggest getting an extra job he goes in a strop and when i ask him why he just says he is fine why doesnt he want me to get a job?... (45 words

From talking to her friend it looks as though she wants to stay in touch.

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20 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi all. Something troubles me. *For those of you who don't know my situation, go to my profile, it explains everything there* So, as you know, me and my long distance girlfriend of 2 years broke up about 2 months ago, and within the past couple of days, something has ha... (392 words

Will the weight i have gained make him leave me?

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have put on weight recently and dont let my boyfriend see me completly naked and he is getting upset about it, will he get bored and move on?... (29 words

Is he just trying to protect me??

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend has had lots of past sexual relationships, however he is my first, and i feel i am a disappointment to him. He tells me he loves me and not to worry, that he doesnt remember them compared to me but is he just trying to protect me?... (49 words

Is he having second thoughts about us??

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I was doing a quiz in a magazine about falling in love, and asked my boyfriend how many times he has been in love, and said he was deeply in love with his ex, and they were engaged, he had told me before that it was a joke engagement, but now says he said that so as not to hurt ... (157 words

Is there a problem if hes honest with me??

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi im 17 and a half years old. I have met this bloke of the internet. He told me everything about himself kids partner the whole lot even the trouble with the law. I trust him, ive met him. Hes so nice loving all the good things. I got so wound up with ghaving him near and he ... (80 words

I love him so much but need more from him!

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20 August 2007 (F - Hi! My boyfriend and I have been together for 21 months and we have been living together for 19 of them..(some might say it was too soon and I do agree but what's done is done..)..we're both in university..i'm 24, he's 20. We've been having a lot of fights lately..and some... (370 words

What are the side effects of going on the pill?

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - can anyone tell me the side effects [if any] of going on the pill please??? Just out of curiosity Thanks xxxx... (30 words

Will eating only 2 apples a day make me lose weight quickly?6

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey.. ok well i'm planning to lose weight..So i'm going to eat two apples a day and that's it..iv done this now for 1 day..and I no that i'm going keep on doing it..how long will it take like before the weight all drops off?? i'm 9 stone and I hate my body :| please answer ... (66 words

We're now going to colleges in different states, any advice to help make it work?

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Typical scenario: my boyfriend and I are high school sweat hearts and have been together for two years. Now we are both going to different colleges in different states. We both are still in love but realize that our decision to stay together is going to make life difficult. I'm ... (124 words

I have a hard time letting him go because I fear losing him forever

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My problem is that i have a hard time letting go. I have been with my boyfriend for five years and for the last year or so things have been missing (especially intimacy). I love him and he is wonderful but I think I need to end things for a while, which scares me because i ... (97 words

She moved to another country for me, but now it's not working out so well

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20 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I started dating at 21, and moved in together a year later. We lived toghether during out last year at University. We're now 25 and have been going out for four years. For the first 3 years we were very close. Nothing could come between us. We both steered our ... (427 words

How can I convince my mom to let me cut my hair?

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi i am 14 years old and i really want to cut my hair in a long bob i asked my mom she said no and she said i am not having you cry for the next month my sister said to my mom let her have it how she wants if she doesnt like it its her own fault. than my mom just didnt say ... (98 words

I love my boyfriend, but every day I fall harder for this girl

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i'm 19 years old. i've been dating my boyfriend for a year, and we live together. everything was going great until recently when i developed a crush on this girl that me and my boyfriend both work with. she is my friend as well as his. everybody believes her to be a lesbian, ... (197 words

Is it okay for him to say I have to stay home when he goes out by himself all the time??

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20 August 2007 (F - Who is in the wrong? My fiance is gone for a week and so I went out to a bar last night by myself. He always goes to bars by himself, but yet he got really mad at me. He said that he didn't want to be with a girl who does that. He told me to apologize and say I won't do it ... (291 words

She is worried about leaving him.

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20 August 2007 (M age - I am in a relationship with a married woman, S, who is deeply unhappy, we have been seeing each other for 18months when time and family allow. I am seperated with two children and she has two children. Her husband has had three affairs prior to our meeting and on one occasion ... (252 words

She has told me she does not mind if i find it elsewhere.

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20 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend has gave me "permission" to sleep about, is this normal? I have been with my partner for 4 years and we have 1 daughter and have been living with each other for 3 years. Now our sex life was fantastic before our daughter came along, now it can be once in a blu... (276 words

I think i will let her down.

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20 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Im am 16 years old and i only have a 5in penis and i want to go out with this girl and i no she wants me but i dont want to go out with her because i no she will want to have sex and i dont want to let her down! wat do i do?... (57 words

Advice on ovulation please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

20 August 2007 (F - Hi guys, Thanks for the answers on the amusement rides another one for my friend just wondered if you could help, she has worked out the time of the month when she should be ovulating, has done ovulation tests for the last three days and no sign of anything yet. Has anyone ovu... (71 words

On top.....

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - need advice for going on top during sex how to be goods and how to do it??... (17 words

Should i be worried about his friendship with his ex?

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm finding it hard to deal with my fiances relationship with his ex girlfriend. Their breakup was amicable and they are still friends, she lives in another country and doesn't come over here very often. I feel really insecure because she was the love of his life and he still ... (91 words

We have split up because of my son.

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20 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - Hi All, New to the site. I have a problem. Basically I love my wife very very much we have been married about 5 years and it is my second marriage. Everything was great until xmas. My first wife threw my eldest son out [aged 14] and I agreed he could come and live with us, my... (215 words

He said he did not know.

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - i have been with a guy for over 5 years, and i think that i know him, But the other night he went out with his friend and boss from work. I was told that it was his boss's birthday and they were going out for his birthday with blokes from work and would i be the taxi, w... (265 words

Do you play these sort of games if you are in love?

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Is it wrong for my boyfriend to deliberately want to hurt me? Last week we had a row cos i'd asked him to go out but he said he was too tired only to find out that at 11pm he was heading out with his mates. I felt hurt and argued with him and he hung up on me. I sent text that ... (201 words

How do you go from being mates, to being a couple?

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi i would like to know how to go from being a guys mate to dating, i believe he likes me as we've become close over the past few weeks. We are good friends so i dont want to be so upfront that we couldn't stay friends if i've read the signs wrong. ... (53 words

I have morning sickness and i'm scared.

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20 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - i am 12 years old. and i lost my virginity about a week ago. i have morning sickness i have strange cravings for pickles before i go to bed. but it may just be bkuz of my diet but i am scared.. wait no REALLY REALLY REALLY SUPER DUPER SCARED!!! -Allie... (55 words

How do women have sex?

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm not a lesbian or anything but i just wondered, how do two women have sex with one another?... (19 words

Is being pregnant a possibility here?

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay my boyfriend came and he out his hand down his pants, and than he fingered me.. Is being pregnant a possibility?... (22 words

I am 18 and have never had a proper girlfriend

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20 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm 18 and have never had a proper girlfriend despite being athletic, funny and confident when talking to them. I have no real problems "getting off" with girls in clubs etc but can't transfer that to the "real world". Is this normal and what can I do about it?... (51 words

I broke up with him, but I really want to get back together

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20 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hello all! I dumped my boyfriend just over a week ago i really love him but felt it was the right thing to do! He isnt ready to settle down yet and that is what i wanted! I still really love him and in the time i have been apart from him i have realised that settling d... (193 words

I am 18 and like a 15 year old

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20 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - i'm 18 and i have this crush on a 15-year-old girl. she lives across the street from me since she was in first grade. I really like her. no, i'm not sexually attracted to her; i will never harm or insult her by any means. it's just that she's so cute. she has a cheerful and ... (98 words

My fiancee is addicted to porn!

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a previous relationship which ended badly, leaving me insecure about my looks and myself. I gradually got over this and have built up my self esteem. A couple of years ago I got into a relationship with a fantastic guy, with 1 flaw. He is addicted to porn. I ... (205 words

We want to lose our virginity, but couldnt get it in

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - were both virgins and we love each other very deeply weve been together a long time we want to have sex but he couldnt get in i tried relaxing i thought i was calm he soothed me the whole time he was right on top of it but he doesnt want to hurt me by just shoving it in and ... (75 words

He wants me to move to Melborne to be with him, but I dont know

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20 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend emigrated back in March to Melbourne Australia as he had planned - with few possessions he simply packed a suitcase. He has a job now and is renting a small house. Now he wants me to move out with him and has started to dream about our life together out there but ... (395 words

Why does he come so fast during sex?

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20 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - Well..... this question is a bit upsetting to me and I really want to know why my man has this problem and how can help him over come this Here goes, my man and I enjoy having sex and all but he comes 2 fast like in under 2 minutes. Now orally we're good but once its in its ... (116 words

I'm feeling really down. Does anyone have tips on how to get a date?

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20 August 2007 (M age - Dear Cupid, For the last few weeks, I have not been able to show emotion. I seem to be failing in my attempts to get licensed top practice Real Estate, seem to be failing my church, also failing to obtain that which has been missing for nearly 50 years-and that is a fir... (572 words

How do I tell him that I want to move closer? without freaking him out?

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been good friends for a year and a half and have been dating seriously for 3 months. I'm 25, out of college with a full-time job and he's 24, in grad school (and won't finish for a year and a half--he can't transfer). We live 2,000 miles apart and can ... (269 words

I don't know who to choose!

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend broke up..we were on a break for about 3 months.and even though he dated a couple of girls and lied to me saying he didn't..I still forgave him because i was dating other guys also..but I recently started talking to sum guy which I find really great..but i ... (166 words

He has double standards! What do I do?

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20 August 2007 (F - What is wrong with me? My fiance is on a trip for a week without me by himself, and goes to bars/dance clubs by himself which bothers me. Yet, if I go to bars by myself he thinks it's weird. I hate the double standard, but I don't have the guts to tell him I don't like him ... (221 words

I'm scared to ask this guy out online. Any tips?

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20 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - i am 11 years old fat and ugly. my best friend introduced me to this guy over msn and i really like him but he never saw me and I keep having dreams of me kissing him. i want to ask him out but im worried that once he sees me he wont like me any more. I want to ask him to hang ... (88 words

Tips on oral sex please?

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20 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - ok so i need some tips on going down on a girl. i mean like something she will never forget.any tips?... (21 words

Having serious marriage problems. Should I stay or should I go?

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20 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have been married for 9 years, and me and my wife have lost connection physically and emotionally. We have tried professional help, but it doesn't seem to work. We have 2 children and I don't want to leave them behind, but I have been trying to get our relationship working ... (118 words

Why do I feel guilty after orgasm?

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20 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and I have been with my girl friend for 7 years. Every time we have sex and I orgasm I feel guilty after words. Every time I make myself orgasm I feel guilty. What is wrong with me?... (45 words

I'm sleeping with both my child's mother and an old high school friend! What should I do?

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20 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have a major problem. I have two women that love me and I feel the same to both of them my problem is one of them is my child's mother and the other is a old high school friend I have been sexually active with both of them which I know is wrong. the old high school friend ... (90 words

My girlfriend broke up with me because she said I was moving too fast

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20 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - My Ex-Girlfriend brokeup with me becuase she said I am moving to fast when she is the one who kissed me first she says she still loves me and cares about me but she don't show it at all, according to her mom she does have alot of feelings for me..So I believe it....We sometimes ... (84 words

He mistreated me so much, so why cant I get over him?

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20 August 2007 (F - for the last year i have been in the relationship from hell. i love him dearly and at times i really thought he was the one (cliched though that is) but i have to admit he is not a good guy, i recently found out he has been seeing someone else for the full year i have been with ... (344 words

My online interest is kinda chubby and I am not sure how I feel about that

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20 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I've been talking to this girl over the internet. She seems like a really nice person, and we get along.. great to be honest. I recently saw photos of her. She looked quite nice, but then I saw a few more that she hadn't posed for. Turns out she is.. fairly chubby. Her arms ... (162 words

Can he tell if I am good or bad in bed if I am on the bottom?

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20 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have only just started to have sex...and my Bfs always on top because i want him to be at the moment..can he still tell if im shit in bed if im on bottom!? as he does most of the work... (41 words

My boyfriend is going on a camping trip and I would like to join him

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have just found out that my boyfriend's best friend has planned a camping trip and I don't think my boyfriend knows that I know. My boyfriend normally goes every year (it's on different dates each time) but we had split up for a year and have not long got back together. We ... (195 words

My 12 year old daughter is viewing graphic porn!

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20 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - My 12 year old daughter looks at porn on the internet. I already talked to her about it. But I'm worried. She's been going on some really nasty sites. Sites that use the F word, P word, and c word. She's been going on quite alot of them to. She does a pretty good job of hiding ... (83 words

My professor winks at me

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20 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hello! So there is this professor who started winking at me a couple of months ago. The first time he winked i was with a friend of mine so i didn't give any attention to that. I thought it was his "way' of saying hello. The next day he winked again but i was again wi... (303 words

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