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writes:My second question of the day...I'm new here!For the past year, I have been seperated from my wife, and we are in the process of getting a divorce.Even before that started, I have had a habit of looking at porn--and masturbating to it--from time to time. However, now I spend lots more time surfing porn sites, looking at the images, and jerking off--sometimes for as much as 2-3 hours at a time. The only time I really feel o.k. is when I'm masturbating or working! I've also done phone sex. I've even been trying to make contact with women online so I can do this with someone else!Since none of you know me, please tell me honestly--Should I just force myself to stop the porn and the masturbating? Am I losing it?
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reader, Unique1 +, writes (6 August 2007):
I think that you might have a problem. Why did you start it back when u two werent separated? Did you not have enough sex? I think that there is a problem with that. I never get why are guys into it so much...If you loved your wife and cared so much about her why werent you desiring, wanting her?Why were you even thinking about porn when u had her...unless she werent satifying you....
Right now, 2-3 hours is lil too much.... You might be getting addicted. If your single with high sex drive, it is reasonable if you did it..i'd say every other day.... but but few hours a day is just too much...
That's my opinion...
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 No of course your not losing it. There is nothing wrong with what you're doing, UNLESS its dominating your life. Some poeple drink when they're not happy, you masterbate to porn to excess!Do you go out socialising? any clubs or anything? Have many friends?You need to fill your time up a bit more with other stuff.Yu dont have to give that up completely, lots of guys do it! and girls i expect. Just try and find other things to do too.Nothing wrong with meeting someone else, just dont try getting her to perform over the phone before you have even met, you will scare her off i expect!Good luckC xxxxx
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