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writes:I am 22 years old and have a steady job in the military, I am attractive and down to earth! I do amazing things in life and love everyone....but for some reason i am missing something! A person to love!!! Why is it so important to find that? When will i stop worrying about finding the right person to marry and have a family with?
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reader, Beckto +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Just a brief comment, since the other posters seem to have it right:
I have always found, the moment you stop worrying about it, someone comes along.
Sometimes we inadvertently put so much pressure on ourselves, a person who might be interested in us senses that pressure, and they split before anything can happen!
When I found my future husband, I had just sworn off men. Shake off the worry and pressure, and see what happens. Happy, worry-free people are usually attracted to other happy, worry-free people.
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reader, Unique1 +, writes (6 August 2007):
We are girls and we do that.... You probably have friends that are married or are thinking about it and it makes you think abou it and want it even more. Maybe your craving to love and be loved because you know its beautiful thing and would make you feel complete. I've been in a 2 yr. relationship (not the best one because we had many silly arguments before and sometimes now) but when my cousin said she was getting married- for a moment i found myself almost "jealous" and realized i wanted the same. It is every girl's dream to love, be loved and have family. If your coming from traditional background, where your parents got married young and lived happly-you will want it even more...Your worrying can come from many ways, I dont know much about you so i can't really tell.However, try not to worry about it too much because it doesnt happen over night. When its time you will meet that special one and feel it with your heart and soul. Until than i guess you, me and everyone else just have to take life for what it is at the moment....
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