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I can't get it right on top.

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Question - (6 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ive been seeing my boyfriend for about two months now.. however when it comes to sex, he seems to be doing all the work. For some strange reason i just cant do it right on top. how and what do i do? I want him to enjoy it, he says he does but he doesnt make any noise or anything whilst we do do it. any comments very much appreciated.

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2007):

duskyrowe agony auntRelax if your man says he enjoying it, you must be doing something right. Tell each other what turns you on, he will love you for it, it shows you are taking an interest and you are not laying there thinking of England.

Here is a tip for when next time you are striding your lover, place a cushion under the small of his back this raises his pelvis and gives you deep penetration. Then gyrate and thrust similtaniously,hopefully this will feel good for the both of you. Buy a good sex manual, there are loads available in good book stores, don't be embarassed,the person behind the counter not gonna judge you,they have better things to think about like what are they gonna cook for tea LOL. Read this with your lover and take it from there. Maybe the next time I hear from you you will make Madonna look like a nun by having the time of your life between the sheets with your man . Good luck and let me know what happens next. OK ?

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A female reader, kristinakutie United States +, writes (6 August 2007):

kristinakutie agony auntawh well you could maybe well.. hmm

sit on his lap and just kind of move up and down start out slowly but then you know start to go faster.. and kinda lean back while you are on top.. it alows him to play with you clit too.. uhm i hope that kind of helps you =/ good luck =]

~kristina

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2007):

flower girl agony auntIf he says it's good just accept that babe, i never thought i was getting it right but if they keep on asking you you are obviously doing something right.

Take care and enjoy.xx.

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A male reader, PAeng United States +, writes (6 August 2007):

As a guy, when it is in, it is good. You are on top for you. figure out what you like and do that. Chances are he will like what you are doing. I dont make much noise during sex and my wife asked me about why I didnt. Sometimes when we are doing something that feels a little better, I just give out a few moans for her. Maybe when you are on top and start moving around ask him if he likes it when you do that.

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