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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

She feels great shame for her past and I just want her to love herself! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - hi, ive posted before about an issue with this girl. i love her so much and its really upsetting me now. long story short we were first loves, she cheated on me pretty bad, it hurt [still kinda does]and recently admitted how we felt for one another and started dating again.sh... (835 words)

Have i been broken in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Iv'e Had Sex...But I didnt Bleed...I Just Wanted To Know...Weather Or Not I Have Been 'broke in'...Thank You... (18 words)

Is this age difference wrong? She's 17 and wants us to have sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Im 26 and a girl I have known who is 17 has let me know she is interested in me and wants to have sex! I told her she was too young and my friends and family would kill me but she said 'can you not keep a secret?' Im meeting her on Friday nite do you think the age... (71 words)

Am I just going to be his plaything??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story, met a great guy, known him for 6 months + I have 3 kids from previous marriage. About 3 weeks ago he told me he does not think he can ever see himself living with me and my kids,he was not being nasty he is just not sure he could give up his space that way. H... (128 words)

My partner is unwilling to stand up to her difficult daughter!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my partner for about 5 years now and her daughter has always been a bit off. About eighteen months ago without a word of explanation she stopped talking to us (her mother and myself) and prevented her from having any contact with her grandchildren; i... (197 words)

She's married, I'm a straight female, but I can't get a 'prior' kissing incident with her, out of my head!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Right im 24 f and i have the best mate ever she is 37 dead down to earth easyin goin funny and SEXY.. now that the problem im straight and she is married but last year we kiss-snog it were quick but never been meantions again and i cant get her out of my head times we go out ... (108 words)

My bf's friend is scummy and keeps hitting on me! How can I make this stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. His best friend, someone he's known since he was little, will not stop hitting on me. He openly asks to have sex with me, asks to see me naked, and to have threesomes with his girlfriend -- and he does all of this in ... (135 words)

He's getting married to someone else..Kicking myself for not telling him how I feel for him! How can I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - A few years back my best friend proposed to me. At that time,I did not feel anything. But some time in the last year or so, I believe I have fallen for him. Just when I wanted to tell him, he informed me that he is getting married. Now I am devastated. I am kicking myself for ... (110 words)

I've lost the love of my life... !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - ive lost the love of my life and have no one to talk to we did everything together we even said tht we wanted to spend the rest of our lifes together then i the last night i saw her we said our goodbyes and we both said love u and she said she wanted to stay at home alone ... (246 words)

I;m going to uni this fall and can't handle LD relationships! Should I let him go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been living with my boyfriend for 3 months. i think he is the one but i wanna go to uni n this means breaking up. i cant deal with a long distance relationship. help me what do i do?... (42 words)

Anyone have experience of burns?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - does anyone have any experience of burns, 3 wks ago today i spilt hot oil from the cooker over my foot, the worst damage was about anf inch and half circle just b4 my toes,i seem to be getting lots of conflicting advice from the doctors, they where putting on a dry dressing, a ... (178 words)

IS my ex bf still obsessed with me, as my friends pointed out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey hey everyone :) I'm pretty new to this, and hopefully you can help me out. I is a tiny lil bit freaked out, and I need your advice on this. It's really gettin stuck in my head and I'm tired of it... Ok so he dumped me over a couple of months ago, with lies. Fine.... (778 words)

After 5 years, last night he said he loved me, while having sex, for the first time ever! Where did that come from?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! How is everyone today? Okay, I have a question for you all, being I am unable to find an answer no matter where I go or who I ask. So, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly five years now. We were more like best bed buddies up until one year ago. And although we love each ... (272 words)

Am I gay, straight, or just gender confused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm having a bit of a tough time. I feel attracted to guys physically and emotionally, but since I was 5 I've imagined dating girls. I was a bit of a tomboy and use to pretend to be a boy. Recently I've been attracted to one girl in particular. So am I gay, straight or ... (67 words)

Is my bf's depression because of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, please help' I been with my bf for the last 3 years now' but 2 months ago he seemed to change, he said he was depressed and I really don't know how to deal with this. I miss him the way he is very much. but I cant force him to be the same if he said he is really ... (128 words)

I'm unhappy! Do I lie to myself and stay with him or let him go?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i have been in a relationship for ten months with my current boyfriend and i am not sure if i should let him go or keep him around and lie to myself that im happy and everything will get better later on because right now i am very unhappy and i dont know what to do anymore it ... (145 words)

I can't get in touch with him after I confronted him about his infidelity. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating a guy for about 8 months, during the 4th month of our relationship I found out that he had a girlfriend. I continued dating him, since he said that it was not anything serious with him and the other girl. Well, recently his girlfriend sent me a text message ... (119 words)

I don't know if I can cope with her out of my life for that long. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Please help, i have been seeing my girlfriend for just short of a year now and i see her nearly every day but for the past few weeks she's been talking about moving away to university. She called me the other day and told me that she has enrolled but would still like our ... (131 words)

Should we tell mum i'm pregnant over dinner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Should me and my boyfriend tell my mom im pregnant over dinner? we really need to tell her and soon because its really heavy on my heart that im keeping this from her. we arent all that close but she is still my mother. i expect for her to understand and be supportive after it ... (87 words)

Can a period change dates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - About a week ago my boyfriend and i had sex and i usually have my period during the first two weeks of the month and i still havent had it. We used protection and he still did not have a orgasm inside of me. I have had my period change dates frequently and i am wondering could ... (64 words)

I'm heavier than my friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hey okay my problem is:: im a county swimmer, and pretty good runner (run for sot'on) soo get a lot of exercise, but im still 9.5 stone an really want to loose a bit of weight, and fat around my tummy and legs. i know people say muscle weighs more than fat, but im still so ... (83 words)

Is my ex just using me to pass time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my ex has been ringing me alot over this past week and a half, and being really friendly. It was me that would always contact him 1st, but i have stoped now, he always rings me in the morning and rings me quite a few times in the day. He rang me Sat ,Sun , Mon , tues and ... (217 words)

I've changed and nobody understands why.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Ever since I have come back from being away for 2 months, although I knew things would have changed I didnt expect to feel like this. I feel like Im a different person and not many people seem to understand that I am different now. I am more confident since Ive been back and... (198 words)

Mum and I are not getting Along.!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 275 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My mum and I are ot getting along at all. I dont know what to do any more. I am 21, my bro is 4yrs younger and my older sis is 2yrs. I help around the house etc as much as I can, more than my siblings. My mum is on her own and I seem to get the brunt end of it. I get told I ... (138 words)

I'm 2 months pregnant but I don't know if the baby I am carrying is my fiancee's or secret lover's!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been cheating on my fiance of 1 year with a man who is currently married to a friend of the family. They have been married for 10 years and have 2 kids. I had a baby on Jan. 10th and I don't really know who fathered my child. Is it my fiance or my secret lover? I'm 2 ... (119 words)

Jumping straight into a relationship after a fifteen year one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I just wanted to know opinions on a partner breaking off a long term relationship (15 yrs +) to immediately start a new relationship, thats if you were cheating. What are the pros and cons of starting such a relationship? ... (40 words)

Our sex life has been boring since he got out of jail; any tips to liven things up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My husband had been in prison for 9 months. He recently got out in June. We've had sex over 60 times since he got out and now its just boring. Can you all give me some ideas that might excite our sex life?... (43 words)

I'm married and have been seeing a married woman; we know it's wrong but we're not happy in our marriages

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 32 year old male and i have been married for seven years and have a son. Like all marriages we have had our ups and downs but i feel that my feelings for my wife are not as strong as they should be. Over the past two years i have developed very strong feelings for ... (124 words)

My girlfriend dumped me but she's still upset and down; doesn't that mean she loves me, despite what she says?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - just split up with my girl of 2 years and i worship the ground she walks on we split up coz she sed she didnt love me anymore ,but theres a guy at her work who she talks about she said she doesnt fancy him justs likes his pesonality im realy torn up about this i want her back ... (84 words)

We're getting married but I'm no longer sure how I feel

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - ive been with my partner for 3 years we have 2 kids and are getting married next year.he is 39 and im 22. he only wants to sleep with me when he wants. one minute he will be all over me then next minute he will be distanced.i love him but i dont how i feel anymore.can u help me... (60 words)

I want to make him feel appreciated without all that slushy romantic stuff

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am just wondering what can I do to make my b.f. know he's appreciated without actually telling him (he hates romantic crap and so do I) He has intimacy issues, and I do too. I am fine with this. But what can I do that isn't over the top? I am a stay at home mom and he works ... (95 words)

Lack of sex and she is in contact with her ex's.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok, this is a bit of detailed problem, but bear with me, I feel if i set the scene a little it will give the scope for better advice (well I hope because I'm really at my wit's end). I've been seeing a girl since last september when we started in the same training group f... (900 words)

My boyfriend is very skinny and I feel uncomfortable with my body when we're fooling around

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Right well... Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months now and it troubles me how thin he is. I love him for who he is but because I myself have a slight weight problem, it makes me feel bad. He's not anorexic and I'm not obese but everytime we do stuff and I see ... (132 words)

She's an emotional mess, torn between her boyfriend and I; what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, all. Just some advice needed before i go crazy. Been involved in an emotional/sexual affair with someone i became friends with at work. She wouldnt get that way involved for months but we did and it was like we were in a bubble - amazing for both of us. This has lasted on ... (678 words)

My friend gave me oral sex and I returned the favour; does this make me a lesbian?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i'm not too sure whether i'm a lesbian or not because i slept around my friends house the other night. we had to sleep in the same bed as there wasn't anywhere else to sleep and we both slept naked. about an hour after we'd gone to bed, i got woken up by her doing oral sex o... (159 words)

I wanted my best friend but he said it wasn't an option, so I started dating a great guy; my friend got jealous and now I'm dating him but I have regrets

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - So my best friend and I have been dancing around a relationship for over a 1 year. We both felt the same way about each other, but he repeatedly told me that nothing more would ever come about. So, after many conversation and agonizing nights I decided to start to date other ... (238 words)

How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?... (15 words)

My friends are being really bitchy and it's driving me mad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

- Im a teen and im really upset because recantly my friends are being bitches. One keeps snapping at me and saying horrible things. The other slags me off behind my back. Another makes arguments when theres no need to. IM FED UP! what should I do?... (46 words)

When he asks why we're together or why I love him, I never know what to say

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i want to know how to communicate with your lover, when ever he talks about why you love him or why we are in to relationship. i cant answer and he looks like am not serious. i want to know how to alway talk with him. thanks... (49 words)

SITE NEWS: Please beware of private messages from strangers asking for money or promising riches!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

- Hi everyone We've had a couple of scammers posting private mails through the site. Please everyone use your common sense and keep yourself safe. This goes for all sites, not just this one! * Never give anyone your phone number or home email address through the s... (207 words)

My baby girl came into bed with me after being terrified of noisy fireworks; now she won't go back to her cot

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm happily married with 2 kids. One is 17 and the other is 18months both girls. Well recently shes been sleeping with us. i know this may not sound like a big issue but to say shes that young shes growing up fast and is one of these babies that like to be there and she seem ... (555 words)

I think I love my friend; am I taking advantage of our closeness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey okay well iv always been really really close to this guy, he's my best friend ever and i love him to peices. We always mess about together and he is always there for me and will hold my hand and hug me etc. but now i feel i love him more help ?! Also am i taking advantag... (70 words)

My penis curves to one side, what can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a problem with my penis, it bends to the left when it is erect. It takes the form of a banana. I have had this problem for as long as I could remember please help. ... (41 words)

I make all the effort with our long distance relationship while he makes next to none

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

- i feel like im putting all the effort into the communication side of my long distance realtionship and not getting anything back i always has to send the texts first and the only texts i recieve are replies(the texts from him are all the same) my bf claims he cant afford to p... (209 words)

There's an 8 year old boy next door to me and he's emotionally neglected and I hear screaming; what can I do to help him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i know this is not love or reletionship advice but i need to know what ppl think i have no where eles to turn. I need real help the boy next door well i know he is not treated right not hit bbut shout at alot and i never see him have hugs or kisses and i hear loud screems. I ... (138 words)

I want to be his friend; how do I go about it without making him think I want more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - ok there is a guy i see 3 times a week as we both live and work in the same area. we always smile and say hi but thats it i would really like to become friends with this guy i am new to the area and think he seems like the sort of person id spend time with but how do we become ... (98 words)

He's gotten obsessed with making me squirt (and it's making me sore)...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH My Boyfriend just figured out how to make me squirt, but now hes addicted!!!The problem is :S it doesnt even feel as amazing as people set it out to be. Hes been trying too hard lately to make me do it and then one time he even made me.... (74 words)

We're both dating other people but still want each other; should we cheat on our partners?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I have been knowing a boy for about 5 years. We used to like each other but then went different ways. He now has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. We still like each other so he asked me to cheat on my boyfriend with him. I don't know what to do. What do you suggest?... (58 words)

My brain won't shut down at night and I can't sleep, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi i've been having problems sleeping lately. people have always told me i have an over active imagination but i never thought anything of it.Recently i have been not able to sleep well even though i'm really tired. I can't keep my eyes opne but my brain just won't shut down ... (352 words)

I have let the past go but he hasnt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a huge argurment with my boyfriend over his ex. They were together for 15 yrs broken up for 2 yrs. She is being clingy as she is much older than he, he feels guilty for leaving her. I acted irrationally, i lost my cool and sooped on him and friend of mine called her house ... (322 words)

He knows that I hate porn... so when he came home with two videos on his mobile phone I hit the roof!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi..... I have a little prblem.. It may seem silly to most but to me its a big deal.. I hate porn or any form relating to porn weather its a girl stripping or full sex I just hate it. My views on this is if a guy or a lassie has pron in their phone or on dvd r whate... (254 words)

I don't want my gf to drink b/c my dad used to be an alcoholic. But I don't want to tell her what she can and can't do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Well my girlfriend and I have been dating now for three months and everything is going really good. This weekend one our friends is having a little get together at her house and they are all going to drink and then spend the night over there. My dad used to be an alchoholic and ... (180 words)

I'm slim, but I have love handles! How do I get rid of them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey I was just wondering if any of you girls had any tips for getting rid of those unwanted "love handles?" I'm a very slim girl but for some reason I have little love handles and I can't seem to shift them. Anyone got any exercise tips or anything?... (49 words)

Any ideas what is causing my jealousy or how to rid myself of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

- ok. i've been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i love him dearly and i know he loves me. we both really think this is it and when i finish uni we'll get married. the problem is my jealousy. i know he'll never cheat and its not random girls that i'm jealous of... (172 words)

How can I get my sex drive back? I just can't seem to get in the mood!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 23 years old and I am a mother of two children ages 7 and 4 so I have my hands full. Ever since about three months ago, my sex drive has went down a lot. My husband is being patient but it's wearing thin. We haven't done anything in two months and I don't cheat on him so ... (94 words)

My wife is accusing me of visiting a dirty website when I didn't!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - My wife found a dirty website on our computer and thinks it was me that looked on it but it wasn't. She is going mad at me and says its like cheating. Even if i did look at other girls in that way is it classed as cheating? Is my wife over reacting? Why doesn't she trust me?... (58 words)

I can't stand seeing her ex at her place - he is friends with her older brother, but I think she may still be seeing him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I met this girl four months back. She approached me first and asked for my number. Because I was in a hurry, we couldn't talk. She didn't call me, so I rang her five days later. She had forgotten me. I asked if we could meet again and she agreed. We got along very wel... (152 words)

While drunk, he admitted to still being in love with his ex. He and I been together 4 years and have a son!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's wife/soulmate threw him out after 15 years of marriage. We got together 4 years ago and have a son together. He still jumps when she asks for anything, and uses their children to get what she wants. She has recently split with her boyfriend and now instigates ... (94 words)

I think my wife slept with her boss even though she denies it. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - i have a problem and I need help. My wife has a weakness for entertaining men. We have been together for two years and we keep on fighting. Lately I've heard that she slept with her boss and when I asked her she denied it. I love her very much. I chased her because of that. ... (61 words)

Just found out I'm pregnant! Will my wedding dress fit? Is it safe to fly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - do you gain any weight in the first weeks of pregnancy? I'm a little worried as I am due to be married in 5 weeks time and have just found out I am pregnant!! My dress is very fitted and I'm starting to get concerned. I dont 'feel' pregnant yet i've only just missed my period. ... (70 words)

I despise my job with a passion and I've had no luck finding another one. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i'm really getting desperate now,I could really do with some advice. I hate my job, i really cannot stand it, the company are viol - im off sick and they call me everyday questioning me (I've been there for a long time I have excellent attendance history!!) I really want out... (120 words)

She's having second thoughts about our relationship and now we're taking a break - it's driving me nuts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - OK my relationship with Jill started on the wrong footing - she still loved the man she was with but they drifted apart and we were all vulnerable (i was ill) when our relationship began, it was not a clean break from her ex but as it happened he moved on to another woma... (270 words)

I'm married but I believe I have fallen in love with a workmate!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 51 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm married but I believe I have fallen in love with a workmate. I am 57 and have been married for 34 years, she is 37 happily married with 2 children. I have used some of this to answer someone else's problem but I need some advice myself on how I can deal with this. T... (201 words)

I'm furious about pornography!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - The statement that some women make that they have no problem with their man watching porn as they know he CHOOSES to be with them seems ridiculus to me...Dont these women realise that their man probbly has as much chance of being with a porn star as he doe of winning the ... (146 words)

I want to kiss my husband's best mate - maybe it will make the urge go away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to kiss my hubbys best mate I have been with my husbaned 7 years. we have a 5 year old child. one of his best mates and I get on so well anyone would think we were best mates. I cant stop thinking about my hubbys best mate 1) what is doing 2) is he thinki... (156 words)

We're having second thoughts about the abortion...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend agreed that we didnt want an abortion but we also dont want either one of us to drop out just to take care of a baby. I'm having second thoughts about it all and im sure he is too. any advice?... (45 words)

Should I tell my bff that I like her ex? She already said that she would never forgive me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My bff went out with this guy! They broke up about 3 weeks later! After they did, her ex and I became really good friends! So good that people think that we're a couple and I think I might like him! So one day I ask my friend what she would do if I ever did? She told me she ... (153 words)

I'm too young to have sex, but my boyfriend wants to

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello I'm 15 Years Old 16 Soon And Am Scared Too Have Sex I Really Like This Boy But We Are Not Goiny Out We Have Done Everything Apart From Sex But I Think He Is Using Me Is There Any Advice You Could Give Me x... (47 words)

I need help getting my ex out of my system

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

- Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right here goes. Back in February I met... (595 words)

Help, I think I might be pregnant!

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8 August 2007 (F)

- I need your help whether i might be pregnant. Well i thought i might be so i took two pregnacy test and they both came up negative.Then i waited till 5 days after my missed period and that one also came up saying not pregnant. Now im not sure when but a week or so after that i ... (148 words)

Does cheating once mean he'll do it again?

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8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Does cheating once mean he'll do it again? My husband cheated on me before we got married. We had been dating for 3 months when he cheated on me. The sings were there but I didn't notice until later because I was going through school and working late hours at a resturant. He ... (174 words)

It's been seven years, and I can't get over him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, 7 years ago, i met this guy online and he said some pretty sweet things to me, like he loved me and stuff. we went on a date, and i used him, i asked him for money, i thought it was a one night stand. he stood me up for our second date. anyway, i call him and only get voi... (265 words)

I am at my wits end with him... why is money more important to him than our relationship and my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

- Hey... I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years now...my BF and I live together, and I am on disability. He struggled with abusive parents and has walked out on me in the past, refusing to talk to me, and trashing me to his friends and family. We did reconcile, and I... (360 words)

I've never had an orgasm!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hiii, I have a BIG problem. I am 22 yrs old. I have been having sex since I was 16yrs old. I have never had any signs of having an organsum. I do not know what is going on with my body.It feels really good when I am having sex. It is just that nothing ever happens.... (73 words)

My boyfriend and I fight so much, and there are other guys out there that like me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Everyone I need your help!Please if anyone can give me answers i need em. Ive been dating my bf for a little more than half a year. Its been amazing none the less but we are getting in to more and more fights!Its unbareable! And to make matters worse one of my friends just ... (109 words)

What's the best way to figure out why she wants to meet with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - It has been close to seven weeks since we broke up (she ended it), and we have talked on instant messenger the past four days (she always initiates contact). On Saturday, she asked me if I wanted to get together for a drink or something in the near future. I am still in love... (189 words)

Should I be with him and make all my dreams come true?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - okay, so heres the story, this story happends to be like many others but theres a twist. there this guy that i met exactly a year ago today. he happends to be a very famous man, unfourtunantly i can not mention his name because i do not want him caught up in anything. i am only ... (358 words)

I'm 20 years old, and dating a 36 year old. What do you think?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 20 and the guy I am starting to see is 36. I know how to handle myself as a woman so I'm not worried about getting to attached like most ladies my age... I know I know girls say that all the time but seriously I'm a very mature 20 year old. Anyways I just wanted to get ... (68 words)

My boyfriend constantly gives me a hard time for my past, and it makes me miserable!

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8 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am writing with tears on my eyes 'cause devastated. I will try to make my story short. I met my bf while in college and while in college I acted a little crazy and mess around with a couple of guys. My bf and I were not together at the time, we were just fri... (242 words)

Is it safe to have sex while pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone :) currently i am in my 2 week wait, and yes it is killing me. I have 6 more days to go to see if my period comes. My husband will be back from a business trip on friday, so we would want to have sex, would it be safe for the implated (if pregnant) ... (71 words)

Why would the guy I like want to see me so suddenly?

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8 August 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Well yesterday the guy I like called me for the first time in like a month and a half..So we were talking and we were both bored becuz it wuz around 11pm..So then he asked me to go to Mcdonalds so I could see him and I told him my parents are not gonna let me go out right ... (197 words)

My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as best they can but its spreading ... (141 words)

I have put an end to contacting her. Was that the right decision?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

8 August 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello everyone. I'm afraid I did something very stupid yet again, and this time I think it has really blown things apart. *Check my column to hear about my situation* Last night I dreamt about her. It was us getting back together. First thing I did was post a myspace bulletin... (447 words)

How do I leave him?

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8 August 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - well hi i need advise my relationship is starting seem as its falling apart and im real hurt and confussed, my bf of over a year isnt as loving and doesnt seem to want to spend any time with me and im starting to feel as everything is more important than me and due to him movi... (364 words)