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writes:I was in a relationship with a guy 15 yrs ago and just recently reunited with him. He acts like i did no wrong, when actually i broke his heart. could he be trying to set me up for heartache or could he really still have feelings for me after all these yrs? Right after i broke up with him, he was hateful.Thats why i dont understand his behavior right now
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reader, oceanair +, writes (11 August 2007):
What is the chances of you too being together? Did he do something in the past that you broke up with him? People change in 15 years so I would say give him a chance. Is is available now or married?
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reader, oceanair +, writes (11 August 2007):
If he loves you why would he be setting you up for a heartbreak. Did he do something to you that made you feel this way. People do change! What is his status now? Single, married. If you are still in love with him go for it b/c you only live once!!!!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (7 August 2007):
 If it was that long ago, he probably has gotten over it!I would be surprised someone would harbour hatred for that long.My mates just got back with her husband, they never divorced, and she had a child by someone else while apart from him. Cheated on him left right n centre when with him. He doesnt directly know that, but deep down he does if that makes sense.Some poeple are very forgiving.I wouldnt assume you're heading for a fall straight away.Good luckC xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): Wow, you really don't trust this guy, why is that? If you are the one who broke up with him, what were the reasons that you did that, what wasn't working for you? What was it about him that made you feel he wasn't right for you....sometimes time and distance bring us closer together,and we need to admit what we ourselves did wrong in the relationship and own up to it and promise to change.
If he did something, talk to him about it and ask him how he has changed and what he expects for the second time around. I don't think guys purposely set someone up for revenge, why would you think that, is that how you tick??
You have to decide for yourself if you are just romanticizing the past, or if things are different in paradise, and if so give him a chance why don't you, you can't always put walls up, wrap yourself in cotton and hope not to get hurt, because you have to risk something of yourself to find love after all, don't you?
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reader, smilingeyes  +, writes (7 August 2007):
A lot of maturing goes on over 15 years and it is quite possible he realized a few things about your relationship and understands why you broke up with him. Just to be on the safe side I would take things slowly and see how things go. I have been through a couple of break-ups where I was hurt and mad but now I know I could be friends and possibly more with them if I hooked up with them again.
Good luck with everything.
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